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If I have been manipulated by a lot of guys, and I mean a lot, constantly, mostly starting from about 3 years ago, is there a problem with me or is this just the way the world is?
>>17352272
Its you.
>>17352274
What makes one unworthy of manipulation?
>>17352272
You seem to be the common denominator here
I'm crushin' on a crustie, /adv/. Is there any chance if I'm not really bout that life and look like a normie? I'm not totally square but I pretty much look it these days.
>>17352254
maybe. i started dating a punk guy and i'm pretty normal looking/have a slightly alternative fashion sense. the more time i spend with him the more our styles match up though, he's been wearing less ripped up shit and i've been wearing more plaid. if your personalities match you should be good to go, unless she's really shallow.
>>17352268
How did you guys meet?
I feel like this girl is 25% less grumpy and surly with me than with other people but that might be my imagination. She's just my type personality-wise but who knows if that's true the other way round. I guess I feel like "beauty and the beast" is a thing but not the other way around?
>>17352254
dont do it. those girls are trouble anon. you have been warned.
source: experience
>ex girlfriend cheated on me and left me for another man in March
>she told me tonight he hit her and she doesn't know what to do
I am feeling extraordinarily conflicted and I need advice. Picture unrelated, just firs tone in the folder I opened
You tell her that's karma for being a bitch, don't be a cuck.
>>17352246
>I am feeling extraordinarily conflicted and I need advice.
You should be dancing because the whore got what was coming to her.
>>17352246
>I am feeling extraordinarily conflicted and I need advice.
If he hit her, then she needs to talk to the Police and go to close family/friends. It's not your business anymore, which leads me to believe that she's trying to weasel her way back into your life. Or maybe she's just trying to see if you're still wrapped around her finger.
How to Manwhore
Give me tips on how to smash pussy left and right
>Decent looking
>Very funny/clever
>interesting
>Great liar/good at manipulation
Give me pro-tips and advice on how to land one night stands every night.
>>17352233
If you're actually all of these things then it shouldn't be much of an issue for you. You should know how to get into a girl's pants. The only issue I see here is a matter of having a social circle and putting yourself out there.
Go to a place where a decent number of slutty girls are. Parties, clubs, tinder, etc. The rest should come naturally.
>>17352248
That's the thing
I took a year off from uni due to medical problems and so now I am back and my social circle is super small (also cause it's summer courses rn)
And I have bad social anxiety.
Getting started is my issue. Once I get going though I'm pretty damn good, but I also ain't good on when and how to move in
>>17352270
Just start talking to them. Getting girls is easy as fuck if you make the first move. I usually just start conversations with girls that check me out first, and things just start from there.
Once fall semester hits you should be good when it comes to having friends. Just find one or two to hit parties with (preferably one that is less attractive than you) and try your luck.
Being fit/tall/well-dressed helps, but all you really need is to be confident. In uni you can get away with being really cocky and arrogant.
My best friend betrayed me.
2 months ago my GF broke up with me after I has a psychological break down from drinking too much and thinking my GF wanted by former-best friend more. I frightened her. I got meds, a new job and am starting uni again soon. I saw my best friend with her close to where I live and her car outside his place later that night. Months ago he promised he wouldn't do anything (as he was there the night of the episode). I blocked him on everything and confronted her about it....ending with her blocking me. I....feel so angry....so bitter this girl broke my heart and has made me depressed. I thought I could get back with her one day but it doesn't seem so...
My question is...what do I do? (I know I'm supposed to keep my mind of it which I am mostly at the moment)
You go and thank god or who ever the fuck you believe in for the way things turned out, senpai.
Your current situation just showed you what kind of people you are dealing with and be thankful for them to openly show you who they really are. I mean, would you still want to be friends with such a traitor fuck or that bitch, after all? Go out, forget about them and literally just live your life. And look back in a few weeks/months how both of them kill eachother with their own toxic behavior. Rule of thumb always was that one who does this to a person, will repeat it as many times as possible because it's just their nature. It's like you expected a snake not to bite you, because you fed it rats. Now both snakes gonna bite eachother.
>>17352259
So just leave it yeah?
I called him to see what was going on, left a message no response. Two days ago.
So now its just about actually liking myself I suppose?
>>17352278
Exactly, Prince of all Saiyans.
Do it like Vegeta and show some pride, either go fuck him up or just don't mind it. Tbh, if I were you I would have beat the living shit out of him, which I have already done in kind of the same situation. But I suppose you're not that kind of person and just leave it be. Work on yourself, love yourself, lift a bit and good shall come your way.
