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I've been having erectile dysfunction, and recently i've stopped getting horny from porn. I can look at porn for hours and hardly feel anything at all.
I got an apointment with the doctor in august.
Should i be worried?
Im 28.
>>17326795
depression, over exposure to porn, mix of both. That's usually the culprit, if not then it's a heart problem.
>>17326795
could be low test.
instead of watching porn for hours you should try interacting with women in a physical setting.
>>17326858
I have, and even though i enjoy it, i don't get boners from it.
It's pretty weird if it was low test, because im not exactly weak and i have lots of body hair.
How can I differentiate between "not interested" and "playing hard to get"?
>>17326791
one will get a restraining order
>>17326791
Just don't. Fuck that shit.
If girls want to play stupid immature games, they can find some other sucker.
body language
What the fuck just happened?
My sister is 3 years older than me and has since I was 14 teased me sexually. She would grab my ass or kiss me on the cheek and neck all the time. She would also often talk about having sex with family members out of nowhere. I would most of the times just ignore it or change subject because it made me uncomfortable. Now I am 20 and I live alone. My family including her, came for my birthday. It has been 2 years since I law saw her as she was studying in Germany. She seemed normal at first when she got there, we hugged and nothing else. When everyone left she and we were the only people left. I asked what she was doing now and she told me she would be going back to Germany since she was offered work. I went to the bathroom to pee and when I got back she was standing right outside. As I walked by she grabbed my ass again, I just looked weird at her and again ignored it. I was watching TV when I heard her moaning in the bathroom. I didn't know what to do but she made me horny. When she got out and walked by me I grabbed her ass like she does to me, and she started screaming as if she was about to die. She called me a freak and ran out the door crying.
This happened 1 hour ago, what do I do? I have tried calling her but she is ignoring me.
>>17326775
>This happened 1 hour ago, what do I do?
You do nothing.
If she pull this story out n front of your family, you tell everything.
Actually, I have a better ideia: tell her to get on knees and suck you, if she don't do it, you will tell everyone how she molested you since 14.
>>17326775
Fek and geh
>>17326814
She isn't even attractive at all. But I guess I could just ignore it and if she should tell, I can tell the story.
Is it possible to get prescribed this shit? I have a really bad sore throat every night for almost my entire life (especially in the winter) I've constantly woken up probably 2 or 3 times a night and I would just pound water until the glass is empty and go back to sleep.
When I was younger I used to sleep with sore throat spray next to my bed and it didn't work fully but usually just enough for me to pass out again.
>>17326750
Yes, if your doctor isn't a total douchebag, just straight up ask him for it. My doctor prescribes it every single time I ask, and that is any time I have a sore throat/cough.
All of that depends on your relationship with your doctor and if you have a history of "seeking" with him.
>>17326750
yes, its pretty easy, however you arent going to get a lifetime supply of this shit. the bottles dont last long either, so its not ideal to use this. have you considered finding out why your throat burns like mother fucker?
is the air dry where you live? that + breathing out your mouth could make your throat dry and burny. how do you fix this? get a humidifier.
do you NOT brush your teeth before bed? if you dont brush your teeth (thoroughly) before bed, the leftover food and such literally rots...
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>>17326757
He already prescribed me a controlled substance for my add but no I've never really asked for any other drugs except some eye drops and stomach pills and shit like that. Won't it look fishy as fuck though if I ask for it specifically and come in with a problem I never really complained about before. I tell him I'm always drowsy I forgot to mention I wake up 3 times a night with a sore throat.
I'm really sad
>>17326684
listen to bon jovi's 'its my life'
then jump around and get pumped
then make a list of things to do that make you happy
then go do them.
>>17326684
Listen to "The Wild -Set ourselves free" (the album). It's a happy feel good album.
Or to "Coma Cinema - Blue Suicide". It's a sad feel bad album.
I haven't kissed anyone in a while and I'm going out with a person that I like today, can someone give me some tips on how can I kiss well?
its ideal to not use tongue on the first date.
>>17326656
When you're doing the lip lock (your lips are surrounding their bottom or top lip) make sure you bite and tear hard at it preferably with full head motion. Lips are much more elastic than you think and your partner will love it. I swear.
>>17326698
Why?
>>17326699
Nice try.
>be me
>20m artfag
>lease is up at the end of this month
>no friends
>no money
>no credit
>no applicable work experience
wat do?
Am I going to have to join the army or something?
>>17326640
Yes.
>>17326640
go suck dick or get ur dick sucked for 100 bukcs a pop
>>17326640
Do deviantart or tumblr commissions.
> also what type of art do you do? What's your skill?
I need people to judge me and slap some sense into me.
I grew up with a disability that made me a social recluse and made people want to avoid me at all costs. This was eventually corrected with surgery, but life hasn't been easy since then and I've had to fight for every good thing in my life. I worked hard, I studied hard, I even lost all the weight I gained from comfort eating. I grew up thinking I'd die alone because of my disability, and here I am with a wonderful boyfriend who loves me despite my disability and being awkward.
And I can't...
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People don't exist to congratulate you or to slap some sense into you. Nobody cares about what you or anyone else has achieved. YOU have to convince US that what you've done is worth a shit.
>>17326628
>Nobody cares about what you or anyone else has achieved.
I disagree. Hundreds of people shared in that person's news because they were happy for what she had achieved and what was coming up in her future.
Nobody really cares about me despite me being an objectively good person. I've never hurt anyone deliberately or made someone feel bad. I give everyone the time of day which explains why I know more people than average on the autistic spectrum. I know it's...
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Look ya spaz, getting attention online doesn't mean dick. It's not going to satisfy you, i guarantee it. What you need are new friends. Sticking around in a whirlpool of borderline autismos isn't helping your social situation. Meet different people, go out to social settings, but DO NOT cheat on your boyfriend. If you flirt it up with a bunch of different guys and find you like then you'll have to make that choice between having a boyfriend or wanting to be a skank, but be warned, getting a new sausage in your oven every night probably won't make tou...
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How do I handle excruciating pain? I am going to a third world country and getting a surgery without anesthetic. It will last 30 minutes. How do I handle the pain that's said to be 8/10 on the pain scale?
what surgery are you having and why?
I don't think they allow pain killers because they thin your blood, but maybe getting a leather strap to bite would be good. Is not getting the surgery until getting a first world hospital not an option?
So I got a speeding ticket the other day in SoCal. How fucked am I as a college student who did nothing wrong.
Its my first ticket ever and im freaking the fuck out and literally have no idea what to do.
>Pic related
>>17326596
If you can, take a STOP class. You basically pay $100 to get taught how to not be a dickhead on the road and they clear the ticket for you. Doesn't report to your insurance either.
>>17326596
>socal
muh neighborino.
that being said, you're not remotely fucked dude. you'll have to pay whatever the fine is and thats literally it. its your first ticket. the government is understanding that until someone gets hurt car crimes arent real 'crimes'. you're not a criminal. your driving record isnt something employers have to know about. its not until you get a DUI or something actually happens that they begin to take things seriously.
police...
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>>17326596
Lol, it's a speeding ticket. I won't show in any record aside from your driving record, disappears in a few years, and won't even show in court dockets if you just go pay it before they have a chance to process it.
hell /adv/, i'm a 24 year old male. Just moved back home with my parents after 6 years of Med school.
I've got a pretty low self esteem because of how I look. I'm a closet atheist in a sikh family, my parents think I am a sikh and in my religion we must wear a tuban and have unshaved, untrimmed beards.
I hate the way I look and feel really ugly. What's more depressing is while I was at medical school i fell for a girl, for my 6 years I was there i did everything i could to impress her, but she was never interested. now its over and im back home...
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>>17326591
I know that the best thing todo would be to rebel against my parents, but right now I really have no reason to rebel. I always thought that maybe If i met a girl and fell in love I would grow the balls to abandon the religion I don't believe in and be able to dissapoint my parents without the guilt, but the fact is. i wasted all my energy on a girl who never cared about me
>>17326591
Take time to figure out who you are and what you want from life. This can be can be a very difficult situation because of you're family's pious nature. You shouldn't invest so much in a girl who never reciprocated. It's not healthy.
>>17326591
>>17326599
have you considered that there is a big difference between 'rebelling' and simply being the kind of person you want to be?
have you considered that you should make the changes you want to make for yourself, not for some imaginary future girlfriend?
a woman only makes you a 'better man' if ur still a 'better man' when shes not there after all.
hey /adv/
I am seeking a masculine man. Tinder surely didn't work out for me, as none of those guys have any balls what so fucking ever. I would like someone to have the courage to approach me, not incessantly message me and hide behind their phone. Grow some balls for fucks sake!
Where do masculine men hang out at? Auto body shops, motorcycle groups, car shows, foot ball games?
I am a feminine woman who wears dresses, skirts, gets my nails done, I take care of my over all hygiene. I am girly and pleasant. I would love to be embraced by masculinity,...
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>>17326586
What do you weigh? Not to be rude, this is a critical number.
>>17326590
I'm 5'3, 130 pounds. I am not over weight.
FYI I have just recently ditched wearing pants to heighten my sense of womanhood and femininity. I wear jewelry and all that. I am also growing my hair out longer, at this point its shoulder length. I have gotten some attention since then, still not from exactly the type of man I would want to be with.
>>17326602
You appear quite obsessed with being "feminine". Why?
I, personally, have a thing for short hair, practical clothes and sneakers.
How do I cope with the fact that my friends just can't party as hard as they used to anymore and rebound?
I'm just finishing up my annual beach 4th of July weekend with my friends. These are my old high school/college drinking buddies, people that used to be able to rage into what seemed like infinity.
Yesterday, most of the group didn't even drink, some left early, one slept for 15 hours. It was just four days of drinking. I know I'm an anomaly here, and I'm not mad at them or anything for not being able to keep up, but it seems like...
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Younger, 22, but used to party with two friends that could actually keep up (summer vacation was a drunken stupor, for my 21st they took me to Bangkok and you can get a tray of 50 shots for about 7$), they went off into the military and now the only other pals I can drink with get hammered off of a couple of beers or two mixed drinks. I'm finding that the only solution to the problem of having friends that just can't hang in there and play hard is to make friends that can. I met my new drinking buddies who are much older than me by spotting the heavy drinkers that...
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>>17326581
do what you want for as long as you want.
you are an anomaly, sure, but that does not make you entirely unique. while you may not be able to get those amazing nostalgic party vibes with your own friends, you can make new party memories with new friends. worse case scenario tag along with some youngins. it may sound lame but if you find the right group it can be fun.
this will take plenty of trial and error but if you really feel the need to party hard, you gotta work for it.
The obvious solution is to find a younger group of friends to do these partythings with, and have tamer get togethers with your old friends. Even if you won't resent them for not keeping up, they will probably be able to tell that you want to go harder. It is easy to become resentful of a friend who puts (even unspoken) pressure on you to go further than you want.
You can still have tons in common with them without having this need in common with them, and you can get it out of your system with other crowds. Then you won't be disappointed if a party with them...
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I haven't fucking physically spoken/hung out with someone my own age in TWO MONTHS, I just sit at my house all day jacking off, browsing the internet and playing video games. I've been looking for work but haven't had any luck, been unemployed two months now so just living that NEET life for right now. I have no friends in my town, I can't find people my own age who want to even give me the time of day or hang out with me, and most of them are probably working anyway and have no free time to devote to hanging out.
I'm 23 and a virgin weeaboo...
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tl;dr just normie things the thread.
Well after you get your job, why not go look on craigslist and see if anybody close enough is looking for a roommate. Talk to them and see if you're a good match, have similar interests and are looking for the same things, then move in with them. Boom, instant companionship. Lots of people your age are looking for people to split the rent with.
>>17326518
Anon, I'll be your friend. I'm not NEET but I'm a weaboo/nerd and I'm lonely too.
21/f/Midwest. We're probably not near by each other but we can be online friends.
If you play WoW, I'm getting back in for Legion and just started a guild. You can come play with us.
Simple question, would love to hear from someone with experience in the Computer Science field.
Is it a good idea to go with a degree in mathematics if I wish to get into software engineering. I'm afraid that the degree is over saturated and that skills given in mathematics coerces would make me a beneficial asset.
Stick with Comp Sci as your Major. Add Math as a Minor. Or if you think you can handle the workload, add Math as a second Major. That would look good on a resume.
>>17326512
CS >= Math heavy STEM >>> Rest
>>17326528
Probably won't double major, but will take Math as a minor. For sure.
>>17326536
Thanks anons
