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I've been feeling sick lately, like a constant stomach ache. Not too painful but constant, and I've been hungry a lot, like eating at night hungry.
Anyway I took a piss work today and the last few drops were brown, not normal yellow or whatever. My belly still hurts.
I want to fast tomorrow and drink only water, see if shit changes. I also sleep 4-5 hours a night but I've done that for the last year and no problems. I don't feel tired at all. I actually feel great, just the brown drops today and the stomach ache since Monday morning.
What should I do besides going to the medic?
>>17153575
It might be pancreatitus (sp?)
>>17153575
Go see a doctor
>>17153575
Brown piss means there is blood in your which either you could be extremely dehydrated which you could tell so you should see a doctor
I'm talking with a girl. friendly... my age is 22 and her age is 14.
He said me "feeling you on my clitoris" and some more things like that.
I didn't interested. maybe a little but there is 8 years difference between us.
One of my fantasy dd/lg plays. and some bdsm things. but not with that years old girls. never happened before.
She is easy... maybe. but fuck this. i am really confused. i dont know what to do. i hate my life right now.
What advice are you looking for? Asking how to hook up with a 14 year old? Fuck off.
>>17153562
unless its legal in your country, dont do anything with her, you could get in deep shit. if its legal, have fun. 16 is legal here in england and i would definitely fuck a 16 year old if i got the chance.
>>17153569
i don't want to fuck her. i don't know to what can i do. never seen like this. if i want to fuck a girl i need to work hard for it. but this is seem so easy and not legal.
>>17153571
you right. not legal here. it's a good reason for me.
What characteristics of his ass and body look like a woman's?
It's the fact that someone keeps posting it and obsessing over it.
the fact that i'd bury my dick in it
So there's this girl at work, younger. She's gorgeous, and has a boyfriend that's older than I am.
I know her boyfriend, and I would say that she and I are "friends".
All too often, I'll myself falling easily into a flirtatious interplay with this girl. She pokes me, touches my stomach, chest, shoulders, arms, sits close to me, shares personal things....it's fucking strange.
I try to push it away, and I think I do a pretty good job, but frankly, I like it. I'm definitely attracted to her, and I think she's attracted to me.
Is she just young and confused? If that's the case I feel like it would be seriously wrong for me to manipulate this situation.
And what if she does break up with her boyfriend? Should I go for it? I know the guy and I guess we're kind of friends, but not to the point that I would feel bad never talking to him again.
tl;dr - cute young girl with boyfriend at work flirts with me. Not sure if she's just young and dumb (or even just bored), or if there's something there.
I guess I should mention that I really don't want to take advantage of her and manipulate her to cheat on her boyfriend. I wouldn't make any move until he's out of the picture.
>>17153371
I know it's late here in the US, guess that might be why the board in kind of slow.
regardless, bump.
>>17153395
It couldn't possibly be that your question is so mundane that people don't care enough to reply.
>>17153397
Yeah, could be that too.
Well thanks anyway.
On a scale of 1 to creeper, how weird would it be for me to send a FB message to the cute girl who played piano at my cousin's wedding, in order to strike up a conversation as a segue into potentially asking her out?
Perhaps I should note that I could have talked to her while I was there, but I'm essentially a hopeless retard when it comes to social interactions.
I was going to use that to rationalize my decision not to message her, but I've come to realize that while I had the chance to get to know her better at the time, I just wasn't comfortable doing so in that situation. Very loud, tons of people.. it's just not conducive to the kind of interaction I want to have (with her).
>>17153299
"Hi, you played the piano at my cousins wedding and I thought you played it very nice. I'm a big fan of Chopin and I wondered if you could teach me how to finger your asshole on the rythm of his nocturnes."
The end of the semester has arrived. I was supposed to graduate this year but I fucked up by switching my major. It hurts going on facebook and seeing everyone's grad pics and happy family.
How do I stop comparing my self?
I feel like a complete failure.
My GPA is not that great either.
I switched my major way to late and Im not even sure what I really want to do with it. Switched from bio to CS. CS seemed to have have better job opportunities without going to school for an additional 4 years.
Anyone else graduate late?
How late?
What held you back?
Did future employers take notice of the extensive time you were in college?
Did graduating after more than 4 years have a negative impact on you in any way?
>he fell for the college meme
>>17153293
You'll be fine. You're graduating at a time when the economy is at an upswing.
>>17153293
You can use others as a metric of where you want to be, but once you start to dwell upon and obsess over the comparisons you're going to tear yourself up. Even if you're the best at whatever it is you do, it's going to be temporary, and there's going to be people who are better than you at basically every other aspect of life.
Try not to focus too much on comparing to others, but on comparing to self. Are you better than the you of yesterday? Have you grown? If so, you're not failing.
I'm 23 and not out of my undergrad yet. I went into a physics program, got 3 years in and basically had a break down. I was faced with the fact that to do anything in the field I needed a doctorate, and no one was letting me into labs to do research (which is needed for grad school), my girlfriend had left me, I was injured and couldn't properly do the athletics I loved. It was genuinely hellish.
