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Why is is hard to find a woman that doesn't have casual sex?
>>16975705
is it*
Because the girls that don't have casual sex don't want you.
>>16975710
Doesn't that make me Chad
What should you do if you want to stop watching child porn cause you don't want to support hurting kids, but you are addicted and afraid of getting in trouble ?
>>16975668
you go to a psychiatrist
>>16975674
Not OP but I think that's like trying to cure someone of the gay.
As it is illegal op you are fucked pretty badly legally if caught.
I doubt you can stop being attracted to children just try to not fuck one or maybe tone it down to fappin to kids in magazines.
Or celibacy may help but its unlikely.
I honestly could give a shit what you fap to and I highly doubt you will stop falling to CP.
Just don't fuck any kids m8 and you should be golden.
Oh yeah and depending on what country you live in just fap to lolicon I doubt most people give a shit about that. May be a great way to get off as opposed to real CP
>>16975668
I don't know man get away from all computers and shit
If that doesn't work just run away and start off with nothing on the streets and your new life will distract you
Ok... i had sex with a prostitute. Used condom but made little cunningulus. What are the chances for me to get HIV? I waiting for test results on thursday...
Not likely, unless it was a REALLY dirty/druggy hooker and you have a bunch of open cuts in your lips and mouth
>>16975520
Not really the case... got her contact on a website. I can tell it was a sex house (sorry for bad english). And my mouth was good... but I'm scared by the fact of the chances...
>>16975544
I would be more worried about HPV or herpes.
Enjoy your mouth cancer
Did you have to pay extra?
I need some technologically literate anons. I would ask /g/ but they probably don't want to be bothered by a retard like me.
I'm new to computers in general and I'd like to learn to code. html, CSS, JavaScript, etc. (clearly I don't know much about this), and I'm looking for good free online resources to learn with.
>>16975345
w3schools is probably the best place for beginners to start imho
very straightfoward and simple to understand
>>16975358
w3schools is shit
use codeacademy
>>16975396
nice argument bro
>he rather plays vidya than talk to me, i offer to play vidya with him but he just says " your bad at the game"
>he gets annoyed when i try too talk too him
>that being said i do call and text alot and thats maybe the reason why but i have tried too improve but he doesn't seem too put in that effort too
wat do
what game tho? if its a team game theres no reason to play with you
play minecraft
>>16975235
its csgo... but i mean he's trying to rank up so
Some back story. I have only been in 2 relationships, the one I am in now, and my first. My first was with an abusive crazy girl that treated me like shit. Regardless of this, I was still in love with her, and I was very attracted towards her.
I then had gotten into a small fling with another mentally unstable girl. Extremely hurtful, but I would get super turned on by just imagining fucking her.
Now the girl I am with now has been more healthy of a relationship. I am treated much better, and I love spending almost all of my time with her. Unlike the other girl I can put my full trust in her, and expect her to not stab me in the back. This girl isn't really my type, my type is usually small skinny white girls, but she is chubby and part black. The feelings I get with her are more from a place of comfort, rather than me getting super turned on.
For some reason I don't feel that way with her. I don't know if it is her looks, or if I only am attracted to crazy people. I don't want to throw away a great relationship, but at the same time I feel like I am missing something. Other than my not getting that same feeling I am super happy.
It isnt love, dump her.
>>16975115
I care about her way more than those other girls.
I feel like I love her more than the other girls.
>>16975121
well then don't dump her
Girlfriend just told me she was raped by my friend two years ago. She was still a minor at the time. What the fuck do i do. Pic not fucking related.
>>16974227
You express sympathy and ask how you can support her. Also, stop inviting both of them to the same parties.
>>16974227
Girlfriend told me she was raped by some dude I know and a stranger at the time
Shes a bit of a retard so I'm just leaving her it's not worth the stress. If she's worth it id just work through it and try catching the guy off guard with a baseball bat
>>16974227
Find how long is it acceptable for rape to go unreported in your country. If two years is too long the police will prolly not help you, you should report it either way though.
