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I'm of age where I should have kids and this is most important to my history/culture.
fact is I'm unemployed and unable to be employed.
and with my savings about 13 grand should I buy a car for 5 grand????......
need money for health insurance for kids and schooling....
I get about 300 a week after rent is taken care of.
.....
why do I want to buy a car. not really needing it.
live near public transport and can take it 8/10 places I go to.
car is just to have a nice pocession to have fun in.
Sounds like you already answered your own question.
However, there is no age where you "should" have kids. People have kids at lots of different ages. Do it only when it feels right. But yeah, I'm raising my kid with no car and it's a little inconvenient, but totally do-able.
>>17277794
thanks. but it's tempting to buy a race car, to have one like a dog
Getting kids will not be easy, you sure you got the job you want to be at until you retire?
Getting a reliable car before kids would be the best.
I'd like to think I'm half decent at this whole "relationship" thing
>Be in LDR
>Will move to him soon
>I still make rookie mistakes and hurt his feelings a bit more often than is normal
>Completely by accident
>I also buy him shit whenever I can
>Partly because I like to spoil him and partly because I don't think my love from afar is enough so I think material things...
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What a beta let's his gf buy him shit all the time?
Not at all OP. There's nothing wrong with spoiling your loved ones, especially when you're at a distance.
>>17277675
He buys me stuff sometimes, he's just poor and can rarely afford anything.
I like sitting in a car as a passenger . So I was thinking maybe I would enjoy being Uber ?
But what I'm worried about is 1. Apparently the pay isn't the greatest or as good as they claim , 2 robots replacing me and 3. Me ending up not liking it . But 3 is the least likely I think
I am getting a license soon , and want to get the appropriate vehicle , but I'm not sure whether or not I would be good with my current job ?
Wait till you have a couple years experience driving first anon. Also try and get a job with a cab,don't have yo worry about your own car,insurance for commercial use can get ugly,etc. And it's much more reliable pay.
>>17277839
Apparently cab drivers don't get paid much . That and the idea of setting my own schedule is nice
>>17277655
>lgbt.png
Haha, gay.
I was addicted to porn however in a long battle I got porn substituted by a platonic love in which I only masturbated to her.
Slooowly I got my ejaculation disorder healed and started feeling a lot better.
The problem starts here:
Platonic love has started to eaten myself like porn did. I cannot stop thinking about her. It generates a lot of anxiety knowing it is almost imposible for me to get her.
At the beginning the idea that I could get her even at the most significant posibility was a healing idea that pushed me throught my day to do things.
But...
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>>17277648
Find someone else, and focus your energies on her instead.
Ask her out.
>>17277648
>platonic love
>masturbated to her
You keep using this work "platonic". I do not think it means what you think it means.
Sit down, take a load off. Tell us what's going on.
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About 5 months ago I experienced emotional and mental abuse. It traumatized me and when I asked for help I never got it until it was absolutely dire, I was at my wits end dealing with my abuser. I was taken into another home, I moved away, somewhere away from my abuser but the place I moved was unsupportive. I had no privacy, I had no rest, I had to take up responsibilities I could not manage. I was expected much when I was still trying to regain my sense of safety because for a month...
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Anyone browse this site a lot in 2012? Did politics leak into the other boards as much as it's doing now?
>>17277577
It's ok, anon. It's only been 5 months. Nobody heals that fast.
Are you seeing a therapist?
>>17277570
>don't have to worry about /x/ turning to shit; it's always been so.
Truth right there. It feels like it went even further down somewhere along the line, last year i tried to maintain a lucid dreaming general but it kept dying after 10 posts. Feels bad man.
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How to become a great orator and speaker? I want to pursue a political career down the line. Any advice for improving vocabulary, syntax, etc.
>>17277528
Drama class.
Elocution lessons.
Debate clubs.
Junior member of polictal party.
Because an active activist.
I'm surprised you didn't come up with any of these of these ideas yourself.
>>17277537
Doing debate at uni next year, already a political party member, was just looking for some inspiration, I like the elocution lessons idea, might give it a shot, drama classes aren't really my thing.
Thanks for the ideas anon.
>>17277528
Debate in college wont teAch you shit about how to orate, should have done it in highschool where everything isn't completely poisoned by the progressive styles
I think my teeth is degrading guys, i just ate spaghetti and i felt a grinding/cracking sensation in my back teeth. I'm not sure what the problem is since i brush my teeth everyday, perhaps its a diet problem? How do I solve this
>>17277461
>How do I solve this
See a dentist.
>>17277472
THUS
Maybe you didnt cook spaghetti properly.
Also teeth problems can be a sign of other body problems like certain mineral deficiancies. See a dentist.
Any nuclearfags here? Tell me about your experiences, if you like it or regret getting in the industry etc. Also generally, is nuclear engineering viable in today's market? I need to decide my major...
>>17277372
What the fuck is a nuclearfag?
