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Okay guys, I need sexual advice. How can one last longer in bed? Anyone here ever last less than a minute but now lasts longer than 10 minutes? Pic extremely unrelated
>have sex
>cum within a minute
>wait 5-30 minutes
>go at it again
>>17291217
Train your PC muscle
>helps you last longer
>if done right you can cum multiple times
Quick Fix: a *tiny* bit of cortisone anti-itch cream. (There are little potions you can get at sex shops, but they're really the same thing.)
Been at Uni for 3 years, really not enjoying it as much as I should be, don't put much effort into classes and dislike having to deal with so many people. Parents want me to stay and finish, but they don't know I've been struggling with my mental health and have had a few stays in hospital over suicide attempts. Don't want to tell them about mental health because honestly I'd rather struggle to handle that myself than have to hear their judgements (as I have before), but I talked to them about quitting Uni and it just isn't an option. Should I stick...
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You fucked up the moment you decided going to something as retarded as >uni
Was a good idea
>>17291199
I like the idea of furthering my education, and having an actual career as opposed to just a job, I'm just not happy.
>>17291210
>I NEED to go to uni to have this
>they are one in the same
And, once again, you've proven you are retarded as shit. Even more so for doing things based on social expectations of status and not because it makes you happy.
Unless you're materialistic as fuck and feel entitled to a high paying job, then you have alternatives to uni to accomplish your goals. It's crazy how you're so retarded that you didn't check the statistic...
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I'm suicidal because of love.
I've never been in love before. I don't know the reason for this, I just haven't ever met someone I've been into enough. But this might be changing. I'm really into this girl I've started talking to. She really feels completely perfect in every way.
The following are the problems and reasons that I need to talk to you.
1. She has a fear of commitment. She can't be with me because of this. this would not be a problem to me if not for the other issues, specifically problem 2.
2....
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>>17291173
imo based on 1 and 2 she is wasting your time. either that or she just sees you as a friend. maybe even a good friend. but hoping for much more than that seems like a pipe dream.
best thing you can do here ime is be happy for you. it's really not that difficult, although it's a bit hard to wrap your head around. just try to focus on being happy. do what makes you happy, smile when you don't feel like smiling, act happy around others when you're not.
eventually it just feels like the real thing..
>>17291184
Should I stay with her? I know she cares about me.
>>17291263
>4. She's leaving. Essentially forever. and I'll never see her again.
I do not think you should. Move on. Loss of first love will hurt, but she doesn't seem to be IN love with you.
I've talked to family and friends but fear they are not being objective enough because they don't want to hurt my feelings or some shit.
>Barely graduate high school 2014
>Have NVLD (makes school quite difficult..)
>Always have had a rough time in school not exactly autismo mode but not good in social situations constant anxiety, depression, bad grades, etc.
>Dad lives with his sister and isn't right in the head not seriously mentally ill...
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Why no reply's???
>>17291170
what are your top 5 favorite things you like to do?
figure out the one you can make the most money off of and dedicate your life to it
You're right, things are pretty pointless. Maybe lay off the drugs a bit and get your thoughts together.
Im not sure if this board is the board i should post this in but i will anyway. What are some things that you regret not doing when you were younger? I just turned 19 and have done fuck all with my life. What should I do to live a more fulfilling life?
>>17291138
just go to college, and it'll feel like you're doing something. But yeah, right there with you
>>17291138
>everyone remembers you
no
>>17291176
This is basically why I went to college.
I feel like I'm always inferior and too average. I'm not literary, nor am I in a cool band, nor am I super attractive. I'm decent and above average at certain things, but I don't have much to show for it. I go as far as reading through LinkedIn profiles of successful ppl because I want to be great. But at the same time, I know I'm not shitty, and I have a sort of arrogance, too. Right now, the only thing I'm good at is university, but that doesn't even matter much. Just because I'm getting As...that doesn't mean anything really.
How...
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>>17291118
Is there anything you would like to get good at? Maybe you could save up for an instrument and learn how to play it. Or become a good at a sport if you're more physically capable.
>>17291118
It sounds like you are doing well in your current situation, university - so that is your strength, then parlay that into the career you are studying for.
No one is strong everywhere, everyone has strengths and weaknesses, so be strong and confident in your field of expertise
>>17291143
Fuck, I'm gonna sound like a fag. But shit anon, you spot on.
I'm in a bit of a complicated situation with a ladyfriend of mine. I'll try to keep this as short as possible while still conveying the full gist. I'm just not sure where to go from here, really.
Been friends with this guy Justin for a few years now, probably one of my best friends. He's been dating this girl May for about the same amount of time. I say dating, that's pretty much it. They have never been intimate at all, pretty odd relationship. Anyway, we all hang out together a lot, find myself developing feelings for May but you know, buddies...
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>>17291116
cont
So i end up getting drunk enough this night that I blurt out in front of everybody to May that I have feelings for her. She just kind of says "i know", and we all kind of move past it. I was obviously feeling a little put down so I eventually tried to nonchalantly leave. May noticed and tried to stop me, but in my stupor I just wanted to leave, and ended up making a bit of a scene in doing so.
May chased me outside alone to my car and again pleaded with me not to leave. We ended up discussing...
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>>17291137
if i sound like a beta cuck at all it's probably because I am. I don't usually like people enough to even both pursuing a relationship with them, so I'm not used to this sort of thing.
