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>have crush on guy, turns out he's a real Aspie (confirmed by mutual friends)
>become friends, but he never notices my feelings for him
>friends keep joking about how we gonna get married
>we joke about sharing a bed
>go to fancy symphony concert together, I jokingly ask him whether it's a date, he says and he jokingly ends up paying for my ticket and red wine
>go for drinks afterwards,...
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>>16817281
Get aggressive
Throw your panties in his face
>>16817281
>I jokingly ask him whether it's a date, he says and he jokingly ends up paying for my ticket and red wine
>>16817281
seems legit.
Straight up ask if you are dating. Being direct is the key to dealing with aspies.
Hello, /adv/.
My problem is, that my gf is a liar. She lies to me whenever she thinks that she can get away with it, and I don't think I can trust her anymore. I go to school out of state, and have to take a semester off due to an injury of mine. She lives at school, and there's a good 5-6 hours between us.
I know that most people tell fibs about things sometimes, especially when it isn't important, but this isn't the same. Her lies are literally to cover her ass after doing things that she knows I wouldn't like for her to do. This is mutual...
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She's gotten messages from other guys before, but never really paid them any mind, she just brushed them off and showed no interest. However, she would never, ever tell me about it. She wouldn't even bring it up. I've asked her if anyone's hit on her or something like that in casual conversation, and she's said no every time. Now, recently, someone else started a conversation with her. A little bit in, she said that she had a boyfriend, which surprised me because I expected her to leave that part out. I thought, "Wow, she actually said it, maybe...
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I don't know how to handle this. After this, there's no way I can trust her anymore. We've been fine besides this though, we've been dating for almost two years now. If I confront her about it, she'll know that I've been monitoring her. But I can't just say nothing. What I thought that I should do is just break up and say that I just don't think its going to work. I think that would be the smart thing to do. However, I'm furious. Outraged. Our relationship has always been her taking more than she gives, I do much more for her than...
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>>16817149
If what you say is true, your girlfriend is a piece of shit. Dump her and move on.
Girlfriend of about a year and a half left me, maybe 2 weeks ago.
Great timing for Valentines day and her birthday actually, saved me a bunch of money.
But, I left a HUGE box of condoms at her house. I would always buy them in the larger 50 packs because we were a steady couple, had sex often, and figured why go out and buy a 4 or 5 pack when I could buy two 50 packs, leave one at her house and one at mine, and be stocked up for a while?
well, we hadn't used a ton of the ones since I last bought the box for her house, and now, we are broken up. she...
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>>16817088
There is not way you can ask for those condoms back without her interpreting it as an insult and trying to hurt you back.
Buy new condoms or hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
>>16817088
Just ask for them back, it's not that hard.
She might poke holes in them though so watch out.
>>16817088
>how do I ask for those back, tastefully?
I don't think you can. It's either leave them where they are or telling as it is: Yo, can I pass by your house to get some of my stuff?
Don't stress over the "let's be friends" thing too much. It's not exactly easy to remain in good terms with a person you used to fuck.
Why do people prefer assholes?
Legitimate quesiton, I always try to be nice to people always put others first and yet everyone is drawn towards assholes. People that hurt them time and time again.
I've tried talking to them and all they do is talk about themselves...
Why?
You're probably boring as fuck
Because you're boring and obnoxious, and the people you call assholes are actually the interesting ones with personality
I'm nice and people like me. But I'm also interesting and funny and enjoyable to be around.
So my new gf told me she wants to model nude for an art class. In lieu of payment, she wants an original drawing from the artist who teaches the class.
To be honest I dislike the idea. It's not that I'm particularly worried about infidelity (the way I would be if she said she was going to some photographer's studio to shoot stills) but overall it makes me question my decision to date this girl seriously.
She said she wouldn't do it if I asked her not to, and I said I'd think about it. I'm wondering if this is a bit of a test to see...
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attend the class and draw a pig instead of her
>>16816822
begin
just let her do it
if she start's doing it on a regular basis///gets far too excited about it afterwards then
acquire new grill
end
>>16816841
This, let her try it maybe let your reservations be known but don't stop her. If she starts wanting to be a nude model, then talk to her and tell her you're uncomfortable with it.
I want to fall in love
What do?
>>16816748
find a qt to fall in love with
>>16816748
Well fall in love obviously
>>16816748
Go out. Meet new people. Hopefully one of those new people will be some good wife/husband material for you.
>able to fap for hours
>edge constantly
>last about 5 minutes in a vagina
What the fuck? Is there any trick to last longer in bed?
>>16816530
>posting shinji for your normalfag problems
absolutely heretical
>>16816532
I became a normalfag just days ago. Am I no longer allowed to be a dweeb?
>>16816530
Change the way you masturbate. Clutch your dick harder. Vaginas are soft, hardly clenching your cock. If you masturbate softly with your hand, it doesn't matter how much yo
Anyone else adamant that they won't make it past 25-30?
