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Have a friend who I used to talk to all the time. We'd message daily. She'd always initiate and she considers us close friends. If we didn't talk for a few hours she'd message again.
Recently she's stopped messaging and if we don't talk for a few days she'd bring it up and say I need to make more effort. Ok so I do that, but I feel the chat has just gone dead and like she isn't bothered anymore and saying I need to make more effort is kind of shifting the blame because I honestly believe she just doesn't want to talk anymore....
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SHE DOESN'T WANT TO TALK TO YOU ANYMORE
Let her know that things have been off and that it concerns you, that your there for her if she needs to say something or needs a shoulder to lean on. Also let her know you understand people need their space sometimes but also to not forget that your there for her. thats all you need to say for now.
>>17350196
Yeah it certainly looks like it doesn't it?
>>17350200
Done this before. She wanted to call me last week to talk about something but I couldn't take the call since I had to sleep for work, and was going to speak to her in the morning instead. She said she didn't want to speak about it then though.
My girlfriend and I have really been wanting to spice up our sex lode and we both agreed that it would be really exciting to drug each other and play with each other's passed out bodies.
It would only be at home and completely safe as we would be by each other's side the whole time.
The problem is finding a place that sells roofies online that aren't a scam. Does anyone have any luck with any websites for buying these?
you can try xanax as well or getting drunk (not to the point of throwing up) but more of the comfortable to fall asleep/letting your body get harassed type of drunk.
Goddammit I have a new fetish now.
Drinking doesn't work sadly, my gf gets sick from it too easily and just throws up before we can have any fun.
(Mid 20s male)
I've had so much sex in the past year with randoms. I don't fee a goddamn thug anymore, emotionally not physically. I like the chase more than I actually like having sex and enjoying a woman's company.
I'm desensitized via years of fapping, dating and ONS's.
What now?
>>17350016
>fee a goddamn thing
>emotionally NOR physically
Whoops
>>17350016
I've found that after a while, meaningless sex with random girls just becomes masturbation. But when you have an emotional connection with a woman during sex it's just amazing. It sounds gay as fuck but it's the truth.
>I don't feel a goddamn thug anymore
The fuck you mean, cuh?
/adv/, would you date an average looking blonde girl with nothing in common with you? Pic related is talking to me on a dating site. I think she's cute, but I feel like her facial features wouldn't be very good for a boy if we had a son.
>>17349995
Are you dating with an eye towards marriage?
And you're doing that online? You're doing it wrong.
Online dating is for casual sex.
>>17350007
Statically, people who meet through online dating end up in much more stable relationships/marriages than those who meet otherwise.
Anyways, you did not answer my question.
>>17350013
Looking for good wife/mother material is more important than appearance. The best genes in the world won't matter if your wife turns your son into shit.
MY MOTHER RUINED MY MASTURBATION
When I first saw Jennifer Lawrence I thought she looked like my mother, I didn't feel attracted to her because of that. After watching her movies and some interviews I started to find her attractive and now I actually like her but I cannot find harmony between the fact that now I find her attractive and she sort-of looks like my mother.
I want to masturbate to her but I can't because of their resemblance. I no longer think they look alike, but I know at some point I thought they did and that bothers me, furthermore, if I look...
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find another waifu
>j.law is my waifu btw
>>17349975
Look at one of the other of thousands of women on the internet that are hotter, don't look like your mom, and are nude.
>>17349980
but she looks so fine and she's funny
So.
I genuinly don't know what to do with my life.
I don't believe I'm suicidal, not at all, but I simply.. have lost my way?
I'm a young lad with severe PTSD who got dumped by my girlfriend (together for almost 3 years, meant the world to me and I felt normal and functional in her comapny) 2 weeks ago.. through facebook chatt..
I've been quite addicted to gaming before, as it was my only.. safehouse? from my PTSD. The only place I could hide and things would be fine.
