Archived threads in /adv/ - Advice - 1636. page
Images are sometimes not shown due to bandwidth/network limitations. Refreshing the page usually helps.
>>16785713
If you can handle it yourself (not falling for her) and her potential drama (if she falls and you're not into it), then you're good to go son.
>>16785717
NVM she literally just started begging me to take her back.
This is not happening. Thanks though, I'll keep it in mind for the future just in case.
So I've slowly begun to realize as I've alienated more of my friends that the old saying "If everyone around you is an asshole, you're probably the asshole" (Or something like that) may apply to me. There are a very select few people who I can click with and even they, I feel, would probably rather hang out with someone else if given the choice. There are other people in my friend circle who are disrespectful and rude all the time but no one bats an eye and they are from what I can tell the most well liked.
This is essentially an impossible question...
Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Ive felt similar sentiments actually. What I did was just act nicer and more social to my close friends. They actually responded very well so I would recommend the same thing to you. Just remember the difference between being kind and being a doormat.
>>16785711
I'm in a similar position OP, except I'm severely depressed and am now seeking to just isolate myself. Would not recommend unless you plan on becoming an hero.
>>16786032
What do if one of my only close friends is dead set on trying to help my depression? She's adamant on making sure I don't isolate myself and she just lets me dump my problems on her?
Did anyone else here rarely leave the house in high school except for school and when forced to? I'm [spoiler] 16 [/spoiler] and really want to go out and do stuff but have never really left the house alone before so I don't know the area or even if my parents will let me. I never get any invitations or anything from my friends at school either.. Always hearing about what other people have been doing made me really self-conscious about this kinda shit.
Getting really nostalgic, sad, and having a heavy chest when listening to a song that's not really supposed to be that sad?
There's a lot of songs like that lately. I don't even care for the words or artists too much, but something about the music makes me feel like, "wow time is fleeting so fast.. and everything will just be another memory" and it kills me. Even as I type this now, my heart feels heavy.
:/
Anyone else feel the same?
op here the song "stressed out" makes me feel.. holy shit can't explain it, even though something about it is cringe-y
>trying to patch things up health-wise
>didn't get my degree because of interference
>feel like a combination of rapid weight gain and physical abuse has left me fubar
Without doping up what's the best thing for these dull pains in my head?
I diagnose you with "making excuses"
Here's the short of it.
There is a girl I have been waiting to return. We talk, write letters, and agreed that when in a year and a half at this point that we'd go out.
I am slowly losing those feelings for her due to it seeming like she is also losing interest.
My question is,should I stay strong and keep going for her or move on.
talk about it with her dumbass
>>16785689
Dude, my power level is 99Spaghetti. i can't just
>talk about it
>>16785689
Yeah, this.
Also, at your age, people grow and change rapidly. Too rapidly to make symbolic ideas like this binding.
This isn't a brag thread, (I've slept with 3 girls in my whole life, got engaged to the first one...)
Got out of long term relationship, made an OkCupid account.
I met one girl there who I really liked, and we had sex, and we still talk and everything. We're "dating".
Now, there is girl 2: Who for the record, I like more than girl 1.
I met girl 2, we had sex, then she wouldnt answer my phone or anything so I met and fucked girl 1.
Now girl 2 is talking to me again saying she 'wants my cum inside her' etc...
Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>This isn't a brag thread, (I've slept with 3 girls in my whole life
You're right, it's not.
First, until you have the DTR talk you're not exclusive, so no worries there. If it drags on and it seems like she's assuming you're exclusive, you need to HAVE the DTR talk. If she has the talk with you and you define your relationship as exclusive, you have to ditch the other girls. Stay safe, don't be a douchebag and I know you're excited about getting laid, but if you feel you need to go slower,...
Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Unless you're exclusive, you can date multiple people.
>>16785700
>stealing from the candy jar
To be honest at this point it just feels like the candy store decided to start throwing candy at me, and all the other candy stores followed suit
I'm not really sure if this question is too explicit for this board, but here goes:
Basically I have been fapping so goddamn much that my left spermatic cord gets inflamed pretty often, and the skin on my penis gets raw. I have seen parts of my dick become bright red like there was an abrasion and it hurts like fucking hell when anything touches it. I have no lotion or lube, but I have to fap to get to sleep. Wat do?
>>16785656
Happened to me before.
Either get lube or stop fapping
there is no other answer
>>16785663
Damn dude i have a serious porn addiction. No matter how painful it gets to fap i still do it. Can't go buy lube either because car is covered in snow and wipers are broken
You've got to suck it up and leave yourself alone. You obviously need disciprine, but start off with every other day, and FFS, make it fast. No lollygagging.
No other solution, so I suggest you drink more or something, before bed, reduce your reliance on punching the clown as a soporific.
I've been looking for work for a while an it's starting to really get to me
the worst part is hat you are expected to put so much hope and enthusiasm into your applications, only for someone to throw them out and not even bother to email you back to tell you you didn't get the job
my last boss was underpaying me, I stood up to him and as a result I had to quit, now he's making it hard for me to find work elsewhere and it's a small town
they ask me "why did you quit your last job" and I struggle to think of a reason that isn't
A. the boss worked us like mules
B. he underplayed me and it was against the law
C. he was a bastard
nobody has time for me to sell my successes or focus on the positives; they want a straight answer and I can't seem to provide
Many people here on 4chan, including myself, talk about wanting a GF.
It's not uncommon to see people saying that people want to enter in a relationship because they want validation. Probably a sign of low self esteem?
If that's the case, where does someone find a source of validation that doesn't come from the approval of others?
