>>17272056
Bro you're literally getting cucked. She's cheating on you and using the rape as an excuse. After a few more weeks she's gonna start hanging with him again and is going to use some bullshit excuse as to why it's okay she's seeing him.

Point is she never got raped, she has consensual sex with him and is lying to you like the slut she is.

Dump her before you waste anymore time, effort and money on her than you already have. You fucked up enough by staying with her after all...
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>>17272056
you are correct, op
this is a tough situation, and moralfags will no doubt chastise you for even thinking about leaving her. but you know the truth- a good woman would not have even maintained contact with this guy, let alone put herself in a position to be "raped". i put that in quotes because there is no way to know if she is only pressing charges in an attempt to keep you around. for all you or i know, she initiated the sex and then was overwhelmed by guilt afterward. add to all that, that she has...
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>>17272056
Some rapists will groom girls by pretending to be nice at first (including consensual sex) and then lure them into a false sense of comfort and surprising them with rape. If she's filing charges she's probably serious about it.

>>17272046
Well, learn to think before you speak, that's going to help you in the long run.

But also fuck rumors, and fuck them. If anyone tells you something about yourself, just tell them it isn't true and get on with your life.

Some people just need a scapegoat for their own issues so they create issues and spread rumors about someone for other people to talk about.

But for real at least get to know someone before calling them a shithead or whatever.

>>17272098
Actually OP, re read your post and realized that same person you called a shithead was the same guy spreading the rumors.

So basically you're not wrong calling him a shithead if he's making shit up unprovoked.

Just ignore it and spend time with people who aren't shirty.

>>17272111
OP here, not trying to argue, but many people have the same opinion of him being a shithead. Most people are just friends with him because he's rich and only that. No one actually likes him for his personality as far as i know. Also, he has a temper that is extremely small and flips his shit at the smallest things and he talks shit about everyone, even HIS friends. I've been looking to get more social and he's a mayor obstacle because everyone has a bad opinion of me because of him so it's hard...
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>>17271979
Some families are just like that, sadly, but you may want to consider talking to one or both parents just to be sure that nothing's in the works for your birthday or that something else is going on...

For what it's worth, happy belated birthday out there! I hope that things only get better from here on!

>get gifts
>nothing I wanted
>tfw

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>>17271979
:( sorry OP

When I was in HS i invited my "friends" to go paint balling. None of them brought me a present, and they kind of ignored me. It was pretty embarrassing, because my parents and some other family was there, and they all got to see what a loser I was.

You should listen to them both, you're more or less something new for her, a *good* boy, something interesting for a while. Fuck as much as possible, when it ends if you're still in pain get proper drunk with a nasty hangover but don't do stupid shit like calling her.

>>17271911
Do I keep hooking up with her? I don't know why my friend says shes so fucked up. Shes weird, partially shaved head, piercings, weird make up and clothes. But shes really nice, at least shes always been nice to me, I'm not very good sexually and literally everything me and this girl have done has been embarrassing for me but when we hang out shes always enthusiastic. She seems to like spending time with me, but doesn't want to be in a relationship, she acts like shes protecting me from herself and...
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>>17271928
Oh for God's sake do NOT stop fucking her holy shit. Your future girlfriends will thank you.

>>17271859

ur supposed to feel bad for awhile. and that awhile can be quite awhile.

i fell in love with soemone i never even dated. its been two years and every time a certain song shows up on my iphone i have to immediately skip it and my heart sinks and i get all sad.

so if you actually dated her and had a real relationsihp, im sure the feelings can run a lot deeper, last longer and still hurt.

maybe you'll never get entirely over it. btu that doesnt mean you cant compartmentalize the feelings.

Damn. It's painful. I feel great mostly, but sometimes the thought of her and the regrets hit really hard and I find myself listening to dark ambient in my room, not wanting to see anyone.

