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I want your honest opinion /b/
1. Whats more important? A clean conscience or money?
2. Would you still punish someone who ignores your blackmailing? (if you dont pay ill do this and this. guy doesnt pay. still do "this and this"?)
pic unrelated
>>17341117
whoops not b i meant adv ofc dont usally visit this board desu
>>17341117
That shit is all relative to the story and circumstances. You're going to have to greentext this shit if you want help. /adv/ loves a good story
>>17341117
2. No.
The only reason to make good on your threat would be the principle.... But you're a fucking blackmailer. You don't have any integrity of reputation to worry about.
If you just want the money cut your losses and find someone else to blackmail.
So if a black guy does it, and a white guy wants to, he can't because it's Cultural Appropriation. Very Bad.
But if a white guy does it and a black guy wants to , you have to let him- otherwise it's racism. Very Bad.
Do I understand correctly?
>>17341093
Yes.
You seem lost.
>>>/pol/
>>17341093
Unfortunately this is the norm now. White hetero males get shit on while all other groups complain about "who're privilege" or "male privilege". Look at how hypocritical these pigs are! It's ok to flaunt your homosexuality in my face but if I want a straight pride day I'm automatically homophobic even if I dont hate gays.
Both me and my girlfriend of over 1 year really love sex - we're safe and we do it very often (usually every day or twice a day, except a few days during her period).
Of course, she knows what I like and is very good at pleasuring me. She tells me that i'm great with her and she's super happy, and i trust her, however I have never made her orgasm. She says that she has never orgasmed at all before, and doesn't know what it's supposed to feel like - I've gotten her "close" before but she gets really scared and DEMANDS that i stop. She says when it happens, she's worried she'll urinate.
tl;dr: how do I give my girlfriend an orgasm? Preferably without oral, since i'm disgusted by that shit, but if it's necessary than so be it.
pic unrelated
I was under the impression that the feeling of pissing was her nearly reaching orgasm
>>17341046
you need to make her feel that even if she pisses herself it dosent matter.
>>17341062
it is
she needs to relax and let it happen
put a folded towel down on the bed right under her crotch, because she will come, and it's really liquid
>>17341044
>AT&T
There's your problem. Nice dox btw.
>>17341044
>being born in 1991
You can never win, millennial scum. If you cry enough though you might get what you want.
I hope you like gay porn, Christopher
Yo /adv/
I wanna find a way to motivate my cousin. He dropped out of college and is living with his parents. He always has ideas (like opening a vodka distillery or designing cars) but he never goes through with them cause he's too lazy, or unmotivated, or maybe depressed. I've been really depressed in the past and he knows this, but when I ask if he's depressed or if he wants to talk he just says that he isn't.
He dropped out of college cause he didn't know what he wanted to do (isn't that what the first year or so is for?).
Now he's saying he won't go into college unless he has a degree and something that will let him "produce stuff" in case the economy falls to shit.
I want to help him in some way cause he's just gonna fall behind and stay with his parents on his computer forever…
What can I do?
Ignore it and move on?
>>17341039
Holy shit this image really tells a story
>>17341067
yeah, that vaporwave is the gayest normalfag shit to ever come out of 4chan
>>17341039
He sounds like a stoner. Should quit smoking. He should go back to college, if he doesn't know what to study, he should get a generic business or finance degree..
I have been friends with a couple for sometime now... I've developed a fab thing with the girl , or at least that's what she calls it. We all hang out all of the time ... I've told her that I had developed feelings and that it wasn't fair for me to continue hanging out with them. She clearly Dosent want anything to change. She tells me she still wants to hang out and do stuff. The guy is fully aware of whats going on and he's ok with it.
Idk what to do ... Distancing myself seems like the most acceptable option. She has said that she also has feelings for me... But Dosent want to hurt her current bf
>>17341037
I meant FWB
Help
I found it on 9gag and i really want to help this guy encrypting it
BE
SURE
TO
DRINK
YOUR
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2nd part
>>17341050
/thread
>bf still lives with parents
>I'm okay with this but he hates it
>sometimes gets really depressed, probably something at home
>refuses to talk about it
>says talking to him like normal cheers him up
>but I talk to him and he's a lot more short and disinterested, its obvious he's down and not his usual self
Am I wrong for being annoyed that he won't tell me what's wrong? He says he doesn't tell anyone so it's not me
>>17341018
I'm like this with my girlfriend.
