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Is it really that hard to find an intelligent and attractive gf who is not into monogamy and other social bad habits?
>>17338705
If it's not monogamy she's not a gf, she's a fuck buddy. So to answer your question, no, it's not possible.
>>17338705
>monogamy
anyone that practices this isnt intelligent
Make sure they don't have a ring on their finger.
How do "rescuer" relationships work out usually?
She is young, wild, and chooses to degenerate herself with drugs and poor choices. I'm practically a monk who's got it all figured out. Of course there is overlap between our extremes, and we're both the intelligent ones among our groups. We share some of the most uncommon bonds two people can have, "rare people attract one another". It's hard describing our uniqueness, so I will avoid writing bios until specifics are called for.
I need advice in regards to how these relationships...
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It's kind of tough if you also want to be her boyfriend and have sex with her.
>>17342961
I love a good challenge however. You say it's "tough" but not "impossible" ergo an unlikely possibility.
I aim to maximize the chance of ending up as both her boyfriend and a guidance figure to her.
>>17342970
Usually you have to see the other person as a person not some self-confidence boost tool.
What do normies consider "fun"? How do you be a "fun" person?
Stop referring to people as 'normies'.
Drop anything and everything you learned in /r9k/. It will only hinder you.
Dancing, drinking, and socializing with large groups of extraverted people.
There's poor normies, rich normies, weird normies, normal normies, etc. but they all share these things in common.
>>17342944
be funny
Hey there /adv/, is there a way for a guy to have an anime-ish haircut without looking like a complete fagot? I'm thinking of something similar to pic related. Bangs can be shorter though.
If the answer is no, then how should I cut my hair? My hair is about 30 cm long, so there is room to work with but it's quite thin and it's as straight as it can be. My face is round and I've been told that I have feminine features. But I don't need this haircut to make me look more masculine or something so it's fine.
Any advice is helpful beside...
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Literally not possible. Better weebs have tried and failed.
>>17342911
Yeah, since I kind of already knew that I should've focused the thread more on an actual irl like cut. What would you do in my case? Anything idea not too edgy or not too short would be appreciated.
is it ok for your girlfriend to book a holiday without telling you?
>>17342854
Depends.
If you're going with her, no. If you're not going, yeah.
alone? how long? what destination?
Nothing is okay about your woman doing things without being told.
i went on tinder and met up with a girl, took her out to eat and whatever, but she was very annoying and turned me off to the point where i only wanted to fuck
we made out outside the bar and i was clear we were going to my place, i drove there and last minute she says she doesn't want to...so i dropped her off at a stop sign and told her to take a cab
she texted me threats so i blocked her...gave her a fake name, info, so she doesn't know anything about me
how potentially fucked am i here?
if you used your car she can trace you from the plate... gg you're screwed.
Given your description of your behavior, one can surmise that you have deeper psychological problems.
You're going to follow that pattern, and you're going to keep getting into trouble in the future; very screwed, eventually.
>>17342840
Exactly lol
i say don't worry about her, and start thinking more on your own life decisions lol
This is my 2nd time being fired because the manager said I was being slow. I worked at a restaurant as a line cook for just 2 weeks. How the hell do I work faster? It's bad enough I had to memorize everything .
Plus, since Im fired I don't know where else to get the skills and experience I need. I have to get a job at least in 2 weeks or I have to drop out of school.
I don't know. You're screwed.
>>17342815
Very insightful post, Anon
>>17342780
You can always give blowjobs... or offer your dick to fags so they can pay you to give you a bj. Win/win?
But seriously who the hell fires someone in just 2 weeks? Where did you get fired from? Golden arches?
Is looking at pictures of ex girlfriend or boyfriend always a sign that the person who is looking at them isn't over their ex and wants them back or misses them?
>>17342763
Nah.
I care about them, sometimes I want to know how they're doing, and miss them a bit (more the friendship than the relationship).
I don't want them back. I wouldn't dump my SO for my ex for any reason.
Yes.
As long as you are keeping the old, you're never opening yourself fully for something new.
>>17342765
I have a problem with my bf looking at pics of his ex. This happened a year ago, he did it for six months. They had been broken up for two years. He just googled her name and looked at pics maybe once a week and that's it. He also looked at pics of couple of his coworkers but still I am scared he has feelings for her but he says he doesn't, they had a shitty relationship and he wasn't that interested but why look at the pics then? He didn't even do it because he masturbated to them and he had...
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How stupid is it to give up a stable, well-paid job for one which pays less, is probably stable and allows travel? I am an undergraduate student (not from the US) who picked a field to study, but I am thinking about switching to something else and I can't help but not try my best at school
You should follow what you think is best for you.
>>17342628
Suppose the future were not an issue. What would you want to do?
(The future is NOT an issue at your age. Even if you wasted a few years on the wrong path it would mean little in the long run. And in the modern economy there is no such thing as a "stable" job.
