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>Move to new state to start college
>Small school, so everyone knows each other
>Instantly the social outcast
>Try my luck with girls, they don't even hide their disgust toward me
>Terrible social anxiety due to upbringing and heavy isolation
>Father cheated on my mother, they're getting a divorce
>Best friend back home is in and out of the psyche...
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Breathe into your balls
>>17289518
Try therapy. Klonopin worked for me!
>>17289543
>Try my luck with girls, they don't even hide their disgust toward me
Fucking blue pilled cunts!
My mind is poisoned. I suffer from like these bursts of negative, narcissistic abd pessimistic thoughts. I feel as if the world takes good people, hollows them out with suffering and then the husk just becomes this vehicle for destruction abd suffering.
To give some insight, I had to block the phone number of a girl who friend zoned me because I was suffering by seeing her. Needless to say, she actually was a good friend of mine too and it caused me great pain.
Then I read online articles about how shit dating abd relationships are abd it jades me.
I...
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>>17289509
>t.edgelord
Don't worry, you won't be 16 forever
>>17289524
I am 24. Abd already realize the world is stacked in evils favor. People who are evil can afford to be reckless, cruel, relentless. People who are good just get eaten alive by restrictions.
>>17289531
Bump
Let's say you've been very hurt by the cruel words of someone close to you and decided to cut ties. Is there anything that person could do to repair what they ruined?
>>17289492
No.
Maybe specifics about the situation?
>>17289492
>Let's say you've been very hurt by the cruel words of someone close to you and decided to cut ties. Is there anything that person could do to repair what they ruined?
Apologize, show regret and change their behavior.
How to get over aversion I have towards people who either style themselves accordingly to music genre they listen to (metal), watch anime, read and watch fantasy, go to larps...
I don't know why but I just can't take these people seriously and their existence piss me off and I can't do anything about it. I'm pretty open minded in all other directions but this I just can't take. There's something that all these people have in common I can't put my finger on.
>>17289491
>How do I like something that I don't like?
Hmmmmm... I don't know... Have you tried lying? Or lying to yourself?
And I know this is a stretch, but have you considered that you don't have to like them?
>>17289528
This is not entirely true, you don't have to like them to stop hating them. Just consider it takes everything to make a world and there is a big variety of who have one or multiple of these interests and are very interesting.
I admit I don't know many.
The word you're looking for is "superficial." It's a certain type of person that is deeply dull on the inside, so they overcompensate with their outward appearance/activities. They're not capable of being interesting just by being themselves, so they align themselves with activities/cultures that they find interesting. You're seeing a loud declaration that they'd rather belong to a herd than do their own thing.
This, obviously, does not apply to all people who enjoy the things you listed. People can do this to themselves with pretty...
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How do I win over a girl who's completely immune to sarcasm and double entendres, and takes everything literally?
>pic unrelated
Why would you even want that?
>>17289448
She's very pretty and she's fun to be around.
>>17289441
Why are you trying to score with an autist m9?
Why does everyone immediately assume when there's a problem in the relationship the girl is cheating on here? Why also is the guy always demeaned on her for being a 'cuck' or otherwise?
Shouldn't we be telling the OP's that she's a cunt and he should leave her if we truly think she's cheating instead of throwing him into a hole of self-pity by making it seem as if it's his fault?
Because women tend to be whores and 4chan users tend to be betas.
>>17289397
it's his fault for selecting a whore.
>>17289401
>Implying that all men should be able to telepathically differentiate all whores from decent people
My best friend's ex literally claimed to "save her virginity for him" for the two years they dated only to lose her virginity to some guy in a bar. It's hard to predict this shit sometimes.
What's the perfect first date?
>perfect
>>17289385
depends on the couple.
>>17289385
first dates are always weird.
except you've been friends with the other person for a long time before
I lost my dream job due to one stupid mistake.
Please, just say something comforting. Give me a reason not to give up on life.
What do I fucking do?
>>17289371
generally you can get the same job at a different company.
>>17289371
What did you do?
>>17289371
it's lost forever? Can you make something to "fix" it?
Hey /adv/ so earlier this week I got the number of a cute girl in one of my classes. I've been texting her some here and there, trying not to come off as clingy or weird but enough to show some interest. Sometimes she won't reply to them for hours or even view them and I'm usually the one who texts first. But when we're in person she seems to give off signals that she's interested. I can't feel out if she's just being nice or she's just shy. I tried asking if she wanted to do something this weekend and she said she'd be busy. I've...
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>>17289348
Don't text and drive
>>17289348
texting is not real life. trust real life. worse case scenario she says 'sorry im not into you like that' and then your life is no different than it was the day before.
ask her out on a legit date. dont get mad just cuz people have lives.
i can take up to 24 hours to respond to tinder messages. if ites texting 12 max but yeah.
>>17289348
>Any advice?
You met this girl, got her number and kept getting mixed signals.
There's nothing more to it.
What, you want us to divine what that means? Ask a psychic.
hi guys Ive never posted on here before but i was told this was a good place to start. Im looking for ways to get back and an ex sort of revenge ideas. she cheated on me after 5 years and screwed me over big time Im not looking to get anybody in jail just screw with them a bit. I have her personal info social- she already has bad credit, her phone number, address ect-she lives in an apt so its not very easy to slash her tires or whatever since theres cameras.she has a fb and he does too. Ideally Id like an idea to do things along the lines of making the other think theyre cheating...
