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There is this girl I'm friends with, I slightly like her and mabye I will ask her out or sth, but this thread is about something interesting I noticed.
She suddenly started copying my texting habits, for ex. I write "hhh" instead of "haha", and she started doing the same. I thought it was just some teasing or sth so I blew it off.
Next thing you know I was hanging out with her and a friend and she fucking pulls out a whole quote of sth I said a while back. I even noticed it later cuz she said it so casually then, but when I remembered it was a word for word exact quote and I didnt even say the thing recently.
After this I started noticing that she is copying my gestures, language patterns, sometimes even facial expressions.
Is this that thing when someone copies shit subconsciously when he/she likes someone, or is this girl weird as fuck?
pic related kek
It's normal to a certain degree, but she's beyond that point. Be careful about sticking your dick in crazy. But it might be fun if you're a narcissist, you can turn her into a copy of yourself, then it would be like you're banging yourself.
>>16805131
Hmm, banging myself, eh? I'll consider that option anon.
>>16805120
She's a beginner, thinks you know what you're doing, and copies you to be more with it. She probably copies everyone else she texts with, to try to fit in.
I'm an attractive, interesting and intelligent man (inb4 not modest) that's also somewhat socially awkward and although I have many successful friendships, I'm insecure deep down.
How can nearly all women smell this on me? A lot of women are initially interested in me but once they sense any hint of being not normal they are obviously turned off and move on. Can I defend against this?
You're a self absorbed pretentious faggot and that's not attractive. Work on your personality.
>>16805115
I can hold a conversation and make women laugh, my problem is I'm too direct sometimes (not with advancing the relationship, but just in general) and it turns people off. But women especially, men seem to respect it or ignore it.
Try not to take yourself so seriously. It's good you know your strengths, just be playful about them instead of serious.
>have to move out from my current place tommorrow morning
>its now 8:41 pm and i still cant find anywhere to stay
Any advice?
need more info op
https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=1&v=2hNaarPVZfg
>>16804998
like what?
As a guy who is currently having a hard time dating, who can I talk to about this? I feel like if I open up to somebody about it or try to get help it would only make it worse.
It's not hard. It's like prom. If she says no, ask somebody else.
>>16804959
I don't know any single girls. I'm saying, who can I talk to about my worries/frustrations? Or should I not say anything at all?
Also, is it possible to ask someone if they know anyone who's available without seeming desperate. Social retard here.
>>16804985
Eh. So you don't know any single girls... You can come here, or if it depresses you that much, there are crisis hotlines who can counsel you, they will counsel you.
Chat them up first. I hear that's it. You chat them up, and look/listen for signals she likes you. Anything like sweat, saliva, hair motion, everything head to toe is readable like a book. If she likes you, it's on. Ask her out, trade numbers, make the match happen or else or else. Pretend you're not (whatever). If she doesn't like you, she doesn't like you. It happens. If she just isn't into you, it happens.
Where are you meeting them?
I feel like no one cares about what I've got to say and no one wants to even relate. People use to love me and love being around me but idk what changed. Something changed in my life that fucked me up, turned me into a depressed cunt who just keeps on complaining to him self and make up excuses and lies.
I don't want to tell other people that i feel like that they don't care because they'd want to start showing me that they do care but not for the sake actually caring but instead simply to make me feel better.
I look too deeply into things, what the fuck am I going to do with my life when I can convince everyone that I'm right for thinking for the way I am and never is there a reason for me to accept the advice they're giving me. It's not that I don't want to accept the advice they'd give me it's more that I can accept my reasons for not believing them because they are valid. The amount of times where I've made people stop talking for a second when they try to help and make them think for a second is very often.
I don't know /adv/. I would have killed my self if it wasn't for suicide being such a selfish decision and also a bad way out. I don't want to end it and I won't. I just want for things to get better but I feel like they aren't. If anything, for every attempt I make it just gets worse.
It's painful. I will not cry and I will not hurt my self. I will not do anything that won't make it get any better and I will definitely not do anything that will just make me worse. All those common forms of stress relieve, punching a wall, self harming, showing aggression and letting emotions out on other people. I know they don't help so I don't let my emotions out and do it.