When my girlfriend came into my life, that all changed and...
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Keep going out, dont sink back. Youre not an introvert anymore, be an extrovert and learn what is life after this emotional event. Yull be surprised with what else has to come.
>>17349949
Why, though?
That's the thing. Like, I'm not retarded.. I know it's good.. But.. Seriously speaking now.. How on earth do you think I'll be able to find a suitable parner again?
I was extreamly lucky to find her, and now she's gone.
>>17349957
Youll find another because everyone else does from personal experiences. Some people arent meant to be there for the rest of your life which is why people come and go. Aslong as you keep yourself out there and improving yourself (instead of just playin vidya), then yur bound to bump into someone even better.
I'm guessing this is a popular topic on here, but what age do think is considered 'late' for losing ones virginity?
I'm 19 and haven't yet. I've never seemed to have as much of an interest in sex as everyone around me. This is still the same, but I'm beginning to feel more and more distanced from my friend group and virtually everyone else.
I know I shouldn't feel pressure to have sex just because other people are. Does anyone actually care that much?
I lost mine a few weeks before my 21st birthday. No, nobody really gives a shit at 19.
I can almost guarantee that once you finally do have sex you'll be addicted to it. That's what happened to me at least.
>>17349868
Im 18 right now. It seems like its getting pretty late. I feel like its pretty late at least. 20 is the cut off age I think.
I'm 21 and in the same boat. I used to be stressed out all the time because I was different than my classmates. I thought something was wrong with me, I cut ties with everyone and eventually I ended up more alone than I've ever been. Obviously I can't help you with losing your virginity but I can tell you don't be like me and stress yourself about the whole thing too much. As for me, I'm hitting the gym, studying and trying to keep a positive attitude so we'll see how it goes.
I have no idea whats going on with this, I'm hoping someone will tell me.
>months ago, get invited to an orgy by a friend of mine.
>most people are older, kinda ugly.
>goth girl with a dog collar on is just standing, watching... taking pictures.
>chat with her a bit, she seems like a cool girl, unphased by the fact I was fucking someone while chatting with her.
>third time I show up, she lights up as soon as I show...
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That's hot
Go get her tiger.
...But beforehand check yourself for stds.
You know. Maybe that's the reason she doesn't participate.
Ask her out. It might be just that she thinks you're a good model for her photos, but you seem like a pretty well adjusted dude, so at worst she'll just say "no thanks."
I've been recovering from a eating disorder, I'm not doing so great with girls. I've been told I'm cute and attractive but my relationships aren't stable and very very rare. I've got cheated on and ditched and i'm starting to think girls don't like skinny lads.
>>17349856
There is no question there but just get buff if you think being skinny is your problem
Point is prob OP's problem is not being skinny.
Gonna guess you lack self confidence, whine quite a bit and have existential problems. A weak character.
I'll link the eating disorder to that stereotype.
So yeah, go to the gym, but not only to get buff. Need to build self confidence.
>>17349856
bro. BRO. b r o. B R O. LISTEN
As a fat guy, and as a fat guy who chases chubby chicks, and as a fat guy who wants some skinny, petite pussy.
YOU HAVE IT FUCKING MADE. literally. Skinny is the preferred body type. It pisses me off so much every time I see one of these bbw goddesses with some skinny, lanky guy.
skinny guy with skinny girl doesn't bother me because they're kind of out of my league but sometimes if I play my cards right I can get a skinny chick.
but for me,...
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I screwed the screw off wine cap back on the bottle. Will it go bad?
Drink it within five or so days
what that guy siad. Plus check the hole doesnt go all the way through
>>17349847
Your sister's hole goes all the way through.
I bought this girl who I like some flowers recently. Me and her had been hooking up for a while, introduced by a friend of mine... she didn't want to date even though we were having sex... and one day I messed up and told her I loved her. I gave her space but want to pursue her again, so I had flowers delivered to her place... she hasn't messaged me and still has me blocked on skype... she also still hangs out with that fat bearded fuck... I need to get rid of him but I don't know how, how do you get someone to stop fucking the girl you love?
