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I am a freshman in uni. I took a gap year. I had three jobs during my gap year. Two were terrible for self-explanatory reasons.
I can't help but feel like my quality of life will just become lower and lower. It's not like I am poor (I'm in the upper-middle class), but going to work is inevitably and because of my experiences, I think that work will always suck. When I was a kid, I believed in finding a job that you love but it seems like such jobs do not exist. Really, every job has someone who will make you miserable for the day and its own terrible aspects.
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>inb4 welcome to real life
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Why no responses?
I am an Atheist in a country where you can be executed for not believing.
hiding who I am is really killing me slowly, I really want to be who I am and not fake anything and pretend to believe in nonsense
what should I do?
>>16655348
>funny-atheist-quotes.jpg
Work towards leaving the country. Otherwise, just keep it in the closet man. It's not an obvious thing, and it doesn't even matter. If you have to hide it to stay alive, then hide it.
Move out of the country to a place you won't be killed for not believing something or risk being killed for letting people know. It's your choice.
>>16655348
move as soon as you're able to. try to get out of your country by all means. if your internet access isn't being surveilled go online and share your interests in a community if it'll make you feel better, at least temporarily. wish you luck.
I lost a baby today. My boyfriend said he has no intention of marrying me after I suggested that we could try again after we are married. Am I right to be upset and consider leaving him?
I would say so. I would stay with my gf even if she was barren. Also it's better to marry first before kids.
>>16655320
why wouldn't he be willing to try again? weird.
don't be upset, try to solve issues communicating what you feel calmly and clearly, it's always the easiest path.
>>16655328
He has no intentions of having another baby since he didn't want the first one. He will break up with OP soon and live the life he wants
Subject says it all, give me the best place to start...
Depends, what kind of hacking you want to get into?
Crack software, network security, database...
Cracking software is kind of pointless. The net is endless with cracks and activations etc it was fun years ago, I'm not interested in learning how to build my own cracks. Something with a little more punch, something a little more exciting...
>>16655338
Hacking the matrix?
You have to be more specific.
Anyway learn some programming language first.
So, my secretary at work has recently been working for me at my home- I'm a busy guy. I work at the office, come home, and work more. She came home with me one time for dinner, and just stayed afterwards to work, so it's been happening every day now.
She does my dishes, cooks for me, vacuums up my house- it's nice. It's like having a wife but a lot better.
Recently she said she was looking to buy a place, so she took on the extra hours. After a month or two, she tells me she wants to live in my place until she can find one to buy- O-ok fine....
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>>16655252
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>>16655252
I don't understand what you're wanting advice for. If you don't want her to live there, just tell her. If you're okay with her paying rent and living there, then go for it.
>>16655350
It's getting a little... sexual, and I'm scared what kind of repercussions I could have legally
The other morning, she came into my bedroom at 6am, wearing a towel, because she wanted to use the 'fancy' shower.
I got hard as a rock and she saw it and... yeah.
She's been, overly, touchy, feely with me since then.
What happens if I fuck her, and then she wants a 50% raise, and I fire her? Do I get sued?
I have no intention of firing her and this discrimination...
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People keep saying I look younger than I actually am. I'm guy that's 23 and people think I'm 18. If it wasn't for the fact that I'm in college I bet they would think I'm younger.
I'm pretty self conscious about it. I'm 5'9 145lbs and skinny. Maybe it's the way I dress? I try to dress well, but I don't know. It might also be the way I carry myself. I'm pretty introverted and shy. How can I make myself look my age?
>>16655070
It'll be a combination of the way you dress and the way you act. People used to think I was 16 when I was 20/21, now I'm 23 and people can tell I'm in my early 20s. Learn to dress somewhat youthful while not dressing like a teen, and be more confident and sure of yourself
You're little tiny manboy size. Most highschoolers are bigger than you. Grow a beard, probably get a more mature hairstyle.
Right there with you, OP.
