>>16464794
(Continue) I'm 26, I have my own place and a well paid job. However, I feel like my life is still falling apart. I worry for my future in regards to women.

Please give advice on to switch off from women.

>>16464805
>I have my own place and a well paid job.

I thought that was all you needed. Fuck now I'm worried...

Would really appreciate any insight or anything, if anyone here was in a relationship where they told the other they loved them unconditionally, and then when they broke up they never messaged that person again.
Is it because you want to move on?
Is it hard to be friends?
Or do you simply get bored or annoyed talking to them?

It just hurts thinking shell think of me randomly and just think "meh" and do something else.

Bump ok maybe i shouldnt be trying to think whats in her head
But how the fuck do i move on
I cant tinder for shit and im shy, meeting a girl like her was a once in a 5 year thing for me, yet she most likely is with some guy... And i was her first boyfriend...

Fuck it. Cant delete the post but.. Was wondering if i should message her to try and get more closure. I wont. Fuck it. I called a buddy to go to his place and hang out and watch football (i dont like football but they do). Time to get my mind off things.

>>16461546
On a positive note, girls are attracted to you.

How to get women to want you? Easy if what you say is true: play on their jealousy.

Go out with these girls that are attracted to you, and make sure you're seen by these girls you're attracted to.

Won't always work, but girls are such jealous little things that want what they can't have.

>>16461546
>women I show my attraction and passion for act uninterested and unaroused around me
You might be doing something very unattractive in your quest to display your affection. There is an effective and ineffective way to show interest with women.
>women I try to friendzone are fucking attracted to me and make efforts to talk to me
Because you're a challenge. Women like to work for shit for no reason otherwise they don't feel invested. Also...
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There's been multiple studies showing women prefer aloof men.

The reasons are many. Women naturally filter out men who aren't desired by other women.

We're different. Men love it women are receptive and forward in their advances.

Women love it when guys don't care and act like they can have any woman they want. They don't wanna be "special" to you.

Bummer. I'm joining the Army but I'm really worried my family (mother/father/sister) is going to fall apart without my presence.

Good, but I'm scared of getting older / dying.

The thought of just disappearing completely one day is terrifying because I am an utter control freak, and this is the ultimate loss of control.

The worst part is that I'm only 25, but this fear hits me like a crippling boulder nearly every single night.

I think I have OCD / depression / anxiety but I'm too nervous to seek professional help.

How are you?

Not well. I am only 21 just finished college with a 3.9 GPA worked hard and now I am getting engaged to my boyfriend in the airforce and throwing away my chances in the career I went to school for. I feel like my life is over at such a young age. The area I am moving to is rural and there is no hope for me I will end up doing a job that goes against my values more than likely doing adminstration being a dumb bimbo doing nothing with my life.

>>16465872
Because you're a kek.

>>16465876

Quite the opposite. She cheated on her bf with me

Going out fishing then suddenly a whale appears so you abandon the little fish and go after the whale.

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>>16465594

I'd be happy

Nothing better than a cute girl with a feminine dick

Honestly, I've never ever been shown proof that there are convincing MtFs. They either look obviously off or like very fake women, who I'm not attracted to in the first place. So I don't see that happening in the first place.

>>16465602
As much as I can understand your thinking, that wasn't the what I would like to know.

There are convincing MtFs. They are so convincing you'd not even think they are MtFs until they tell you.

Just got to meet one myself, she started her hormones when she was 15 years old, apparently.

>>16465554
>have been told by many teachers I have a unique style
That's their way of saying you're shit without actually saying you're shit

Also what hardships did any artists face?

>>16465562
I've also been told I have very good technical skill.Being original And unique is better than being technically skilled imo. I not saying technical skill is not a bad thing tho.

>>16465412
what did you do exactly?

>I also don't want to lose any friends who might hear about it and decide I'm a scumbag

You are a scumbag if you assaulted her, that's not up the discussion

>>16465412
>if
Of course you fucking apologise to her you shitbag

>>16465419
There was this dance floor set up in the basement of the house, and I was dancing in a circle with some friends. She was next to me, and at one point I thought she started rubbing up on me, so I put my hand on her hip to start dancing with her. She immediately pulled it off and walked away.

>>16465153
>somewhat godlike athletic build

haha good god homie thats the funniest thing ive read all morning.

Okay, well communication is key mate. If this girl enjoys your company she should have no problem talking with you about what she wants you to do to her. Have some heavy foreplay, really really build up before you finally get to the actual lay.

My suggestion would probably be to share some wine, get a bit more comfortable and then proceed from there. The best sex I ever had with my ex was when we really drew it out and had some fun with different positions and form.