Mh context, been dating my girl for about a month and a half now and she is perfect for me in literally every way, she has her flaws but we help each deal with our flaws, however i got a bit jealous when i noticed she was talking to this one guy, i get it she is gonna have guy friends im gonna have female friends, point is i asked her about it, she said not to worry and that the guy has a GF, i talked with this guy like a week ago(jobs had us involved with each other) and he said he has been single for a whole year, this concerns me, why the hell would she lie about that, i'm fairly confident in myself but she said she really likes guys taller than her, he is like 6'0 and i'm 5'7, i wasn't worried until she lied, what do? I haven't talked with her yet and i care about her and wanna be with her
Tl;dr girfriend lied about her male friend being single, what should i do?
>>17352217
It's possible that he lied to both of you, if he's scamming on your squirrel. Women are more interested in taken men, generally. If you jump to the conclusion that she lied, and turn this into an issue, then you're playing into his hands. I'd still bring this up in such a way that you're not letting on that you know he's been single. Start asking her questions about the girlfriend, and the guy in general, just to seem like you want to get to know more about him (as a friendly gesture).
>>17352217
>why the hell would she lie about that
Maybe because you're a jealous motherfucker and she knew you'd be dying inside if you knew she had a single male friend?
>>17352227
As clearly stated in my post, i understand she is gonna have guy friends, being a guy myself i know most of their intentions, i can handle that though, what bugged me was she lied m8, makes me think she is cheating
Is it gay to tell your best friend you love them?
>>17352185
your only gay if you are worried about it being gay
>>17352185
No.
If you're an adult, telling someone you trust and love that you love is not gay.
Every man should trust another implicitly.
See how Sam loves Frodo.
A man and his good friend should be both Sam and Frodo.
They both carry each other when they need it.
>>17352185
do you want to have sexual relations with this person? does this person arouse you in a sexual manner? is this person the same gender as you? if so, then congratulations! you are homosex!
This may sound dumb but I need to know if I did the right thing here.
> Be out at bar with friends and oneitis for friends birthday
> Oneitis gets a little too drunk near the end of the night and someone has to take her home
> I take her to her apartment, all the time she's giggling and rubbing on me and stuff
> I make her drink a couple of glasses of water and make sure she lays down
> She keeps saying she wants me to get in bed and snuggle with her
> As we're sitting down talking she randomly blurts out that she's super horny and wants to fuck
> Tell her that she's drunk and I'm not going to agree to that while she is
> Leave and tell her that I'll see her later
Did I just miss a chance to hook up here? Something in me was screaming that it wasn't right to take advantage of her while she was drunk, however 'nice guy' that sounds.
You did good op
>>17352177
Would've been shit anyways
You're a bitch. The truth comes out when one drinks and this bitch wanted you to fuck her. Instead you had to pull this white knight fagshit. Fucking neck beard sub beta piss poor excuse for a dude.
I'm almost 23 years old and my mom still treats me like a small child. It's to the point where I don't even feel like talking to her like 90% of the time. She still calls me "her little baby" for one. Also if I ever open the fridge she has to ask if I'm hungry then literally come over to the fridge and point shit out like I'm fucking blind.
I remember back in middle school I had a friend sleeping over and she woke up at like 5 in the morning and her first instinct was to tell me what's in the fucking fridge...
And I know 100% of you are thinking by now "well why don't you confront your mom?" Well because she's as fragile as a glass vase and if I come off as unhappy she not only gets really defensive but takes it very personally. She won't fucking change and its so annoying. How can you talk to someone who still sees you as a fucking toddler sorry I'm ranting ahhhhhhh
If you don't like it, move out. You're 22 years old, more than capable of looking after yourself
>inb4 a million excuses why you can't move out
Sounds like a mom
consider yourself lucky, I accidentally left my porn collection open when I went to show (full of lots of hardcore, rape, etc) and my mom saw it. She freaked the hell out and kicked me out of the house and has refused to even speak to me since then, that was over a month ago now.
/adv/, I'm out of town and staying at my aunt's house for the time being. Everything is fine, however, one of my cousins living there is super fucking hot (not posting any pics.) How would I be able to obtain some pussy? <pic unrelated>
"Hey, wanna fuck? I'm serious."
If you've got a pair of testicles between your legs, you have no reason to prance around the issue.
From your cousin?...hmm.
>>17352115
It's not like we're alone in the house, there are other people.
Can I get a room (with roommates) in the ghetto of Chicago or Atlanta for 400-600 a month?
Easily. But since you describe a ghetto as a place where you have to have roommates and pay $600, I'm assuming that you're white-bread white and have absolutely no idea what you're talking about.
In Chicago $600 will get you an apartment with a roommate in a pretty decent neighborhood. Hell my friend paid $400 in rent in Lincoln Park because she had 2 roommates and took the smallest room.
