>>16469755
Wait, you're breaking up with her because she is poor? I mean, I know that gold diggers are a thing and everyone should be kinda worried, but are you sure this girl is like that?

If she is, send her packing; if she isn't, you might regret it.

>>16469769
We are together for 2.5 years now, she broke up once after 1.5 years and we were split for 3 month but got back together.

I am since a month or so on the edge of breaking up, because she is treating me, like an enemy. She trys not to show any weakness against me and everything I wanna talk about to improve is just criticism in her eyes or me trying to hurt/insult her. She has a reservation on the victim role in our relationship aswell. When I told her, I am close to breaking up with her about that, she switches...
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>>16469872
oh yeah and
the last things she is starting with is "I will not let you go" "Dont be another guy that lets me down" "dont set any timeframe or I feel preasured" "can we still move in together?"

call kebab removal agency to temove syrian kebab :D

Sounds like she just found an excuse to breakup with you.

Either 1. it will pass and she will start to feel better or 2. she leaves.

It might be a good idea to get used to her not being around and start looking for another girlfriend.

>>16469753
You know, this is a difficult issue.

You should do whatever you want, but at the same time, if it really makes her that uncomfortable, and she's not just trying to put you in orbit, then you should listen and work with her until she feels more comfortable.

Why not tell her you don't travel that much any more?

Just tell her you can't for whatever reason. Make something up on the spot. Tell her you have to spend the night brushing your cat's teeth or something.

You don't have to explain yourself for not being attracted to someone, and you are by no means obligated to find someone attractive forever. Especially if they stop caring about themselves.

>>16469754
Well, I'd still like to see her, maybe grab dinner or a couple drinks, or have a smoke or whatever. I still enjoy her company, I just don't want to be a customer anymore.

tumblr

You don't. Asexuality in women doesn't exist.

>>16469734
Are you kidding? Tumblr is full of angry fat chicks who are so angry nobody finds them doable that they make up stupid bullshit to feel better about themselves.

Jesus Christ, anon, how gullible are you?

>>16469642
You been perving on 13 year old girls again OP?

Lol she's 21. Sorry I'm paranoid.

>>16469637
She's not into you. Move on or suffer the million deaths that is a broken heart.

>>16469637
You know the answer already. How could you not know the right thing to do here?
>admit you were beta orbiting
>know she has no interest in you
>straight up rejected you
>durr guise shud i juz give it up or do i hav chance still hurr

Come on, this is real life time, now. Use your gut instinct and not your desperate hopes of somehow, some way, winning her over

help me adv
>meet qt christian
>6/10
>beta as SHIT when we first met
>had to learn a dance and i said i cant just touch females because beta
>did it anyways
>beta and kind for 1.5 years of being her friend
>compliment while trying to lowkey flirt sometimes
>she has sent her ass in leggings but scribbled over her cleavage when...
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Your parents have been paying for you literally your entire life. The least you could do is pay at least part of it back.

>>16469583

pay for the groceries, not your brother. Your brother should have all his shit taken care of, otherwise he needs to get a part time job.
You SHOULD however, help around the house. It won't bleed you out to put $50, $100 towards food or groceries even on a minimum wage paycheck.

>>16469593
Sure, sure I get that. I understand that and made it clear I've no problem doing so. Just let me save up a bit for MYSELF first. Given how much my old man, it's like money is THAT much of an issue...but I guess that's not the point here.

>>16469518

if you're not already using make up, don't, it's not worth it imo. I wish my mother and sisters hadn't introduced it to me, maybe I'd feel more comfortable leaving the house without it
>it would have been nice if I hadn't been bullied for having acne either, cest la vie

just improve your general skin quality, do your hair better, work out a little and be a bit more fashionable. The rest is just charm to be honest family

>>16469527
you know they're a tranny right

make up wont fix that shit up

>>16469518
Yes, you should start using deceptive war paint.

