Dreams are nothing more than your brain attempting to process all the random crap that it didn't have time to deal with over the course of the day. It tries to do this all at once, and so things get mashed together in ways that often don't make much sense to the conscious. Seeing something in a dream only means that that thing has been on your mind, possibly in ways that aren't even connected to the context it had within the dream itself.

Recurring dreams, in and of themselves, mean only that the thing you're dreaming about is on your mind a lot. So...
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>>17291616
>Dreams are nothing more
Dropped.
Dreams are extremely complex things that we have little knowledge of how they work.

Sleep apnea.

People are going to tell you to see a doctor.

1. Hemorrhoids do not last that long.

2. Hemorrhoids in some cases need surgery.

3. It might not even be motherfucking Hemorrhoids.

>>17291546
I know you don't want to, but you have to see a doctor.

If it's been a couple of months then the hemorrhoid has definitely clotted and you'll need to have the clot removed surgically or you risk other really terrible and painful complications.

Seriously just go and do it. I had the same problem years ago and it only got worse and worse until I finally just sucked it up and saw the doctor. Haven't had any problems since.

Also anti-inflammatories like ibuprofen tend to work...
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>>17291563

> or you risk other really terrible and painful complications

Like what? I thought that only the hemorrhoid could get worse.

Thank you for sharing your experience though, it's appreciated and I'll consider seeing a doctor if what I mentioned in my OP doesn't work.

Just change yours to in a relationship with her. It should give her a notification for her to accept or decline it. If she declines, that's weird.

>>17291541
Are you keeping your relationship a secret from someone? Maybe her relatives or something?
It's probably not a big deal, anyway. I'm a girl myself and I enter facebook sometimes and I can tell you, I could totally forget to change my relationship status. It's not an important thing, really.

It was important in highschool. I rarely even see notifications theses days..

If I were to get in a relationship is maybe hide mine, but honestly whatever

pls?

>>17291533
>Stole my older brothers safe full of drugs, threatening to kill me
Ok first up exactly how did you /think/ he was going to react to this? Were you expecting him to turn round like "oh well, guess I'll just go back to school now then, maybe join the church choir while I'm at it"?

Second, there are right and wrong ways to help people. What you've done is like worrying about a bloke who rides his motorbike too fast so you "solved" the problem...
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>>17291577
He's gotten them off of a website where you pay and they're posted to you autonomously.He owes nobody, I know he has no buyers or debts to dangerous people.

It is slightly wrong but I'm trying to intervene and break it up before he relies too heavily on it for a living.

Do it as a side thing while working a job, should work out for you anyways

If work is up the street why would you buy a car in the first place?

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>>17291564
I hate walking/biking all the way to work and enjoy having my own means of transportation without relying on others. I was going to start biking but some piece of shit jacked my new bike.

What's important about those years is that you have no obligations and you get away with more stupid shit because people don't expect you to have more forethought and sense of responsibility. And of course hooking up and casually dating a twenty year old when you are also twenty is different from either dating a twenty five year old, or dating a twenty year old when you have five years on them. In that sense doors have absolutely closed.

But
>from a "getting to know yourself" stand point
I don't really agree...
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>>17291496
It really doens' t matter if you enjoyed those years.

>I have never had the spark

It's called flirting, woman will assume you're not interrested if you don't show them you're interrested. Try it.

>>17291538
But flirting with women will earn you their anger. I don't go clubbing so flirting with women in everyday areas seems unnatural.

>>17291495
You should tell her to see someone, other then that there's not much you can do. That's just the sad reality.

>>17291817

This.

You're not a specialist, and realistically they are not even going to know what their problems are for you to help with, you need to encourage them to see a therapist (talk therapist, not pill pushing psychiatrist).

>>17291495
I have had the same problem. My advice is to forget about her before she brings you down with her.

>>17291817
>>17291822
Listen to these anons.

Make some friends

Masturbate read play videogames kill a couple people figure out what you like

It's not, as a college student i'd gladly sleep forever.

But it sounds like degradation and wasting time kind of.
I want to do so many things on my holidays and they all are solitary and require only internet and paper.
Read books, get into origami/papercraft, draw, cook new stuff, sew, crochet, make handmade accessories.

If you didn't mention sitting on the computer all day, you probably don't like activities related. Learning photoshop or some other software is handy. Try fun stuff like Duolingo, Khan Academy, Coursera.
I am a newbie...
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>>17291475

fish oil and limes

You must go on a pilgramage into the amazon jungle
At the heart you will find the sacred tree. Collect it's sap for your mixture.

Be warned-the journey is frightful

Get a vagina and milk the juice from it.

If they think you're lame, they wouldn't have been worth your friendship anyway.

Just try it and see what happens dude. Most normal people out there are more kind than you're giving them credit for.

>>17291509
I am legit afraid of being ridiculed, i already have ugly face.
My solitary behaviour already puts me in "that weirdo" category, i have to lie to hide that the only thing i did yesterday was browsing bulbapedia.
What kind of common ground can i find with normies?

>>17291464
You mean hipsters?

>>17291450
Keep living it up dude.
The security you felt with your ex was a false one.

>>17291454

Thanks for the solidarity. I just fucking feel so down and out some days, like I am wasting my time fucking around. Is that normal?

Forget your ex and get your pets back

Making a plan helps

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>>17291400
you can't may as well just give on up and go back to the base pardner

>>17291400
Make a list and after its complete reward yourself with drugs.

>>17291326
Don't tell her and break up. You care about her, which is why you feel guilty, but if your relationship got to the point where you are unhappy and you're willing to cheat, there's no point.
Don't date your colleague either.
Find someone you like and you're happy with.

You don't love her. You love the thought that you have someone, which means you really only love yourself. Since you love yourself and only care about yourself, the best thing (for yourself) would be to end the relationship and pursue what you really want. Asshole.

>>17291331
Thank you.

>upsets my stability

you're depressed

>>17291289
anon i feel you.

I think sometimes the best we can do is just shock therapy

to be let alone in a jungle and just survive or die

>>17291289
Gotta shake things up big time every now and again. Get on a bus and go somewhere random.

What exactly are you concerned about?

>>17291260

Well ever since she has started to feel the need to let loose and see friends more than she used to, i've felt a little insecure about our relationship and how she feels about us, she still tells me she loves me and everything so i dont really have a good reason for feeling this way, its like im fearing she will get bored of me at this rate, just wanted to know if these kinds of phases are normal in long term relationships.

>>17291260
She parties a lot and he isn't invited. He can't spend more time with her to create a stronger bond through physical connection. He feels that there's an inadequate level of bonding going on at this point in the relationship. It appears the relationship is actually transitioning into something he doesn't like. It's possible he fears the worst.

Or none of this is right and he just wants to be a part of her circle of friends and it's weird he wont ever be given the chance.