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About a year and a half ago.
>Dated on and off for 8 months
>First four months went great. Cloud Nine.
>She admitted to having feelings for me, but told me she's just really shy, which I could tell that from miles away how shy she is.
>Didn't do anything past hugging her. Wanted to kiss her so many times, but didn't feel right when she still was visibly awkward around hugging me. I'm still the only guy she's even been on a...
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>>17352547
Fuck another grill. That'll solve it all
Or better, bounce to someone else in a similar position as you (not someone who's looking for a relationship - that's disrespectful)
Best thing I did after breaking off a two year relationship was find someone else in a similar position and fuck each other to sleep every other night until we'd got over our respective ex's. Texting and phoning etc helps that side of the withdrawal, but somewhat blurs boundaries
Jesus Anon, you were...
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Bumping for any other opinions?
>>17352547
it might be better to just get it off of your chest with her, but accept that she isn't going to be your only GF and that ultimately you shouldn't worry about her and move on.
I am about to go out with this 18 years old girl . She is into me and i like her to but iam 26 year's old and iam kinda scared that is to much age difference for dating someone. Iam talking abouth social accaptance . is it socially acceptable to date someone at this age and with this difference?
>>17352540
Socially acceptable? To some people it is, to others it's not.
But the real question is: why would you want to date an 18 year old? If you have enough in common to have a relationship right now, it probably means that either she's had to grow up super quickly, which comes with baggage, or that you're super immature for your age, which doesn't bode well for the relationship, or both.
Not to mention you're probably at completely different points in your life, which may not seem a big deal now, but will be later. She'll mature and change, like you did when you were in your late teens/early 20s. You'll begin to want to settle down, when she just wants to enjoy being in her 20s. There are far too many issues with an age gap like this at this time in your lives
>>17352540
Haters gonna hate, and you'll get all that hate.
In some cases, it's socially acceptable (eg: you're a rich politician), so just have fun.
>>17352545
I wasnt searching for 18 years old it just happened for me and her to get along and to like each other . I can seam to some people like predator or something that is my bigest social issue .And like you sead our paths will differ over next few years . I dont is there future in relationship like thath but without tryingi would never know ...
>pull into my apt. complex late every night (2:00-3:00, 11:00-1:00 recently)
>live on the outskirts of town
>omw home I like to stop by ~1/4 mile out into the forest and smoke
>be pretty paranoid person
>live by this "cat daycare"
It's pretty dope cause I can see it out the window and it's got all these cool ramps and catwalks everywhere.
The thing is one of the cats recently got hurt...
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Bump
What type of scream is it? Because there is actually a chance it is just in heat.
I have no idea what the rules would be for a place like that, but if they do accept unfixed animals at any time then it is entirely possible they have one in heat trying to get attention.
And you very well might be waking some of them up if they are already skittish/nervous, but generally a relaxed cat sleeps like a log.
If you have any more specific questions I might be able to help more, but this is about the best I can do with what you have said here.
Also, try /an/,...
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That pic kek.
Had me laughing good. In currently sitting in a waiting room for a psychiatry. Thinking about ending myself. Casual stuff.
Can't stop masturbating and watching porn, even though it is bad for me. How can I stop?
learn to jerk off in bed to your fantasies or in the shower or some shit
>>17352476
Why is it bad for you, OP?
>>17352535
w/e OP not gonna stay up all night waiting for you to answer that so:
>beating it has no correlation with acne
Acne will go away eventually because i was wrong when I thought there was correlation. Just wash your hands often and especially afterwards.
>dont want to be addicted when I get a gf
Honestly a lot of girls don't even care about their bf's jerking off as long as you don't neglect them.
>parents...
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I've edited this picture to show where I feel irritation. It's been occurring for around a year and it makes me cough. Anyone know what this is?
Do you cough more when you lie down? Maybe it's Post Nasal Drip...
