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My girlfriend got mad and said she feels she can't trust me, all because some random girl hit on me.
I told her this because it felt good to say "sorry I have a girlfriend" to this other random girl, that was it end of story. I was waitin in town for my bro this random girl came up to me saying her friend likes me and that's when I said it.
My girl got mad and suddenly she didn't want to talk and went off to sleep.
I've basically sent her 3 messages already about how she's the only one for me but seriously, isn't...
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>>17327951
Yes, she's crazy if that's literally all that happened. Don't send her anymore messages. I'd consider that maybe she was looking for a reason to make you the bad guy because SHE'S actually guilty of something.
>>17327960
Yeah she could be projecting.
>>17327960
I dunno I'm her first boyfriend and first kiss so maybe it's just her being inexperienced and worried, I'm sure she'll be okay in the morning and that he was just tired (and having family problems too) I jut didn't think she would act like I done something wrong
I enlisted into the army reserves in October and I'm set to go to training august 1st for 8 months.
My parents volun-"told" me to go work at my uncles and clean his disgusting backyard from Tuesday to Friday. This turned into Tuesday until the next Thursday. Now my father has done things mentioned in the following pictures, not mentioned are
-going through my Skype
-attempting to go through my computer history
-slapping me consistently
-trying to gain some sort of control over me by forcing me to eat breakfast
-interrupting me when I talk...
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I'm 26 and want to start my higher-education, how can I skip community college and get straight into uni?
Let's say I have no high-school transcripts.
Welp, good luck with that OP
>>17327925
>straight to uni without any high school transcripts
There is virtually no way to make it into a uni without any academic proof of your performance in highschool.
Just go to community college for a year and take your basic classes. There's no real shortcuts for this sort of stuff and hard work is the only way to get through it. Besides those classes are virtually the same everywhere.
However before you pick your community college make sure the credits transfer...
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>>17327970
Thanks bro
Can you answer this for me please?
http://www.strawpoll.me/10675596
>>17327910
>Using strawpoll
Take a guess
>>17327910
I've also been in suicidal state; for me you need to ask yourself this.
>Are you young?
>What make you suicidal ?
>Is the thing that makes you suicidal impossible to surmount ?
>Is there a thing that you enjoy or just make you feel alive ? (example for me its /out/ that makes me feel alive)
>Have you some important thing to experience...
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>>17328041
Yes
Blah
Yes
No
Probably but not interested in anything.
If you answered the poll, Thank you.
Okay /adv/, I come to you with the usual problem most posters here face- My girlfriend and I broke up. It was messy and very abrupt- completely uncharacteristic of her. Basically, we had been seeing each other locally for a good amount of time, and then spent about 6 weeks long distance. The entire 6 weeks that we were LDR, she was nothing but excited and eager to see me again. She was always saying that she loved me and missed me and couldn't wait for me to get over to where she was.
Then, when I finally got to see her after the 6 weeks, things started to change. The...
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I was fucking floored- I'd seen the signs that she was getting more and more upset and agitated, but I had just chalked it up to her implant fucking with her emotions and the fact that her parents place is very cramped and small, and I was probably making it feel much more so- (I had booked a nearby hostel so I'd be able to give her some space, but this all happened before my scheduled time there). Either way, I came back home defeated and absolutely devastated. She really felt like she could have been "the one" for me. I tried to convince her that it was...
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Either way, we agreed that we probably shouldn't talk to each other for a little bit so we can clear our heads. I was sad, but I thought that was a good idea because it'd be hard for me to interact with her, knowing we weren't together anymore.
However, she messaged me today, just 3 days after the breakup, hoping that I was doing okay and that my parents probably thought she was the world's biggest bitch. She kept striking up conversation with me throughout the day, just about random shit, and when I asked how she was feeling she said she didn't...
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>>17327907
Hormonal birth control changes woman. She will probably find someone she likes that the implant also likes. Great job on letting this one slip through your hands just to cum in her.
me and my gf were together for like 5 months.. she broke up with her ex in like december. saw eachother like every single day for all that time. thought it was serious love. ive had a couple gfs but this girl wasnt like the rest she was super down to earth and everyone said so.
anyway we went on vacation 2 weeks ago and she broke up with me the day we got back tellin me a bunch of shit about how she doesnt want a relationship, doesnt wanna bf, thought we werent meant for eachother, etc every excuse in the book.
2 weeks later were together and fuck and then afterwards...
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you're just a notch in her belt op.
>>17327892
It's a lot more common than you think. I didn't see it before, but after a tough breakup hell, I'm a guy and i've started doing the same. It seems to be even more common with women because "feelings."
>>17327892
I mean it's probably shit advice, but I've never been cheated on, but as a precaution I cheat on my SO once (and only one) just in case that cheat one me.
That way you beat them to the punch if they cheat on you.
I mean it is shit advice. But if less people we're assholes I wouldn't have to.
I used to starve myself in high school. The summer I was going into freshman year I lost twenty pounds (give or take) from 112 to 90 lbs. I've since stopped doing that but the anorexia mentality still plagues me on a day to day basis. I'm sitting right at 102 lbs and I hate the way my body looks. I'm awkwardly skinny--not hot skinny. My butt is flat, but fat. My midsection seems to grow inches by the day, and my face is already naturally pudgy. So here's my question for the day: I'm feeling really fat and ugly and gross about myself but I'm hungry....
