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alright, so I was with this friend and his friend who's a girl and blah blah blah doesn't matter
so a few days after that happened, I was with my friend again and asked about the girl, and, context aside, he said at the end of the conversation:
>yeah dude she was all "at one point I was just ripping on him and then he gave it back to me", like I said, you're on her side, you're on the same team, that's what she wants
okay, weird thing to try and figure out, out of everything else, I know, but the phrase 'at one point', grammatically speaking, what sort of past relation does that imply?
in other words, did they speak to each other just at a certain point when we were all hanging out, just when I was away from them (I went to the store a few times), or would it have to have been them together like the day after talking about me?
It's a bigger picture thing, what all of this amounts to, and it's not really relevant to ask her, but if they were talking about me like the day after we were all together, that would be significant, as opposed to it having just been said as some remark while I was gone when we were together.
what do you guys think?
>>16818336
to ask here**
also
>together like the day after, talking about me?
wut
>>16818344
it's pretty clear what I'm asking, get some reading comprehension
I really should know this by now but no. Another girl seems to be into me but I don't know if I like girls?
>>16817040
If you are friends with them. And you get aroused by them physically or emotionally. You can call it love.
>>16817040
You'll feel it deep down in your pants
And maybe in your heart.
>>16817046
She's pretty amazing. Cooks like a pro and is nice and sweet. And I feel emotionally aroused by her for sure. Is this sexual attraction?
I dated a girl for a while in high school but it was definitely not love or anything. Also was a big mistake...
Usually I like guys. I hope this can work.
>>16817052
It's hard to feel much of anything these days. My heart's scarred and battle-torn :(
Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
Avoid asking these common questions:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't. Our answers are not going to help you.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
Most likely
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.
>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing
>Would you date a virgin?
As long as they aren't insecure about it. Complexes are a total turn-off.
>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships
No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking
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>>16815162
Should I try and get back with my old girlfriend?
I ended things with her 4 years ago. I broke up with her as she was giving me a birthday present... Yeah pretty bad. But I'm sure I could fix it.
Is going back to where you've been always bad, or not?
>>16815240
Why'd you break up with her?
>>16815245
Cuz she looked like anons mom.
Im trying to tell my friend to basically stop dressing like a ho but shes drugged up on libertarian nonsense.
Im trying to explain to her that shes only perpetuating the objectification of women and that her taste in clothing is a product of the society that objectifies women. But she doesnt get it.
Last time we were talking about this she said that she should be able to wear whatever she wanted and be respected which is just not true.
Uhh maybe stop trying to control your friend and just let her wear whatever she wants? She should be able to wear whatever she wants.
hahahahhahah oh fuck sjw crack me up
>>16817352
>Last time we were talking about this she said that she should be able to wear whatever she wanted and be respected which is just not true.
I've been having some bad anger issues lately, drinking a lot, etc. I'm in the military, though, and we have chaplains/padres.
Should I see the one at my local unit, or is it a trap? I feel like going to someone and saying "I'm having problems at home" is just gonna fast-track me to being fired from the only job I can get. But being angry literally all the time between shifts is very tiring, and I'm running out of unbroken things in my house to smash in fits of rage.
what makes you so angry?
>>16816477
Get the help you need. You owe it to yourself and your unit.
>>16816480
that literally nothing I do doesn't get me bullied in some sense when I reveal it or discuss it with others, and that even on my own time doing things completely by myself, they fail pretty much 100% of the time. I cannot think of the last project I undertook that went well -- even cooking rice yesterday, some got burned and stuck to the pot. At the bar over the night, I met people and was largely brushed off or got ignored or whatever. And even being all upset, thinking I was by myself in my apartment to smash stuff up and be terrible, it turned out that my roommate was around the whole time! I think he might even have some bitch over. I don't know.
I am mad pretty much 100% of the time between shifts, and even at work, I'm on edge because I'm constantly being shit on for the length of my hair or how shiny my boots are or some other stupid thing, and I can't even take pride in my work because I don't really *do* anything.
I'm looking for a dance school. Is this school going to have predominantly black students?
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>>16816398
Why do you care?
>>16816405
maybe I don't want to be the only non-black person in class
this question is so bizarre, that I came to the conclusion that it is an advertisement, then I modified my conclusion by reminding myself of the other questions that get posted here.
Then I changed my mind again, because this one is really obvious.
Pissing of 4chan is litterally one of the last things a business wants to do.
I suggest a rethink on this strategy.
I got caught browsing some fucked up shit on this site just about ten minutes ago by my mom. I am 18 btw. She's really pissed cuz she has never seen me watch anything worse than a sex scene in a rated r movie. I am in my room right now waiting for her to finish talking with my dad about what she just saw and I am afraid what's gonna happen next?
Any advice on how to get out of this deep shit?
>>16816210
realize it's not deep shit lol
>>16816210
What did she see. Pls dont tell me it was trap shit.
i know porn is not reality, it's not harming anyone, I'm sorry mom, I've always secretly wanted to fuck your tight asshole while dad watches
What can I personally do to make America great again? Besides voting for Trump that is.