I think I have a fetish and I need to know if there's anything morally wrong about this/if it's cheating
I'm a girl in college with a male roommate and a boyfriend. My bf has voiced concerns in the past and is visibly jealous about me living with a male roommate, but I always assured him it was normal and nothing major. About a month ago however I caught my roommate with strange behaviour.
Our rooms are separated by the living room, we have ONE fan that stays in the living room and so hot days can get incredibly hot in here. I was laying in bed trying to get to sleep with the door open so some air would hopefully come in (I do this sometimes) and after like half an hour of insomnia I noticed my roommate came tip toeing into my room. I still pretended to be asleep. I didn't see anything, but from sound alone and his breath he was undoubtedly "helping himself" to the image of me sleeping. I didnt know what to do so I just waited. When he left my heart was pounding and I didnt know what to think. So I waited the next night with my door open again and the same thing happened. He mustve been doing this for a while.
I did this for a week and I hate to admit it but it's probably the most excited I've ever gotten in my life, I usually sleep in top and shorts, but after a while a started sleeping in top and panties like pic related, covering myself less, then just bra and panties, and yesterday I took a huge step and slept naked with no sheets. It's getting to the point where nighttime is the time I wait for the most the entire day just so I can pretend to fall asleep. I'd never do anything with him but I can't stop. When he leaves the room it's like Im going to explode
Is this too fucked up or am I redeemable stopping now?
Congratulations, you have unlocked a new fetish!
For sure, everyone's going to have a different idea of the morality of this little setup you have going on. If I were your boyfriend, though, I'd be pretty pissed off if I ever found out.
So this is what boyfriend hell looks like. Glad I ain't in a relationship with a hoe.
That sounds pretty hot.
You should try fucking your boyfriend with the door open and be really loud.
Or get a kind of see-through sleeping mask so you can look at him while he does it.
Hello I'm 20 and I want to try to move to New York and try stand up comedy. Is there anyway I can get housing and find a job to have while I try it out?
Be really funny and you'll get paid
>>16975678
Yeah if you can afford $1000 a month while you actively perform comedy and work 60 hours a week
>>16975681
$1000 in New York will get you a fucking cardboard box.
I fucked up hard /adv/.
My girlfriend walked in on me to surprise me at my apartment because she got home from work early. I was wearing a dress and applying nail polish on my nails not to mention I was wearing makeup.
She was in shocked and after a while she ran out crying. I tried chasing her but it was tough since I was wearing heels and I can't be seen like this outside.
I already tried calling her multiple times to messaging her saying everything from sorry to let me explain to I deserve whatever your decision from now on.
What can I do now /adv/? I mean I know I'm a freak for being a crossdresser. But I still love her and would be willing to stop doing this if that would mean losing her.
We've been together for five years now and I was on my way to proposing. I'm really sorry I never opened this up to her but who can accept this?
>>16973228
>five years
> who can accept this?
definitely a girl you plan to marry, OP...
it's not THAT big of a deal. i mean, i would love to dress my bf up atleast once.
Are you at least a qt trap like ciel?
Or are you a hairy muscled man?
This all matters in what you should do or what you can do.
Also OP this is hilarious.
>>16973235
Well thanks for that.
But my gf is traditional and religious. Well I kind of like her being like that but she won't accept what I did.
Also she probably told her parents already and her dad, even though he likes me very much, he doesn't want her daughter marrying some kind of a freak like me.
Can someone tell me whats wrong with not liking people with a promiscuous sexual history. I wont go into detail about how me and my gf are fighting over it since I already made a thread about it, but why am I not allowed to find a girl repulsive for such actions. Furthermore why am I expected to stay with my gf even though she has such a history. Like Im insecure because I dont value a girl who acts like other peoples fleshlights.
>Cant handle the fact that she slept with other people
I hate hearing this so much. I dont give a shit if I can handle it or not. I dont want to. I want sex to be kinda our thing. Something special. Not some shitty hedonistic act as everyone treats it as.
>tldr on why Im here
Got in huge fight with gf after learning her sexual history. She said I should get over it and I went autism mode and told her having sex with her is like being given a used tissue and theres no reason why I would value sex with her. Shes trying to use that as leverage that Im not thinking straight and shouldnt break up what we have together.
