>>17329000
if you're implying sexual harassment then what sort of things have been occurring?

go to HR?

>>17329000
CAPTAIN SAVE A HOE! ALERTTTTTT

>Not getting 3 of your niggiest friends and just plain beating the shit out of the guy
What are you, a pussy?

Why bother? What are the chances this will get back to her any other way? This information will only hurt her and hurt your relationship

Who goes on vacation without their wife?

>>17329022
visited my hometown while she worked

Have you tried getting ear plugs or even, I don't know, talking to them?

>>17328963
Try logging into the router. 173.0.0.1, 192.168.1.1, 10.0.0.1 etc. From there you can block all the ports or close their connections.

Why don't you just down some sleeping pills?

I dunno I used to go to wallmart in the middle of the night and walk around to be around people when I got lonely.

>>17328926
Tulpa

>>17328926
Have you posted 300 times on >>>/r9k/ yet?

>>17328910
If you're not in a good place mentally you won't get a good high, that's just logic.

>>17328910
You should get somebody to be with you and monitor first time on hallucinogens. You have no idea how you are going to react, you could put yourself into a dangerous situation otherwise. I disagree with the other poster, in my own experience shrooms have provided epiphanies in my life when I was in a bad place. But you absolutely need a sober person there with you, preferably someone who has done it before. I don't know if your sister is a good person to be with you, but without fully understanding the dynamic...
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>>17328920
Are you referring to doing it by myself or in general?

That's why they call it the nasty.

>>17328889
Maybe you're gay, I think human bodies (genitalia of both males and females) are ugly, but I think that's common, freaking out and not having sex is a different story.

>>17328889
I felt the same way. I let my animal instincts kick in instead.

I forgot to mention that I've completely abstained from masturbating for over a week. I'm often super horny and I basically pop boners whenever we cuddle or kiss

Have you tried taking a viagra?

>>17328875
performance anxiety. very common occurrence for inexperienced guys.

you're in your head too much, putting a lot of pressure on yourself to "perform" and since you're with a girl you really like it gets even more difficult.

you need to think less. get out of your own head. focus on the girl and get lost in the physical act of sex. no real need to think too much, the mechanics of it all are pretty simple.

talk to her about it. "i really like you and i think that's...
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>I'm trying to save a strained relationship.
A date isn't going to save it, let's be honest.

It was an anniversary, 7 years iirc. We had a lot of sex, obviously. For the date itself, I took her to where we had our very first date and recreated it. Sweet and simple.

>>17328877

No shit. But I'm trying to find out if there's any potential at all for it to be saved.

>>17328879

That's a great idea but I took her there two weeks ago, so that won't work out for me.

Wouldn't you giving him a thorough blowiob improve the situation drastically?

We can't tell you what your relationship is with him. Or whether you should cut off contact or not. You'll never be able to give us enough information to determine that over the internet.

What I can tell you is that if a relationship is strained, it won't go back to normal right away. Trust has to be built up all over again.

>>17328878
He's not gay and neither am I.

>>17328840
>Does anyone know how easy/difficult it is to be prescribed adderral?
Depends on whether you genuinely need it or you're just being a little bitch

>>17328855
Just being a little bitch.

>>17328840
no, it gives you the mouth of an amphetamine addict. you might think you're doing a good job, but no one else does.

would you think you're better at public speaking on speed? then why would you think you're better on adderal?

Do you trust her not to sleep around?

>>17328821
it's only two months. how many dicks can she possibly suck in two months? like, 40?

she's getting a lot of attention from guys. she's telling you about it though. it's not to make you jealous/insecure, it's to be transparent because she wants you to know she's truthful.

and no, you can't do anything about it so you do nothing. just keep in contact with her as best you can. don't go and accuse her of anything like the insecure bitch inside of you would like to.

>>17328821
You're in Canada. She's in Korea. What can you do? Nothing.

Maybe hire a big guy to follow her around and whenever someone asks her if she has a boyfriend, then punch that dude in the face?

You either trust her or you don't. There's nothing you can "do".

Cant you like rent a uhaul and drive it yourself?

>>17328801
Shipping across country is expensive, and a little risky. Unless your furniture is seriously expensive, either sell it or give it away, and get other stuff when you arrive.

>>17328801
Its going to be ezpensive

You're a rebound. Do not marry this man.

>>17328721
I wouldn't be with a rebound for a year and a half. Maybe like a month tops.

>One month later, he starts dating me
>Two months in, we are in love
>Year and a half in, we are engaged
Everything about this situation screams RED FLAG DO NOT MARRY

I know how this goes, I hate the ADD drugs myself.

For one thing, try the Cornell Method of note-taking. It's helped me recently to retain information effectively, and I wish I had known about it in college, so give it a try and see if it works for you.

>>17328704
Thanks, I will deffinately try this, but...

What about in every day life. Everything else?
Jobs and taxes and all that stuff. I try to stay organized, but disorder seems to be at home with me. Surely I cant create lists my whole life and life by a series of lists.
Im not CGP Grey

>>17328723

Get off the meds. I used to be on 30mgs a lot whole studying matheatics back in school and after a while it just made my life a rollercoaster. Ups and downs some great bad.

I quit cold turkey even though it was tough. Best decision I ever made

Living the dream. Sounds like you got a permanent hall pass. Why you questioning shit?

>>17328693
Yeah I know, I guess I'm overthinking it. It's just an odd feeling. I have the hot sex with one girl, and the awesome relationship with the other.

>>17328682
my gf was also sexually abused/assaulted. she had issues with sex and intimate acts. i've been very patient with her and we've worked on these issues together.

urge your girlfriend to see a therapist so she can get some help.

if you have no intention of helping her (and no, fucking your co-worker isn't helping her) then get the fuck out of there.