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>21 year old male
>virgin
How do I deal with this burning sensation that tells me "I need a girlfriend" or "I need to get laid"
or is it more of an acceptance thing where I don't to feel like a loser at 21
>still living with my dad, because I cant afford rent.
>going through 3rd year of college
>as stated above, virgin
>horrible personality, borderline autism
>ugly
is there anything I can do? should I just end it?
>or is it more of an acceptance thing where I don't to feel like a loser at 21
Probably.
You can start improving yourself but only if it's something you do to benefit you and no one else.
>virgin
Kill yourelf loser.
>>16799306
your honestly right though, I've been thinking of ending my life recently
at least I know that's one vote
Anyone here get started in the stripping/exotic dancing industry as an owner? I have questions. Any business is not easy. I know that much. Its not like you get a lot of money overnight as an owner.
Do you need a club, or is door to door a functional business for you? Did you get into it just to find a job? Did someone get you into the job of owner or manager? Is it wrong to get into it if you enjoy being around attractive women, e.g. straight, from a moral standpoint?
I know these kinds of businesses exist, but why can't a girl just solo strip door to door and cut out the middleman of managers and so on? How do other businesses succeed like this?
>>16798895
Oh sure, just go ahead and ruin a perfectly good economic model with your selfish door to door stripping.
What if EVERYONE did that? Did you even consider that? It would mean financial ruin for millions of Americans who can't compete with convenient straight-to-your-home lap dances.
But you don't care, you're all about getting paid for causing boners with minimal overhead... overhead that CREATES JOBS, mind you.
I hope you die in a fire and they lose the paperwork on your corpse and send you to a dog food factory. It is a fitting end that your mortal remains be a drying pile of DOG SHIT.
Stop pastaing this, tardo.
I already told you about the security issues.
>>16798923
I think the prozac bottle is calling, m8.
I've got a chance to fuck a decent looking trap. I'm bi curious but not attracted to men, just dicks.
Should I do it? I feel so wrong.
Well, if you have experience with carpentry it shouldn't be a problem.
>>16798882
I don't get this meme
>>16798893
hello and welcome to /adv/
I am and 18 year old male and have never had a gf.
Please help.
You dont need help. Dont fall for peer pressure.
t.19yo wizard
>>16798205
And? What you said tells me literally nothing about you and I don't even know how I'm supposed to help you.
I don't know really what would help you but if you played 20 questions with me asking all the right questions that would be great.
I've always been very insular and alone, sticking to a handful of friends past elementary school and presently I talk to no one offline outside of family. I've never been able to talk to girls I've liked be because of morbid fears of rejection and a desire not to make them feel uncomfortable or be shown to be week.
I don't have a job right now, nor a car, and live with mom and dad, adding to current insecurity. I don't want to talk to a girl and have to explain that I ride my bicycle and the bus to get around and don't have a pad for myself. I'm getting the job and lack of apartment sorted around currently but I still feel like I'd be seen as pathetic for lack of a car. I also consider myself unattractive, though family try to tell me I am attractive.
Call me a pathetic weeb loser I guess.
i need some explanation regarding bernie sanders. im from europe, a big bernie-fanboy and pretty interested in the primaries.
what i dont understand: why does a vast majority of black people vote for clinton? she's a deceiving bitch.
i cannot find a good explanation on this. the only thing i can think of is, that they're not that educated.
and side-question: why dont they blame her on her lies about her bosnian sniper story. it's absolutely disgusting.
thx
>>16814878
No, no please don't do this here
>>16814887
it's my first question about politics on 4chan. seems there is no appropriate channel for these questions here...
>>16814898
>>>/pol/
tl;dr: Bernie is promising shit he can't deliver.
What do you think of women who don't use makeup? And how to learn to use it if you skipped all that stuff in your teens?
I never learned to use makeup as a teenager, and nowadays I feel awkward to experiment with it. I've tried, but as a 24-yeard-old I don't feel comfortable walking around with half-assed makeup because I haven't learned to do it properly yet. I wouldn't even use it every day, because I'm lazy and a nerd and I have other priorities, BUT it would be nice to know I could make myself prettier for those occasions when I want to.
I just feel like I'm so plain compared to other women when I never use any makeup other than for my eyebrows (because I hate my natural ones).
Posting pic because I want advice on what to do with my face if I start to try using makeup.
I feel like my eyes would benefit from something at least, I have contacts in this pic, but I feel plain and kinda ugly without any makeup
>>16814609
Makeup can do wonders for a woman's appearance. However, I dislike it. If I'm going to date you I want to love what you look like under the makeup.
