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>22 yrs old virgin
>about to go vacation in thailand in a few day
Should i just get it over with and hire a hooker? if so how safe is it?
>>17343108
Prepare yo' ass boi.
I went to Thailand a few months ago and ended up seeing a hooker. I'd say go for it, it's way cheaper than in the states or any western country. Just go to one of the red light districts in the evening and you'll see tons of brothels/strip clubs.
>>17343108
>if so how safe is it?
Fairly safe if you get her from a bar in one of the main tourist red light districts (Soi Cowboy or Nana Plaza). I've heard they have to have STD tests, also she's not likely to rob you if you know where she works and could get her fired. Just don't waste all night bar hopping paying for overpriced drinks for you and the girls and end up going home alone and out $100 for the night, that's the fucking worst. Baccarat bar on Soi Cowboy is usually...
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Describe the best person you know. What are some qualities that person has?
Has a career or working towards getting one. A cashier at Lowe's trying to become Assistant Manager doesn't fucking count.
No kids, ever
Doesn't have any bad financial habits, like gambling
Either non-judgmental or only judgmental about shit that they actually know about
Isn't an ice queen. Someone who enjoys sex as much as I do.
>>17343128
Hey, quality list. The person you describe doesn't have to be a romantic partner, though - I'm more interested in what you admire in people.
>>17343148
I was describing my fiance, since she has some of the best qualities a person can have,
Except the sex part. I cheat on her because she doesn't have a sex drive.
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Rephrasing my question from last thread: how can i get my bf fond of the idea of having sex in public? Obviously not in a way that anyone can tell/see
Putting this in from the last thread.
To girls:
Would you consider it interest in a person if a girl often wants to chat with you and doesn't hesitate to message first (it's not such a big deal where I live but it's something) or just overall talk, is honest and open, can talk about both serious and funny/random things, jokes around and so on? I'm a fresh fool with low amount of social knowledge when it comes to these things.
Also should say that the girl we're talking about has said that she likes me/finds me interesting but that was...
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>>17343049
If he's not into it, then he's not into it
my bf is kinda immature& has sucky friends
I'm 24 my bf is 23. been together for almost a year and a half. ive started to feel like hes immature. whenever hes not working, hes with his friends and ALL they do together is drink.they do nothing else.
I don't want to dislike them, but whenever he asks me to hang with them, I never want to. they also don't really try to talk to me, and talk about things I have no idea about, play drinking games. its boring.
one of them cheated on his gf a couple months ago. he also owns a gun, lives at home...
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>>17343022
I just like don't think its right I go over there and a bunch of 18 year olds are there and he was drunk as shit. the only reason I didn't leave is bc I was scared he'd cheat on me? like ahhh, idk what to do, I feel like we're way too different people ....
>>17343022
I'm really unhappy in my relationship but I'm scared to leave. I'm scared ill make a mistake, and I'm just crazy/overreacting..
but I feel like hes so inconsistent too, sometimes hes SO sweet and acts like hes a dream, and then other times hes just like... immature, obnoxious, puts in no effort.....I think that's who he is, and he tries sometimes and that's when I'm happy, but it goes away in like a week and its back to him putting in no effort and doing the bare minimum
>>17343022
ohhh, and I want to break up with him, possibly. but were going on vaca in two weeks and hes paying for most of it. I feel bad going then maybe breaking up with him, but I'm not ready to break up with him yet/know if its what I realy want, but I don't realy see myself spending my life with him anymore.. I'm tired of worrying about what hes doing, him being drunk, doing shady stuff, making me feel uncomfortable.. I realy don't like his friends and I feel like that's a bigger issue than youd think it would be.....
Hey adv my bf went out with a female friend. It's the first time that they go out, they're alone. He told me many times that he dosen't like her. Shoul I be worried?
>>17343007
No you shouldn't be worried
Don't be a dumbass
Just because they have the opposite genitals doesn't mean it has to be any different than friendship with same sex.
He could just as easy want to fuck his guyfriends.
>>17343013
Stop spewing this bullshit you cheating asshole
>>17343018
Fuck you, paranoid sluts.
If you honestly think like this you must have zero trust in yourself with the opposite sex.
I love my boyfriend most when he is drunk.
Cause he's more outgoing, selfless and confident and actually communicative.
I don't know what to do about this...
Become a carpenter.
>>17342990
Hmmm elaborate
>>17342988
Buy some alcohol?
What kind of militar training or courses could I find being a civilian?
Not joking, I want to be as safe as possible the day that ramadan-army will attack my country (Spain).
>>17342983
>What kind of militar training or courses could I find being a civilian?
Carpenter training.
>>17342983
You guys have a 1.1 birthrate. You need to have fucking children. Have as many sons that can grow up to protect you as possible. Get the fuck out of your house and work towards getting married because you have about 20 years left until the caliphate really starts. You people are literally being replaced. Take up some martial art.