It will allow you to deceive young attractive men into your dungeon of pleasure who otherwise wouldn't be interested.

It may also lift your spirits when you look in the mirror and realize you can't see your own hideous face.

maybe your message went into her spam box ?

Uh, more details? Did you take her out on a date or something?

>>16469498

OP here

We were havign a conversation about her graduating and me too, I invited her out on that same convo but she never replied again

>>16469307
Don't drop out now. Finish the semester since you've already paid/owe them money for it, then do it. That way, at least you'll have credits/points to show for it and you'll be able to go back when you can afford it or credit them to another degree if you choose to do something else. Also, if you have less than a year to go after this semester, then I reckon you just soldier on and get the degree

>>16469313
Thanks Anon. This makes a lot of sense. Unfortunately I have 2 more years to go, so I probably won't be back for a while.

>>16469387
>going to be a junior soon

Fucker, nows the time to start knocking down everybodys door for paid internships,

I just pray your lazy ass has some kind of portfolio/ work history or business contacts so you dont come up empty handed

Lengthy Skype calls with a group of friends.

>>16469287
How do you get skype to work? It's been out for some months now, it always says it wants to update but every time I try to update there's some error, and for some reason I can't even delete the program despite of not being able to use it.

You should keep yourself busy by living.

Death can take you when you're done

>>16469236
Be amazing at being amazing.

How long since you broke up, and why?
How long have they been together?
Anything else I need to know?

Yąnomamö chest-pounding duels. Stand a pace apart from her boyfriend. Hit his chest with a closed fist as hard as you can, several times, then switch places and let him do the same. Repeat until one of you surrenders or has a heart attack. If you win, the raw display of masculinity will ensure reproductive success with your ex. If you lose, the humiliation will ensure you will never have sex again.

You might also want to consider a club fight. Take two branches and take turns beating each other over the head with them. Pros: the raw display of masculinity will ensure...
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>>16469236
Why would you want her back?

My gf cheated on me and went for another guy after 12 years. You know what I did? I found another gf with blond hair and blue eyes and 10kg lighter than my ex. Also bought 7 series BMW and completely overhauled my life and now my ex is butthurt

>>16469205
So do you hate your roommate or what?
You need some time alone with your roommate and talk about this situation.


You sound like a egotistical slightly alcoholic person OP.

looks like a desperate whore

red flag

If she cheats on this guy, she can easily cheat on you.

Your call, alcoholic OP.

Be attractive.
Don't be unattractive.
Make girls smile.
Never waste time being "tactical." Pick an approach and stick to it universally.

>>16469165
How soon should I ask to meet them then? Seems like everything falls apart once I do ask to meet up. I have to be doing something wrong.

>>16469169
It depends on the approach you chose in #4. If you want your approach to be "we meet tonight," good on you. You push to meet that night. If you want your approach to be "weekend, proper date" then that's what you push for. Equally valid.

The point is consistency. Don't think that failure means you're doing something wrong. Failure means that you had bad fortune; your approach was incompatible with the girl. Did you do something wrong if you roll a die and the wrong number...
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>>16469097
Tell him: "fuck me hard and cum into me"

That'll make him love you more

Tell him it bothers you. You should keep open dialogue.

If he doesn't understand why it would bother you, ask him how he would feel if you did the same things she was doing to another guy. Easy. No double standards shit.

If he responds poorly, bail out because it'll only be a matter of time before she wants to "re-enact a scene" and they're both the leading roles.

Well, he didn't really do anything wrong. I mean it isn't pleasant topics and I can see why you'd be irritated but that could have all easily been joking, you weren't there. And even if she was hitting on him, I don't think he was hitting on her back. Especially if he told you all about the exchange.

And anyway being mad and insecure is incredibly unattractive. A more reasonable and positive reaction would be to tell him honestly that it sounds like she was hitting on him in kind of a playful way and tell him you'll just have to fuck him...
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