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I have a friend who is about to make a terrible decision.
He met this smoking hot girl, is dating her and sleeping around with her. I am really happy for him, until this week.
The girl is moving back to Florida and she is trying to convince him to leave his high paying IT job and move with her and be in an "open relationship". He, incredibly, is "on the fence about it".
Any suggestions on how to talk him out of this?
Although, he is a childhood friend of mine, we are very different. He is into IT, I'm more into athletics. We often don't understand each other viewpoints. I'm guessing perhaps 4chan understands better his mindset.
Any suggestions?
By the way, I'm new here, please don't speak in memes. I don't understand them
>>17350783
Than who was phone?
Explain him the perils of open relationships. Don\t focus on the moving, focus on that. This all sounds like a big mistake about to happen.
She's from Florida... that should be reason enough to stay away.
How can I stop overthinking things when im with someone?
If someone doesn't text back right away I think their ignoring me. I just bring it all on myself and im fucking sick of it. I'l even go on Facebook and see when they last logged on to make sure im not being ignored.
What can I do to end this madness?
>>17350732
Realize that you're not the center of fuckin' ANYONE'S universe. Even if you have a girlfriend, unless she's clingy to the point of codependency she'll still have a life outside of you. Sometimes that people's lives conflict with other things they might want to be doing. If people really care about you, they'll get back to you eventually. Just stop stewing about it and stop taking shit so seriously.
t. someone who was exactly you before I got my shit together
>>17350732
Seems more like you're scared of being ignored and are more likely to believe you are being ignored. If you were clingy you'd be the opposite and spam 'em up and whatnot and be annoying.
Try believing that no one's ignoring you instead of the opposite. Keep telling it to yourself in times of distress.
>>17350732
you are clearly underage
First:delete your facebook,
second: these people that you think are ignoring you are not your friends,
third: they will never be your friends
Im a simple dude
How do i find girls to just smoke and chill, maybe fuck
The ones that wear flip flops shorts and tshirts every day are a safe bet.
think about what you are asking. its something specific. its like asking 'where do birds go so i can take pictures'.
there arent any places that advertise
>wanna smoke and chill, maybe fuck? come here to meet people like anon!'
you meet them the same way you meet everyone else.
>>17350562
Same her, without the smoking, just broke up with gf about 2 weeks ago.
I'm 21 and got rejected last weekend by a girl who was 23 (if she said she was 18 would have believed her) because I was too young, well anyway this weekend maybe gonna try 16-18+ clubs/partys.
Also tinder sucks, maybe need some better photos, but jeez, talked to this only one girl and I was even nice. She fucking deleted me after one day. Btw she wasn't even that pretty.
Next time I'm gonna fucking ask wtf they want to get out of tinder before putting work into a conversation.
Pic related, other match I got, prob too hot for me tho. Should I try it? I expect nothing. Description is also meh.
Ever since playing the game Final Fantasy X, I have fallen in love with the character's name Chappu, the younger deceased brother of Blitzball player Wakka.
I love the sound of it, I love it so much in fact that I'm considering naming my first born son Chappu.
Is Chappu a real name? I mean have any of you ever met a Chappu before? Of what origin is it? And what do you think of the name?
that's
horrible
.
>>17350558
HA HA HA HA. HA HA HA HA
>>17350558
I guess if he didn't like it, he could just go by Chap or something.
GL with the having kids thing though.
Hey, /adv/. The other day I flew across the country to Seattle to visit my girlfriend. She broke up with me the first day and now I'm stuck here feeling pretty shitty with no plans. Anyone have any suggestions on things to do while I'm in Seattle?
Pic unrelated. Had nothing else.
kek, she did u dirty mate
Wanna get a coffee? What part of Seattle
>>17350555
Make sure to call her a dumb cunt!
If you're in to bars and stuff go there, make some friends and take a selfie to make the cunt jealous
also get coffee with >>17350814
What is this empty feeling, /adv/? I remember around first grade or so is when I began to feel it - sometimes at night, when I would go to bed, I'd just feel like I forgot to do something important.
I'd go over everything I did that day, and wouldn't be able to think of anything else I wanted to do. But the feeling would still be there, like some kind of emptiness in my chest. I would be restless and uneasy, and have trouble falling asleep. But the next morning, I will have totally forgotten about it.
