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What should I do with my life?
I've had a look into a lot of professions and I don't care for any of them.
I don't care for anything honestly. I just want to sleep until it's all over
well did anything stand out in what you looked at?
>>17367081
I feel the same way. Part of it is due to my mental instability, but still. I suffer from insomnia; sleep isn't an option.
Alright so I've got the clothes and hair and getting /fit/ down, I know how to not act like an autist or whatever, and I know to listen to the top 100 chart
http://www.billboard.com/charts/hot-100
To learn what millennial normies have such a hard on for, any other ways to really blend in?
I feel like the final piece to this puzzle is understanding their culture itself and I feel like there has to be more to it than the music
This is hilarious.
>>17367088
>never even try just give up kys: the post
Don't you have something more important going on in your life than blending in with people you don't understand, who don't understand you ?
You do have your own interests and goals in life. Strive for them and like-minded People will cross your path.
Other than that, you should learn some social-skills
What are things that make YOU happy?
Lmao even in 4chan no one responds.
>>17367016
Playing videogames until I am weak with hunger then refueling on a perfect mixture of high octane Dr. Pepper and Coca Cola
>>17367174
But peggy, my dudegal, isn't is funner to pewp-post in this place?
Alright /adv/, what the fuck is going on?
>wake up
>email from amazon confirming an email change to some indian name
>wtf
>call customer support
>tell them my account was stolen
>they can't find my old email in their records
>they send it to their higher-ups for investigation
>get an email a few hours later saying...
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Also, my antivirus software scanned earlier today and didn't find anything.
>>17367005
Call amazon again, cancel the purchase? I think ghosts have invaded your computer OP
Change your email password ; they doubtlessly have access to it.
About a month ago I moved back to Chicago. My older sister had told me I could stay with her. In her own words: You can stay with me as long as you need.
After my plans are set, I ask her if I can stay for about a month. She turns around and tells me more or less that she expects me to find a new job and an apartment within a week.
I wasn't happy about it and wished she had made that clearer from the beginning. Without other options, I accepted the offer.
My summer job expected me to work 70+ hour weeks. I couldn't handle it and quit because I...
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>>17366995
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, but most of the time they sit in the fridge and slice fruit. My sister said they were cool guys, but she didn't like the job. I'm trying to stay calm before the interview, even though the situation is already stressful. I respond, "That sounds like a good job." While driving on a busy Chicago street, she turns to me and yells, "You're not taking this seriously enough!" then continues talking about other positions that are available.
I go through the interview,...
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>>17367029
I understand that my older sister lives in a small one bedroom apartment and is a clean freak. I did my best to respect her space, leave the apartment frequently and not make a mess.
Nonethless, I find the way she treated me unfair and downright rude. While I was still living with her, I told her that I was turning down the grocery store job because it was clear she didn't want me taking it. She kind of looked to the side and mumbled that she meant it to be a last resort, which was an obvious lie because...
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>>17367041
>>17367029
>>17366995
Bump. May I please have an outside perspective on the situation?
I own a home in a middle class neighborhood.
People mostly keep to themselves and stay indoor.
Recently a couple moved into a house down the street where I notice the husband spends a abnormal amount of time in the garage with the door up. His behavior is predictable:
> Very resilient in staying in the garage even during extreme weather conditions. Even having to take his shirt off during extreme heat.
> Talks to anyone and everyone who passes. Anytime someone is outside or walking around, he watches or talks to them.
> Drinks a ton of beer and reeks of alcohol when talking.
> Wife is seen sometimes walking around with him
> Lawn is a piece of shit and in the worst condition with edges growing into the road
> Smokes a lot
> When it is garbage day, it takes him a few days to bring it back in
> Can stay in the garage with the lights on or door open all hours of the night
> He does fucking nothing in the garage except stand around looking at things. Sometimes fiddling with something in a drawer or table.
> He doesn't seem to produce anything that I would consider a hobby you can do in the garage such as building model airplanes, putting together artwork, or anything
> Seems to have friends who come and visits him. He talks with them for a very long time so it appears he has friends and/or families who come to visits.
Overall he seems to bring the home value on the street down a lot. What I'm trying to figure out is what exactly is going on with this guy? Why isn't he indoors with his wife and children? Why would someone stay out in the garage this much rather than being indoors? He doesn't seem to be enjoying staying in the garage as he does absolutely nothing at all other than standing around and going out to talk to random people who walk the street?
>I judge other people's leisure time because I am scared that mummy and daddy's house price will go down if a man is in his garage
Fuck off and die
>>17367152
I came into this thread to post this exact sentiment.
OP, worry about you. Let garage guy worry about garage guy.
>>17367182
>OP, worry about you. Let garage guy worry about garage guy.
This.
Also I'm sick and had a really bad day so yeah.
Its 2 am here. Id stay and talk but my head hurts and my phone is dying. Curtoasy bump though.
Quick adivse. Try omegle. Seriously you can find people to entertain you for a bit.
>>17367004
What if it's not enough to chat with some internet stranger for a few minutes about nothing interesting? What if nothing is ever enough.
Life feels bland and painful.
>>17367023
Get it off your chest threads might help.
>go to work
>come home
>if I'm lucky, I'm already tired enough to go right to sleep
>if not, have to spend hours distracting myself on 4chan until it's late enough for me to fall asleep
>repeat until Friday
>weekend comes
>have absolutely nothing I'm interested in doing
>bored out of my mind for two days,...