Something about living with my parents at 21 fucking destroys me. My confidence, mood, and ny motivation just go out the fucking window.
As long as he's taking steps to move out it's fine.
>>17341018
no. he may not be wrong for what hes doing either. hes in a shitty situation and trying to shield you from his potential whininess. but it makes him come out as short and disinterested cuz hes holding in all these feelings.
ehs trying not to run you out but hes not perfect at it.
>>17341018
>Proactive teacher wants to see how well students are doing in her class
>Doesn't know how to place images in Word
>Finds different line images for happy, medium and sad faces
>Cuts them into circles
>Glues them onto page that she typed up
>Photocopy the page and distribute copies to the students
>She made a crease while cutting one of the faces which created shadows and made the face look like a nigger demon
26, khv here
Why is being a redhead dude a no-go ?
No tinder matches, never asked out etc
Don't worry anon! You just need to look deep into your soul and... oh, sorry
>>17340997
You're assuming it's because you're a redhead, but maybe it's because you're wholly unattractive.
Why not science this and find out. Bleach or dye your hair (including eyebrows), and see if you get any matches. If not, then you can rest assured that it's not because of your hair at all! It's because you're repulsive!
>>17341125
I already posted my face here once and they said its even good
Also i am 6'2 and 80kg and do lots of sports
But what has dying the hair has to do with it ? Probably if it turns darker i would even look like dracula ?
Maybe i just so it like this :
I photoshop my hair brown, get myself a tan and then change filter to B/W ????
I have no clue but i am pale as fuck of course too
Heard lots of negative things already so i was thinking online it doesnt hurt that much, but zero matches do hurt :((
I've been casually dating a woman for about 8 months and we both laughed at the idea of monogamy and relationships in the beginning.
Over the 8 months we were essentially boyfriend and girlfriend without the official title and exclusivity. I did not want to commit as I felt I'm not emotionally available even though I deeply care about her.
Long story short, I was drunk at a bar with mutual friends (she was not there)... and did a line of ecstasy. She shows up completely sober and I leave the bar with her to hang out with her other friends downtown... on the way she confronts me about a name in my phone in a jealous way.
I don't know what happened but I then told her I wanted to be exclusive and that I want her to be my girlfriend and that we will get a place together and rings....
Obviously the reality set in the next morning.. I tried to explain to her that despite what I said yesterday, I was extremely drunk and that I do not feel like I'm ready for a relationship... (Part 1)
(Part 2)
And that being a relationship has made everything between me and her feel different in a way..more serious and that I'm afraid it will affect us and cause us to eventually break apart and never speak again.. just like my previous relationships.
She argued against me and finally gave me the ultimatum saying either we continue in a relationship or we can no longer casually date..
I told her that I did not want her to hate me and that I'm sorry..
She was distant and didnt talk to me despite being in the same car. She eventually asked me what I wanted from her and asked why I told her those things..
I eventually admitted to the ecstasy and told her that those feelings are real but I'm not ready for it and the timing is off. And once again I'm scared it will break us apart.
Next day - we are hanging out and eventually seems to be normal but before we depart from each other, she makes a phone call and tells that person that she's leaving her "boyfriends".
So, after all of this, she is under the impression we are official.
It's easier said than done but I don't know what to do because I don't want to hurt her and I want her in my life. I fucked up bad and it really sucks.
She means a lot to me and it would break me to see her leave my life completely.
>>17340978
Context - Leaving her "boyfriend's place" to see that person.
Me being the "boyfriend"
Can you go into more detail about why you don't want to be in a relationship? Is it only you, or something about her?
How do you stop giving a fuck?
Stop trying.
You just stop.
>>17340942
By not giving a fuck.
Why am I always extremely itchy after I shower? I thought the issue was dry skin so I now take cold showers. I tried using body lotion and it helped a little bit but I was still extremely itchy. I don't have eczema or any skin conditions so I don't know what's causing this. It's gotten to the point where I dread showering. Has anyone else had this problem?
Stop being a punk and shower with cold water, that was my solution to that prob. Used to get red itchy patches after hot shower
>>17340909
Yes I have this too sometimes. It's not too bad really but definitely dry skin. What I found helping is not showering too hot, and not too often.
>>17340921
>I thought the issue was dry skin so I now take cold showers.
Can you even read?
