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Hello /adv/, i have a girlfriend of one year (1st in my life) and recently im starting to have thoughts of breaking up with her to get a better looking girlfriend.
My gf body and face is nothing special, 5/10 tops. Also, she doesnt care about her body very well (nipple hair longer than mine, some times have facial hair... Etc), her excuse is that she can only get rid of it by doing laser in aestheticist (sp?). She also doesnt have a sense of fashion, dresses mediocratly.
The problem here, is that she have a 9/10 personality. She is very kind to me, treats me like a prince...
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>>16464189
All women get ugly as they get older, but her personality is less likely to change. If you're thinking long term keep her, all those problems can be fixed easily
>>16464200
She is also a flat chest. Is that a problem that can be fixed easily? No, its not.
>>16464235
Personal taste mate, I love flat chests, but my gf isn't sexually active at all......
As of your problem, you should think about consequences, you may end up alone or with someone with terrible personality, making you regret your decision
So, if her physical beauty really bothers you, you can try to give her some fashion advice, try to change her (she's cute and has potential) or dump her
It's up to you
I am dying of cancer and just wrote my obituary. What do folks think?
The best part of dying from ball cancer is the number of jokes that can be made.
I was born on April 18, 1984 at SGH I packed a lot of living into my thirty one years. I was a graduate of Academy, Harvard University, and the School of Law. I lived in New York City, Los Angeles, six months in London but always considered home to be Pennsylvania. I was in love once or twice, but died single. I published a book of poetry and about sixty poems.
I am survived by my two sisters, M and C,...
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>>16463926
Everybody will cry for you. It's a sad letter.
>>16463926
Its nice mate. A good later. It'll be sad to see you go but you did what you could. I don't know you but I'd give you a brofist and a hug for what you've done and the way you're tackling this.
That's a good letter.
How old is your niece?
Hi there, guys!
I've always been an okay guy type, had some physical activity, enjoyed sports.
But recently I've struggled with a new job that requires me to sit all day along, so I slowly gain weight.
And you know what? I enjoy it!
And I want to gain as quickly as I can, I feel comfortable that way.
Any tips and tricks on how to become fat ASAP?
East a lot and don't move.
Foods that contain both fat and sugar, like ice cream, will make you gain weight easily.
I think pictures like that are so hot. Meh looking guys with meh looking bulges. I don't know, like a fantasy that they would feel privileged to fuck me even though that makes me sound like an asshole.
I'm actually looking for any life hacks, maybe even extreme, to gain as much as possible in a short period of time.
I am father to 3 great kids in a quiet suburban neighborhood in Washington state. My youngest son is now 12 years old and raising him has been nothing short of a delight so far. He has always been a very kind and thoughtful child, and we have the least trouble communicating with him and disciplining him when he occasionally slips up. As far as I know, he loves his mother and me very much.
Recently he's taken an interest in hip hop, which I've supported even though sometimes the content of the music makes me nervous. For the first few months, I tolerated his new taste in music and we even listened to a few albums together. He explained some of the misogynistic and violent content to me as a real reflection of life in low income black neighborhoods, and I understood that he gets value out of the music without necessarily emulating it.
However, very recently he's apparently started to emulate it. The first problem we had with him was his apparent willingness to use the "n-word" to address me and his siblings. I made it clear to him that it was unacceptable and he stopped.
Last week, apparently a switch flipped in his brain. He will not stop shouting incredibly rude phrases, some of which I never even knew existed. Some of them are extremely vulgar. When I asked him about these new phrases, he said "It's ATL rap dad". He is grounded but he will not stop and he's started to sneak out of the house. I saw him one night very dazed, and I am worried he is getting high on marijuana.
When I try to talk to him about what's going on, he responds with "Fuck n---a wanna talk it out, fuck n---a I ain't talking out". He also randomly intersperses the exclamations, "chee" and "skirr" into his speech, as well as using the n-word constantly. He once referred to and mother as "junkyard ho lookin for a comeup by makin you cum up". His wardrobe has completely changed. He is playing video games in his room right now, and when I asked him to do with schoolwork, he apparently ignored me.
I dunno, man..
Gift him a good rap album? So he at least doesn't listen to degenerate nigger shit?
Something like J Cole Forest Hills Drive or Big Krit Cadillactica?
tell him if he doesnt stop you're putting him on a curfew and taking away his privileges.
OR, introduce him to rap thats not garbage, misogynistic crap
I came back later and sternly told him to do his homework, to which he responded, "Still in that place, and I'm flexin!" I looked that up and apparently it's from the song "U Guessed It" by OG Maco.
I want to support my son's interest, and I understand that exposing him to minority culture is critical for him to grow up to be tolerant and appreciative of cultural diversity. This is especially relevant given the Yale controversy that's been discussed in the news lately. I don't want him to grow up with an exclusionary mindset,...
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Say it
Drunk under a bridge listening to Mischief Brew. I want to take a train out of here right now
Why we're you pushing me away? Why can't you tell me? You know why, you tell me you know! Fucking tell me! I think you're too afraid to tell the truth. That's why I crossed the line and came to your place Tuesday. I think you wanted me to be the bad guy because you're too much of a fucking coward to actually say it yourself.
Fuck you! We were together for 7 months! I thought you were better than that.
>>16461873
I wish I had less expensive taste in weaponry
Why is abstaining from sex until marriage a stupid idea?
>>16461240
Because you might miss out on valuable life experience before you commit to someone for the rest of your life.
>>16461240
marriage is a broken institution in this day and age in the 1st world
>>16461240
because women are sluts and will fuck 30 men while you waited for no reason