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>>17366974
My phone is too old and I can't install it.
You gotta fight it anon. I know it's hard, the lack of willpower to do anything but boredom and dissatisfaction with your current lot in life is a deadly combo that repeats itself in a vicious cycle
Try exercise. Exercise is amazing for building up your willpower. Literally forcing your body to release endorphins
Reason why I am asking is because when I look like shit, don't shower / shave etc. I get hit on alot. When I look good women don't even know of my presence. What is going on?
Where are you when you look like shit, it might have something to do with it.
No shower: pheromones
No shave: looks kinda rugged, some people are into that.
what? what would a woman want with an ugly guy?
women do not interact with ugly guys if they can help it, they might not try for the top 5% either (because they think they wont win so no point) but they absolutely try and avoid the bottom 60% at all costs
>>17366985
K let me give you specific examples. Case in point, girl in my class. At start flirts with me hardcore, all over me, but I shaved next day and yep she acts all cold and what not. Not even kidding, two weeks later over weekend I grow my beard out and she's all over me, can't get enough.
I went to clubs for yrs, never had a woman hit on me. I dress up as Hancock, grow shitty beard and wear stupid thug shirt. Go to club and woman is all over me, asks me to go to the bathroom with her.
Was...
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The only reason I have not killed myself is because I know it would destroy my mother and father who love me very much and might follow suit if I do.
What can I do to make sure they will survive it when I take my life?
trust me don't do it there is always time for things to turn around imagine if kurt cobain was still alive and how different his life could be right now
>>17366965
Please don't kill yourself, no matter how shitty your life is if you love the people you and your family then don't do it. It would emotionally ruin your family
>>17366965
>im so noble
stop. you are lookingfor excuses to live.
so congrats. you WANT to live. yoiu just want to find meaning and happiness.
focus on that
How the fuck are you ever supposed to be confident as a guy. Unless you're a celebrity there's always a ton of guys out there that are more charming, smarter, richer, funnier, more fit, and more worldly than you are. You're always being compared to these guys by others (especially women).It seems like the only people who can have any claim to confidence are either these aforementioned celebrities, delusional people, or people that know whats up but are putting on a facade.
>charming, smarter, richer, funnier, more fit, and more worldly
Every single one if those traits are learned, not inherited. Those can be fixed if you're willing to put in the effort
>>17366970
It's totally absurd to think that you can compete with people who are so wealthy they can spend all their time working on those things, meanwhile most people have to work their asses off to have some sort of career later in life.
>>17366955
You're not supposed to be anything. Some guys are just confident, and girls want to get fucked by them. This isn't a game or a system that someone thought up and balanced so that it's achievable for everyone who puts in the effort. In fact it's really more the other way around - people are drawn to confidence precisely because it's hard to manufacture.
my girlfriend is really fat and I dont want to show her to my parents or be seen in public with her and I dont feel sexually attracted to her like at all
but she has an amazing personalty and its really easy to talk and have fun with her but at the same time i've dated MANY extremely attractive 10/10 girls but I just couldn't maintain rapport with them
god ffssssssssssssssssssssssss
like she has a super cute face so along with a 10/10 smile and way of doing thing but porking her would be like a difficult and unsatisfying task and im a super sexual...
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>>17366949
Tell her to run everyday and stuff her fat gob less.
Till then, satisfy yourself with girls that are around, don't worry too much about being faithful, unless it makes you guilty.
>>17366949
For a lot of fatties, they just lack the fit culture; the discipline, diet, and lifestyle can all be learned.
So take her on jogs and to the gym. Hell, start goibg on walks in the evenings. That's just good for relationships period. Gives you guys a nice chance to hang out and talk to esch other.
Start cooking with her. Show her how to make healthy meals while encouraging healthy habits.
There's the old proverb "give a man a fish and you feed him for a day; teach a man to fish...
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Just be friends instead
I'm tired of it all and I'm going to take the pussy way out and kill myself with helium.
Try and stop me.
Do it
Do whatever the fuck you want with your helium, but don't kill yourself. The last thing we need is another suicide to happen because someone wanted to be cool and edgy on 4chan.
How do I become friends with a lady that has blue hair?
You kill her 7 evil exes first, duh.
>you gotta have blue hair
BURNINATE TROOOOOOOOOGDOOOOOR
ask her if the carpet matches the drapes.
>Meet a girl that hits 100% the right spots
>We have a lot in common, start chatting more and more
>After a month it's something like 20k messages
>Ask her out, she immediately says yes and is obviously happy about it
>Dating for 2 weeks, every time we have a great time and she sticks to me like a velcro
>Friday night, today I want to tell her I love her
>We...
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>>17366931
The reason doesn't matter, get over her. If you let her do that once, she will do it again.
>we both do coke while drinking
Because you know, drug addicts are some of the most predictable, reasonable and consistent people on the planet.
Two weeks is nothing in a relationship or time to get to know someone. You guys (you at least definitely) sounded like you were in honeymoon mode hardcore. Move on and don't pursue her. The balls in her court now, you did all you could do. If she wants to make it happen, she'll let you know.
Also drugs.
This happened to me too, We both dated for quite a while, then she begain doing the same stuff that's happening to you. I eventuall had enough and left her, stopped talking to her, my mind was at peace, and then she tried to contact me again 2 months later, and I noped her. Dude get over girls like these, I call em fuckgirls. you don't wanna waste your energy, time and stress about it