I've always felt like a failure of a human being, I flunked out of university, I work a manual labor job out in the sun, heat, cold and rain.
I've disappointed my highly educated parents, and I've given up my once big and naive aspirations on going to a prestigious university doing medicine or law, finding a nice girl, have a fulfilling career like my parents did or even leave a legacy.
I live alone, and I work hard, I've made lots of friends, I'm hopeless with women.
Ever...
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>>16816425
26, Same here but I graduated with degree in a major I give no fucks for. Poor fag, only mom went to college. Had unrealsitic goals of being famous or being creative for my career. I rather die before 30 since I have no goals and still live at home. I became somewhat of a recluse. Havent had a chick since 21. Unemployed looking but manage to get hired for shit. Hard for me because I live in NYC where everything is expensive. Tax is 8 percent and we have low minimum wage
I was not a failure, I did well in school and graduated college to a high paying job, but at 23 I'm pretty sure I don't want to make it to 30.
Okay man. Let's be real for a second. Fuck this ideological bullshit excuse of a life that society sets in place for everybody. The most important thing in life is just being happy. Your parents may be disappointed in you but so what? Would you rather be miserable working some job you hate, doing a 9-5, day after day, slowly sinking into darkness until one day you have the courage to put a 12 gauge to your head? Fuck that shit. You don't need a wife, kids, or a house in the suburbs to be successful. Success is a standard you need to set for yourself and not allow society...
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If she's telling you her plans with only her girl friends and that she's been lonely, is she hinting at something?
>>16816368
if hes posting about her in an internet forum, should he ask her out?
>>16816378
Wat
>>16816403
less speculation, more action
Give me your honest rate and tell me if I still have hope. Currently me, I shaved it al. Btw im 19 not underage
>>16816314
Get those fish pictures off your wall.
Second pic
>>16816314
>Btw im 19 not underage
mentally i would say that you are 7, but for real, are you trying to turn into a meme or something or do you just like to embarrass yourself?
and how can you make them sane. or put up with their crazy well enough to love them.
They had to go through puberty twice as different genders basically. That would drive anyone crazy.
Anyway, you can't fix crazy regardless of who it's from. You either can deal with it, or you can't. If you can't, you're hurting both of you by staying.
>>16816138
why can't you fix crazy? isn't it something therapy and drugs can fix?
>>16816130
Because like all homosexuals they suffer from mental illness
She just broke down and decided to end it
I feel so torn and don't know how to cope
help /adv/. My heart feels shattered right now
>>16815771
May the pain last forever normalscum
>>16815783
thanks man appreciate it mr pegasus
>>16815797
I tried to warn you bro
I know information about a guy who sexually assaulted his female cousin. What should I do with it? Should I report it to the police, or just let the internet do some justice to him?
>>16814671
Go to the police so they can gather facts and resolve it at least somewhat objectively. We're not going to play executioner just because you've already decided to play judge and jury.
Police
>>16814671
Come on, son. Go to the police.
Has anybody actually stopped masturbating completely? I'm trying to. I'm going longer between each time, but I still give in every now and again. Does anybody have any tips on how to quit totally?
>>16814496
no fap is placebo, you're a retard
>>16814499
eh to an extent.
Not fapping too much will lead to more energy, better sex drive, better flirting skills, and a few other things, but quitting masturbating completely will remove the benefits.
The key is to masturbate the perfect amount. In a book I read The Multi-Orgasmic Man, it recommends that if you're in your twenties, try to only masturbate once every four days.
That gives your body enough time to build up lots of sexual energy that gives you the benefits, but if you don't ejaculate...
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>>16814529
all these fucking words jesus stop talking
you're wrong, accept it you're wrong
How do you help someone who won't help themselves?
My sister unemployed and living at mom's, contributing nothing to household chores and not making any kind of an attempt at looking for a school or getting a job. If and when she's asked about what she wants to do with her life, she has a mental breakdown/tantrum and cries bitterly because she has absolutely zero realistic ideas of things she could stomach doing.
She's been diagnosed with depression and sunk really deep into the enabling tumblr hole and all of the "expecting recovery is...
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Getting her to somekind of camp/institution/organisation that gets these kind of people back on their feet?
>>16814653
Where do I find one and how do I convince her to go do that, when she refuses to even open up the employment office's website?
>>16814492
Well maybe she's just not interested in manual labor? Based on your description I could be your sister. People tell me to grow up and look for a job (which I did but they never hire me), but then they say look for lower class jobs, but I refuse to work in a disgusting factory for pennies or become waiter. I do not want to get varicose veins at 25.
What i'm tryin to say is: find out what is her thought process. What is it that truly motivates her. For me it's Health > Job. Happiness > Job at a soul sucking shithole. Oh and Everyhing else >>>>> money. Personally I couldn't give less of a fuck about money. I know, I know "but it's what puts food on the table" I still don't care. I haven't an ounce of materialistic interest.
You could get me to work at charity for free, but wouldn't take a high paying job offer if the conditions I set for myself aren't met.