STOP LOVING HER CAUSE SHE LET YOU ENTER HER YOU FAT FUCK.
It makes you look desperate and ruins her for when she quits her "only dick" phase.
>>17349822
She just needs love and attention... this guy isn't good for her, hes fine with just fucking, he isn't affectionate, he doesn't kiss her, cuddle her, or hold her, he gropes her, and shoves his hands down his pants or up her skirt when he can... he just fucks her and then she follows him like a puppy dog... she deserves better.
>>17349893
She wants to get fucked and not have to deal with someone else's emotions. Chads and all females have this option. You fucked up.
So, I woke up this morning and hopped on 4chan. Then I noticed that my 4chan X extension isn't working anymore.
According to Firefox, it's still operating. I haven't closes my browser and restarted yet because I don't want to lose the functionality on the other boards.
Anyone else having this issue?
>>17349814
Update. Just tried changing the 4chan settings to get regular things like auto-update and image hover, and it isn't working. Now I'm gonna have to click the refresh button to see replies and possibly hit myself with a 404.
God, technology pisses me off.
Bump
Check for error messages in the console (F12). 4chan X's might show up in the browser console (Control+Shift+J). If neither 4chan X nor native is working, I'm guessing you did something like run out of memory or hard drive space.
hang out in a group of friends, 3 guys and a girl.
Girl is ugly, fat, kinda sperglordish... you know? like she plays old video games obsessively, is awkward as fuck and even though she hangs with the group, shes still shy as fuck around us, just quietly following us.
I was hanging out with her solo, we were watching netflix, she was acting super awkward all evening. It was approaching night time, and she suddenly slid up to me and almost cuddled me, shivering nervously and awkwardly. She pulled away, apologizing a shit ton, when she got up and sat on the couch, I noticed,...
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I'm not the retard whisperer but it seems like she was trying to make a move on you? She definitely sperged out, though.
>>17349792
so she just chickened out at the last minute? why me? also should I do it? should I ease her into it? I really doubt she had tried it with any of the other guys in the group, they would have said something to me, or made fun of her for it... why would she be so desperate to go straight for sex? is that all she wants or is she hoping for more?
>>17349788
Dude.
You like her?
If yes, go for her.
If no, don't, but don't keep her hanging.
Yes, she just chickened out at thelast minute, because you didn't do shit. She might have gone straight for sex (which is your assumption, not necessarily correct) becuase she is awkward and doesn't really know what to do.
Just don't hurt her, cause that seems a weak subject. Either will turn into a closed person for a long ass time or go all out crazy with all men are idiots if...
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HmlX3fLQrEc
Can anyone direct me towards videos such as this?
But more focused on the poor people and not the rich
Videos documenting their "pain" and stuff, like kids dying and shit because they are poor ya know? Like shit that is supposed to make you feel something
With them complaining the people wont give them free shit too like talking about how unfair life is and suff
Bonus points for Blacks and druggies/trash
Thanks guys
>>17349784
Just google life in Africa/Ghetto
>>17349796
Thanks Broskilitoriatornitator.
What the fuck is this thing under my tongue? It's like a little proboscis.
Doesn't hurt, doesn't really feel like anything. It's been there a few weeks but I sort of only just noticed what it looks like.
No, it's not an STI. It seems to have occured a day or two after the sudden, sharp pain (like a cramp) I felt in my tongue and jaw one time.
Do I have cancer
Am I dying
Here is mine, maybe go to doctor?
>>17349778
that's your under-tongue penis. It's very rare but textbooks say that it's from when we evolved from dragons we retained their glands to shoot flammable semen from under their tongue.
>>17350277
>>17349778
Eat 2 pieces of fruit every other day for the coming week
Worked for me