I will ask you again /adv/. Tell me that there's hope and don't just tell me but show me. Make me step forward somehow out of this and help me get better. A simple reply won't suddenly fix everything but I want something at least to be done. idk anymore.
>>16804937
>I will not cry
Cry.
>>16804943
This is going to sound bad and stupid but I can't. I can only smile.
Fuck knows. I similarly feel like no one cares, and don't think guilting people into showing sympathy would help. Not that I have many people left go guilt, as most have drifted away.
I'm told it gets better. But I haven't seen it. And I don't even know if posting "I too am a miserable cunt" like this will do either of us any good.
I am accused of being a rapist.
My defense is that I ain't no rapist.
I honestly don't know what I'm being accused of.
Angry sex.
For 3 seconds at a generous estimate
I was kind of bearing down
there's more context, like I was angry for a reason, but essentially, I am accused of rape.
wtf
I feel so imperfect
pic not related
>>16804903
it doesnt matter if youre angry, fool
it matters if it was consensual.
>>16804903
Did she at any point say "no" or "Stop" or struggle?
Then you're a rapist.
>>16804912
Something just kicked in. Are you telling me that if she says no even once and only once, the whole act is instantly considered rape?
She said "no" and it took a second, but then I was all wtf is it rape and got myself away
According to my many "clients" I am wrong.
All I do is take pictures of the scenery before me, and because of this, I am getting criticized very hurtfully. I was called a creep just for being myself. Is it really creepy to take a photo of what I seen, in order to remember it? Some photos are just for enjoyment.
Pic related, one of my art shoots.
>>16804892
Post more of your art. I need more in order to make a fair assessment.
>>16804892
Pictures of scenery - OK
Pictures of people who know you're taking them - OK
Pictures of people who don't agree to posing or don't know - Not OK
Got it?
>>16804897
this OP. i would like to see more of your art to better ASSess it
Straight to the point, is bad to still pursue someone who already rejected me? I'll post the backstory if this thread picks up.
>>16804458
>is bad to still pursue someone who already rejected me
yes, its never going to happen, move on
>>16804458
Yes you fucking limp dicked weak ass pathetic imbecile.
Move on. Find someone else to reject you.
I was a teenager once. And it sucks. Just move on.
>>16804458
Anon, no means no. Honestly, whether they were honest about it or gave you the runaround to not hurt your feelings just don't even bother.
I am thinking of adopting a child. I never really cared too much about having my own biological children since it seems terribly selfish to bring another person into this world when there are over thousands of kids left abandoned with no parents.
My concern is that they won't allow me to adopt because I am single. I have a good paying job as a technician so I am financially stable. Is this enough for them to allow me to adopt or would they still say no because there isn't a mother in the picture?
I also live in a nice well kept home too.
Would they allow me to adopt?
Stable heterosexual couples have to go through a lot of trouble to adopt, let alone people of other statuses. Do you actually think anyone would let a single male adopt a child?
>>16804446
Single men can't adopt. They assume you're a pedophile. Still, it can't hurt to apply.
Join the Big Brothers & Big Sisters society, or whatever they're called.
They essentially pimp out adults to orphans for a brief time.
You can help out little shits without having to commit to raising them.
So here's the deal Me and the girlfriend of 2 years haven't been getting along lately. Incompatibilities coming up left and right. Still want things to work out, but resolve is waning. The other day she tells me that she is afraid to have kids with me because I wouldn't raise them exactly how she wants them to be raised. That hit me pretty hard.
Then yesterday my dad came home from a doctors appt to tell me that he needs to have surgery that may paralyze him. This is rather stressful for me as I love my father. Upon telling my gf she replied "who the fuck cares, your parents always over exaggerate everything." WTF, if she was in my position she'd be scared too.
I've never felt just so..unloved by her, like she doesn't care at all. I've been thinking about calling it quits, I don't know if I can forgive her for what she said about my my dad.
