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Is it weird to have a lot of hair around your nipples?
If you're a man no
If you're a woman yeah
But both can be fixed with a razor, just dont slice your nip nips off
It's not weird for either sexes but it is more common in men. If you are female then it may be due to a hormone imbalance.
My ex had some around her nipples. It didn't bother me.
I have no idea what the relationship between me and this girl is. We kissed/made out a few times at mutual friend gatherings. We had sex one time so I'm assuming that means she's into me. The last time I saw her at a party she texted me saying the only reason why she went was for me. So if she's still apparent about liking me after the sex the sex couldn't have been bad or something.
I even had an insider (not by my own notion, this was independent) talk to her. he said something along the lines of "text her more" or something but i was drunk...
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Stop trying to strategize. The worst thing about first starting to text someone is to second guess everything. Just text her when you want to text her. If she had work tough tits text her back saying "ok have a good day at work." people like that polite shit.
You strategize and it gets awkward and forced. no-one fucking likes awkward convos.
Man, as a girl I should say : stop fucking playing this games. You think that by not answering fast she'll like you better well let me tell something: this isnt a fucking movie
If u want a girl go there and get her. Show her you know what you want and definetely goes for it. Nothing is sexier than a confident guy. If your instintcs tell you she's messing with you Just let go
But for god sake stop playing games and man up
You want her? Make that clear
God, you Both had sex, its not like you went to the movies together. You fucked godammit
Make...
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>>17279480
Why doesn't she WOMANUP and contact him for a date if she's so interested?
>all my friends on the east coast
>we try to live stream some shows together to chat at the same time
>all the pirate streams are shity, end up getting frozen even with 60mbps
i have directv access through ,my boss so could log on to the channels website and live stream from there. the problem is that its the west coast, cuz thats where im from. any way to spoof it so its east coast? preferrably without slowing it down a hella lot.
>>17279425
Look outside, I know that you'll recognize
it's summertime
>>17279603
Seriously.
Steaming shows and chatting? What are you 12?
>>17279603
Did you know this album is about a 8 year old girl that Coyne raped and her escapist fantasy/battle to cope?
My boyfriend told me the other day that we should change things a little in bed. We've been together for 1 usar and 6 months but our sex is not the same. I mean... iT's good but it's not mindblowing
I'm a woman with some self steem issues and it affects me. I don't like fucking on top because he'll see my belly and I'm not skinny at all...
He says he tottally loves me the way i am but the fact that I don't find myself vou fucks hoje everything.
I wanna have mindblowing sex but i feel that I dont know how to fico though...
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I'm sorry for english mistakes. I'm brazilian and sometimes I get confused writing in english
You could try working out together if that is one issue, you'll find each other more physically attractive which may stimulate something in your sexy life.
You could simply ask him what his fetishes or fantasies are and move forward with those. Or vice versa tell him yours.
Try doing things that are spontaneous and out of the ordinary like being aggressive and making the first move somewhere other than when you're both in the bed.
I've been in a similar situation and from personal experience I found the only way to fix it is to be confident in yourself, in your appearance.
I know this is easier said than done but once I tried to see myself through his eyes and imagine how sexy I look to him I really learned to let go and the sex is incredible.
Only when you let go, forget what you look like and enjoy the moment will "mind blowing" be achieved.
Oh and some alcohol/weed/whatever helps lower your inhibitions, so that's always a good starter!
All of the things that make me upset are things that I can't talk about to people or are things I would get shit on for admitting. Mostly I'm a massive sexual degenerate, but I also have gender identity issues, I'm not straight, my only interests are extremely niche (tabletop rpg's), and my only solace is writing music about my feelings and putting them on my soundcloud. But I have to keep my soundcloud secret because I have a nice job, live in the deep south, and my music gives a lot away when it comes to who I am. People would start to question everything about me if they heard my music.
What do anons?
Lol not a single reply
Fugg
>>17279166
you could tell us about the things that make you upset
>>17279166
Move or try and meet like minded individuals through social media or in person. Or just vent on 4chan.
This self-depreciating degenerate shit getting old though. You can have fucked up fetishes and still be mentally healthy.
So i've been with this girl for about 6 months now. We had know eachother for about a year because we worked together but we didnt talk for another 6 months or so after she had gotten a new job.
She had randomly hit me up one day on snapchat and jokingly said DTF? and it actually happened that night, which is weird because I never saw myself actually hooking up with this girl, ever.
After we had hooked up we had a little "bed talk" or whatever you wanna call it and anyways she had said that we'd definitely have to do it again as a FWB kind of...
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I let her have her way but I showed up to her house 2 days later to apologize for making her feel like she couldnt give me what I was giving her and put all the blame on myself, but she continues to angrily insist that this relationship was something she never wanted (we originally told eachother we didnt even want a relationship anyhow, but it still happened for the right reason, or so I thought). and that finally, she just wants to 'figure out what she's doing' on her own, and 'doesn't want to have to rely on someone for happiness'. Ive been going...
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One last thing I forgot to mention, I told her I just wanted one last chance to sit down and discuss this shit. Or to just be together and maybe she can decide maybe she's making a mistake. She finally agreed that we can see eachother after work tomorrow (we work together at one of my jobs) and I'm not even sure what I'm supposed to do. I don't feel like I should have to be convincing my girl what's right for her, but I just can't comprehend her thought process on this whole situation, I've been raking my mind for the right words to say to...