>>16816105
consume and invest more.
>>16816105
Not for for trump
>>16816105
Don't vote for trump.
So I tried and failed and now I have ugly ass slices on my left arm. They're healing but there's no way they won't leave me with scars. I don't want this known. Does anyone know of a way to cover scars with burns or something? I need a permanent solution that isn't a tattoo.
Scar removal? If you find out be sure to tell the rest of the world.
How ugly? Just embrace them imo, they'll just be a story one day about when you had some trouble in your past. nbd really.
See a damned psychiatrist over your obvious mental health problems.
How to find a mental health provider: http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/mental-illness/in-depth/mental-health-providers/art-20045530
How to find a therapist: http://www.webmd.com/anxiety-panic/guide/how-to-find-therapist
Dealing with suicidal thoughts: http://www.helpguide.org/articles/suicide-prevention/suicide-help-dealing-with-your-suicidal-thoughts-and-feelings.htm
List of suicide hotlines by country (put one in your phone, since apparently you might need it): http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.html
Suicide attempts are serious things. They indicate that you need to get help. So get it.
You could end up a happy, healthy individual, instead of, you know... miserable. Or dead.
The burns will itch forever. They have ways of covering up scars, including ordinary makeup, tattoos, plastic surgery, and sleeves.
Plus, people are inobservant.
So I used to talk to this girl. We were kind of a thing and she seemed really into me. After a few months of texting every day, we just stop talking. Turns out a few weeks she just moves out of nowhere and is with another guy.
Apparently they broke up recently and she's back in town. I still kind of have feelings for her.
I want to text her but I'm worried it'll be to weird. Should I just leave it be and move on, or should I bite the bullet and text her? I just don't want to look like a pathetic creep.
tl;dr: talking to a girl, leaves one day with new bf, broke up and back in town, should I text or move on?
Having feelings for a girl that broke your heart are wrong feelings.
Only good for a poke, not a relationship.
>she chose that guy over you and it ended quickly
She doesn't sound very smart.
Girl sounds like a bitch OP and I'd cut your losses and stay away, buy hey your call. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
I need to vent to someone, is there any online type deal where I can just bitch to someone? I can't deal with bottling my feelings anymore.
Im not suicidal or hung up on a girl, I just want to let some shit out y'know?
>>16815770
You found the right board
Just post it here
>>16815770
Fuckinghate.com
>>16815775
Well, I don't really need advice. I want to just vent, but at the same time I kinda want acknowledgement from a person. If I post here I feel it'll just silently die with no response.
>>16815793
Will check out, thanks.
/adv/ I betrayed a friend. Hard.
I'm not gonna go into details of what I did, but I did a very bad thing (very bad).
Blah blah blah, a few days ago he found out, and when I apologized directly, he called on all of my bullshit, and I could not say anything except sorry.
He hates my guts now and I can understand why, and I don't expect him to ever forgive me.
I just want some advice on how can I live with myself, or look at myself in the mirror now. I did one of the worst things a human can do besides betraying a family member, and I just can't get rid of this horrible feeling I have.
-karma
You can only learn from it at this point and not do shitty things like that in the future. You can try doing good deeds and such to help even the world out I guess.
Don't do it again, learn and grow from it. Figure out what lead you down this path and stamp it out
I'll get straight to the point. I've been sexually abused when I was just a kid by 3 different people that my parents would allow to watch over me. I am now a sex addict and want to stop. I'm in love and want to control my sexual urge. I want to be clean. I want to stop being this person. Is there anything I can do to change these thought of sexual desire and be normal?
Picture related, it's my gf that I love
>>16815585
Did you cheat on your girlfriend?
>>16815592
No, not yet. But I keep thinking about it and I hate myself because of it. I fucking love her.
The funny thing is that I've been wanting to cheat for NO reason. Just because I can
>>16815596
So how are you a sex addict?
I want to be a firefighter, but I got a past I'm not proud of. I have a clean record, but I know they do a polygraph test. Should I apply anyway?
>>16815499
any firefigthers on adv?
>>16815499
Do they really take a polygraph or are you just paranoid?
Nah a lot of firefighters aren't good people.
What's the least pathetic way to write "pls respond"
I got a dream girl on Tinder i.e fills all my niche ideals (tall, pale, blonde, has the same fashion and art likes etc.)
I opened up with a compliment based on her profile that ironically states she works at McDonalds
I wrote it like 8 hours ago but in case it doesn't get a reply, I wanna do one "pls respond" type thing in a couple days
I realize if that doesn't pan out still I'll leave it
thanks /adv/
There is no non-pathetic way to say "pls respond". Either she responds or she doesn't, and if it's the latter then you find someone else. She's not as great as you're building up in your head frankly. I know that's not the answer you were looking for, but if she really wanted to talk to you, she would.
>>16815475
This is b8
If it's not it should be because you're a fucking embarrassment
You will either learn that there are billions of girls out there and none of them are perfect, or you will die alone. Up to you mate.
>>16815490
THIS. "Dream girls" do not exist.