24 but people think I'm in high school.
Do you have a baby face too?
Ever since I've started my job 5 months ago, I've never shown attraction towards one of my female managers because I knew our policy doesn't allow managers to have a relationship with their subordinates.
I'm 26 and she's a couple years younger than me and has a petite body - she's my type, but I've always kept our relationship strictly professional. In fact, she just recently found out that I'm actually a bit of a smartass/asshole/pervert from my general manager, while we were eating out, and I've only showed my outer shell...
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>>16655068
You don't. It's her that has to adhere to the policy of your company, not you. Don't be a daft nice guy.
Start flirting with her at work, comment on her hair or dress. Get into casual talks. Do all this while out of sight from others, so it stay a secret. Eventually you'll get her number, and then fuck her during first date.
Go for it.
>>16655229
Thanks for the stiffy.
>>16655229
i shouldnt have to say this but DON'T DO THIS UNLESS YOU WANT TO LOSE YOUR JOB AND POSSIBLY GET CHARGED WITH SEXUAL HARASSMENT
>On Tinder
>Meet cute, polite girl in my area
>Chat for a few weeks, really hit it off, have a date planned this week.
>New Year's rolls around, she doesn't reply to me for a few days.
>Finally I get this gem, "anon, I got sexually assaulted while I was drunk"
>uhoh.jpeg
>We talk it out, the guy's one of her friends, his name is socceranon,...
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I guess you just got all the recessive genes this time, OP.
Also, don't associate with those kinds of people.
>>16655000
>got all the recessuve genes
I'm stealing this
>dont associate with those people
What kinds of people? Not op btw
>>16655000
It gets better, trust me.
Relationship advice:
GF recently told me she will be moving back to her home country permanently, she's 99% sure of it. Doubtful we will do ldr...
I'm not quite sure what to do, I've been in a expiration date relationship before, but I knew it would end from the get go. I didn't think this new g/f would do this, in fact I asked her if she planned on staying where we live and she said yes, it would benefit her career..
So I started to have feelings for her because things were great and she was planning on staying.
Recently she went...
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>>16654824
fuck dude, you could tell her about how it's worth considering what she's giving up, but from a position that you are totally not the significant aspect of that equation. and it's not that you care about her, but how it doesn't feel fair to you to say consider me for X reason, and hope she understands that you're not saying you care about her less. you've done the right thing so far. it sucks, but a relationship that exists cause someone said consider not leaving because of me is way too much pressure
No matter what you've said, it won't make her happy. She has her values, and unfortunately, she thinks you are and her career are not worth being with her family. A twenty six year old girl should think differently, but she doesn't. There's no use arguing or making it harder for her. Let her know that it was her decision to do this, and then be done with it. Do not keep contact, it will only prolong you from moving on with your life.
I have to pass a drug test in 7 hours, I'm almost testing negative already from tons of water and exercise but it's still a clear positive for marijuana. I need help or I go to jail.
>>16654805
Get someone's clean piss and try not to to get caught.
Otherwise your going to have to bite bullet
>>16654805
DRINK energy drinks and more water, make sure you piss every time you have the urge
I have. I'm on a diuretic. They watch me piss closely....
I was with my gf tonight and she got really horny but i didnt feel like fucking atm and so I went down to eat her out and she hesitated at first but then went ok. and she said it felt good but afterwards she was super weirded out and uncomfortable. Do girls like having their pussy licked?
>>16654747
Licking pussy is one of the gayest, unmanly things you can do.
>>16654752
lol, keep telling yourself that if it makes you feel better
>>16654863
He's right. She expected you to fuck her, you weren't manly enough at the time. Make up for it next time or if this happens consistently it will breed resentment and the relationship will fail. Licking pussy is pretty gay bro. It's ok once in a blue moon, but you should be the one in control, getting her to blow you, and so on. Not being a bitch who can't get it up. Stop masturbating to porn.
