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I am becoming a dating cunt. I feel like everything I'm saying isn't real anymore. I just don't like hurting people. How do you know you are actually into someone and the person is worth persuing. I got ditched from two dates by an asshole recently and I'm worried I'm over compensating.
>>17274543
Screenshot is a person I have been on one date with the night before.
>>17274543
>>17274546
So, do you want some advice, or something else? I'm not entirely sure what you're looking for here.
>>17274556
Yes. Do I seem interested in this person? Or do I seem disinterested. If so should I try another date or end it? i think this person is nice and enjoyed the date but this kiss was beyond awful. The person is 6 years older than me which makes feel they are looking for marriage sooner rather than later and I'm nowhere near that point. I am looking for a committed relationship but not marriage yet.
>date girl
>great at first, start a relatioship
>find out she has severe depression because of her work
>barely affectionate towards me
>try to help her with her depression, but it reaches the point where I'm miserable whenever I'm with her, just because she refuses any help
>break it off
>date another girl
>find...
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>>17274478
Everyones got problems OP. Seriously though, get off the computer and get a fuckin hobby man. Theres nice women your just shopping in the discarded/trash section
>>17274500
You're. Shit man no sleep = lower brain function
>>17274500
>discarded section
Great description of the OKCupid scene right there. Don't use that website, half of the women there only use it for the attention and the other half is damaged goods in their early 30s.
I'm having a bit of a pregnancy scare. In all honesty I'm probably overreacting, but a few weeks back I was joking with my friends about how my breasts have been acting weird and my areolar glands were poking out and I've been having weird cravings and shit. This was around the time when I was fooling around with a dude but all we did was 69—though, being my paranoid self, I'm wondering if it's possible that sperm came in contact with vagina via someone's hands.
Again, I'd consider myself just being paranoid, but my period is five or...
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Anon, if you are concerned; get a test.
If it is positive, you know now so you can make that decision now and not later when it is either too late or you're caught unprepared.
If it is negative, good news you don't need to panic anymore.
Maybe you are overreacting but if it isnt hard to get a pregnancy test, I don't see what is holding you back here.
Additionally, it may be advisable for you to see a doctor because you're throwing up so much.
Good luck Anon.
When was the last time you had your period?
I had a pregnancy scare with my ex girlfriend, my mistake was that I re-used a condom. I didn't cum in it so I thought "why not? I was young back then. Anyways she had symptoms for 2 and a half weeks every day it was TERRIBLE. she had cravings, stomach problems, she even threward up and was dizzy all the time. Her nipple also became different. And at the end she wasn't her period just came late. So my advice to you is that you are probably not pregnant and you should just wait for it to come. You'll be okay !
Impregnation from cum on someone's hands is very unlikely. Sperm die quickly in the open air and are unlikely to make it to the womb from surface contact alone.
Personally it sounds to me like you've been paranoid about it for a while and overreacting at any symptoms that pop up. Now you're stressed out and anxious so your period is late and you feel ill.
Take a pregnancy test to be safe and go on the pill or something if you're gonna get this freaked out.
Where can I learn to dance by practicing at home? No particular style, I just don't understand dance at all.
You have a computer in front of you that can visually provide you with every dance that has ever existed. Have you studied any yet or did you just come straight here to waste time
Literally google "learn to dance"
>>17274413
I can teach you the basics. Practice at home in front of the mirror.
Smoothly gyrate your hips. Do some motions with your hands. While pushing the hip to one side, push your shoulder on the opposite-side. Try do to this while following the rhythm of the song.
If you follow my instructions, congratulations are due: you've learned the basics of dancing, and are ready to hit the club.
how do I deal with doing boring shit
right now I'm trying to get better hobbies besides watching shitty animus and playing videogames
I'm trying reading right now but I can't get past 5 pages because it's so boring
I really want to be the change pls help
>>17274411
Beating boredom is very different for each of us, so you just have to find the right things that might entertain you! There's all kinds of books, you might just need to get a better one that covers one of your interests. Think about fun things: Summer is here, so there's going to the park/beach/hiking/fishing/movies/live shows/mall/visit friends/take a trip, etc. There's often events like fairs going on. You could take up a hobby like drawing, dancing, playing music, etc. Just think about what's...
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>>17274707
>summer is here
fucking american retard
Anyway OP, you could try playing an instrument or writing. And watch movies that will allow you to talk to interesting people, the ones that aren't obscure but aren't super popular dumb tier. You could take doing charity work as a hobby, that should make a good impression on people and make you feel better yourself. I hate reading long stuff too, maybe your thing is short stories, try Ray Bradbury.
>>17274411
I've found lately that attempting to distance myself from my current hobbies (addictions?) helps me find new things to do. Even if it's a simple idea, go outside and go for a walk. Sit in the sun, it's good for you. Talk to people. Try and make relationships and ask for real advice from real people.
If you're really conflicted about your current pasttimes, you have to ask yourself if those hobbies are affecting you in a negative way. If they are and you want to change, if at least half...
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Well, I'd love to tell you the story behind this but, your time must be quite precious, so I won't. Anyway, girl I like apparently likes me back according to her friends. She's somewhat shy. What should I do? (Also, if you didn't read the subject, memes are more than welcome. Hell, attach one to your piece of advice) Thanks.
If she's shy, you have to lead the way.
ask for a "date". Get into a conversation with her somehow/ if its school, then at a task with partners etc, and end up asking to go to the cinema with her. But not only, go to the cinema at evening and before it , get something to eat, talk etc . If she says no, or tries to make any subterfuges you know the answer, but if she comes up with like: how about at: (insert date) , then its fine.
I'll do that, cheers mate!