Or quite possibly the cock that you have been sucking is too long for your mouth
>>17352498
I had post nasal to begin with but it did go away. It feels dry and irritated
hi all, I need some advice.
I'm very unhappy in my current relationship. The problem is, she's completely crazy. Every time I've suggested we split, she threatens to kill herself.
What the hell do I do?
>>17352420
Call her bluff and learn your lesson
Contact her friends and family. Tell them what she told you. Tell them that she is threatening to kill herself. Advice them to keep a close eye on her, to listen to her, to be there for her 24/7 if necessary and to send her to a psych ward if all things fail. Then break up with her.
>>17352420
Everyone in /adv/ is dating a psychopath these days?
my girlfriend is broken and has been treated like garbage her whole life. She doesn't like being treated like a princess. I have been raised only to treat girls like goddesses and put other people before me. She wants someone to push her around.
Aside from these issues, we love everything about each other. What can I do? She is distancing herself because I'm too nice and I'm depressed because she treats me somewhat poorly.
>>17352390
Tldr: you're a pussy doormat and she wants someone dominant
Either step up and be the man she needs or accept that she is going to cheat/leave at some point. You won't change her, and she doesn't need/want saving
>>17352390
I've had similar problems, it was mainly misunderstandings for me. While i wanted to worship my gf she seeked out something where we treat each other equally. That's because she didn't fully know how i felt about her. One night we talked for an hour without any shame or being shy. After all this time she liked where this was going and is the one leading the relationship while i partly make decisions.
>>17352404
This.
You are submissive and she...
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>>17352404
You don't get it. I'm not a pussy doormat. I just don't push her around. I avoid arguments. I apologize when I've done something wrong. I don't HIT her. Shit like this.
I was told super likes are the best thing for tinder. I.e. thats what they most respond to. So i got tinder plus which gives me 5 super likes every 12 hours.
I've downloaded happn, I used OKC.
And nothing. No likes, no matches, no conversations at all.
In real life I've asked out like 6 girls and all have said no.
I'm president of my universities music club, i play guitar, I'm studying ecology and I've managed to fake myself into becoming outgoing when before I wouldn't talk at all.
What am I doing wrong?
>>17352364
>I'm president of my universities music club, i play guitar, I'm studying ecology and I've managed to fake myself into becoming outgoing when before I wouldn't talk at all.
kek
>>17352364
Damn that's the easiest I've ever seen someone get let down. Stay friends with her at the very least, she's chill.
>>17352374
When i messaged back with "Thats fine, worth a shot, do you still wanna hang out though"
I've yet to receive a message back. That was in May
>2016
>not having free community college
literally why not?
Student Loans don't give me enough to survive on, as a Full Time Student.
After tuition costs, my student loan spending money for the year is $4,750...Even though my total bills for the year is $14928.
WHAT THE FUCK! If college money was free I'd at least have the full $9,500 that I was given for the year..Still short, but I'd find a way to come up with the extra $5,000.
In a perfect world, full time...
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>>17352363
the dumber you or most people are, the better for them since they can just talk bullshit and get your vote
Have you considered getting a job?
>inb4 excuses as to why you can't
>>17352381
I'm already taking a full 12 credit course load with three classes.
It's possible to have a part time job, but it'd be a complete nightmare - trying to balance that, while doing homework and studying for exams etc.
In other words, it shouldn't fucking be like this.
Dude I wouldn't even be in this dire situation if those cock suckers GAVE ME ENOUGH FUCKING MONEY TO SURVIVE ON FUCK!
I don't even give a fuck about student debt since RN salary will pay that back in no time
I met this girl online. We've known each other for over 6 years (we even dated when we were dumb high schoolers). Right now I am overseas at her house, staying with her family for 3 weeks. A week has gone by and she's still super shy. Is there a way to help her with this or do I have to wait it out and hope she starts a conversation at some point before I have to leave? I really like spending time with her and I don't want this time to go to waste.