>>17271938
I was answering to u >>17271870 obviously

>>17271843
stop looking at/fapping to gay shit. /d/ is pretty much all that. Ive become much more interested in dicks since browsing /d/

Stop giving a fuck about it and it'll become a non issue. Went through a stereotypical gay phase now have stopped caring. After college I ran into woman of life. No fucks given attracted to men and women

Just roll with it. Best way out of a phase is through it. You like cock, so what, enjoy cock. No harm no foul. I mean if you feel like it's weird, there are guys here who live happy normal and even social lives while having a thing for giant tentacle cock monsters raping cartoon characters so like, at least you're into consenting adults.

>>17271747
Expose yourself to more things. Yeah i can watch people get blown to bit online and probably real life. but could you apply for a business load as coldly and emotionlessly?

Let's all love Lain.

>Anyone else extremely desensitized?
Yeah, 4chan does that to you.

>How do you learn to feel more strongly?
Start seeing a psychiatrist.

>>17271729

depends what you did. office jobs arent as common as they used to be but are still common, and when you apply for an office job very little matters other than having a degree unless that officej ob is rather specific. you dont even need to have a specific accounting degree as long as you've taken all teh basic maths.

outside of that things aren't as 'vague'. ur asking for 'whats the best' in terms of the most versatile but thats not really a thing. the US is a large place...
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>>17271740

So a degree is nevertheless necessary for having access to the widest array of common jobs you say?
Just wanting to make sure of the importance of just having one.

>>17271900

common in the sense of comfortable not so minimum wage office work, yeah. you can go in with a liberal arts degree and get a job doing office work. many have english degrees or the like.

you dont need a degree for flipping burgers or working at wal mart or those kind of comomn jobs, no.

if ur military you should consider looking in to security and safety management and that kind of thing. worked for my dad.

We do have a core of regulars, some of whom use names and trips, while others do not. Most of them focus more on giving advice than receiving it; that's just the nature of the topic.

We have some regulars for asking too, but unfortunately, most of these are shitposters. Raiders from/r9k/ are the most common, though we get some from /pol/ too.

>How many of the advice asking and received is by the same group of people posting repeatedly?
It's hard to say on an anonymous imageboard.

>How much is the population in 4chan advice?
Again, it's hard to say on an anonymous imageboard.

Go to the dildo shop. faggot

Bump?

Buuuummmpp?

Wait until you're like 85 then go skydiving with a knife and cut the reserve parachute and scream something about life on the edge

>>17271639
You draw a image of Muhammad and a kind Muslim will end your life for you.

>buy all the drugs
>get on the roof of the tallest building in town
>do all the drugs
>literally have the trip of your life

>>17271557
You do know that it is possible and perfectly OK for a man and woman to be platonic friends.

I suspect, though, that a married woman only in the area for a few months was looking for a short sexual adventure rather than a nice friend.

>>17271564

I know, and I would have been fine with that if it wasn't for the connection I made with her.

Well, she could be here for a few months or for much longer. It depends on what she decides is going to happen with her marriage.

I thought about that too, which is what worries me because I really don't want to be used - especially with someone that I'm starting to have feelings for.

help bump

>>17271520

your fear of not screwing this up makes you unable to text her because you think there's a "right way" of doing this and you have already screwed this up

if you cared less, you would've realized it doesn't matter WHAT you text her, it's important that you DO text her, hell she gave you her number, yet you are calculating the optimal thing to say like an autist, say goodbye to this grill

>>17271520
Hey (girls name) how you doing?
-good anon how about you?
I wanna rock your roccoco if ya know what i mean babe
-click nnnnnnnnnnnnn engh engh engh
(you call back) hey this is anon what happened?
-dont call me ever again weirdo i though you were different
click nnnnnnnnnnnnnnn, you call back but your blocked so you start stalking her, getting pizza everyday, eventually she transfers to a different rockys but you eventually track her down, she calls cops, they shoot you, end of story

>>17271520
Hi. I'm the guy from Rocky's. What's up?"

I mean I do want to stop existing but I still want you know a second chance

I'm sorry to hear that you're hurting, but what sorts of constraints are bothering you?

Go to a psych and get some fucking medication.

>>17271472
A cool wash

>>17271476
Does it need a gentle cycle? Or can it take medium?

>>17271482
When in doubt, use gentle cycle with cold water