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I feel bad for having standards.
This large chick in one of my college classes came onto me, and I shot her down. I'm a KHV. Does this make a bad person?
I have nothing against fatties necessarily, but she was a 2/10 at best. I'm 6'0 and slim, for reference.
>>16978059
>I'm 6'0 and slim, for reference.
This tells us nothing about how attractive you are. I'm inclined to think that you're unattractive too, but you're trying to make it sound like you're not, not unlike when fatties call themselves 'curvy'.
You don't have to fuck people you aren't interested in. I'm hoping you did it in an honest and nice way.
>>16978068
>fellow fat chick detected
You're probably right though, unless she's a complete retard she had some reason to think OP was in her ballpark.
Hey /adv/, I have a problem.
My boyfriend and I want to have anal sex, both of us for the first time.
Problem:
>Me, age 20
>5'0, petite af, tight ass butthole
>Him, age 32
>5'10, at least 180 or more of pure muscle idk his weight but he is buff
>7in, black dick
Storytime:
>age17 >fucking high school boyfriend >he is banging me, pulls out and when going back in, accidentally rams my butthole.
>gives me an anal fissure
>butthole hasnt been same since?
Is anal sex still possible for me or am I screwed? Pic related
Can provide more details if needed.
you're just attentionwhoring and you know it.
however, an anal fissure isn't the end of the world. let him fill your rektum with his cum
im gonna need more pics to judge if you can really take it
>>16978043
Im actually not attentionwhoring. This is a serious concern.
I just wanna know if lube will be enough to not make it worse.
Help me. I'm desperate. I need to find a cute girl to settle down and make babies with so I can continue my bloodline.
I'm 30, have a career as an HR rep, own a house, have a car, have proper hygiene, and no mental or physical deformities. What can I do?
I used to give guys like you general "go get em" advice but I've come to realize that if you really have all the good qualities you say, you probably have autism/douchery in proportion to repel women.
>>16977927
> so I can continue my bloodline
> HR rep
I see nothing in your bloodline that warrants continuation.
>>16977949
There's a women for every man on the planet, this is a statistical fact
After a breakup:
Is it really the best solution to man up and work on yourself like a madman and try to be successfull in life and just dedicate yourself to WORK.
Or is it not sometimes better to be sad and show the other part that you are sad and that they meant everything for you. And that you feel devastated that they are out of your life.
My girlfriend dumped me. And I am doing scenario 1. No matter what. Just wanted to get some opinions on breakup in general!
You're allowed to be sad for max two weeks. After that you need to man up and move on. Get shit done.
Simply put, everybody feels 2, but you should be actively working towards 1.
Imo there's no better time to make valuable changes then after a breakup, all the emotions make for a potent mix.
>>16977918
you aact like those are literally the only two options. protip: they are not.
she DUMPED you. regardless of why she doesnt need to see you moping around to let her know how much she meant. would she even notice? i mean really what kind of logic is this?
you dont be sad to show someone something. thats called acting.
you are sad. you deal with it in the way thats best for you, and you focus on whatever you want to focus on that isnt her
I have two choices, /adv/:
Really nice girl, awesome sex, fat and has mental health problems which she still won't even talk about but itsbadman.jpg
Hot girl, tumblr SJW who is mentally stable, just really fucking stupid and sex is eh
Obviously my wording implies I like girl 1 more but I'm not sure if somebody who has unknown problems that could lead to crazy shit is worth it.
>>16977748
>tumblr SJW who is mentally stable
pick one
>>16977750
also, what do you think the fat girl is hiding?
>>16977750
Top kek
Not otherkin n shit just "BLACKLIVESMADDUH" "FEMINISM PATRIARCHY" kinda nutso. not unstable, just an idiot.
So my current boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 4 years. So about a month or so ago. I found out he was talking to this girl and they were going to hangout in the middle of the night. I don't know if I am just overreacting but you don't hangout with people in the middle of the night if they aren't people you typically hang out with. Supposedly they went to school together but honestly that could all be a lie. Anyways we argue and he agreed he wouldn't speak to her. Again the same thing happens he said he was sorry he hadn't spoken to her I see if because he left his facebook open and of course we argue. He says he won't talk to her. Then, of course, I see he told her happy easter whatever.. I am upset now. I want to know if I am overreacting or if I am in the right. If this doesn't make much sense I am sorry I am just really upset.
you shouldsn't snoop. but other than that your bf is behaving fishy. tell him to be honest and end things if he feels bored with your relationship instead of cheating on you behind your back and hurting you
>>16977543
I've been in your situation. It sounds like he's interested in this girl, and trying to act on his crush. You're not doing the wrong thing by not allowing him to talk to this girl, you're clearly uncomfortable with his behavior and feel it could lead to cheating.