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bumping for advice
Hi all need some /adv/ i have a job interview tomorrow for a data entry position, thing is i exceed the minimal requirements.What is the right way to ask for higher wages than the minimum offered?
forgot to add that the application says 13-16an hour, what can i say if they offer anything under 16?
>>17279124
Ask about advancement opportunities and mention that, while you are interested in the job, that it would be more attractive to you if the pay was closer to $__________ due to experience, education, etc. As it is a data entry position, though, this is a risky step: There's lots of people going for those jobs, and some are willing to accept the minimum offered, so be ready to feel this one out and negotiate if they're willing to even consider higher pay. GL!
>>17279193
Thanks, A friend told me best i could do is just say "I was hoping for X amount"
I just started texting this girl today but I've been talking to her at work over the past few weeks. She acts pretty flirty around me and I constantly catch her looking at me.
I'm fairly good looking and fit, and i am pretty confident, I just don't want to end up friendzoned, which seems to happen to me time and time again when I text girls.
So any help and tips to keep the convo going strong and how to keep from getting friend zoned?
OP here, I guess I should mention she didn't give me her number I just messaged her first on twitter
>frienzone
there is no such thing
if she likes you as a friend and is available attraction kicks in and a relationship forms
your real concern should be making it clear about your intentions
you can do that by being honest and straightforward
you think she looks cute: tell her
you want to kiss her: tell her and then do it
>>17279171
Never post on /adv/ again
I don't understand myself.
I currently have a "fuck buddy" who happened to take my virginity. I'm an introverted, shy, beta dude who finally got laid. Pretty sweet, huh?
Now, the fucked up part is that, while I have this friend of mine that I'm active with, there's another girl that I like romantically. She too is an introvert, awkward, and really connects with me when we communicate.
Why do I have the confidence to go from 0-100 with one girl, but struggle to share my feelings with the other? How do I get over the fact that I'm...
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>>17279006
You're putting the introverted girl on a pedestal, Have the same attitude you have with the fwb girl.
>>17279011
This.
Basically you actually have feelings for one girl and not the other. You don't care if your fuckbuddy leaves you, but if you get shut down by the other girl suddenly that hurts.
There is literally no solution to avoiding that potential situation. So just nut up and go after her.
>>17279011
The fwb friend, while she's pretty cool to be around with, I don't feel any romantic connection. This has to do with the lack of common interests. Music tastes are different, movie tastes are different. It just does not feel like the quality of a close relationship. We do talk a lot about random shit and that's always fun.
Introverted girl lives streets from me opposed to fwb who lives a city away. I have not yet, but I can arrange a hangout with introvert and execute it in 10 minutes easy....
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I hate my life but I don't have the motivation to make it better. I just fantasize about killing myself because it would be so much easier.
What's the deal with that
>>17278951
Sounds like depression. Maybe talk to close friend?
>>17278955
I've been on meds/therapy treadmill several times before and it didn't prompt any major changes.
>>17278960
Tell us more about yourself anon
>Britfag
>MathS undergraduate
>masters degree any job I want 300k starting
All jokes aside, I've just finished my third year at university and its all gone so fast.
I'm at home for the summer and I have 3 months with little to no commitments at all.
I want to make the most of my time at home. I live next door to the gym, I take some time out of my day to research what I'm going to be studying next year, and I am more than content with playing video games the...
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>seaside town
Work on a fishing boat.
>>17278805
Not a bad idea
I'll ask around the harbour
bump
i used to smoke weed and spice, how can i regain what those two things ruined in me?
how can i regain what those two things ruined in me?
its too late mate
aparently there's two canabinoid receptors and they're broken in me. what can i do? i don't plan on smoking weed again. i'd like to have my decent memory again.
Times time.
Live healthy and it will get better
In the same boat
Got into a debate with friends, they say you can own too many albums by one artist. I personally said the cut off between fan boy and fan is 14 albums. Sooo what number seems the most essential? 12, 13 or 14?
>>17278371
You and your friends are fucking retarded and should commit group suicide.
>>17278386
Okay next Thursday? See you then!
>>17278371
Just throw a David Bowie party.
So I have a problem with my hair, its just way too thick and greasy. I got a haircut 2 weeks ago so its decently short still but here is an example of my issue. I take a shower last night at 9pm, I wake up at 10am and my hair is greasy, has some dandruff, and if I run my hand in it some pieces of hair come out. Is it my shampoo that is the issue? I use Dove Mens shampoo and conditioner with caffeine, the bottle says its meant to fight greasy hair and but in less then 12 hours my hair is greasy again. What should I be doing about this? If you need more info to help me here just...
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>>17278194
don't wash your hair everyday
it's okay if your hair is greasy, it will make it long, thick, and healthy
seriously don't wash it everyday
shits bad for you
If you're washing every day, you're actually telling your scalp to produce MORE oil to make up for it. Cut down on that shit, maybe get a dry shampoo to last you the day if you really hate it, but avoid showering/shampooing daily.
>>17278194
>washes hair
>expects it to be immaculate 11 hours later after sleeping and sweating into it
Do you have to wear a crash helmet in public?
Started using lithium yesterday, along with venlafaxine. What can I expect from the lithium?
General meds thread
My sister permanently damaged her sense of balance from it. Granted, that was from many years of taking it.
>>17278163
Did she overdose or get lithium poisoning? I have a problem with medication resistance, that's why I have to take it.
>>17278159
If you abuse Painkillers/Medications of any kind, you are literally fucking degenerate scum
Smoke weed or something jesus
