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My sister is a woman-child, but how can I help her before she crashes and burns?
>she's 24
>she has a decent job (gets paid like 1600 per month)
>spends all her money on boy band stuff
>grandparents gave her an extra car
>she destroyed it by never checking the oil and maintaining it so it broke down
>she used to live with my mom, but she'd never clean the house, literal roaches,...
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Your mom's gonna have to put her out, and you all have to let her hit hardships. She's 24, she can be a grownup.
>>16985340
Yea, my mom already broke this news to her. But my sister seems to be deluding herself from the issue and ignoring the fact that anything is wrong.
My dad is attempting to offer help as well. But my sister hasn't talked to him in 9 years, also from another stubborn tantrum she had with him as a teen. Like, she's digging the hole further and it's just annoying and also saddening to see.
>>16985325
There's no way for you to make her see unless she wants to see. Only solution is for your mom to be adamant, and if she doesn't pay then she gets kicked out. Same with the car, only solution is for her to not be given another car. you can offer to buy the car off her for a fair price and fix it for yourself though, giving her a little extra cash to buy a shitter car for herself.
Would it be autistic to text a girl asking if she has raisins, and when she says no ask if she has a date? It's not autistic if it works amiright? She already knows me for shitty jokes.
>>16985235
honestly?
post a pic of yourself. thats the only way we will ever know if you can pull it off.
>>16985243
I'm a 6-7 on soc, and I'm fairly certain she already likes me. I wouldn't do it otherwise.
I say do it, I'd just laugh and certainly agree to go out with someone who sent me that message. My kinda sense of humor. It has a pretty good chance of working unless the girl is a bitch
long story short.
Im 20, and still a virgin, and the way things are going ill probably be virgin for at least a while more.
So am I too old for being a virgin or is 20 a fine age? :/ it concerns me already
Maybe it will make you feel better to know that I'm worse than you : a virgin at 28. Last time I touched a girl was more than ten years ago.
Or maybe it proves that it might indeed be too late and everyone who like me was a virgin at 20 will be one forever.
>>16984805
The median age for losing virginity is 17.5. That means that for every boy or girl who loses it at 14 there's one who doesn't make it until 20. Or 2 kids losing it at 16 equals one at 20.
The point is that 20 is not especially far from the average.
No, being a 20 y.o. virgin isn't that much of a big deal, well, at least where I live. But once you cross 24/25, then you can consider yourself a failure.