I couldn't figure out where the feeling came from, and as time went on, I got better and better at ignoring it. Now I'm 18 and I only just realized I still feel exactly the same as I did back then. It's like something is missing, like I'm forgetting something, but I don't know what it is. During the day, all the distractions take my mind off the feeling, but if I get a quiet moment here or there, it shows itself again.
Is this still the ongoing babby's first existential crisis that started in first grade? Is this something every human feels? Am I depressed? Do I need to find some kind of purpose in life? Or, will this feeling eventually go away on its own?
I don't know. Can anyone else relate to feeling this way? Did you ever figure out the cause?
>>17350537
Let me know when you find out OP...
>>17350901
Okay
>>17350537
Have you tried hydrating yourself ? I've read that you get the feeling you forgot something when you're thirsty/don't drink enough.
How can I stay within a 500 calories a day diet for a month without cracking or cheating?
I've been eating a lot of carrots and drinking a lot of coffee and tea, but I don't know for how long I can keep it up successfully. I currently feel fine and I've been doing it for 4 days. Any advice?
Stop wrecking your health and undermining yourself. I know this probably won't make an impact on you but I'm not going to advise someone on fucking their body over, with potentially very long term consequences.
>>17350251
>pro-ana
sexy as fuck TBQH fampai. Poast thighs and stomach.
>>17350251
500 calories a day isn't enough to sustain your body in the long term. A 1 year old child requires 900/day and an 18 year old female that is 5ft 6 inches that weighs 114 pounds requires 1550 to maintain their weight.
What is the least painful method of suicide, when you don't have an access to guns or hardcore drugs, don't want to do it on someone's workplace (train etc.) or don't want people picking up bits and pieces of yourself? Asking for a friend of course.
>>17350101
Did the survivors fill in the agony rate?
>>17350101
Didn't know OD'ing wasn't all that painful. Thank you, I'll pass this on to her. Good thing she owns a pile of Valium, amiright?
Hello /adv/
I know objectively that I am an unattractive woman. I have accepted that. Although I am in shape, I'm still ugly and I'm not out to have that sugar coated.
It's work I struggle with the most, yeah I'm lonely, yeah I've kind of given up on love but I still can find things worth enjoying in my life outside of relationships.
My workdays are living hell though. I work in operating theaters as a medical professional. Surgeons can be aggressive and explosive as it is anyway, but I cop it the worst out of my department by far and it's because of how I look. I know I am good at my job but I'm not given a chance because as one of my coworkers so kindly put it today when I was saying how one of the surgeons acted to me yesterday "... He likes pretty girls... It doesn't matter how good at your job you are, unless you have blonde hair and big tits, he will be like this."
Any fellow unattractive females here who experience similar? Any ideas how to make life less hellish at work?
>>17349773
Fucking shit you are a woman you don't need to be attractive to make friends
If you want fuck just be slutty
Stop blaming all your problems on not being attractive, when it probably has nothing to do with it, more likely a confidence thing.
If you're in shape like you say I can't see you being that bad.
You know /adv will ask for pictures, so you might as well OP
hey /adv/ brokeup with girlfriend 2 weeks ago and it hasn't been easy. Can i please get some advice on how to get over my ex, im already currently seeing other women fyi.
Make a schedule for your day to day activities and shit so you don't have time to sit around and wallow in self pity. Allocate a chunk of your day to exercise (this'll help with feeling less depressed, promise). Immerse yourself in hobbies etc.
Gotta give it time, but the above will help.
>>17349751
>im already currently seeing other women fyi
anon you want those women to be a rebound? if that's ok with you then go ahead but for me you should just give more time to yourself maybe playing vidya games and be engrossed by it will help?
>>17349751
Go to work, do things that you like, hang out with your male friends.
Those of you who know you have herpes, do you tell sex partners?
Do you differentiate between casual sex and long term parters?
I'm vert conflicted when it comes this, on one hand I feel I shoud tell, on the other, I don't want to be treated like a leper for a minor disease that 80-90% og the population has orally...
Nah, everyone will have it eventually.
>>17349718
Well HSV1 causes coldsores, it doesn't cause discharge, pain while urinating, or disgusting genital warts (unless it progresses into HSV2)- hence the stigma. 90% of Americans may have Herpes, but only 25% of Americans have HSV2.