>>16785631
>If that's the case, where does someone find a source of validation that doesn't come from the approval of others?
Developing a skill that has concrete, non-subjective results.
>>16785631
its sad cuz wnting a gf is a sure way to get into a bad relationship, or worse, no relationsihp at all.
i find the best way to enjoy life is enjoy it on your own. being single can be fun. than when you meet someone you actually like (and not just the first person willing to get with you) you just enjoy it a little bit more, and still have your old life when they leave.
people arent appliances. you should only want a gf when someone specific makse you want that. otherwise you are looking for an imaginary...
Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16785664
Today I was talking with a girl, and despite not having a romantic interest in her, I was slightly anxious about saying the "right thing".
I think that happened because of my need for approval.
I do have hobbies. Sometimes I make simple games.
Even though those things provide momentary satisfaction, the desire for approval is still there.
>be me
>13 year old sister snags a 'boyfriend'
>older than her
>I don't have one
>mum and sister make fun of me for it
>tfwnoboyslikeyou.jpg
fucking kill me wat do
I swore I saw this thread before
>>16785620
Pay some slut in your sister's school to teach your sister to be a massive slut, be smug about not being a massive slut yourself when she winds up pregnant.
>>16785620
either lower your standards to date whatever boy is around just because you feel you NEEd to have one.
or say 'unlike you guys i can have fun by myself' and flip em the bird (pro tip, this doesnt wokr if you are fat and/or ugly)
How do I find local milfs to hookup with?
All the milf dating websites seem like scams.
Help, I want to make love to a cougar.
If you're young, bars. They will come to you.
golden rule: pussy is pussy m8.
I'm probably going to a bar this week to look for some cougars.
I've been finding a few people on craigslist who seem legit, but there's a lot of fakes.
Shit's rough bro, I'm just trying to find a hookup. A lot of the tinder girls I've been matched with are total prudes
Yo /adv/. I want to learn interior design, like get my place looking fine. We have boards like /fa/, /fit/, etc. but nothing for making your place look good af.
Any advice or resources?
There are a couple subreddits that can give you a start like r/roomporn and r/scandinavianinteriors. The stuff you find on big blogsites like Apartment Therapy is 90% garbage but there's the occasional good idea worth hunting for in every photo set. Once you hone in on a particular style or theme which you prefer (minimalist, shaker, mid-century, etc.) then look for tumblrs which use those tags. It's one of the few ways in which tumblr is actually a worthwhile resource.
Also don't use that photo ever again. The Turkish news broadcast ruins it.
>>16785617
make everything or as many thing as modular and moveable as possible
- move things around, place them here, place them there, you like it here, you dont like it there, etc
- keep moving stuff until you find the right place
- keep wall colours neutral and plain
- if you want colour, get a colourful and bold object or piece of furniture and it will be highlighted
- move stuff regularly and eventually you will find stuff slowly will find their place
- also declutter - as you move stuff, you keep...
Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16785617
pinterest. also just googling 'cool rooms'.
i think the best thing you can do is sit down, look at all the cool rooms, then find the one that best matches your existing room in terms of floor, windows, lighting etc. for instance a white room with marble floors looks cool in the picture iwht the stuff in the picture, but wont go wit hyour more warm colored hard wood floors and brown walls.
painting is an option. but i assume you wont replace your floors. but if you have the money, you can.
anywho. once all thats decided (whether you can paint, replace stuff, etc) pick the room you want that matches that, and then slowly but surely start buying the pieces. a surplus of cash helps, but even if you can only do like the couches one month, and then tables a month later, thats okay. you are making a long term home. it takes time to make. but one little thing a month is the best option.
as soon as you got the photo you want to model after, immediately google search and look around at prices for simialr looking items. how much are those couches? whats the best deal on those carpets. whats the price on that crazy light? how much for a floating entertainment center? etc.
you can also think of what you'd like to replace. for instance, if oyu dont like books, why keep books on the shelf? instead replace them wiht personal trinkets you like. dont have anyone you love enough to frame in a photo? get little works of art you like.
Hey /adv/. I just need someone to talk to about this. I don't know how to green text, and I'm on mobile to boot, so just bear with me, I guess. There's a girl I have a thing for, and we've been talking a lot the past month. She isn't seeing anyone (at least that I know of), and honestly I thought things were going pretty good. About an hour ago, we were texting back and forth, and I get a Snapchat from her. She accidentally sent me a nude, meaning to go to God knows who else. She immediately realized that she fucked up with who she sent it to. I went...
Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16785610
accidentally send her one back. see how she reacts. be confident about it.
not much to lose.
Is there even a way to do that without it seeming shoehorned?
Should i trust my instincts?
I don't think that i can suddenly assumed someone have a crush on me. I believe that something on their mind so my sense,my instinct can catch it up.
What do you think?
>>16785603
i think english isn't your first language, but ill try to address it all anyways.
>should i trust my instincts
on a general level you should LISTEN to your instincts, but fact check them.
>i dont think that i can assume someone has a crush on me
>i believe that something is on their mind so my sense, my instinct can catch it?
i think this is hwat you mean but im not really sure how to...
Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Anybody wanna make a Steam Suppor Group or something like that?
Not for any of that relationship bullshit, but for neet, depressive people, etc?
pls respond I need friends
pls respond
THIS IS IMPORTANT
REDIRECT YOUR ATTENTION HERE
Come on guys we are starting the REVOLUTION
THE FIRST adv support group
Whats there NOT TO LIKE?
JOIN THE CAUSE TODAY
THE REVOLUTION STARTS TODAY
WE FORM UP THE GREAT ADV CONTINGENCY ARMY
ON STEAM