For the time being, you should stay and see if he keeps contacting this girl. If he continues to do so, it might be best to leave him, since that proves he values this girl above you. Best of luck, OP!
>>16977543
You're in the right. If he can't change his ways you deserve better. My first college gf couldn't stop talking to this one guy no matter how many times I asked, lied to me, kept it secret and such. I broke it off, they began dating within 6 months and when I last checked a year and a half ago, they still were.
Point is, that there could be something there between them, and I'm really sorry you're going through this OP. Tread with caution and best of luck.
So heres the story
>saturday hanging with the gf of 6 months
>friend calls me and asks what im doing, accidently say im with a friend instead of saying girlfriend
>gf gets mad at this, thinks im cheating (i dont realize this until after)
>fast forward teusday
>shes in a group for school work, asks her groupmates for relationship advice about us
>tells them i said shes just a friend, they reaffirm her fears saying im cheating and sleeping around and whatnot
>gf then tells me all this later that day, she cries and im pissed at the guy and her
So who fucked up here? I know i fucked up at first. But then why did she go talk about our private life to her group mates? Why couldnt she just confront me? I told her im super pissed and want to have a word with the guy from her group. But its pointless because he doesnt know me and he was just goig off what she was saying. What do I do now?
so, this is an anonymous image board, let's me comletely honest. you don't say stuff like that by accident. why did you say friend instead of gf?
My boyfriend referred to me as his friend once when talking to someone. I literally did not care.
She shouldn't have gotten so worked up about it. Jumping right into the "he's cheating" boat was a pretty shitty thing to do.
Have you already discussed that it was an accident? You'll have to sit her down and tell her you're not cheating and she's making a big deal out of nothing.
>>16977548
>I literally did not care.
well, i would care a lot.
How do I delicately suggest to my boyfriend that I would like two boys fucking me at once? Or should I just shut up and pretend I'm a good girl.
>>16977470
Bring it up in bed as a fantasy. See how he reacts.
>>16977470
These thigs are always a leap of faith if you tell him and he's completely closed to the idea there'll be a seed of distrust between you two.
I think you know if he'll be willing to or not. If you think you have to put it delicately, he's not going to like it. And if you have to pretend that you're a good girl, then it won't last. Just break up and visit a sex club or something.
So, i stated my problem a while ago here, I'll state it again because it's concerning me
My girlfriend of 4 months left me the day after we had sex.She came two times by oral but I did not, not even when having sex and I sense that this made her feel unatractive or whatever. I was in shock the very next day but then I realised she fucking broke up with me after I sacrificed my time with friends with her, lots. As I am a weak person when I get attached I took drinking as a problem solver, problem is pretty much solved now, I don't really feel the need of her but I do need feel the need to drink and I am very impatient to get home and open some beers. It started as a joke with a friend, I bought a whiskey bottle and drank it alone in one night. The next day another bottle because it made me feel good and so on until 6 days ago when i was out of money. (spent ~220$ on whiskey that I drank alone) Now I really feel the need to drink, currently I am drinking beer because I am out of money.
Last night I went to a friend of mine and she was around (in a student dorm). She probably heard me and she came, I left 3 times before I was too wasted to leave...I really want her back but I know this will hurt more than it already does so I left. The very next day we broke up she went on a date, I like and want to believe she thinks she made a mistake breaking up but the bad was done already and I don't trust her anymore. This is the 8th day of binge drinking, the nights are very hard for me, I drink only at night. Also, I lost my food apetite and haven't eaten much since I started to drink. Should I be concerned about this or it is just a phase and is gonna pass?
I need help from someone who has done this. Also, my father was an alcoholic, I've read that this can be a problem if someone drinks too much.
Bumpin', i know it's alot to read but i may need advice
>>16977243
Dude were all just meat sacks that will be decomposed and forgotten in 150~ years, why waste your precious time on earth poisoning your self over another stupid meat sack? There's more to life than her man
I already know that, i just feel the need to get over get and...drink
Hypothetically, let's say I've been charged with four felonies. Hypothetically, let's say I haven't been convicted of any of them yet.
Do I need to tell a girl about my felony charges before I fuck her? She's a virgin btw.
>>16976865
You don't you rail that pussy then get convicted and jerk to it for years.