Word of warning; if you are currently medicating yourself for Herpes and don't disclose to your partner and infect them, they can sue you. ALWAYS inform your partners and don't be like the asshole who gave it to you. You can still contract Herpes even if you wear protection, wearing a condom sometimes isn't enough so your partner should be given the risky choice.
Don't be so fucking selfish just because you want to get laid, it perpetuates spreading the disease that you wish you didn't have.
Don't tell it to casual partners, just make sure to always use a condom and stay away when you have anything remotely resembling an outbreak.
Tell it to long term partners. Condoms aren't 100% foolproof and you should respect them enough to allow them to make an informed decision about whether they want to take that risk.
This is what happened
>Just got dumped up with my girlfriend
>went to party
>see fat girl, sorta cute, looked upset and shy.
>approach her, she shies away.
>ask if shes alright
>she appologizes, awkwardly says cute guys don't usually talk to her.
>a little taken aback by this
>we chat a bit... leave the party
>go back to her place
>shelves upon shelves of old video games in her apartment, posters all over the walls.
>chat a bit, drink with her and her roommate.
>few hours pass, her and her roommate are making out in front of me.
>start taking turns making out with me.
>threesome ensues
>the next morning, I'm woken up by them taking turns sucking me...
>Both give me their cell phone numbers.
>tell me they're bisexual and looking for a boyfriend to share.
>get back home after second threesome.
>open facebook
>ex girlfriend wants me back, tells me she made a mistake.
What do I do? I love my girlfriend, I was going to propose to her before she dumped me, but these two fat girls were a lot of fun, I just don't know them well... they seem pretty chill.
Why did your girlfriend dump you?
if your girlfirend isnt fat and/or cute, then get back with her, but lol dont marry her. dumbass move to do now.
>>17349715
she said she was unfulfilled in our relationship, that I have no ambition, that I'm stagnate and content living in a tiny apartment and working my shitty job. She wants someone who wants to accomplish things and is tired of having to deal with how little I can afford to do.
My friend also said she was seen with another guy the day she dumped me.
so my gf tonight waked me up at fucking 4am and told me to go home (i was at her place), for no fucking reason, this morning she kind of apologized(didnt said she was sorry but said she didnt want to do it), we are in a pretty bad situation, weargue a lot and shit.
this fucking thing was fucked up, i woulnd even think of waking up my so in the middle of the night to make her leave.
what the fuck, considering dumping her, what would you do adv?
Just break up already. You two are the epitomy of "polishing a turd"
I would ask her to sit down somewhere and talk about whether she just had a delusional half-asleep incident of massive irrational paranoia.
Or maybe you told her something awful in your sleep, who knows?
You guys got stuff to talk about anyway, but don't ask us to make any decision for you. Perhaps premeditating on options other than breaking up will give you some perspective.
>>17349431
so I nod off and gf shakes me awake about 1:30 am to leave right now and she's really, really nervous. Dragging ass around trying to get my clothes on and shit and hear knock at the door, she freaks and whispers don't open the door. WTF. She wants me to leave real quick but someone knocks at the door but now she wants me to be quiet and not go to the door? I tiptoe towards the door and she is now trying to hold me back but I look out the peephole and see some good looking guy. He keeps knocking, I keep peeping and gf pacing until the dude takes his phone out punch in a text and my gf jumps when her phone signals receipt. WTF. I spin on her, snatch the phone and read the guy telling her to open up he's outside. I open up, he looks shocked and blurts out I was supposed to be gone already. This piece of shit gf of mine had gotten a booty call from this guy and she was trying to push me out the door but he was closer to her apartment than she expected.
>decided to snoop
>opened up his laptop
>found bestiality porn said to myself I wanna break up
>realized I'm pregnant with his twins
>freaked out and decided to come to /adv/ for help
What was the porn specifically?
>>17349321
its not that bad really.
>>17349321
>Bestiality porn
Look. It's weird, and not my cup of tea either. However, look at it another way. At least it's not childporn.
who /rapedorsexuallyabused/ here?
its weird growing up. you think you'll be normal and nothing bad will happen and then one day when your 23 you have a panic attack at work and all the memories of what he did to me start flooding back.
>>17349097
Stop playing the victim, we both know you fucking deserved it.
>>17349236
Hey
That's mean
>>17349097
Tell us your story