>>16814620
1. stop doing neutral face in your photos. I'm sure you're much prettier when you look like you have charisma. Which I'm sure you do, because you're posting on 4chan and not Tumblr or Reddit.
2. Start light, I'd suggest youtube tutorials until you start to find styles that are appealing to you. Don't go overboard. When you start learning makeup, it's really easy to underestimate how much you're actually putting on. Keep in mind you have fair skin.
3. You're lovely. You don't need makeup but it is a good idea how to learn to put it on, it's expected for certain social situations.
So, I'm your typical desperate, 21 y.o. male kissless, relationshipless virgin.
Can you recommend any drugs or something that will make me go out and meet women?
I keep coming up with excuses that are good enough so that I actually believe them.
I need something that takes my fear and depression--ish feelings and replace it with carelessness and joy. And women.
Or something.
Help.
Just... anything. Anyone. Help.
>>16813571
Alcohol
Testosterone
Water
>>16813582
Testosterone? That is a thing? As in, you can take it?
What would that do?
>>16813571
Wouldn't recommend using drugs for this, buddy. You'd likely become dependent on them and it's also not a good idea to start anything with "I need this chemical/this specific thing to be able to function like this." Dangerous.
![male-and-female-relationship-sign[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/oOLe2KV.jpg "male-and-female-relationship-sign[1]")
Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
Avoid asking these common questions:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't. Our answers are not going to help you.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
Most likely
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.
>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing
>Would you date a virgin?
As long as they aren't insecure about it. Complexes are a total turn-off.
>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships
No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking
Girls (and possibly guys too),
Why would you start a conversations and then start giving one word responses?
I can understand it happening once if things got boring, but it happens over and over with the same people. Why?
>>16810878
So many guys have done this to me, it's infuriating. Like damn, do they not know to play 20 questions if the conversation gets dull?
I've been chatting with this girl in class for a while. Seems like a have a lot in common and she's cute. How do I advance? Please feel free to ask me questions for more info
Took a friend out and bought food and shit for her. She piles sand in my body at the beach and now some of it's in my belly button. I am pissed off at her because of fear at grains that will get stuck or unfound by me which can lead to infection. If I didn't find out about the sand falling into my belly button I could have been seriously hurt. want an apology from her. Is this a good message? I know it can seem sensitive of me to feel this way but I do and can't help it, I also think I'm justified. But I don't want to start drama over this.
"There's a lot of sand stuck in my belly button from the sand you piled on me today. This is very hard to remove and could have been infected if I didn't know it was there. Don't do things like this in the future."
>>16813293
And if she responds positively or sympathetically. I want to say "I want an apology"
Sounds like a good idea, send the message.
Nice shitpost fag
My wife of 3 years apparently got an abortion back when we were dating. She didnt tell me because she didnt think we were in a place to have kids.
Im fucking devastated. Not only am I against abortion, it was my child. Im so furious Im literally thinking about a divorce.
Am I over reacting? Or is this reasonable rage because I dont think Im in a place to think rationally.
>>16810816
Fuck off
>>16810816
I think the breach of trust is the far more serious issue, the fact that she hid it from you.
It's been three years, and you cannot change the past. IMO you are overreacting.
Tell me something that broke your heart.
>>16806957
"I don't wanna be fucking seen with you."
>>16806957
"I'm in love with someone else"
>>16806957
>i think i don't love you anymore
How did you get over that girl in your life?
by realizing she has herpes. ew.
the vengabus is comin
>>16807069
came on 4chan and got redpilled on women and that they have no souls, so i stopped giving a fuck about them altogether
time and drugs.
It is time. Time to write letters.
>>16798185
a b c d e f g h i j k l m n o p q r s t u v w x y z
A, its been months. i just want to talk again. i miss you so much
AJ,
Thanks for being best girl.
- RN
What advice would you give to a 23 year old girl who's never been able to get a date but really wants one
>>16810195
Lose weight, fatty
/thread
use a web service for that purpose. if you live in a city of decent size and are willing to put the time in you'll find a date online eventually. might not be a good date, but it'll happen
>>16810202
Without online services.
48/male/US
Married about 24 years
six kids with 2 grown
grandchild
I've done well, I have failed. I hope I have learned what not to do.
Offering advice.
Between work and lunch my responses may be a little delayed.
>>16809672
regrets?
>>16809679
I should have proposed sooner
I should have married her sooner
We should have started having kids sooner
That's about it
When you started dating your wife, were you like crazy in love with her? Or did you fall in love later on? And I mean did you really really like her before making your aproach to dating/whaver or was she just a random woman that was potentially relationship material but that you didn't madly like yet?
Thanks