>>16976866
Would she be mad if she found out?
Or will she forgive me because I'm the one who took her virginity?
>>16976865
>someone said I dun no good
>higher power said I didn't
>does it matter if anyone know dis
Are you retarded?
Had a meeting cancelled
48 year old guy
Married 24+ years
6 children, two oldest grown and out of the house
I have made enough mistakes to know what not to do.
Offering advice
>>16976836
Do Go All Out For Money Or Take It Easy With My People And Enjoy The Decline? I
>>16976842
Either works, depends on your long term goals.
I try to strike a balance of
Making enough an emergency isn't the end
and
Enjoying life with my family and friends
Neat, you're back!
Can you tell me what's the secret to a happy marriage? What would be the ideal scenario of a relationship unfolding, starting with dating and ending with being married with kids?
I'm so mad rn.
My boyfriend was talking with his best friend about my mannerisms. I'm a very polite and cordial person - and that was how I was raised to be. Respect comes first.
Well, he brings this conversation up to me last night and he made me feel like crap for being who I am.
"You're just too nice."
I really do not understand this. I didn't even bother replying because I just really had nothing good to say to him. I typically clam up when someone I genuinely care about picks at me.
What should I do? I'm not changing. Screw that. Should I talk to him about it? Even tho over probably missed my chance to talk it out?
I also don't say anything about him to my friends unless it is good because I was raised to guard and protect those closest to me.
Am I in the wrong here? Or is he being a jerk?
Why does he thing being nice is bad? Are you being taken advantage of? Are you submissive to the point of abuse because you are nice?
Explore why he's bringing this up. If he just wants some nasty trailer park girl then he isn't for you. Move on.
>>16976826
I definitely am not that submissive. I call him out all the time.
I asked him permission to talk to his best friend because it is kind of weird to do that? So, I wanted him to know and I wanted to respect his friendships and comfort levels.
Apparently, that made me look like I was scared if him being mad at me? When I blatantly told him I was asking out of respect to build trust.
Apparently, he just wants me to do these things, without any consideration or thought and I do not feel comfortable with that.
By doing these things, I'm protecting myself as well in case he goes crazy and starts saying shit.
Know what I'm saying?
>>16976821
Tell him you won't change for him. If he loves you he loves you for what you are. He ois being a jerk.
I understand you... my girlfriend told me I'm too different from other people and that she wants me normal. Some people just cannot appreciate our positive traits.
Is teaching really such a terrible job as people on this board say?
Nah son
>>16976481
Almost everyone in this thread talks about how teachers are treated like shit though: http://archive.4plebs.org/adv/thread/16963962/#q16963962
>>16976486
Well, if you don't stand up for yourself and are able to stand your ground you are going to get threated like shit no matter your career choice
Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
Avoid asking these common questions:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
><Random insecurity>
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever. It takes hard work, time, and effort.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out. This is something we cannot explain to you. In video game terms, you are lvl 1 social skills and the "Interpret signs" ability requires level 10 to unlock. Get more experience.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.
>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing
>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships
No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking.
>Brandon
Fuck off
what Elliot Rodger needed was a girl to take some initiative and talk to him/keep him company until he developed some confidence and social skills.
> A girl is super nice and friendly to me for like 2 months
> I don't really react to it, but don't disrespect her
> 3 months later, nothing happened in between:
> Text her "hey what's up? How's the holidays going?"
> seen 20 hours ago
Why does that happen to me all the time? How can girls be hyped about me at one point and then 3 months later completely hate me and ignore me with nothing happening in between?
I've ask a girl out recently, she said yes then flaked me, saying that she forgot our date... She doesn't reschedule or anything and we stop texting each other for 5 days. I finally end up seeing her, I'm polite but do not flirt with her. That very same night she texts me and tell me that she really would like to do something soon, and that we are very alike. So what do you think guys?
>get suicidal thoughts
>talk to mom about it she doesn't know what to say and wants to leave
>talk to girl I'm crushing on and says I'm asking for attention
Feel pressured into killing myself to prove that I'm sincerely feeling like shit
>>16975818
This is why i will probably shoot myself in the woods. Too many attention whores have made it difficult to get help.
Don't. Life is precious. Things always get better
I'm in the same situation. Had suicidal thoughts since august last year and they are only getting worse. I told my mom and she didn't seem to care much. she says its ''normal''..
How old are you? I think ''many'' young people get this. and did you smoke weed??
I hope you won't do something bad. Like >>16976510 said things will get better some time
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