>>16971859
Were you a virgin when you met her?
I would feel disgusted if a guy had a lot of sexual partners too. But when i say a lot I mean like, over 5. Anons on here think a lot is any number higher than 0 makes a girl slut-tier
>>16971865
No ive had sex with 1 person and the events that caused us to break up were unfortunate.
>>16971890
Im kinda the same. Id like for a girl to have like 3 or 4 at most. But its ridiculous how much people sleep around now.
My friend is 29 and has never had a relationship and she keeps breaking down over it.
Like she'll cry about it. And she'll talk about nothing but trying to find dates and feeling bad.
She reminds me a lot of myself because I'm 23, never had a boyfriend and I'm also incredibly weird and described as "broken" by friends and house-mates. I know what it's like to feel subhuman and like a piece of shit and inferior etc etc etc.
But I want to help her, I feel for her. She keeps crying in public which isn't helping her socially.
advice?
Depends on how attractive she and you are.
Getting a date as a female shouldn't be hard.
Guys are hard wired to want to spread their DNA.
So dress up nice, put on make up go to a club, bar, cafe and talk to someone.
>>16975804
women don't post threads with women in their image
try again
Did she sleep around a lot, does she have a reputation as a slut
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How big do you think Jesuses cock was?
How do you survive as an introvert in an extrovert driven society?
>>16974984
everyone in the world has to make some amount of sacrifice to exist, but is capable of streamlining their life.
define what you mean by introvert and how the extroverts prevent you from doing this and then well tell you how to 'survive' that.
>>16974984
I hate being around a lot of people I'm not close to.
It makes me tired, at the end of the day I'm wiped out.
But I never show it at work, if I'm giving a presentation, if I have to communicate with people.
I honestly just suck it up until I get home and find really good methods of relaxing. Home is my zen.
The rewards that keep me going are my paycheck, being able to pay rent, being able to buy what I want. All I have to do is do a nonpreffered and tiring activity for 8 hours a day, five days a week; then I'm in the clear.
>>16974999
Well extroverts thrive in social situations and are great with getting friends and dating. As an introvert I have to exert so much energy just to make it through one conversation. I just wanna have an easier time dealing with people.
Pretty much the title. After my girlfriend got birth control (insertion in arm), she started viewing sex as disgusting and started having flashbacks to bad memories of her childhood. Therefore leading to a huge lack of sex in our relationship.
I feel like such a shit human being but I don't know what to do. We literally have sex once every 2-4 weeks and most of the time I don't cum but she does. Now I would be fine with this but she has NOT tried to get any help. At first I was supportive and I tried to get her to go to therapy or maybe even take the birth control out. But she doesn't want any.
I am literally horny all the time and it fucking sucks. She's not cheating or anything. I know 100%. She really wouldn't. Her sexuality did a complete 180 like a week after she got the insertion so it's not some weird coincidence.
Please help. I'm 19 and horny all the time. I really do love her but I'm starting to resent her.. I can't help it.
We used to fuck at least twice a day up until the BC. Now I look forward for the one time we fuck every 2-4 weeks.
I wanna go for like 2 hours. I wanna eat her out. And I make her orgasm at least once every time. I even bought a vibrator that we used to use before the birth control. We bought sexy clothes and stuff but all that's gone to waste.
I feel like my libido and love for pleasing is going to waste. I really do love making her feel good but I can't. I try to get her horny but nothing. Or sometimes she gets horny and I can feel her getting wet but she won't let me do anything.
Birth control is known for lowering sex drives. The best thing you can do is either try to put up with it, attempt to get her to try fucking more often, or have her get on something else.
>>16974699
Tried bro.. I told her to get it out and that I'd pay for it and be there with her when they do it so she's not scared.
Her: "yeah I'm starting to get tired of it"
Never does it and next time I ask about it she says she'll do it and gets mad at me.
I told her to go to the free therapy provided at her school and that she should talk to a professional about her flashbacks and stuff and that if she wants me to come with her I'd come
Nope.. Not gonna do that.
>>16974707
sounds like she's ignoring your feelings