I came home, applied to the local university for a kinesilogy/ electrical engineering dual major and since I've been here I've had straight As. I'm likely going to get a research position with a professor who's the most prominent researcher on campus and I should be graduating in a 2-3 semesters then heading off to graduate school for biomechanics.
Just do your best, that's all anyone can ask for.
I suffer from psychotic depression and I can't take it anymore. I can't clean, I can barely eat and every waking moment of the day I want to kill myself.
I've decided I've had enough and I'm thinking of checking into a psych ward. I want to hear what /adv/ has to say.
You were diagnosed with this?
If so, what were you prescribed for it?
>>17153295
Abilify and effexor. Don't ask me what the medical names are. The pills make me feel better but not good enough to stop me from wanting to die.
Without them I can have panic attacks.
I don't understand why you can't clean? Everyone has had trouble eating I think. Eating too much or too little. What's this nonsense about "can't clean?" You can.
You can and you must.
Okay, so there is this girl that was in one of my college classes last semester, like August through December 2015. She was pretty, had hella similar personality traits to me, and really was the first girl that I was attracted to more so from personality than looks, and she was still pretty.
Anyways, I talked to her several times, and it was good conversations where we'd laugh and yeah, it was good. I meant to get her number but never did.
However, I remember her name so when I looked it up on Instagram, her profile came up. Should I follow her and message her like tomorrow? I figure at this point it doesn't matter, because if I don't do it, nothing happens, and if it goes south, then at least I try.
>>17153290
the logic sounds about right yeah. i wouldnt wory about it at all, jut go for it. like you said, worst case scenario your life is exactly the same as it was.
if she asks how you found her just say you were doing XX class (whichever class ties in most to the one you shared last semester) got reminded of her, and thought you'd look her up.
await response, talk casually, than transition into 'we shoudl catch up, are you free XX for YY' ?
good luck
>>17153294
>>17153302
I'm doing it bros. wish me luck.
So I'm in this friendship that just keeps getting progressively more aggravating, and I don't know whether to call it quits or tough it out.
We met when we were younger, and we got along pretty well then. We were both awkward and had similar interests, so we had a lot to talk about and could relate to one another easily. Now, about five years later, things are different; I've changed and they haven't. I've gone on to college, gotten myself a good group of close friends, a job, reasonable goals and aspirations, and they're just kind of....not doing anything.
They're over twenty, yet they have no driver's license or learner's permit, so it always falls on me to drive us literally anywhere we need to go. They've lost more than one job, and despite currently having no job, continue to spend nearly every penny on their hobbies and not saving a single cent for emergencies. They have made me feel bad about my being in a better financial situation than them, despite this being out of my control.
They're awkward as hell and insanely embarrassing to be around and introduce to my other friends. Their behavior is so flamboyant and theatrical, and they way they dress is so outlandish that I don't like being seen in public with them. When we were younger, it wasn't a big deal, but I grew out of my crazy clothes in public stage, and they didn't. While I always found their behavior odd, I've only recently started feeling like I'm babysitting them rather than hanging out with a friend.
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At this point, I honestly think we're only friends because we share an interest in a very specific hobby and live in an area where said hobby is uncommon. Our morals don't really align well, and while it hasn't happened in a while, they've stated that they were "worried about me" because I wasn't Christian, and had the gall to speak for my partner (who used to have more Christian-aligned morals, but has not for several years) on the matter as well, despite not actually knowing my partner that well at the time.
None of this would honestly be a problem or even be up for debate if it weren't for one simple thing:
I'm their only real-life friend.
They've brought it up on numerous occasions that they're kind of the "throwaway" friend, and that they've lost nearly all of their other friends because they "grow bored" of them. More than once they've stated that they expect me to leave them as well, which makes me feel like absolute shit for even thinking about dropping them.
They've talked to me about how they've gone through times of depression where they had suicidal thoughts, and I'm afraid that if I attempt to end the friendship, they'll wind up offing themselves. I feel obligated to remain friends with them, despite the fact that I don't enjoy their company anymore. It shouldn't be such a big deal considering that I don't see them very often (we live a few hours apart), but every time I do, I just get less and less patient with them.
TLDR; My friend is awkward, embarrassing, and annoying as fuck but I feel guilted into staying friends with them because I don't want them to kill themselves.
The fuck. You're being emotionally blackmailed by this toxic shitbag. But you already know that.
Do what you have to do. Just gradually stop seeing this person. Don't have a breakup moment. Toxic people like this thrive on confrontation. Just be busy and unavailable to hang out. Wait a couple weeks and remove them from social media. They'll probably take the hint.
If they text you trying to tell you some shit about offing themselves know that A) they probably won't do it and B) if they do it, it's not because of you not being friends with them, it's because all of their other problems that are NOT your responsibility to fix. This person isn't family, they're a friend that's not been a good friend to you. You don't have to have this cancer in your life and in no way is it your responsibility to fix this scumfuck.
