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When you have to end friendship with somebody, do you tell them that or explain why? Or just cut the contact?
Depends. If you just grew apart then fade them out.
>>16654043
What if it's not the case?
>>16654040
If it was a good friendship at some point then you should tell then why. Both of you would deserve closure.
Just got busted by the police. I'm 18 years old, and I got hit with 3 misdemeanors. Possession, paraphernalia, and corruption of a minor. It's my first offense. How fucked am I?
>>16654020
Just google it. It will differ from state to state so add that in your search.
Considering the crime I doubt there's a chance you can fight it because it's fairly cut and dry. That being said don't hire a lawyer because it'll be a waste of money. Just use a court appointed. It'll be a lot cheaper. You'll get the chance to ask for one when you go to court the first time.
You'll have to pay a fine and court costs for sure. Depending on the amount of weed, I'm...
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>>16654039
Actually, you don't even really need a lawyer. You can just represent yourself and plead guilty right off the bat then take a plea bargain.
>>16654039
just adding to what this anon said with some general advice, always remember rule number one after you've been arrested, never speak to police unless you have a lawyer present. The stuff they've got you on is pretty minor but if you ever get accused of something more serious down the road, even if you're absolutely guilty, even if they've been keeping you chained to a desk for the past 4 hours and as soon as they bring you in to interrogation they say your partner already rolled on you, no matter...
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Are these shoes good for every day use?
>>16654007
sure, like running /fit/
they look like crap after a few weeks of outdoor use
>>16654007
Sure if you like wearing boots. I wear these for work and I'm so used to wearing them I wear them pretty much 90% of the time out of work because I can't wear sneakers for longer than an hour anymore without my feet hurting.
>>16654033
Unless you're a nigger boots are meant to get messed up. If we're talking some gators or something that's another story.
girls of 4chan, when being hit on from a random guy, would u rather be called really cute, or really pretty?
I wouldn't want to be hit on in that sort of way.
If someone was stalking me, I think I'd rather they call me really pretty. Being called cute seems like they'd get tired of me after awhile, whereas being pretty is more long lasting, or at least long-lasting enough for me to escape their rape dungeon.
>>16653957
>random guy
I would want him to fuck off
>start dating chubby chick
>she turns out extremely insecure
>starts being an sjw
>claims she's not
>relationship is draining me
>gets suicidal
how do i out?
"I'm breaking up with you"?
Tell her "Hey, I want out. You're making me want to suicide."
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in a 2yr relationship with hot gf, she makes me happy, gives me anykind of sex whenever i want.
but i see other girls and want to fuck them. also before my current gf i used to meet up with guys and give them head which i really enjoyed. I've been wanting to give head again really bad.
The urge to fuck young hot girls and meet up with guys and suck them off is getting unbearable.
I can see myself marrying my current gf (I'm 21) but i also have these other urges that i dont know if i should indulge.
any help?
>>16653932
if you can't control yourself. You are not ready to settle down yet.
>>16653938
i see.
what about the moral aspect of it?
I'm readily able to have sex with other girls and meet up with guys, the only thing stopping me is the guilt i would feel for cheating.....
Maybe you should sit down with your gf and talk about your urges. Trust me she will appreciate the honesty and who knows she might be a freak and want to watch or join in. I've been with someone for 2 years now and we are open and honest with one another. If he told me he wanted to fuck someone else I would be down to watch or join in. You know your gf best tho. Hell maybe she will be ok with you becoming a porn star? You get your fix and get paid. Doesn't hurt to talk about it.
My abusive father is supposed to be getting weekends with me again. I honestly have no way of getting there this weekend, and my mom would be held in contempt of court if I do nothing.
I have a full write up on Pastebin http://pastebin.com/C43XKRfu
Basically, my dad is a fuckface and hits me, so I'm trying to avoid him. Only way to do that is to "run away"
Do you have a guidance counselor you could tell this to?
>>16653892
You're really stupid if you can't figure out how to make him hit you hard enough that there will be marks and then call the cops and get his ass thrown in jail and the problem taken care of for good.
fuuuuuuuuuuuuuu
Is it bad that I am legitimately no longer interested in romantic/sexual relationships or encounters with women (or anyone else for that matter)?