>>16465210

this is the internet, its implied everything's going to be over exagerated a bit. not lying this time, though. no, i wont post pic to proove you otherwise because it would be off topic, and i'm certain people around me lurk this site too and i don't want to spoil my anonymity

as for the advise, as much as i thank you for it, could you give some more hints on what to do and what not to do? or how to work out nerves? think of me as a virgin fag

>>16465260
aight well again, communication m'dawg! ask her whats shes into.

as for your nerves, try to not put the girl so high on the pedestal. Show confidence. Instead of saying "what would you like to get up to tonight?" tell her "lets me and you have drinks over a movie ;)." Get to be a guy that takes initiative.

I know this is hard but, as I said before, take it slow and enjoy it. Connection comes from knowing what you both want. Remind yourself shes a normal person with fears and...
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It's over, just leave dude.

You already got your dick wet, don't take this any further unless you wanna poor more gasoline on the inferno that will be the pain of your first break up.

End it now.

She's lying. Move on.

>>16465056
>I was recording a video on her phone and afterwards wanted to see how it turned out (as you do)
You asked for it the fuck you were doing on her phone anyhow.

>>16465024
Fuck that cunt. You are just a back up in case all the other dicks she has tasted are a bit more salty.
What better at uni than having a back up. Seriously man fuck that bitch be fucking free.

Continue as if her last text didn't happen. Consider it a shit test.

Ask when is she free to <insert do something fun>

See what happens.

>>16465036
This girl has literally never had a boyfriend. Shes obssessed with schoolwork. She hadn't even kissed anyone until we went out those years ago. She hasn't been with anyone since.

>>16465048
Should I ask her if she wants to go out or just tell her I'm taking her out and maybe seem more confident?

>Is this normal?
Yeah but if you actually act on it then you are taking steps back instead of forward.

>>16464925
what do you mean?

>>16464927
>I often dream we are getting back together
If you chase up your ex boyfriend you will be back here complaining about how a dream has made you more miserable.
>It's been 4 years for god sake just let go.

>>16464867
Don't go too fast with anything, or rough. Unless she's asking of course.

Kiss slowly at first, use your lips a lot. Some girls like a lot of tongue, while others don't care for it so it's usually best, after you've been lip kissing for a bit, to just lick her lips a little, or gently press your tongue against her lips as your kissing. If she opens her mouth, play with her tongue gently but don't shove your whole tongue in her mouth. A lot of people don't like that on a first...
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>>16464867
Ignore
>>16464883(inexperienced)

Prep before sex:
>jerk off -last longer
>eat a lot of carbs-more stamina
>eat dark chocolate -better erection
When you kiss her do not try to force tongue right away taste her mouth first and suck on her lips. Try to start this while standing up and as you are kissing her grope her ass make sure you get your hand under her ass where it curves in at the bottom and play with it. This is a very sensitive spot for women and will make her very wet. You can start to kiss her neck lightly now and gauge her reaction. Make sure not to grope her too hard in the moment of lust. As you kiss her neck use your natural hornyness and maybe maybe take a light bite and go back to kissing her.
During this kissing phase after you have gotten her super wet start to play with her pussy. It helps if you washed your hands before hand and have short fingernails. This part is very important since it will give you an idea on how to give her a proper orgasm. First touch her pussy from outside her clothes. She may push you away when you try to get in but don't worry as long as she seems comfy and not bothered it's part of the game. Once you get actually in her pants (remember to keep kissing her though out this phase) start to explore her pussy with one finger. Curve that finger up ward(or down ward depending on the pussy) and look for a small bump inside you will know you found it because she will react very strongly when you paly with it. This is the womans g-spot remember where it is when you are fucking and you can make her come without a doubt.
Once you have explored the pussy and are comfortable with pussy play you can not go on to the main even unless you would like to foreplay more .
If she is a virgin make sue you don't act too wild if she has had sex before you can kinda just go in. Don't forget the condom while you fuck make sure that you remeber where her g-spot is and fuck her accordingly. cont..

Its your first
Relax youl know what to do

You're gay. Sorrry to break it to u man

>>16464866
Nigga I fucking wish it was that easy.

>>16464825
>I have fucking E.D. at 22 years old
well it's game over man sorry.

Help a kek out senpai

Do you have low self-esteem or wonder why your girlfriend would possibly pick you out of all the other guys who are "better" than you?

Or do you say you trust her but deep down actually don't?

>>16464799

Paranoia sucks m8, you have to make therapy or break up with her, this only get worse with time and will consume you.