Why do you have this feeling of inadequacy?
It sounds like you're anxious about the future. Is this true?

>>17366679
kinda in the same boat
eventually the crippling depression and crying myself to sleep at night got to me as well as some other family shit and i thought fuck it

i gave 0 shits about what other people think and decided to go out and get a gf and some bros and life has been looking up

>>17366679
Make a list anon, what needs to get done, short term goals, midterm goals and long term goals. Due this every day and get as many things as you can done improve yourself anon

What do you need to get over with?

>>17366683
The fact that all my friends all have GF and probably getting daily puss.

I just graduated college and have a decent job making decent money. I'm not fat and I don't really think I'm ugly. Just never had a GF or knew anyone that liked me growing up.

>>17366687
Do you think fucking a prostitute will actually change anything?

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The comic may not be great but the reviews sound legit.

>>17366628
Bad Dragon's Sugar Star

The same thing happened to me OP. Sepsis can be fatal, but usually isn't. I was in the ICU for two nights with dangerously low blood pressure, and I really thought I was going to die.
Good luck anon. I wouldn't worry too much if I were you

MedBro here: Sepsis is essentially a blood infection due to an excess of bateria that somehow got into your bloodstream. You have bacteria in your blood, but it doesn't sound like it's gonna be fatal since you were in the hospital when they caught it.

>>17366625
This isn't quite right. You can have sepsis without bacteraemia.

Sepsis is a systemic inflammatory response to infection. Inflammatory signals cause all the tiny blood vessels in your body to dilate which can drop your blood pressure (and your heart rate increases to compensate).

The main issues with this is that your organs don't get the pressure they need to be perfused. Kidneys are especially vulnerable, but they respond very quickly.

All in all, if you're young and you're...
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>>17366552

Here's a fucking tip: Don't do it. No body wants to see your shit.

>>17366756
I don't care, your life is worthless and so Is mine. Nothing matters. I want tips I didn't ask for your opinion on my art.

Bump.

And one more thing is that if I pick one job, I can't jump into the other field. I'm locking myself down into one field

"Can't jump into another field"

Try not to think like that, dude.

To your question: nobody here can really tell you what to do. it's more complicated than money vs. Enjoyment. You should probably hit up a career counselor if you have the time to do that.

Overall, though, people generally regret going for the money more than going for the enjoyment, but everyone's different.

Good luck.

>>17366541
If job 1. is going to result in you constantly being stressed, then it might not be worth it to risk your health just for some money.

I knew a guy who died at age 46 from drinking too much. His job was very well paying (I think he was a CEO or a senior director or something like that) but he developed cancer from all the drinking, smoking, sleep deprivation and stress of job.

If Job .2 makes you happy and keeps you afloat, go for it.

Kill her. Kill him.

She looks fat and slightly retarded. Consider yourself lucky for getting out of a relationship you were bound to be trapped in forever cause you're a pussy.

How do I know you're a pussy? Oh that's easy. You want revenge. Grow up, faggot.

>>17366547
she was slightly fat but she was perfect for me, perfect body perfect everything, thats why i cant get over her

>>17366534
If you went to therapy and in the first try failed to help you with social anxiety than yes I could easily argue that your problem is preaty fucking severe. The simple fact that you talk your self out of it even though you know you have a problem is sign.
Either the therapists were shit or you went in with the conviction it wont work(psichy stuff is highly reliant on your own will to change).

>>17366643
>Either the therapists were shit or you went in with the conviction it wont work
Yeah it was a combination of the two but the "thinking it won't work" came later when the counselors were just having me vent and that's it. Group was just uncomfortable and boring because all it did was show me that I wasn't alone in my feelings but I already knew that.

>The simple fact that you talk your self out of it even though you know you have a problem is sign
That makes sense because my anxiety talks me out of anything and this would be no different. But I think the fact that my town's psychological service didn't reach out to me after I called really made me feel like I don't deserve. Pathetic I know but I always find ways to put myself down.

I know I need to get help it's just that my one source my insurance covers appears unreliable and may be a sign that they aren't the best for treating people.

>>17366689
So basicly your question is about where to get help.
Ok if you do have money I suggest going somewhere else even if it is not insurance covered. Better to have a problem solved than living with it and have it cause more shit (and possible fonancial loss).

Also you could maybe give the guys that didnt reach out to you after you called another shot. Maybe some kind of error happened and they lost your number/appointment/what ever the hell they had for you. Especially if they are one of the few in your town....
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You're the guy, so you can leave her if you'd like. The choice is ultimately yours.
If she's going to kill herself, let her. If you're worried about her killing you, have her committed.

>>17366508
You dont love her because she is weak? Or because you literaly cant do much with her? I sugest maybe grabbing a hobby she likes or make her enjoy a hobby you like. Try to find what ever commun ground is left.

Also dont really give up on martial arts/exercise thingie. Whi knows maybe she will toughen up.

If its truly over. Than just make sure shit storm doesnt happen. You could talk to her parents/friends about it worse case. Just to give em a heads up that she will have a bat break up.

>>17366508
ghost her and skip town if you can

I know there's medication for anxiety but I'd like to know another way, or what you anons do when you're stressed. Any comment will be much appreciated

I usually listen to angry or abrasive music. I've been doing it for a long time, but recently read a study that supports its effectiveness.
http://musicfeeds.com.au/news/heavy-metal-increases-positive-emotions-reduces-stress-australian-study-finds/#/slide/1
I didn't read it on that site, that's from a google search I did right now, but that's the study, I think. Get some metal, hardcore punk or harsh noise and de-stress with it. Listen to an album or half an album and see if you're less stressed after. Working out also helps me, but I can't...
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>>17366561
All right, thanks I'll try that and see if it helps.

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However, quite a few of her friends have started threating me differently. They don't greet whenever we meet (a lot of them either work at some of my regular pubs, or frequent the same places I do.)
One of them had a talk with me after he saw me make out with a girl the other week, and basically told me that the rumor was that I fucked several other women at the same time as woman in question.
This is only true for the first month, when we hadn't started seeing each other daily yet, and in all practicality SHE was the other woman.
I didn't...
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please bump, /adv/isors

>>17366484
You can't be with her.

Btw ur a fucking whore

>>17366445

Immediately start talking about something completely unrelated to what made you angry.

>>17366454
My problem is that I have to explain why I'm angry about these people fucking up at their jobs, TO the person who fucked up badly enough to cost me three months of my life because he doesn't understand speech, without seeming at all angry or dismayed at him, or implying that it was his fault.

>>17366465
Well to start, maybe you can explain it on here and maybe someone will have advice on it.

>>17366440
yes, deal with it.

You just answer it honestly man don't overthink it.

>>17366440
Whatever you're heart desires.

Or what's honest.

>>17366397

I think its carnelian, but im not sure..

>>17366397
Kidney stone

>>17366406
Oh, you!

Seems pretty reasonable to me

She pretty well would have lost me with everything after
>She speaks in this really odd monotone voice
Just watch her out of curiosity. Wouldn't get involved if I were me.

no
nono
nonono
nonononono
abandon ship, im not even joking. if shes this jealous and controlling and youre not in a relationship, when you do it will become literall hell. you will be munipulated and controlled by her. dont fucking do it.
please dlnt take this lightly, im being completely serious. block her and walk away. im not fucking around