Pic unrelated
I should add that she's always bright and cheerful when talking to me online and has no problem with anything there, and we've also gone on "dates" where we just get ice cream together but our walks and "dates" are full of silence unless I say something, to which she just responds with a word or two and then it's quiet again.
>>17352350
Not that much to say but just keep initiating conversations.When you start hitting stuff she knows more about she will probably start talking more.
>>17352396
I do do that, we're into the same stuff and she's pretty much a female version of me. But she still only responds with a few words.
Does making her laugh help? I'm pretty good at that
So I just caught my girlfriend cheating on me with a man.. After she claimed she was fully gay. (Im a bi woman). I saw her with him.
But it doesnt stop there. I later got ahold of her phone, she was also having shit going on with more people. 3 men and another girl. Pretty sure the girl is underage.
She doesnt know that I know. I also have no idea how to tell her that i know..
How do i tell her and all of that stuffs. I think you people might know more about twisted revenge.
>>17352343
>twisted revenge
Why not place superglue on dildo? I don't know, I havent even touched a vagina in real life and I'm 23.
Next time you give it to her with a strapon, smear some culture for a fucked up disease, preferably an STD. Stop engaging in sexual activity after that (or just break up with her) and enjoy watching her with a disease she's likely bound to get anyway.
>>17352343
If you want good revenge ideas go to /b/, it's more active and they are better at being assholes. You'll need to deliver though for sure
A friend of mine was acting a lot like she had a crush on me (texting all the time, selfies, leaving cute voice messages) despite having a boyfriend, but that's all kind of subsided lately. I really miss that because I like her too. How do I reignite her interest and get back to that?
>>17352339
>This girl I'm orbiting used to grace me with attention when her boyfriend wasn't paying attention to her, but now she's no longer including me in her attention whoring. How do I become her orbiter again?
She was keeping you as an option until she fixed her relationship or something better came along. If that's your fetish then ask her if she can again pretend to like you but not really.
Wow blunt but I guess it's true hah. Just need another perspective sometimes it seems.
My gf finally gave me the break I needed. Without getting too much in-detail we agreed I need to see other people before we can continue as a item. So here are my questions (but if you have any experience in this subject feel free to share):
1. How do I explain my gf/ex to other girls? Do most girls accept the answer "were taking a break"?
2. What if I get too attached to a girl? I do have a particular girl in mind and I'm worried I might like her more than my gf/ex
3. How do I explain the situation if confronted by friends or family? Similarly to question 1?
your gf is a cuck lmao
>>17352304
If you're seeing other people, it's a break up not a break. Breaks do not exist. You're either with someone or you're not.
>>17352304
1 and 3 you don't
2 try to do that because your relationship is obviously over once your "gf" is done getting spitroasted.
Hey /adv/
just graduated high school and I'm on my way to college. I'm really awkward and I find it hard to talk to strangers. What should I do to meet new people and all that?
Alright so here's the deal anon: nobody else in your freshman class has any friends either. They want to meet people too. AND, everyone likes it if someone else does the work for them. SO here's your mission from me: if there's a freshman weekend or whatever, whatever you do, WHATEVER IT IS, you ALWAYS invite people to come with you. Second part of your mission is to try to explore as much of campus as possible. So: "Hey, I was going to go check out the library, want to come?" "Hey, do you want to go try to find the gym?" "Who wants to...
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aids, hara-kiri, singularity
>>17352287
Be not awkward but relaxed and just kind of....even tempered.
Any logical reason why someone would suddenly just be fucking hungry for no reason?
It's 10 am, I ate the entire kitchen and 2/3rds of the living room for breakfast, and I'm starting to feel lightheaded again.
You're thirsty. Drink some water. Pro-ana has spoken
>>17352275
a-anon sama , y-your p-p-pregnant!
>>17352275
>any logical reasons
>for no reason
What exactly do you expect us to tell you.