Thoughts?
There's more, I can go into if you want.
Sounds damning, unless your parents really are retards who exaggerate shit all the time.
I'd be objective about your parents, if it really is that serious I'd leave her. She doesn't care about you bruv
>>16804317
She gets the idea that my parents exaggerate by them texting me and telling me to be careful when the roads are getting snowy/icy. They were both volunteer firefighters so they've seen what can happen in wrecks, so they are protective, but they don't exaggerate.
you're seeing red flags, just leave her dude.
I hide everything I like (anime, video games) because i'm ashamed of them.
My parents recently bought a bunch of art and hung them on my walls because they thought bare walls were "weird"
Can you fake a personality?
Ever heard of 'everything in moderation'? There's nothing wrong with liking anime and video games as long as they don't control your life
>>16804302
You should never be ashamed of who you are
>>16804312
>>16804305
very touching, but name one benefit of admitting you like anime and being associated with those stereotypes
I am like OP btw, but i don't play too many videogames
If I could get some advice (or links) on cooking and eating better/right that be nice. I recently became a lot more health consensus so I'm thinking of going a little vegetarian/organic like but I keep getting told its to expensive.
>>16804257
Breakfast: Oatmeal, 2 eggs, vegetable.
Lunch: Rice/Buckwheat + chicken breast + vegetables or salad.
Dinner: Repeat lunch. Tuna, salmon, and beef are also acceptable.
Bananas, apples, almonds for snacks.
Ib4 /fit/ shows up with "Eat every 2 hours."
You cant underplay how bad sugar is for you. Look at the amount of servings/grams on the back of your food labels before buying/eating it. On average a male should consume 36 grams of sugar a day (28 if your femanon). Avoid soda a can of soda has 40 grams of sugar and hurts your teeth. Thats all the advice I know. GL
I caught a falling metal cup of coffee which later I found out was very hot. I caught it with the inside of my thighs. At 1st the plan felt like a semi bad sunburn but as its time for bed it really hurts. I also just noticed this blister.
I am unable to get to urgent care tonight, tomorrow morning would be best howeve I dont wanna go if it something I can treat at home.
If you need more pocs let me know.
Anothet angle of the blister
>>16804243
2nd degree, don't pop it
>>16804245
How should I treat it for the time being? Just enough to get thru the night my urgent care doesnt open until 8am on sun.
Hello, I'm Canadian. I am an engineer, and I recently got a job at a plant. The thing is that I am a white person. Actually, I am the only white person among 20 other new hires who seem to be from different cultures (Which I think is due to affirmative action, but anyway)
I am generally a nice person and I can get long with most people, but I am being picked on for being white, and I honestly don't know how to fight back, because they're all calling me racist if I do. In fact they say claims like I'm racist for reading political news about north korea or something (They keep claiming that I think china, north korea and japan are the same place)
IDK how to deal with this, Im not good at comebacks, and I feel like it's not gonna look good on my career if everyone keeps calling me racist.
any ideas?
Just suck it up you've been hired along with a pack of monkeys for diversity
Not that other races are monkeys just that your company hired them solely for diversity
Continue doing what you do don't falter in your ways and maybe with time you can gain respect
>>16804219
How about you start with not making racist posts?
>>16804219
welcome to fucking canada, where it's perfectly okay to shit on white people cause we're the devil. if it bothers you and you can't ignore it, bring it up with HR or quit.
So I've got this long distance fwb thing with this cute little 18 year old chick, which is great, but her parents are taking away her phone because they found out about me (lol).
We're still gonna skype, but her webcam is shit, her phone cam is way better. So she offered to take 1 more video and 1 more picture of anything I want that I'm allowed to keep.
Tl;dr: What one video and pic should I ask for from a cute ldr fwb? I've already seen her masturbate and all of her body etc. Also she has an apron and some cosplay stuff, and I've got a pissing fetish so I might just get her to pee in front of me again?
Help me fellow pervs.
>>16804188
What's her name?
Need advice guys I need to make my request by tonight.
Stop being reaally fucking weird