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>>17289341
>they turned everybody against me
then leave town. revenge wont fix that, and it sounds to me like you are exaggerating. unless you were already an awful person thered be no reason for everyone to just turn against you.
>>17289341
>How to get back at an ex.
Step 1 (important!):
- Get over it.
>>17289341
Success is the best revenge. What kind of rumors did she spread? Just become such an awesome person that people will see through her shit. If the rumors are based on truth then just own it. Most of the power of a rumor comes from the fact it makes you uncomfortable away. If you own it, people will dismiss it.
Medical question incoming. I have a pretty bad ear infection and after about 3 days of trying to bear this darn infection I finally went to go see a doctor. She checked my ear and said it was no doubt an ear infection, she predcribed me some ibouprofen and some antibiotic ear drops. After applying the ear drops (I'm supposed to put 4 drops into my infected ear 4 times a day) I had my head tilted and let the ear drops go to work for 10 min as instructed. After the 10 min I sat up straight then tilted my head sideways for whatever liquid remained in my ear can fall out. Hardly...
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>>17289336
You apply the drops as often as the doctor prescribed. If she said to use them every 4 hours, or 6 hours, or 24 hours, that's what you do.
Your ear feels weird and clogged because it's weird and clogged with infection and medicine. Keep doing as you were told.
>>17289336
>Is it supposed to do that?
No, it's not. Call emergencies right now.
>>17289384
>Call emergencies right now.
Yeah. Tell them you have a clogged ear. They'll understand.
jesus fuck, how do I hide my dildo? I brought my first ever dildo and lube. I'm still a virgin and a good girl. Immediately, I felt regret and I wanted to throw it away but I paid a lot for them.
Now, my mother always sticks her nose in my room and all, I obviously can't leave it in a wardrabe because she also looks through clothes and stuff. It's really annoying.
Need a good hiding spot or I'll throw it away tomorrow first thing.
Stick it in your pussy all the goddamn day
I brought it on a stupid whim. God damn I'm so throwing it tomorrow.
>>17289324
many people buy a seperate little case or box for their dildo. they do exist. you just need something thats a little compact that you can hide around.
i have a little lock box under my bed where i put hidden treasures., you can probably fit a decent dildo in there assuming its not huge, but yeah. just buy a lockbox.
if ur parents find it and ask just say its not to keep parents out, its in case you were burglared, you want to keep thigns safe. if you buy a fire proof one you can evne claim its full...
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my gf is on a 11 day road trip around sicily with another guy
she's known him for years, longer than me
he buys her lots of gifts and they text nearly daily and have for years
he and she post pictures of them standing really close and arm in arm
they're sharing hotel rooms
they're drinking buddies
am I crazy for not really feeling all that cool about this guy who's "just a friend"
>>17289318
ur not crazy. but that doesnt mean that she should stop or that somethings going on.
the problem is that you've had however long you've been dating to make peace with this relationship. if you went in thinking 'OH WELL IM SURE SHE'LL DROP HIM WHEN SHE REALIZES IM LITEARLLY THE ONLY GUY SHE NEEDS TO TALK TO' then you were wrong.
if you want togive her the chance to prove herself and bestow trust in her, go for it. if you dont want to do that, dont. just think, she chose you...
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>>17289318
>am I crazy for not really feeling all that cool about this guy who's "just a friend"
On the bright side, they might allow you to join in a threesome!
>>17289318
you know she's getting the dick right? and that's why you feel uncomfortable. i mean it couldn't be more obvious
Im having this strange problem that is driving me nuts. I get anxious often when I dont feel lovey emotions towards my girlfriend. Im on 75mg of zoloft and 30 mg of buspar. Sometimes I drive myself nuts to the point of insanity when I am scared I "Dont really want to be with her". I DO though. the problem is my constant doubt and fear that I dont. It is like constantly second guessing myself. Whenever I do feel good "lovey" emotions for her, I automatically feel clarity and the want to marry her. Why am I doing this? How can I break this cycle? Breaking up...
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>>17289312
You should do whatever feels right in your heart.
you're afraid to be with her and to stay with her, must be hell
>>17289315
whever Im anxious I dont want to, but when Im calm (after a few deep breathes) I do I suppose its the anxiety clouding me
A guy came by the house a while ago asking if I'm the homeowner. I told him no and then he said if he's my father in which I said he is my mom's boyfriend (me and mom live in his home). He then showed some body language while saying "your mom's boyfriend" in which seemed like he was trying to speed things up (like he was saying "dad. mom's boyfriend. It doesn't matter). He then asked if my mom was home and after I told him no he left and would come by later.
The question that I have for you guys is should I have said "yes"...
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The guy that asked you that is your father
you should have asked him what he wants then tell him to go away when he's trying to sell something you beta
My parents always taught me that when someone knocks and I'm home alone, to yell through the door "sorry my dad is taking a nap and can't come right now".
Or "sorry my dad is out back cleaning his gun collection" for more lulz.