>ex gf got implanon put in 2 weeks before she dumped me
>maintain personally that one of the main reasons she broke up with me was because her arm implant was fucking with her emotions and aggravating current stresses in her life
>was speaking to her today, she says she's thinking of taking the implant out because it's just been reacting poorly with her
>talk to her a bit and say I'd like to hang out with her a bit after she gets the implant out and see where we're both at mentally, make it clear that I want to try again with her
>she says not to pin my hopes on anything because she's still not completely convinced that the implant was the catalyst for the breakup but says she'd love to hang out with me again
Do you guys think I have a chance at salvaging this? We broke up under very abrupt circumstances, she said that she just felt like there was no excitement or spark anymore- and she only started feeling this way about a week after she got the arm implant. Pic unrelated, just some drawing I found on /ic/
Do you guys think I have a chance once she gets that fucking hormone pumper out of her body?
self bump because this board moves far faster than I thought
>>17340899
trying and getting rejected is better than just never knowing. just be aware of the fact that the implant may have played a role, but if she wanted to just break it off rather than trying to work on it through her "weird hormones/emotions/whatever," there are probably other underlying issues that she hasn't mentioned to you. so fuck it, give it a shot, but don't hold your breath.
>>17341034
I agree, she laid out the circumstances of the breakup pretty plainly- when I showed up to be with her after about 6 weeks of being apart, she felt like the spark or excitement that we had before was gone. She also had a bunch of other shit going on in her life that was bothering her mostly just school loans and her parents.
She could have simply just fallen out of love with me, and I think I'm prepared to accept that- but I'm still pretty convinced that had she not had gotten that hormonal bc implant a week or so before me showing up, she wouldn't have felt as extremely and we'd have just managed to work through it. I'll try not to hype myself up about it too much, but I think that this is a step in the right direction.
I have my licence, I got it when I was 16. 20 now and talked this through with a counselour and I still haven't dropped my fear of driving.
Never been in an accident, always stay less than 5 over the speed limit, etc.
But my mother taught me to drive and she wasnt the greatest instructor, her body language told me that she was always nervous with me behind the wheel so I thought for a while that my driving was wrong in a way I couldn't see it.
My older brother, was a straight up bad driver, which the counselour I talked to about my fear, told me is the likely cause.
>He didnt understand that turning over 30mph was dangerous
>Very indecisive so quite a few honks our way
>Bounces in between the lane
>cant accurately determine when hes supposed to slow down so he ends up getting inches close whilst slamming the brakes
Even worse, every sunday for a year and a half, he drove me to church, which has so many stories and situations where we shouldve just called 911 but didnt: I became terrified of the road.
All these years later I always talk myself out of driving unless I absolutely have to.
I'm reaching out here because I'm very much hoping to hear some words that would make ultimate sense to me and will just snap me out of it as my counselour served just a bit useless.
You should drive a bit everyday/often on your own or with someone you feel comfortable with. It doesn't has to be a long trip, something like going to the church like you said or go shopping.
I would also avoid being in the car with your brother unless you really have to.
>I became terrified of the road.
You fear doing the same thing as your brother or having it happen to you? (like a car "getting inches closer" to you)?
>>17340896
If you have good spacial awareness, and know what you're doing, then you have nothing to worry about.
I personally love driving, and driving fast, but I don't berate people that don't. If you don't want to drive fast or aggressively, and take your time, cool. At the end of the day you're driving a tonne of machinery at speed, you can't fuck around.
Take your time and do it your way, it sounds like you're aware of what makes a bad driver, and so you won't drive badly. If you worry you're holding people up, pull over and let them by, then be on your way.
Maybe find a nice quiet road and make yourself comfortable driving up and down it, then start going places with a little bit of traffic until you feel comfortable there, and slowly build yourself up with more traffic.
I feel the same, I feel it come more from feeling like I constantly have to make sure everyone around me is driving correctly as I live in a place full of horrible drivers, only one of NY friends still on my first car. Hasn't really gotten better, I just try distract myself from how I feel while driving
Been going out for a year now long distance. She fly's here every month, I fly to her as well. There are 30 day gaps where don't see each other sometimes.
What does she mean?
she doesnt love you
>>17340970
Thanks. The hard part is we traveled to multiples places around he world and took lots of pictures. Don't know if I should save or delete them.
>>17340994
Crop her out in hilariously obvious ways and replace her with Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson
