You know homosexuality is a sin, right?

>>17289218
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>>17289046
Film the vanilla sex op you virgin

>>17289035

theyd be bored. the episode descriptions would be really interesting, but the actual episodes them selves would be really calm and boring. the focus on morals and learning would be really strong without a lot of drama backing it up.

it'd also have really strange plot twists

>>17289035
Slightly introverted black people who keep screaming at the screen for me to go for the girl

some would sympathize

others would call me a lazy pussy

>>17289035
Nothing ever happens in my life.
It would be just me being the guy nobody ever talks to and me home on the pc.

>>17289026

who says you are doing anything wrong?

your big problem here is that you are operating under the assumption that a relationship will last til the end of fucking time unless you do something horribly wrong. thats not the case. no one else has this so stop pretending they do.

some people may hold relationships down longer, but by your own admission you were never great matches with these women. you essentially settled for the best you can get, but that doesnt equate into any real passion. even reading...
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>>17289073

after that, the next exit route is marriage. are you ready to make this 'forever'?


theres ab illion reasons to break up inbetween but if its not caused by something in particular these are the general milestones people reach that push them to break up. the reason the girl broke up with you after discussing marriage is because you discussed marriage. she decided that she doesnt want that.

and whether you believe it or not you really cant 'go back'. once oyu mention marriage...
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>>17289026

DID ANY OF THIS HELP OP IVE BEEN WAITING TO HEAR BACK FROM YOU ALL DAY

>>17288993
Die lol

>>17288993

a lot of young life is pushing through the shit to get to the good. in my experience highschool is way more difficult and stressful than running an actual business. because everyone is mean to you, teachers are mean to you, you're expected to do all this work for six hours, then come home nad do more work, and if ur not in sports or some other after school activity (an extra two to four hours of work) you're considered fucking lazy.

college makes it a little bit harder with the workload.

but...
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>>17288993
I find that in life, you can just say "fuck it" for the most part, and despite feeling the weight of the world crushing you, it never happens.

Most likely, you'll get carried through life by the government.

>>17288978

(2/3)

Here's where it goes off the rails.

>notice I have a lot of the same phenotypes as the girl--realize I'm super stretchy, flat footed, impossibly pale, easy to injure, always in pain
>ohshit.wav
>pretty obvious I've got the same thing (later confirmed by a genetic test)
>realize that I'm doing pretty okay because I'm doing some things that she's...
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>>17288980
(3/3)

And here's where we're at now:

>be me, taking medicinal cannabis 2x day for pain, wearing insoles for weight bearing, managing physical activity and how I carry things like a MF
>tailoring my plan around what might make her more comfortable (no opioids because I know they really bother her, working my way out of braces because she has expressed distress in seeing me use them)
>see her continuing to use old methods
>confront her about it
>she finally gets me to realize that the opinion she's gotten from experts is that the injuries she has but I don't are extensive enough that the wheelchair is likely her best option forever, regardless of what I may give her, and that they'll likely never heal
>also gets me to realize that she's been consciously building a plan for longer where I was operating more on reflex, so she really doesn't see me as being in a place to offer advice of any import
>also mentions that some of the things I was trying to have her do she counts as 'moving backwards' (eg daily meds) and might even be exacerbating injuries, although that's unclear
>has not had to have therapy re: going into a wheelchair, but has had to because of my reaction to it

>>17288984
(4/3 whoops lol)

So here's my dilemma:

I do love this girl, but we're in such different places in terms of the repercussions of the genetic illness we share and how we're managing it that I'm wondering if the relationship is unworkable. We're both causing each other more harm than good (any SO that sends you into a therapist is not somebody you should be with, and we're both doing that to each other), and I'm really uncomfortable with the idea of someone I'm intimate with openly displaying a disability that I and so many other people like us manage with totally different methods that let us and the people who love us forget we're suffering.

If I was able to overcome my knee-jerk reaction to the wheelchair, many conflicts between us could be solved, and we could be very, very happy together.

I very much do not think I'm emotionally big enough to overcome this in a short enough timeline to spare us both a lot of hurt feelings and regret, and we've both caused each other enough of that already.

I'm leaving the country for 21 days, so we've both got a lot of time to think about it.

What would you do?

>writing
>not a degenerate career

pick one

>>17288965

journalism requires a very intense journalism focus. the first step is going to fucking college and studying journalism for four years. then getting an internship and wokring your way up. it is in no way a lax industry.

you can try to make it as a blogger online, but that bubbles burst and it relies mostly on randomness as opposed to skill (and of course selling out).

writers who publish books dont get enough money to live off of unless their books get picked up as a movie.

even writers with...
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>/pol/ack
>journalism

Keep your biased, prejudice cancer to yourself.

>>17288941
Try going outside

>>17289045
>Try going outside

This is good advice. Instead of asking strangers if you'd like something, why don't you go fucking try doing some of the things you're interested in trying?