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>>17327878
As long as you actually eat it and don't puke it out.
>>17327889
I'm not bulimic
how tall are you?
Holy shit.. is there like a shortage of women in this age range? Its like fucking impossible for me to meet more women. The only women I ever see ride the bus with me in the morning and I don't dare talk to women on the bus. Its apparently super creepy to do that because they can't leave if they hate you.
Then at my job, I see women I might want to talk to but its pointless because relationships are against policy at my job. You can't have a relationship with someone else that works there unless you knew each other before hand or something.
My theory...
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>>17327841
They are working, schooling or l,iving there lives.
You need to ask yourself where are you?
>i also don't go where all the 20y/o females are which even further shits on my chances
Try tinder i guess
>>17327856
not looking for hook ups and I have been on okcupid for about 3 years now. zero dates.
Why do they make some of these "athletic shorts" with see-through material? I don't usually wear boxers and thought I could just wear these to the gym. I got laughed out of the place because everyone could see my fucking dick through it.
I may be clueless about fashion but after being humiliated for trying to be "athletic" after buying "athletic shorts"... I just don't understand this world anymore. Maybe I'll just accept being a fat NEET forever.
You're still supposed to wear underwear dumbfuck.
>>17327824
I thought clothing was suppose to cover your body. Isn't that the point?
It's a habit because I've walked out in public without underwear on while wearing cargo shorts and pants without a problem.
no one wants to see your fat NEET cock, my based retard bro
inhale some sulfuric acid my main man
would an optometrist fix my ability to cry? i no longer can feel the pleasant feeling of being able to cry.
>>17327816
>i no longer can feel the pleasant feeling of being able to cry.
Then you are not getting out enough.
>>17327820
thats not true, i go on walks
without tears i remember it was a good feeling to be able to. if i were to break down and sob i would shed way less than a normal amount of tears just a little water and it probably wouldnt go down my cheek.
>my mom has been friends with a terribly cute girl around my age for a couple years now
>i live 9 hours away
>the last two times I have visited my parents place on my own, my mom has invited her over
>it is clear she knows much about me through my mom
>we both share a key interest that is very important to us
>she told me to keep in touch after my most recent visit.
this is a conspiracy, right?
>>17327803
>this is a conspiracy, right?
Does it matter? i mean you saide you share interests. so why not check out what she is offering?
It's not a trap but it will lead to your mom wishing she aborted you.
Your mother is trying to get you laid, anon. Do you understand how grateful you ought to be?
So I broke up with my girlfriend recently. She wants me back now. We have broken up three times before for various reasons so I will look really stupid for going back a third time. Everybody knows we broke up already because she went looking for attention. I do love her still but I know we aren't going to last. She seeks attention and starts a lot of fights. Both our parents don't like the relationship and all my friends hate her. I don't like hurting her but I also don't want to lead her on.
>>17327776
What's your question exactly? I did the exact same thing you did. On the fourth time the bitch cheated on me. I think you should dump her ASAP and get on with your life. You'll be much happier without her around, even if you still love her (I did too when I dumped my cheating gf).
My question is what should I do btw.
You know the answer.
Cut all contact, you massive faggot.
What are the circumstances that make it impossible to get a girlfriend?
There's somebody out there for everyone
>>17327727
Then there u lol jk
>>17327727
This nigga is right though.
There are some really fucked up people with girlfriends.
There are lots of deficient people with girlfriends.
Everybody can get a girlfriend, doesn't mean the woman that would date you makes you want to date her.
How are you supposed to find someone to date if you have a weird fetish, and are totally fucking uninterested in people who don't share it?
I've had 2 relationships. One was with someone I was sexually compatible with. That person broke it off with me, and I ruined the chance to get back together with him. The other one was totally sexless. It was like being in a relationship with a platonic friend, and having sex felt like a job.
It's by total fucking chance that I met the compatible person. Hundreds of people have messaged me on /soc/ or 4chan...
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>>17327689
Er, on /soc/ or Fetlife.
Fetlife
What's the fetish?
Should my girlfriend be a high school teacher or a an RN in a hospital?
We want to have 3-6 kids... I told her that working at a high school guarantees free daycare, and a bit of the summer off too....
With an RN, she'd potentially work just a few (long) days out of the week, which would help with the children as well, being home for four out of the seven days
What do you think bros?
I should note that I myself am wanting to become an RN as well (NICU)
If she does become an RN make sure she stays as far as possible away from the ER. Being a nurse is always stressful but being an ER nurse takes it to a whole other level.
In the end though it's her decision to make and she should be motivated primarily by what she's more passionate about. BTW don't have 6 fucking kids, 3 is more than enough.
R any of u in a university at the moment. Or are all of u just planning this stiff out
>>17327678
I'd say teaching is a more kid-raising-friendly career, if that makes any sense.
My husband's best friend (let's call him Derek)'s wife (let's call her Christina) is a nurse and Derek stays home with the kids every day. Those are absolutely the shittiest kids I've ever seen. Constantly screaming and he never does anything about it, it's almost like he's given up. They just had their third kid, unfortunately.
Don't be like Derek, OP. Kids need their mother.