>>17352220
How does looking for roommates make me sound white
>>17352229
>>17352229
It's not roommates, it's that you think ghettos are that expensive that makes you sound white. $400 a month with roommates is not ghetto prices. Ghetto prices is like $20 with roommates in the midwest. In St. Louis, I pay less than $400 a month with one roommate in one of the nice, safe areas.
Hello /adv/, even though I am straight, I enjoy gagging and being choked and what not, so I'm wondering if anything bad can come from throating raw sausages? I rinse them off before I fuck my mouth if that means anything.
>>17352084
If you're throating pic related, it's probably actually sold fully cooked rather than raw; you are throating cold kielbasa rather than getting face-fucked with raw anything.
If you're actually using raw sausages (usually much softer and more expensive than cooked varieties), I guess there is some risk of potentially serious food-borne illness. If you get food poisoning (terrible shits, etc.), go to a doctor.
And the choking hazard, not to be trifled with, is probably higher, since your links are probably more likely to break off and get lodged in there. Probably shouldn't do it alone.
Apart from that last, seems like abrasions or bruises to your neck are the biggest risks. If you get sore, take a break.
Pervert.
how about you get a real sex toy instead of face fucking your food
bad-dragon.com
>>17352097
Thanks, and I prefer sexually liberated~
I've recently made an okay amount of friends in the last month after being pretty socially isolated for ~6 years.
I'm doing pretty well I think, but one thing I've noticed is I seem to use people's names a lot more often than they use mine, and I'm not really sure what the -normal- amount is.
I've always thought that it's generally something you do when you like someone a lot, but I think I use most peoples names like 3 or 4 times during not that long of a time-frame, maybe an hour or two. Would that come across as weird? Should I try to stop addressing people by their names so often? I think people only really use my name when they want to get my attention or want to make it clear they're addressing something specifically to me, whereas I'll say things like "Hey anon", "Night anon", "Thanks anon" fairly often.
I know I'm definitely overthinking this, I don't think I'm autistic or anything for the record, just severely out of the loop and rusty with interacting with people.
I like when someone uses my name. It does stand out but in a good way in my opinion.
if it comes naturally it's fine (at least in my culture, language and country).
You can say, 'Fuck Anon, it's really cold' or 'Fuck, it's really cold' and both would be fine. People don't usually get offended if you use their names unless they have a really weird one, so keep doing it.
Saying 'Night Anon' or 'Hi Anon' doesn't sound awkward unless you don't mix other forms of speaking in between, but if it really comes naturally to you, then go ahead dude, it's not wrong. If someone makes fun of you or points that out trying to make fun of you, then he will be seen as a cunt.
> I think people only really use my name when they want to get my attention or want to make it clear they're addressing something specifically to me
This is me. I'll never use your name unless I'm trying to be specific to you or grab your attention. Anything else just feels weird to me. That said, I don't feel weird when people use my name a lot. Just do your thing.
>tfw fell in love with boss
>tfw get paid shit but work hard and stay there just to make her proud
>one time she started smiling directly at me
>I gave her a wink
>turns out she was smiling a customer's child that was doing some silly shit and I looked like a retard
My boss is so cute and she has the nicest ass. What should I do to get her attention?
Nothing because she doesn't see you in that light.
Believe me if she liked you, she would have made a move on you a long time ago.
Are you 8 years old? Then keep doing what you're doing. Maybe someday she'll read your mind, little dude.
If you're older, what the fuck are you doing? Ask her out. God.
>>17352062
Don't shit where you eat. You may lose your job... but then again this may actually force you to find a better one
I'm 25 years old and have no idea what I want to do for a career. I only graduated from a university last year and quit my job in sales/finance mostly because I wasn't that good at it. I've never had anything I've been that interested in (or I'll just get interested quickly and lose interest quickly), except for sports which got me into school. All of my experience is in finance (and a bit of sales) and I hate finance and would hate if I had to do that for the rest of my life.
Is there any good literature that maybe helped someone figure that kind of thing out? Or does anyone have something they did that helped get them interested in something? I'm in an area that has a bunch of jobs available
>>17352012
Do you have any hobbies?
Stop being a faggot and learn to do things you hate so you can be comfortable later.
Go back, get a finance job, do it for 2 to 3 years, get experience and then transfer into something else that will ask for your experience. The more experience you have the more movement and flexibility you can have.
>graduated from a university
>I've never had anything I've been that interested in
Well what the literal fuck did you spend the last 4 years studying?
It never occurred to you "Wow I don't like this" and to fuck off onto a different subject, as almost everybody does?