Martial arts (boxing and jiu-jitsu) and gun-fire. You can also learn Arabic so you can understand what they're saying.
define a true friend, /adv/
would a true friend allow you to stray from the path of self improvement?
>>17342963
It shouldn't be your friend's job to keep you on the self-improvement path. You're putting them in an awkward position by having to constantly be watching over you to make sure you're living life correctly. A true friend will try to point you in the right direction but they will not intervene so completely in your life that they're micromanaging it for you.
I have no idea what a true friend is because i've put in 0 effort for friends which is why i only have ppl im "friends" with but no actual friends. I assume a "real friend" is someone who is good to you and will be there for you.
>>17343447
i should've made note that i was not referring to myself or anyone else.
what i meant was, would a friend allow another to follow their dreams, even if it meant they would become a reprehensible person, or would they try to steer them from that path with gentle criticism? personally, i think friendship should be beneficial to the growth of both persons.
Is it distasteful to have a pin up as my phone's lock screen picture?
I've been arguing with a friend about this for a few minutes and decided to get a public opinion.
I don't think that it's bad since it's on my private device, I'm not prominently displaying it in public, and it's SFW. Granted, there are "better" images to use, but I like the aesthetic of it.
>pic is my lock screen image
It's a vintage drawing. If it was some HD pornstar I'd find it tacky but this seems completely fine.
Your phone, your business.
Its not like your lock screen is a chick taking a dick.
>>17342936
If they don't like it, don't give a shit, just note their opinion and continue breathing.
Or don't, you can do that too if you want to.
tl;dr let them complain.
I'm a solid 5/10 and i feel like i'm going to be single and own pets as companion and die alone in my apartment. I never considered myself beautiful and that makes me sad.
Also, because of that, i'm losing interest in romance and probably convert to asexuality in the near future.
So, i ask for an advice on whats the best place to travel to before i die. :)
Just be a good person. I get dates easily even though I am ugly, I'm just smart, fun to be around and very nice.
>>17342889
Lower your standards
You're only a 5/10 because you're only trying to get 10/10s
You should poll for multiple opinions and correlate results by demographic. See who thinks you're a what, and try to control for why.
Also, self improvement. If you're overweight, lose weight and build muscle tone. If you're underweight, exercise some. If you have bad skin, stop consuming dairy and excessive sugars, as well as red meat. If you have bad hair, iterate and learn until you have sexy hair. The goal is to find how to accept yourself.
Travel wherever you want. Part of me gave up on romance a long time ago as well. Chronic pain, lots of...
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What can a man do when his feelings and his rationality are conflicting?
I dated this girl for 4 years, had an awesome relationship, plans for the future. Sure a few speedbumps along the way, but always got everything sorted out. If she couldn't take the extra step to mend things, I'd always.
She broke up with me on March over trivial stuff. There was no "mourning", she proceeded to get involved with an old gaming friend of mine, went all the way with him and that caused an absolute shitstorm. After many heated discussions we ended up hanging out again...
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Bump. No one?
>>17342948
She's a cunt and you should drop her out of your life. But you already know this.
>>17342958
Yes, I do. And that's central to my issue: I know this thing is fated to fail, but even you also know it's never simple to let go.
It's basically frustration fueled by wanting to make it work vs. knowing it won't
Is it possible to move out with the salary of a minimum wage job?
>>17342869
And this is how the 15/hr compaign started. People making dumb decisions and wanting others to fix it for them.
Of course it's fucking not enough, what happens when there are bad days? You're never gonna make enough money for when bad situations come up.
>>17342869
I doubt it, but then I live in London. Even the shitty estates are expensive to live in.
>>17342879
Then how do people with minimum wage jobs manage to move out?
Would getting myself diagnosed as depressive, make me more eligable for council housing? What would be the long term repecussions of being diagnosed depressive?
Anyone? Got any sort of tips for getting council house?
Come on anons, it's not a "no gf" thread.
I'm sorry to hear that you're hurting, but most of us here don't know the ins and outs of the UK's disability welfare system (which I'm assuming is the one you're talking about, given the terms you used). There are places where severe depression may count, but we just don't know if the UK is one of them.
Can you be a heterosexual male and want this thing?
>>17342838
But it's so cute.
Yes. Why not? It's just a manifestation of your fantasy of a pure and innocent gf. Sounds pretty straight and normal to me
>>17342841
Lmao, nevermind
Originally from /r9k/ but I've noticed that the "I'm a sad virgin and I can't talk to girls" crowd tends to be frequent both these boards (been one myself so I should know). Just thought you guys might wanna read this.
>>17342790
This just reminded me I need to buy bananas for my breakfast shake.
The 2nd part is the most important one.
Cheers to op for sharing
>>17342790
I don't really disagree with the idea. It's unfortunate though that if you know yourself and your worth, people give you shit for being arrogant or whatever.