I romanticize summer because I've had some of the best times of my life during summer. Throwing bbqs with friends, bonfires, camping, beach, all with friends and the girl I'm crushing on at the moment, stealing kisses, awkward sweaty make outs, hiking out to abandoned houses and lying on the roof looking at the stars. For me, this summer is looking to live up to past summers. Got a couple of interested girls, threw a bonfire and planning more bonfires and camping, surfed a whole bunch, best friend staying over from abroad, set up a art/music co-op at my house, girl...
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>>17288922
do you know the website the game runs on? there is a really neato firefox addon you can get called LeechBlock that will automatically redirect you to another page as soon as the target page is visited. You can set it up to go to any (job search, lul) website, blank page (white page with nothing on it), or send it to some dummy page that has a 404 error look to it. possibilities are endless

it also has options to block someone from opening the addons menu either all the time, or certain times so that removing...
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>>17288922
> 2 years on unemployment
> not feeling ready for a job yet.
We both know that this is bullshit and not likely to change any time soon, so action must be taken in a different way.

She's comfortable in her current situation. It might be depressing as fuck, but it's simple, and it allows here to survive. At this point she'll want to preserve status quo, so it's up to you to disrupt it somehow. I gather that you don't support her financially, but that you do the housework? In that case, move out. Then she'll have to start cooking and cleaning herself. Eventually money will dwindle, and she'll have to do something.

Simply put: You're enabling her. Moving out will at least stop that aspect of it.

There will be moments where this seems cruel and harsh, but you're not helping her by allowing this to continue.

Farmville is the least of her problems - The semi-comfortable neetness needs to be addressed first.

>>17288949
Holy fuck that's awesome, thanks a lot anon! really appreciate it!

>>17288975
Yeah you are on spot with everything, but moving out is the worst case scenario, since chances of me finding affordable housing are 0% and moving out is a hassle i would prefer to avoid.

I'm hoping that fucking with her web game will atleast lead her to do something else than sitting in front of laptop all day. If she gets a hobby or better yet some kind of work,...
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Fuck your family. Do what you WANT to do, if they don't love you regardless they are a waste of your time. If you are worried about money, get a second job and have illustration be you other job. Invest in something that will go up in value like a house/stocks/small business and that will generate revenue.

>>17288953
Thank you for the answer, I was starting to think about going into a part time job during those further studies so I could do that as soon as I came back, what do you think? It's the only plan I can come up with atm

haha idk dude sorry that dog picture cracks me up

>>17288904
I'd say to go blunt and ask her if she wants to continue dating or not. If her answer is even somewhat on the fence, drop her.

>>17288904
this, honestly>>17288915

Also, stop contact for a bit and see if she starts to contact you. if it is always you initiating contact, then there is a good chance she is playing around and in that case be blunt and ask her what the fuck her deal is.

She could also be genuinely this busy too. I would give her some chances, but dont get drug along

>>17288893
(2/3) Barely passing all of them. I am having serious cognitive issues, I pretty much have dyslexia at this point. I misread everything and no longer have the ability to focus on simple tasks. I lost my natural ability to write essays and poems. I am struggling in math which used to be my strongest subject. My depressive episodes have returned and my productivity suffers. I've gotten into a lot of trouble at school since then. Getting caught/suspected of being intoxicated and few occasions where I made "disturbing...
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>>17288897
(3/3)
TL;DR : I have a stubborn father who ignores my Bipolar Disorder due to the culture he comes from and is fucking me over. I have been on meds before and went through counseling so I know what it feels like to be somewhat stable. How do I go about returning to counseling and seek help?

Shameless bump

Oh and the guy said since we were hanging out often that we were dating and I went along with it

see where it takes you. see if you're attracted to the guy. you never know, he might just be an ice breaker, or not your type.

>>17288857

That's the thing is I'm afraid of that because I'm really happy I found my girlfriend and don't wanna lose her :/

>>17288837

>How do I become enthralled by life.

You don't. Welcome to adulthood.

Get laid and live just like in a videogame, explore and make things just for fun. If nothing makes you happy then go for drugs

>>17288866
I am against drug use. Even caffeine. Caffeine is just diluted heroin.

>>17288829
No, you really shouldn't.

First of all, why? What would you get out of this? Having to lower your aim is bad.

Moreover, these "low tier girlfriends" are human too. Doesn't it seem like a dick move to practice on them?

>>17288829
>Is it worth it to go after people I don't like that much?

How the fuck would anyone know that?! Haha.

Hm, I mean... You should do what you think is best for you.

>>17288840
>these "low tier girlfriends" are human too
Exactly, that's why the advice from these normies surprised me. Unless I was missing something about it which is why I'm making this thread.
But again, they say that "it may not be practice you may meet the one by aiming lower" though they don't refer to it as aiming lower, they say I expect too much from someone to consider her a potential partner and that I should look for less qualities in a person....
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kill yourself for wanting to wear boat shoes.

Those typically brown kind of slipper like fuckers with limited lace/no real lace?

Khols had those in up to 4E, but I dunno if they still do it's been ages since I worked there. Big 5 buys shoes in bulk orders, so the get two or three of those sizes but they always went quick.
What stores of course depends on your a area. Where you at? It might seem like a dumb question, but do you ask the sales person or just browes shelves? Because we never displayed any of 13+ sizes or and rarely anything past 2E, since we had so few pairs of each of those. I'd often have...
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>>17288887
I just checked the shelves, I got a new pair of shoes recently but I want boat shoes, I didnt think they had any more in the back honestly.