I'm confused
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Girl i'm dating is acting funny lately, she drops her plans and says, "i guess, it wasn't meant to be to go out on this date." . Before she would go the extra mile but now no. I thought if you say you're going to do something, you do it. I'm confused. She is busy don't get me wrong but my time is as valuable as her own. I don't know.
How can i respond to this?
haha idk dude sorry that dog picture cracks me up
>>17288904
I'd say to go blunt and ask her if she wants to continue dating or not. If her answer is even somewhat on the fence, drop her.
>>17288904
this, honestly>>17288915
Also, stop contact for a bit and see if she starts to contact you. if it is always you initiating contact, then there is a good chance she is playing around and in that case be blunt and ask her what the fuck her deal is.
She could also be genuinely this busy too. I would give her some chances, but dont get drug along
>>17288912
yeah i love it lol.
>>17288915
thanks i will surely give it a shot. She gets upset sometimes when i miss her text, maybe i should say "it wasn't meant for me to text you." i guess she might want to have her cake and eat it too.
>>17288921
thanks guy, yeah she is pretty busy and i have huge amounts of patience and understanding but i need effort, not her cutting things off completely just because things "weren't meant to be.".
I will try cutting contact and i believe she is playing games or getting too comfortable.
