If you use the term beta, let alone ask yourself if you are one. Then yes, you are a beta.

>>16786676
Im not scared of talking to them. Im scared of the after effecting spaghetting all over the place if some bad happens.

It doesn't matter, stop using the word beta if you don't want to be identified with it. Do you honestly think an alpha asks himself if he's a beta or not?

Your question was are you a beta. And I am saying yes you are.

Yes. I have seborrheic dermatitis, a somewhat similar condition. I have tried a million and one different remedies, both natural, medical and nutritional, and nothing has worked to make the scaling and itching go away.

She really can't help it, dude. Don't be an asshole to her, try to show her a little empathy. It's tough to live with a skin condition and a lot of people take their healthy skin for granted.

If she hasn't already, go to a dermatologist. I had it really bad, my face, arms and backs of knees were always itchy, skin was peeling nearly a layer a day. Turns out the shampoo I was using was what was triggering it, so a switch in brands and this skin cream called Cetaphil fixed me right up.

>>16786668
I see, she says nothing helps really. I am trying to understand, but I fear I won't be able to get used to it.
We've been dating for over a year now, and it really didn't start bothering me until five months ago. It breaks my heart that I feel this way about it, cause I feel bad for her.

>>16786653
You cannot control what someone else thinks.

Generally speaking, unless you make some big deal out of asking or a big deal out of being rejected, it won't affect anything. This is not true for all people.

>>16786653
Test the waters without getting in too deep.

Have a non-date date. The next time you're chatting say something like "It's been fun but we have to get back to work. Would you like to get together for coffee/coke/drink after work to continue the conversation?"

If that goes well, you can ask her out with more confidence.

>>16786650
dump her and get a cat

Run away with the cats

>>16786650
I assume you live together, or the obvious person to keep the cats is the one who they live with.

Otherwise this is something to talk to her about when you tell her the relationship is over. If you're the one who takes care of them because she has no interest in doing it, or if she's abusive to the cats, you should insist that the cats are staying with you.

>>16786649
Continue talking to her?
Don't try and break up her relationship or anything, respect what she has and treat her like a friend. If you genuinely like her for her, you'll let her be happy

>>16786679
Mm ok. Not sure how to continue convo now.

>>16786649
You've wanted her for 2-3 years and she just found out?

>>16786648
You work at Best Buy but you have no idea what the return policy is, or the procedure for returning something?

Why does it matter that it's not new? And why do you think you'd be shitting on the manager if you return it?

Take it back to the store, return it.

>>16786662
>>16786662
I know the return policy and that's why I'm worried. It looks like I'm trying to return something different than what I bought.

They might not take it back and then I'm fucked with an 800 dollar machine that if anything goes wrong with it I'm stuck with.

The manager gave it to me for half off.

>>16786648
>>16786691
If you care about your store, explain the fuck up because they need to fix that shit in the system.

What kind d of employee are you that you don't know how the open box shit works? Once they fix it pawn it off on the other store.

>>16786639
maybe you're gay?

>>16786640

That's a funny joke but no that's not it

>>16786642
pussy is most womens number one selling point. i mean shit you can find plenty of men with boobs

you might want to read this pamphlet on "homosexuality and you"

>>16786638
>I need to get my shit together.
why?

What do you want to do? Do you simply want to be productive for the sake of being productive, or do you really have a well-defined goal you want to achieve?

What exactly do you want, OP?

>>16786666
>why?
Because I feel like a parasite, doing nothing. And I HAVE to study, I have to. Sooner or later the exams will come, but I keep telling myself "I'll do it later", and I'm tired of that. I've never met someone as lazy as me.

>>16786638
Go to a place where you have no distractions. If you go on your pc at the house, then leave your fucking house and go to the library instead where your pc is out of reach.

i have that same fear as well. sometimes it stops me from doing great things like walking up to a girl and asking her out for that simple fear of she turning me down or someone shouts after me and makes me ashame in public and the fear that i won't be able to give that person a good enough reply would make me stop. sometimes i jus say fuck it and i say how i feel no matter what and that makes me feel great, but when i'm in a large crowd it still comes back

>>16786616
Lol. That was awesome

>>16786589
If you feel like that in the US don't go to other countries.

>>137212099
You can collect rainwater from your roof, also its totally justifiable to not let people collect rain water, it stops underground water veins from rebuilding, it might not seem a lot but if everyone who lives in the country did it at a large enough scale it would have a large impact.

A certain amount of regulation and infrastructure is required to make civilization possible. Maximizing personal agency -the ability of each person to, through his or her actions, have a meaningful impact on his or her life- must always remain the primary goal, but as long as this happens, agency and regulation do not need to conflict.

I don't think the US gets it completely right, but it gets much closer to the mark than just about anywhere else in the world. Most other places fail by losing sight of the goal, either going for personal aggrandizement (anarchies...
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Maybe it's because you're looking at sex as something your girlfriend gives to you, instead of a mutually enjoyable shared experience between equals.

>>16786575
she's not giving you sex because chads giving her the dick on the low

she's pissed off because chad wont date her and put up with her bullshit like you

>>16786614

this pretty much.

>>16786563
>my friend gets girls even though he's an asshole

he's probably attractive, mystery solved

>>16786568
No no, this would be perfectly understandable if he was attractive. I mean I wouldn't mind being mistreated by a 10/10 girl for a chance at fucking her.

Thing is this guy is pretty much average, with bunch of emotional problems. Also he's a skinny manlet.

Tale as old as time: People mistake aggression for confidence. It happens in dating, it happens in business, it happens in politics and it happens in just about every other facet of life.

Don't think too much about it, learn to be confident for real and enjoy your life anon.

>>16786553
Season is over....

>>16786572
I know, like re watch the games

take this as an opportunity and find a real sport, handegg is shit.

Lekker buikie

Yes. We've known each other about 12 years, had been romantically involved for 9 years and have been 'apart' for about 2 months now. It's hard to explain what happened exactly, I think a lot of factors went into it. Distance was a big one, schedule incompatibility hurt a lot, plans for the future meshing up less and less....but between all of it, the flame just kind of died and there was no rekindling it. We were drifting apart fast and decided to cut our losses basically since we couldn't stand how awkward things had become between us. So we decided...
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Have a gf for 2 years, feel how her love for me slowly faded away. Last time i've felt it was about 1 year ago.
We used to laugh a lot, and do all sorts of funny crazy shit, but now she's just nagging me and fuck it's annoying. We argue weekly, she does stupid shit, but so do i, and it's sorta sad
Feel like i need some /adv/ myself