>>16982077
Stay in Sweden

>>16982077
We got plenty of room.

Come on down!

You could transfer or you could take a year off and apply next year.

>>16981978
To make you jealous/uncomfortable.

It's disrespectful, to be quite honest.

Test to see if they can bend u. If u get jealous then u r an insecure male in her eyes. If u dont give a fuck they like u more

>>16981978
I mention my boyfriend so I don't give them the wrong idea

You should take the stuff and go.

You keenly pointed out that you're behind the ball when it comes to moving onto new opportunities with people who can share in your life. Of all the women in the world, she has been the one to make it clearest that she WON'T be doing that. Talking to literally anyone else would be more constructive than saying anything more to her. In other words, at some point you need to choose to start making progress already.

Yeah dude, Its not going anywhere.
Be coy and ask her to Fuck one last time. Get it out of your system.

>>16981891
I mean I thought about telling her how I feel about her (I still love her) but I also thought about just venting on her and saying mean things that I've held back throughout all the relationship because I know they would hurt her. Would that make me feel better?

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Not advice. Fuck off back to /pol/, retard.

>>16981537
I left off the entire last part actually. I was asking what the best way to deal with stuff like this is in large groups of people. I recently had a friend accosted for something he said that was completely innocent, and it started a shitstorm... also revealed a lot more people that I originally thought are on the radical side.

>>16981525
>White people can't have opinions on racism? We are constantly oppressed??

1 you can have opinions on racism, you just cant be racist or you're a racist cunt piece of shit

2 you are not oppressed, trying to "turn the tables" not gonna work for you

3 pol you need to get out, this is not a advice question.

4 sage

She's a crazy one, anon.

If the sex isn't good enough to make crazy worth it...then get the hell out. Run!

>>16981520
You haven't snapped her in check before.
I'm not saying be abusive but you just roll over and let her say what and when you're gonna do something.

You need to tell her that its not a big deal and you're gonna go see your friends. Also it sounds like shes a crazy self-conscience woman who is broken as fuck.

>>16981520
Tell her to shut her bitch ass up or you'll beat her ass. Never let a bitch in a relationship think she's raw enough to tell you what to do.

>>16981478
Holy shit man, that's a huge age gap.

You're still very young, see if you can be gf and bf a little longer.

>>16981478
>She will be here in May

What catalogue did you order her from?

>>16981485
>>16981480
Right, so she's coming from South Korea and finally got her fiancee visa. We dated for a while when I lived and studied in South Korea.

This is the only way to get her legally into the US to live with me, marriage.

But I decided that back in June of last year. We've been engaged and planning it since June so it's nothing new at this point.

Take your tearstained neckbeard back to /r9k/. You are not wanted here.

>>16981416
I'm here to stay and give real advice. All you bluepill cunts do is make men feel bad for being masculine and praise women for being complete cunts.

>>16981407
Maybe the answer in this case anon is to become more physically attractive, confident, playful and interesting?

>>16981364

You'll find it's easier to talk to women on tinder when you're horny. It helps me lead the conversation on. It's probably stressful for you since you expect to get laid. Try expecting nothing from your matches, take it as neverending practice and make as little presumptions as you can. Remember, women can smell your desperation. Don't lie to them either, they'll know it. If you're getting hot and heavy with messaging and they start spewin relationship shit, say you're only...
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>>16981379
Thanks. It's not even that I expect to get laid although that's the point I guess. I feel like there probably are all these unwritten rules on what I'm supposed to get out of this chat and when exactly it is actually okay to ask someone to even meet up. Maybe these rules don't exist at all, but that's really what drives me insane about dating in general.

But yeah maybe I should really stop expecting anything and just move on if the conversation dries up.

>>16981402

Don't be afraid to experiment. You'll never get to know these nonexistent rules (for me, I rely on my gut, it's pretty trustworthy) unless you try. There are no rules, only ones you make. Don't be afraid of joking around, women aren't as sensitive as you might think, but don't call them fat or w/e (know the difference between teasing playfully and being rude). I've asked girls out the first thing I say to them, it has worked, but not too often, but I'm not from murrica...
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>>16981101
I bet if you jerked him off he'd stop teasing you.

The reason he does it, is because you react, and he finds that reaction amusing.

Stop reacting altogether. Your'e 23. Act like it.

>teenage brother not so tough after being molested

Confidently, with a steely gaze.

I can guarantee you that your brother has busted off more loads in a week than you've schlicked in your entire life. Man has been dropping loads in every corner of the house.

If there's anyone that can be understanding about masturbation oopsies, it is a man. Just pretend like it didn't happen and he's gonna let it slide.

>>16981063
This. If he tries to make any issue of it just say "your going to give me shit about this? You?" then just stare at him.

>>16981060
Girls don't fap, they schlick. Troll harder next time.

To girls,

There’s this girl I had a thing a year ago but it did not work out because she tested and I failed miserably. Last semester I was in a class with her but this was one of those big lecture classes so I did not make much of it. She started to wonder about me and stalk me; she would assign a peer from another class to spy me on whether I would ask about her. I ran into her at the end of the semester and she was interested in me. I knew she was into me but I had to let her contact me first or else she would have obviously gone cold.
Fast forward to this semester...
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>>16981086
>This wall of text about being "tested"

You're either crazy and narcissistic, or she's is.

Stop being a crazy middle-schooler.

The only way you "win" is if you don't play/stop making things so complicated when they're not.

Girls, are you princesses?

Fairly retarded but not that bad. There are still a lot of French speaking Canadians in Ontario. Montreal is really where you want to be for practice, though.

Very retarded. Very few people outside of Quebec speak French. A few tiny communities in Ontario, places along the Quebec/Ontario border and another tiny community on Winnipeg are just about it.

Quebecers will love you for learning French. There are many people over here who don't speak a word of English, only French. If you stick to Montreal and the south shore you'll find a lot of English people. But as soon as you venture off to say Trois Rivières or Quebec City you won't find many English speaking people.

The government forces the preservation...
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>>16980910
>Quebecers will love you for learning French.
Don't they dislike foreigners?

>>16980880
What's your education level?

YAY WELCOME BACK
But you didn't go home for long...When do you sleep?

How much fundamental disagreement can there be in a relationship that is intended to last? I'm talking about things like religious or political beliefs, dietary quirks, personal opinions, etc.

4/10

>>16980863
/adv/ is a lot harsher than /soc/

>>16980863
do I genuinely kill myself?

Own up to being disgusting. Decide if you want to stay that way or change.

If you want to stay that way, let them know.

If you want to change, set some ground rules to help you out and let them know you're serious. Things like door open unless you're sleeping or masturbating. Always going to the bathroom to piss. Emptying all garbage weekly on garbage day (if your garbage collection is bi-weekly then still take it out every Tuesday or whatever).

they seem like they just want to help you, apologize and try to better yourself I guess?

The same way you got along with them before. There is no other way. It colors their relationship with you, but it need not do the reverse.

You need help, OP. Harness what you are feeling: let it drive you. See a therapist. Hell, even setting up an account on Habitica is better than nothing. But fight the urge to run.