No. You just realized that love doesn't exist and that women aren't romantic.
It's a scam. Focus on yourself and improving your life. You will be happier and more whole if you live that way. Also go mgtow.com and check the forums.
We are waiting for you bro.
>>16653903
>misogyny intensifies
>>16653903
I mean I wish I didn't even have sexual desires anymore. I remember thinking about this crap so much and I would get so depressed off this shit. I couldn't take it anymore so I honestly, just stopped caring.
In a few hours I am likely getting kicked out. My parents have threatened to call the cops and have them take me away if I don't leave willingly by morning. What do I do?
Finding a place to stay (temporary if you can't pay rent) and employment should be top priority. What is your situation like?
You could kill them both, or you could have them thrown in jail. Call the cops and tell them your parents assaulted you.
I'm sorry to hear about your situation.
Do you have any sense of what's going through their heads? I'm not saying their reasons are good -they probably aren't- but they may hold a clue as to how to get out of this.
Holy shit /adv/.. I am never lucky when it comes to women.
Every girl I have asked out always says the same crap. "Given my job and school and stuff, I am just not ready to be dating someone" or SOMETHING along those lines.
Everything else could be perfect like, location, age, interests and shit but the HUMAN CHOICE FACTOR HAS FUCKED ME TIME AND TIME AGAIN.
What bothers me most is that there are no second chances. I will NEVER get to date that girl possibly be her boyfriend. EVER.
Its a fucking shit show and it makes me incredibly sad....
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>>16653830
not sure, maybe you are trying for girls out of your league. What's your age?
Start here http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/p/the-red-pill-primer-for-boys.html
You must be doing something wrong. Start with this easy to read, then you can move here https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/
>>16653830
don't, red pill is for faggots. It wasn't tell I stop doing red pill shit, then I started getting play
Am I a sociopath because I enjoy cheating on girls and feel no guilt breaking their hearts and hurting them
Could be a sociopath. Sociopath isn't an official term though, you likely have a personality disorder.
You're just an insecure asshole
I do to these girls what they would do to me or at least that's how I justify it
>get asked to job interview over skype because it's far away
>don't want to do it in my room because it's too personal
>live with parents, don't want to do it downstairs because I feel weird about my parents hearing me interview
>asked a couple local libraries if they had a private room I could for a bit, they said no
What do?
just do it in your room
Do it in your bathtub.
But seriously. "Too personal?" Just hide your figmas and anime titty wall scrolls and call it a day.
>>16653571
this. just cover your waifu posters with a blanket and you are good to go
So what's the protocol for a guy after a successful first date? How long am I supposed to wait to make contact again? Anybody have some general tips on how to move forward? I'm to autistic to know how to move beyond this point without fuckin up.
>>16653511
Don't wait. If it was good, say so ASAP.
>>16653511
>Exist
That's all you need to do. He has to contact you after all. If he doesn't then move onto the next Chad you have lined up
>>16653511
I would seem really busy. Probably wait about too weeks or so. Also, don't forget to not forget to not text him back all the time when he does and wait between texts too. Make him want you more. Have a "healthy relationship" when you finally do snatch him. ??? Profit.
My bf is moving in with me by the end of the month, and I'm hoping that we move towards a more dom/sub relationship. Trying to think up some punishment ideas and this is what I have so far, any suggestions?
>>16653509
Licking toilet when u misbehave
>>16653519
Licking my toilet HEI HEI
>>16653529
your toilet HEI HEI
just be honest with me if this sounds kind of like my new girlfriend is crazy or suspicious.
please don't think i'm an asshole for asking this, i just want a third party perspective from various people
date 1: have fun bowling and drinking together
date 2: see star wars, have coffee together, hold hands, kiss.
date 3. we make dinner together, have some wine, watch a movie together and then (this is the good part) we have sex 3 times, once on her roommate's sofa, once in her bedroom in the dead of night (the loud, blankets and pillows thrown...
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Protip: A strange girl you slept with and whose last name you don't know is not your girlfriend.
She really likes you.
She enjoys sex.
She is uninhibited and a free spirit.
You're lucky. If her behaviour isn't to your liking I will gladly take over.
>>16653514
well i mean i know her name now, and she definitely seems interested in having a long term relationship.