>>17342647
Bullshit
>>17342628
What you need to consider OP, is what YOU prefer. If you have a well paid job, odds are you will get to travel. Sure you might travel a lot with your shittier job, but when you come back home and see your shitty car, just remember, "I could be driving a Benz.
Believe me, I'm doing my second year in med school, and I have heard legends of surgeons retiring at 30, and buying houses in south east Asia, fucking women ever...
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i've never touched a girl, let alone had a girlfriend.
but for a while i've had this idea about how to keep a long term relationship, or even marriage, interesting.
you'd do everything the same except you don't see each other every day. maybe every third day is spent apart, something like that.
assuming you don't have children, is there any reason this wouldn't work?
>>17342624
What do you mean by
>you'd do everything the same
You're overthinking this.
>>17342632
literally what i said. it wouldn't be an open marriage type of situation on the off days. you'd just spend them apart, and on the next day you can fuck each other and have interesting things to say to each other, rather than getting sick of the sight of each other after a few years.
Righto guys, recently got meself a gf. Pretty chill relationship, met through /soc/. She frequents /cgl/, very much into the whole lolita scene. I'm a /fit/izen, similar sense of humour. My issue is that her libido is almost non existent. It's not that she doesn't enjoy sex, it's just that it's not at all a priority of any sort for her. I'm pinning testosterone and have a crazy high libido. I need sex. What the fuck do I do about this? Keep dropping hints about the whole issue. We've had drunk sex, once. Nothing else apart from making out....
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>>17342554
I think that if you frame it as a confrontation you've already put a foot wrong
You are 2 different people, with different wants and needs. Neither you nor her has done anything wrong by being who you are. It is probably a good idea to talk to her about this sometime.
My gf is the opposite of yours so this may not work, but be hungry, be alpha, make your desires clear. Make her feel sexy basically. Hard flirting with a lot of complementing, touching softly etc. Just make her feel loved and make it clear physically that you want her body. Girls cant resist it really, you browse 4chan so you obviously know that all women are sluts deep down, play on this.
As well as this, all women have the dream of the perfect boyfriend who spends cash on them. Posh dinner dates, holidays, day trips, candlelit dinners, all that shit. Dont give off the...
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>>17342583
Problem with that is, because she also browses 4chan, she knows all this too. She knows my side of the game too well and doesn't respond to it
If the love of your life started fucking one of your friends, would you prefer to hear it from your friend or your crush? Apparently my gf as of 2 months best friend who I'm somewhat close with has had mad crush on me for a long time now. I would like to let her know what's going on behind her back before she finds out on her own. Should my gf or me be the one to break it to her? Should I tell her about how her and I being extremely different people would be bad off together (her a good and innocent person, me a toxic degenerate)? I need some help and advice, this is killing me.
Did your girlfriend know about her friend's crush? If so, you're dating a shitball
Apologies for grammar, I'm on mobile and the 4chan web app is garbage for formating.
>>17342541
She did, but only after she had already developed feelings for me and knew I had no intentions of dating the friend.
On our second date, the guy I'm seeing told me "If I could clone my sister, I'd marry her." In some ways I see that as big red flag, but is it? They lived together for 3 years while both going to college, and she is married now, it just seems like such a weird thing to say. Am I making too much of what may be a good quality?
>>17342532
It sounds definitely really creepy. A girl I was I liked said something similarly weird after some family reunion about how hot her cousin was and how it was a shame they were relative. I was turned off pretty damn fast from that comment.
That's really fucking weird
Did he only say that in a physical way?
If not then it's not that creepy, he probably has created this image of a "good lil sis" in his mind, nothing sexual.
Still, on the second date? That's fucked up.
Anyone wanna get something off their chest? I'm here to talk and listen no judgement
3 weeks since my last drink. My severe sadness has turned into intense anger, snd I can't stop it.
>>17342431
What makes you happy?
>>17342429
I just finished talking to my ex. She just told me she broke up with her current bf. I am holding the urge if telling her how much I miss her. I'm 20, live with my parents, don't have a job, and gym and video games are my only thing.
What do? I'm a bad drunk whenever I get blackout drunk, I start pissing other people off or doing anoying shit, and I get blackout drunk 70% of the time.
I'm pushing away the few friends that I have, but when I hang out with them I start drinking. No one forces me to drink, I just have to chance to drink. I'm slowly getting uninvited to shit.
I wouldn't mind slowly defriending my group of "friends", but my drinking problem might follow up during life, I'm just 22 and I drink because of depression.
Yesterday, some friends...
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>>17342428
Quit drinking.
>>17342430
this
i was in a same boat
learn to have fun without alcohol before it's too late
When you get blackout drunk things you're otherwise subconsciously counterbalancing, or suppressing, come out.
For a while if I got blackout drunk I would revert to a state like a cornered animal. Pick up large chairs and throw them around. People would try to give me water and I'd bat it out of their hand. Back myself into a corner and swing at anyone who tried to approach. Though I don't so much buy this one, if I'm swinging at someone chances are I fully intend to harm them, drunk or not. I would probably be intending to incapacitate, go for organ...
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