Just keep your boundaries firm (you don't want this person in your life anymore because they are toxic) and if they get in your face state that they're a toxic influence in your life at the moment and that you're worried about them and really think they should get counseling. If this person harasses you with suicide attention pleas or you really think they're going to commit suicide then call the police and they'll be placed under involuntary psychiatric hold. That'll be the start to them getting the help they need.
That's all very fucking extreme though and I doubt it'll come to that. Most likely this person is just a dirtbag who isn't above using their own depression to manipulate other people.
>>17153282
My additional concern about dropping them is that I'm not entirely certain they're doing any of this on purpose.
They're honestly a really nice and sweet person when they aren't doing anything I listed above. They're really giving and kind, and I even used to tell people they were the sweetest person I knew.
I don't think they'd ever argue or fight me about me trying to leave the friendship either. They'd just quietly let it happen and probably mumble something about how they knew this was going to happen under their breath.
I guess one plus is that neither of us really have social media, so that's one less thing to cut off from them.
Last I heard, they're actually getting help from a therapist, though I don't know how long this has been going on, so I can't say if it's improved their behavior or not.
>23
>Friends have all moved out of state
>Friends left are just shitty acquaintances from highschool who have in all honesty turned out to be pretty big losers
>Never have a good time hanging out with them, they literally only talk about nintendo or comics. Literally, not figuratively.
>Can never seem to meet anybody in classes, never any room for small talk, beyond the fact I'm bad at it
Where do I make friends that isn't "sportsball club meeting"?
have you tried your local nintendo and comic book shop?
>>17153122
you clever bastard hahaha
>>17153112
Try getting out of your comfortably zone anon
How quickly can you develop a physical addiction to alcohol? I'm thinking 3 months on the nose. I had never been a drinker before and immediately started with 2 liters of rum a week. For the last two days I've been experiencing what felt like "delayed hangovers." I woke up feeling completely fine but then after about 2 hours I started to feel hungover. I assume I'm at the juncture where quitting cold turkey would be best. I've heard about seizure risks etc and that its recommended to just reduce consumption at first, but if I'm catching the addiction this early then I assume I'd be doing more harm then good with that approach.
>>17153100
might be best to talk to your doctor about this, but I really doubt after 3 months you're so far gone that you need to worry about the more severe symptoms of alcohol withdrawal. It'll most likely just really suck for a while then you'll pull through.
>>17153108
I dunno I've got a very strong suspicion that this delayed hangover thing is a symptom of physical addiction. I already told my doctor about a month ago what I was doing and thats who warned me of seizures and the reduce consumption thing.
>>17153100
i've been through alcohol withdrawals. you won't get serious withdrawals at that level of drinking. go cold turkey, you'll probably just have low energy for a couple days and be irritable that you're not giving your body alcohol. physical addiction should fade in a week tops for you (probably more like 3-4 days though). if you have a mental dependence you're going to need to put in some work to stop.
Any anons knowledgeable about retirement homes/end of life care?
I'm incredibly concerned about my gf's mom. She's a loser, straight out. She drives trucks but that's not a career that offers her retirement or benefits. Basically, she lives paycheck to paycheck, has no savings, is always struggling. Me, I'm the kind of person who invests in 401k, mutual funds, etc. I'll be fine in retirement. My parents are fine as well (they're 70 and have their shit straight). I don't want to have to deal with her shitty mom when she becomes infirm and invalid, within the next 10 years.
What options are available to poor as fuck old people who fucked up in their lives and have no money to their name when they are no longer of working age? Is there some sort of government program? Government home? fuck. I refuse to support this shit old woman.
I don't know shouldn't she get social security since the government takes it out of your salary?
>>17153022
At her income level, she'd get less than a thousand a month in SSI. That's nowhere near enough money to afford a end of life care, which costs over 2 grand a month.
>>17153026
have you never heard of medicare or something?
What lifestyle choice would I need to make that would be consistent of a guy who bangs shitloads of hot women (i.e. strippers, models, porn stars etc)?
You can know so much about someone by the question they ask, but more from how they ask it.
>>17152993
1.- Stop using 4chan
2.- Stop using internet
3.- ???
4.- Profit
Drug dealer. Duh!
Asus x550jx-xx129d
Would it run armored warfare?
>gaming
>laptop
Pick one
you cant game on an entry level laptop.
You have to bust at least 1k.
I have a Lenovo Y50-70. Matte screen so no glare, can run games like WoW at full max, dark souls 3 at one tier under max, skyrim at max.
I don't know what armored warfare is, I haven't played videogames much at all ever since I got a job and had the money to actually run videogames.
you gonna wan advat warfar instead of armoridillo bbq warvare and blus azuzuzuzusususuzsus sorry i fel asleeb Xd, bud yea I wod say you will run breddy good from warfar if your FASD! hehehe
how do I get invited to parties
Ive literally gone 4 years of highschool and 1 year of college with nobody telling me anything about parties
>>17152959
Make friends with college age liuqor store worker girls, parties always require booze, and ive been to like a couple parties that way.
Rush
>>17152959
Do you ever invite other people anywhere? Friendships are a two-way street. If you don't reach out to others, they will conclude that YOU don't like THEM, and they'll respect your privacy by leaving you alone.
