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Left Twitter, they hired sarkesian to cut free speech.
Proposals for alternatives focusing on free speech?
use gnusocial or use weechat(chinese but best)
Honest question /adv/.
Would buying a fleshlight be disgusting/fucked up?
I mean I dont have a girlfriend and dont plan on getting one any time soon either but im just bored from regular fapping.
Im not obese or anything.
No need to waste money on one. Go to your local bookstore and grab whatever books on carpentry and woodworking they have available and learn to make your own products!
>Would <personal shit involving nobody else> be fucked up?
Who gives a shit?
>>16787686
>woodworking and carpentry
Explain further.
Hey /adv/, need some help here. I'm studying (or was) computer science and I have a year left on my degree. Thing is, I hate university and the city I live in. Because of this I've been looking at jobs in Europe. I actually got a mail from a recruiter about a job I think I could do. I asked him more about it and I'll have an interview. My question is: should I lie about graduating? Will they discover the truth? Again, I have one year left but I do NOT want to finish it. This job isn't temporary so I think me being in the middle of a degree would bother them
Bump. Someone please help
>>16787663
Depends on where you're applying to. In the US big corporations and almost always require transcripts as proof of your education claims when it comes to entry level positions. Government entities always require transcripts all the way to phd.
I'd just finish it so you will never have to worry about it again, always wondering whether you'll be found out when lying about it.
Are you failing out or are you just bitching out because of the stupid reason you mentioned?
>>16787739
I'm not failing out. I just can't mentally handle it. I don't know. I guess that counts as bitching out. Basically I hate my life and I want to leave. It's a small company btw.
Would you trust your 6 month old at a "Kids Club" at an LA Fitness?
I have been leaving her with a friend before I go work out but I do not have that option today.
I am pretty divided - at first, I felt "no way!" but then I toured the area and I saw there is a separate area for infants that can be gated off from the bigger kids. It has a swing, two different rolling walkers, and a bouncer. I think that my baby would really like to walk around in the walker. She will never experience that at home because the apartment is too small.
On the other hand,...
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Unsatisfied with my social life, and I'm starting to wonder if me not using social media has anything to do with it.
I have a few good friends from work I go out with, and they are very active on facebook/snapchat. They meet a lot of people/potential love interests.
On the other hand, I've never had a Snapchat, and I'm pretty inactive on facebook (barely post, and just a few pictures). I'll meet some people IRL, and we'll get along pretty good, but from that point on more often than not we never speak again.
It felt to me like Snapchat/Facebook...
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just be more active on fb, i use it to IM people and see upcoming events/parties
snapchat is narcisim central and pretty fucking useless
>improves self
>tries to talk to girl
>gets rejected
>gets lazy again because depression
>repeat
Who else is stuck in this cycle?
>>16787645
Why don't you just skip the "gets lazy again" part, and try replacing it with another instance of "tries to talk to girl"?
>>16787761
Better to replace it with "improves self" first. Each rejection is something that can be learned from.
>>16787645
You havent imrpoved yourself if your happiness is reliant on random women who reject you.
You haven't improved yourself if you let rejection get in the way of improving yourself.
Work on step 1 more.
This person was someone I used to work with several years ago and although I don't work there anymore, we have kept in touch and occasionally hung out. She was always a bit of a drama queen but she used to be someone I could talk to and have fun with. In the last while when we hung out things haven't been as fun as they used to be. She's become more negative, creates stress and drama from nothing. (or maybe she's always been like that but I have a lower tolerance for drama now) There have been unpleasant conversations where, if I have a different opinion...
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>>16787624
I finally stood up for myself. I calmly and politely said that I didn't like the way she was speaking to me and that I didn't feel like going out for a meal with her. I told her that I didn't see how offering me a lift from the next town over to a restaurant she wanted to go to was a favour to me. Also, that it was a small deal about restaurant choices and lifts that we could have worked out calmly without getting into insulting my character or my intelligence. I told her that our friendship wasn't...
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>>16787624
>>16787628
Since then, she's gone and told her dad and at least two of her other friends about our conversation and how "rude" I was - and she's unfriended me on Facebook. Heaven forbid I ask her to treat me with a little bit of respect because if I do she can't handle it. I suppose one positive is that because I recognized so many similarities with my mom I was able to grey rock my way through it and not take any of her emotional manipulations...
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Okay, so I did try to read all of it but couldn't manage to.
You don't need to justify yourself that much. You stood up for yourself in a situation where you felt that you should. From half of what you wrote it sounded like you handled it as you should have. It might have started off in a petty way that escalated but that doesn't excuse shit.
She doesn't seem to be very intent when it comes to changing her way so what you should do is to stop talking to her and ignore her.
Made friends with a girl at college. Asked her out, she said she had a boyfriend but still really wanted to be friends, that's cool. She sent me a (probably) drunk text one night, I responded, and now she hasn't talked to me at all and changed her Facebook so it's clear she's in a relationship.
Did I fuck up? Should I leave it alone? It's been 4 days, maybe she's just busy and I'm overthinking it.
no
yes
correct
>>16787626
Do I wait for her to talk to me though? She's the only person I could have a conversation with as of late, the rest of my friends shitpost
>>16787665
yes
make more girl friends in the meantime
Is being born with a small dick, the undeniable proof of being a beta male?
Hear me out, if a man has a small dick, he will inevitably be anxious or overcompensating around women.
Even if he gets them in bed, women will laugh at his face when they see it and make him feel worthless
Are all dicklets doomed for betaness forever?
>>16787602
1/10. Apply yourself if you want to troll.
>>16787602
I kinda want to know myself.
How/ where can me and my GF have sex if neither of our homes will work?
>>16787594
If you're looking for home improvement tips, head over to /diy/. Pick up some carpentry skills and turn your tired old abode into a veritable shag pad.
My house I got you covered bro
>>16787594
hotel?
love don't give you the answers?
Might have gotten my GF pregnant, we were fucking without a condom for once and I felt I may be cumming soon. Pulled out and immediately came on her stomach. What do you think my odds are and what should I do?
Pic unrelated. I mostly need some people to talk to about this, a little worried.
Is she on the pill? If not, why weren't you wearing a condom?
If shes on the pill that + never cumming in her is pretty damn safe.
everything's going to be okay.
>>16787581
Congrats OP! Fatherhood is one of the most challenging, but most rewarding experiences life has to offer.
I hate myself so much, I have no self esteem. The person I'm closest to takes every chance she can get to jab at my self esteem.
I really hate everyone. That's part of what destroys me. Not only do I hate myself for the mistakes I've made but I feel like everyone is a piece of shit, and will just end up taking me for granted.
What do I do guys. I'm not in this life just to be around for myself, but everyone sucks.
Really leaves little hope for the future and dying seems so nice. I died once before and it was so peaceful. When I came...
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>I died once before and it was so peaceful. When I came back it was back to the bullshit
What
I died, like my heart stopped for a minute.
It felt great.
Got brought back. Wasn't happy about it.