>>17277384
A powerful one, who when he has a meltdown his hometown looks like 28 days later.
STANDING
Alright shit happened and I haven't been this confused in a while. I was texting the girl I like, exchanging bad jokes and puns. After a while of this, she asked me if I'd kill myself with her. Being a nihilist and not giving a shit about anything (Nihilist in love, how contradictory), I said yeah, but don't you go to hell for that? (she's christian...god I'm inconcistent) She said: oh yeah... would you commit murder with me- wait, can't do that either. Lastly, she asked if I'd destroy the earth with her. I said yes to all of these, mostly...
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>>17277306
she's feeling oppressed by her religion and stifled by her parents. She's probably on tumblr writing edgy ass shit and posting bdsm. You have to be the badass badboy boyfriend that gives her the dick and then breaks her heart so she can have the excitement she craves.
even better if you have a motorcycle.
Great! Now where's my meme?
>>17277317
send her this and tell her you made it
/adv/,
I need help. My girlfriend and I just had a mutual break up yesterday. We still love each other, but things just havent been working out recently, and I couldnt stand the ups and downs anymore.
I feel heartbroken, to say the least. I cant concentrate, and I have a lot of homework to catch up because I have been unable to concentrate on reading a boring ass book since the break up.
Can anyone give some advice, some encouraging thoughts?
ive spent all day playing video games probably trying to hide from my reality of sadness and homework.
i think i'll try to read while i wait for a response...
>>17277080
>mutual break up
So she dumped you?
>>17277117
technically she pulled the trigger, but we were both pretty unhappy with all the recent disagreements. why do u ask?
>Currently living in Japan
>Will leave within the next 6 months
>Been seeing a girl for a few weeks
>She's nice
>Another girl I met a few months ago
>Texted me randomly yesterday, she's moving to Australia next week
>Wants to have a night of wild fun before she leaves
How morally bankrupt am I if I say yes? Me and the other girl aren't...
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>>17276984
Nice photo from the owl cafe in harajuku.
Do it man. If these girls aren't serious for you then do it.
It's not cheating, you don't need to feel bad.
>>17276984
None. Go for it. 100%. You'll regret it if you don't, like deleting her nudes. NEVER again
How do screens/cameras/monitors have such a precise output? How do they recreate reality in visual and audio output with such precise replication? How is that they accurately track the movement of real time?
Really makes you think.
>>17276820
Google it you retard.
Are you 12?
>>17276820
Go be high elsewhere
What is the ideal smell for a a femboy?
I asked on here earlier what would be good imorovments for someone gay (but not like showy offy) to attract more guys, and your answers were take care of skin, fa style, be a decent human being, and smell good.
What exactly would you expect a bottom guy to smell like (no humor here)
I was thinking of vanilla or cherries or something but I don't want to overdo it.
>>17276794
Ask the anons in /tv/
they're all femboys
I think you're overthinking it anon. a nice flowery scent guy. Like lavender. Fuck cherries dude that not a turn on to smell like them. Vanilla too. fuck all that. just smell like flowers. nothing too mature smelling since you're a femboy, think more androgynous/simple scents.
>>17276794
A scent a girl would wear, idiot.
I think it's time to break up with my girlfriend. We've been dating for about four months, and I just don't feel that... spark, I guess? My mind doesn't wander to her. I don't think about her when I see other girls. Kissing her, I don't feel that same insane rush that I've felt with girls I was head-over-heels for, and I just quite honestly am into her as much as I'm into a friends with benefits.
I care about her a lot. She's had a very hard life, and because of it she suffers from pretty bad depression. Her living situation is...
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So, what the fuck do I do? I've tried to break up with her before (a couple of weeks ago), saying that I really didn't like how I wasn't able to make her happy, and she countered saying that I've made her happier than she's ever been. She flew into hysterics and self-hatred, and blamed everything on herself even though I tried my hardest to blame it on myself. I eventually conceded, and said that we could see how it went, before eventually saying that I thought that we'd be fine a few days later when things got a little better. And they did get...
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Anons please
>>17276861
My advice is just to be nice but firm. Tell her you want to break up, and put your foot down on the matter. You could offer to be her friend, but that could create awkward situations
To guys who have seen prostitutes, how is it? Are you overcome with shame afterward or are you just glad that you busted a nut?
The latter.
They were there to make money, I was there to bust a nut. And that's all there was to it.
Shame? No shame. A little fear of getting ripped off mugged, or arrested, but no shame.
From what I hear with friends who do, it doesn't make much of a difference if you do it once. It's like eating a bag of chips. Maybe it's worth the novelty, once, if you haven't been with a partner.
Some friends seem to have more interest in seeing prostitutes than finding a girl who is actually interested in them, it's the easy way out.
Personally, it's not worth the cash, since it's very expensive short-lived pleasure with no future benefit. As opposed to LAN gaming, etc, which are similar without the monetary cost.
