I feel you, OP.

I don't want to be like this but every experience with women leans me to this opinion.

>>17351628

I don't think this way of thinking will lead to happiness, but hey, it's your life, man.

>>17351628
>>17351648
I think you two will be okay when you learn how to actually pleasure a woman. Then you won't have to worry about them all fucking your brothers.

You move on. It's better than loving the person above all else and then her leaving you. Everyday I struggle not to kill myself. Dont make the same mistake.

>>17351658
Don't think I'm not tempted to. That thought crossed my mind not unlike that bullet several times throughout the day.

Let it go, it doesn't matter.

By time you're 50, you're gonna have a dozen people like that.

It takes two to tango. You could have loved them for all time, but could they have loved you?

It's not about being "not good enough".
We think that because we love them they must love us, but it's not true.
It's ok for them to not see you as desirable as you see them.

It's not like puzzle pieces, where a match on one side necessitates a match on the other.

It's ok. Let it go. Find someone who wants...
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Being a serviceman is a huge plus when looking for a job.

EMS is thrilling and rewarding, but it's physically damaging and probably pays less than the max you could make as a cook.

Phlebotamy is not bad, but it doesn't pay much more than being a cook. I'd say there's no harm in it, but it's not very ambitious. It must be relatively stress-free.

Note: you can be a different kind of medical tech and be more irreplaceable, and make more money. You could also be a nurse, and they make bank.

Pharmacy tech is not a bad choice....
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I just saw you were making minimum wage as a cook. You can make more, at least in my state. Still, I think looking for a new career path is a great idea for you.

>>17351555

I am making $10/hr as a cook. $350 bucks a week to work second shift and mop up grease until 3 AM is pretty depressing.

Not looking for a career right now just something I can be doing within a month or two for short term income. When I return to school it will be to finish my BS/higher ed.

Don't do it

Cheating is a dog move regardless. Speak to your partner about it or break up with her. Clearly cant handle long distance

>Do people in long distance relationships cheat?
People in general cheat. So yes, people in LDRs are not excluded from that. However not everyone or even most people in one cheats and there is no justifiable reason to cheat ever. No, I don't care what your circumstances are. There isn't a good reason to. Break up, resolve things, visit her, use your hand, or do whatever else works. There's no shame in saying an LDR isn't for you, but there is a hell of a lot of shame in disrespecting someone you love by cheating on them.

Fucking cunts fatasses.

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>Ph.D. in Math
>any job I want
>$300k starting

>>17352158
bullshit meme

>>17351475
>my wife's son
Kek.

>>17351578
Kek

>>17351600
Kek

Women only swipe right like 15% of the time, so It's not really you, most of them always think they're settling for less. I don't use tinder and I have a somewhat active sex life.

>>17351652
But like. It's literally nothing for me. Like its killing my self confidence. Making me wonder what about me is such a turnoff.

You shouldn't use tinder as an ultimatum for why you think of yourself this way. If a girl can see that you rely heavily on the app just to get a date chances are they won't bother talking to you. Desperation is not attractive

bump

please help me

Could you explain more about your situation?

>>17351451
>>17351552
Call the loan company and explain the situation to them. They'll want to do something to help you, as if you don't borrow money they don't make money. With bad credit though, you might find that the loan comes with a caveat, such as them not giving you the full amount you ask for, having you pay it back at a significantly higher interest rate, or perhaps even paying them a deposit before they'll give you access to the money.

>>17351432
It's been about two weeks and we have been very civil over the phone. Pros: she is fun, intelligent, and great in bed. Cons: baggage galore and a loose sense of ethics.

abandon ship

>>17351480
>when you're too poor to really go out
>when the head is 10/10
I'm gonna give her another chance to be respectful

I understand your point, though

>>17351416
Cool your jets Shakespeare. Stop being so dramatic, it sounds like you watch too many movies and arent rooted into reality. You're trying your best to soune like dexter or some emotionally stunted dirty harry.

Get off your high horse,stop taking yourself so seriously and stop pretending your life is some soap opera. Little eye opener:. No one likes you either most likely because of your self importance

>>17351424

not op, and this is all true, but the way you say it is going to make a person like OP go in the opposite direction

try coming from the other side

just a tip if you want to give useful advice in the future

>>17351424
I watch fuck all and I have no self worth/importance. I will die alone and forgotten and I will force myself to believe that that is OK because I can't handle the alternative. This is literally the most useless piece of advice I've ever been given. Fuck you

>>17351430
Ah yes let's use the fucking counter thought to trick him isn't this little fucker a wise one

>>17351380
Router doesn't matter because you're going to be fucked in the ass by your provider either way. Assuming you live in America that is.

>>17351387
Not OP but I get 50 Mbps... It's suppose to go up to 100 soon, but frankly 50 is plenty fast for streaming, downloading, and gaming.

>>17351380
Unless you're getting fiber tier internet you're fine with getting literally anything that's not trash

>>>/sci/

>>17351376
>physics
TRIGGERED

PLEASE HELP

>>17351365
Donno about your gf but the girls ive dated dont always NEED to get fucked lol. It sounds like your all mentally fucking yourself over.
You're comparing porn to your love life. Most the shit you see, most girls dont want done to them. Girls can watch porn, its visually appealing, which is why guys love it so much. Girls are emotional, so if you think sex is about jack hammering her for extended periods of time, you arnt even on the right train.

>>17351365
let me on that ass. Cut and I can go for hours and cum on command

>>17351365

I don't know what the exact issue is for you, but I suspect that you just need to keep going. You most definitely should also try using a condom. If that doesn't help, then you need the condoms with numbing lubricant in them.

I sort of had the opposite problem. I'm also uncut, and if I really wanted to I could probably fuck just about forever - it just gets kind of tedious after a while. It's not humble-bragging, like unless I really concentrate it just starts to feel really numb after a little while and like I'm just fucking to fuck. In the very beginning my penis was ultra sensitive, but for a different reason and with a different outcome - I had mild phimosis and shoving my dick in even the wettest pussy just felt really really uncomfortable and even when I forced myself to continue it was like my body numbed the discomfort after a while so that it wouldn't become painful. After 4 or 5 times I was finally able to cum.

Look man, everyone's different and porn stars are porn stars for a reason. You just need to calm down and start thinking of some strategies to prolong it - stopping and changing positions works wonders, for example.

Why not just go for Chad? He never gets depressed.

I just don't understand.

>>17351364

Yeah, I don't know if you realized this yet, but taking /r9k/ memes about how social interaction works is a seriously dumb idea.

These are the people who admit that they can't follow a conversation from beginning to end with "normal" people. You think they have magic insight as to how it works?

"Chad" is nothing more than the misattributed self-loathing and latent homosexuality of /r9k/ denizens.

>>17351370
But Chad never has self esteem issues.

I just don't get it.

You were too soft on her, you should have accused her directly.

>>17351358
fucking retard lol. those white dots are completely normal. good job making your gf feel like shit and ruining your sex life

>>17351358
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fordyce_spots