>>17291116
bump
tldr liked friends ex for a while now and we all hang out as friends, she gave me mixed signals, not sure whether to hold out or moved on
Got an appointment at my passport agency next week cause I'm traveling early June, so I need a passport ASAP. I lack a lot of the materials because the US is retarded as shit and make things complicated but most importantly my birth certificate is pretty worn, tares etc, but the pressed seal is still visible and in good condition
Any advice on all I should have when goin to get passport? I wanna make this a one time thing. And it's already $200 for the passport I don't wanna spend more
bunp
I don't even know why I'm posting:
travel.state.gov/content/passports/en/passports/first-time.html
Learn to do the research yourself.
You do realize that you must renew your passport every 10 years right or face the entire process all over again.
>>17291251
>You do realize that you must renew your passport every 10 years right or face the entire process all over again.
Not OP (obviously) but is that how it is in the US? Where I live, you can just renew it whenever, even if it's expired
What are the habits and patterns of people that have a healthy life? Habits that I am trying to accomplish and implement in my life are: 1. Having a health life style with diet, exercise and sleep. 2. Read different material from books to online sources. 3.Save money. 4. Be social. 5. Learn from individuals. 6. Help others.
What advice would you recommend to achieve a happy life?
>>17291102
It seems like you have already written a list on how to do it for you
Write these things down, like Mon Wed Fri workout day - read book night. Tues Thurs bars class chatroom library, whatever
Scratch things off each day as you do them, and in a few months see what life is like, then change shit up on your list if it isnt working
Dont flake and stop doing the list - you have to do it and cross it off
>>17291102
Smart people leave 4chan and never look back.
I've noticed that smart people LITERALLY never use a PC.
Like you may see them active on facebook or whatever, but that takes 5 seconds on your phone. Smart and successful people DO NOT spend even 1 minute on the PC.
At least most of them, I don't talk about like a world class programmer or whatever, but the average successful and smart normie.
I decreased my time at the PC and went more biking and reading, and I literally feel better.
There's this friend of mine who I think is pretty cute and she's staying in my city for a week or so. Would it be good to give her some flowers as a meeting gift or what would be better suited?
>>17291091
Women love flowers that should work not many if you dont have a place to put them while you are out together
>>17291095
How many would be suitable? I was thinking it's pointless if she's not staying here 2bh
Bump. Also is it good to ask a girl if she wants me to give her flowers? I wouldn't want to end up in an awkward situation where it's just being taken out of pity or she doesn't like them.
>started community college last January
>start getting close with one of my teachers
>towards the end of the semester ask him for a letter of recommendation
>he agrees but tells me we should talk about it more
>says he has to go to a meeting first and we can talk after
>invites me, I agree figuring it's probably some teacher shit
>turns out it's a...
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>>17291090
Start saying no - stop feeling bad about being polite and going and run your own life - straight up say no im not joining thanks for asking
>>17291100
every time I even start thinking about saying no I get a terrible feeling inside that just kills me, I don't know why it's so hard. I was so decided on calling him up yesterday to say no, but when I grabbed my phone I just sat there for like an hour trying to get myself to do it.
>>17291133
I dont get it - you say you dont want to go, but you cant tell him that?
I guess just get the nerve to say it, or be dragged around by someone else and be controlled
Has anyone here encouraged their wife/gf to get breast implants before?
Everyone says guys don't care that much about whether they're really perfect or not but I am a neurotic perfectionist
fake boobs look anything but perfect dude
>>17291074
What if they're just to fix assymmetry/fullness?
I'm not talking about $3000 balloon implants
Opposite side here
>gf has tits that won't stop growing
>D when we met
>FF as of last measure
>has horrible back problems
>due to sheer size they sag
>cries at least once or twice a month about how she hates her boobs
Okay, so keep something in mind:
I understand fully that Tumblr is cancer. It's the breeding ground for feminanzis. But back then (about 1.5 years ago) I was looking at some nice porn on the site. I was not a fag.
Now let me tell my story.
>be me
>sister is hippie rasta fag feminist on tumblr
>she's popular (1000+ subs)
>bored
>need to jerk to some raunch
>scrolling...
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You know anons are just going to ask you for the link, right?
See a therapist if you feel that's what you need. But also, is there a reason why she'd upload porn of herself? Can she not just find a regular job or??
>>17291040
She was a feminist fag who tried to make some type of metaphor with her body or some shit. But some guys took her pic and put it on the hardcore porn threads
Hey /adv/
Long story short, I think I have a stomach ulcer and was in severe stomach pain after eating cereal with milk. I went to the ER and underwent triage but left before being seen by a doctor.
They did blood work and a urine analysis. I did not ride an ambulance there. It was a public hospital. I do have health insurance.
How much am I likely looking at paying for the visit to the ER? I'm a college student and limited on funds. The hospital won't let me know right now because it all needs to be processed first.
>>17291002
You prob wont pay anything tonight, but maybe $800 - $1500+ depending on where in USA, in a bill sent in mail
>>17291002
show them your INS card, and you pay copay - maybe $200 - check your plan and find out
>>17291002
Your insurance company would know. Depends on whether or not you were "out of network" and how high your deductible is. Out of pocket I bet it's like $2000 or less, but with insurance I don't think you'll be paying that much. Unless your insurance sucks, which is somewhat common in this bizarro country.
Is it normal to go a few years without anybody wanting to date you? It can't be.
>>17291001
tinder or match and clusterbomb
Make a thread about this in /r9k/ and you'll get dozens of (You)s
>>17291001
It better be fucking normal.. going on 3 years without a partner. I'm hopeless when it comes to Tinder and online dating.
