>>16898080
Dat ass

you could fucking bounce a quarter off that ass

Well, by killing yourself of course.

Or you could tell us what is troubling you.

Have you tried doing anything differently to normal?

Find something worth living for.

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Bump. This is what I look like in good clothing

Might as well go for it, what is there to lose? I went on a tinder date a couple weeks back. I didn't know how it was going to go and I was scared of messing up. I also just got out of a very long term relationship of 3 years. It was a fun experience and I would do it again, but I'm not in the mood to date atm.

You look like a normal guy to me, I don't see why she would be turned off.

>>16898156
Lol faggot you don't look that bad. Keep lifting and fuck that hoe.

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I think it's best to be careful with this. The timing is important.

I recommend plotting a course.

[spoiler]Intercourse[/spoiler]

>>16898011
>>16898039

God damint /adv/ you have some good taste in YTP.

yeah if her ex has a new girlfriend already then you're probably good to go

>>16897998
You aren't friends. You're just clinging on to your cheating fucker of an ex and she's putting up with you purely out of guilt for cheating on you. No one can move on that fast unless they already had something lined up. Stop contact 100% so you can focus on healing yourself mentally.

>>16897995

>I'm not trying to write an erotic nove

Well damn Anon, you almost did though. Left me with a semi.

>Am I a shallow piece of shit for looking for my next gf based totally on this body type?

Honestly yes, i think so. Who knows, maybe there's a girl out there with a body type that gets you going even more than your previous gf? Or maybe you're just infatuated with her still, you could just give it some time and let...
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>>16898023
>maybe you're just infatuated with her still, you could just give it some time and let the feelings fade away.
But that's the freaky part, it's been like 5 months, I was 100% glad she was gone for the first 3 or so but the past several weeks seems like I just miss her more and more, like I forget all the drama and bullshit and only remember the amazing shit that happened in my bed with her interesting body. Wtf ?

>>16897995
Her legs freak me the fuck out. But to each their own. Everyone has a type they like.

Go see a counselor/therapist and not a Psychiatrist. The former helps you sort out mental problems, the latter medicates mental disorders.

>>16897928
I'm scare though...what if they just send me straight to a hospital ...

>>16897939
Speaking as someone who sees a counselor regularly AND is also on medication for depression and anxiety, I can tell you that (1) the only situation that they're going to do that in is if you literally say "When I leave this session, I'm going to kill myself/others." Even if you say you're feeling suicidal, they're not going to commit you. At least, in my experience they won't.

During my first session, she asked me if I felt suicidal, and I said "sometimes." He...
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Wait until sex is actually on the cards. Don't bring it up yet, because she might not want sex with you.

If you do both want to fuck, you don't have to tell her everything. Just say you want to go slow, etc. I'm sure if she said the same thing to you, you would respect it.

Only if things are getting into a serious relationship should you consider telling her about your history.

>>16898029
I'd like to bring it up before things get too serious and before initiating sex, so I don't get too hurt. I've come to use sex as a means for intimacy and sensitivity.

>>16898185
>I've come to use sex as a means for intimacy and sensitivity.

Well, there's the main issue. Maybe you can try to become more familiar and comfortable with verbal communication. It would make you less reliant on sex (which you're worried about because of your history) and more able to talk about things (which you struggle to do and rely on sex instead). It seems a vicious cycle.

Maybe you're sleeping in a weird way. You could try changing your pillows. Or sleeping on your back maybe?

You should talk to your doctor again. But don't believe the "pills solve everything meme". Imo if he just gives you some pills don't take them, that won't solve your problem in the long run.

>>16897930
Yeah he gave me 3 different types of pills and I only took the antibiotics.

The other problem is my friends and family get mad at me when I bring it up since I don't look wrong to them

>>16897899
I am living for the people around me.
That's it.
Death would be much less stressful.

> what's the point in working toward anything if you're going to die anyway

What, were you expecting to live forever? People die, countries die, planets die, even the sun will eventually stop burning. Nothing lasts forever, make the best out of the time you have.

>>16897899
First thing's first, I'd never come back to this website in that time. Take a trip, act reckless and see what happens. There'd be no worries about the future so anything goes.

>adderall
>accept failure
Pick one. Unless you have a gifted memory you're fucked

>>16897893
Where can I even get Adderall?

College is a scam unless maybe you're going to be a doctor or lawyer. You grades don't really matter because otherwise you can get into really any community college (if you want to actually pursue higher education) and get a useless degree in anything.

If they're wearing a costume, it'll be super easy. "I love your costume! I'm Anon. Nice to meet you."

If they're not, you're already sharing a common interest by being at a weeaboo convention, so that's an INSTANT conversation starter, for guy friends and grills alike.

Just go for it man. If they hate you, you never have to see them again. If they like you, you've made a new friend. It's really not a bad situation.

get numbers and bond over shared interests

super easy to do at cons

anon keep in mind that socialization depends largely on the context, at least if you're bad at it

what I mean is that at something like a convention, a different level of sociability is assumed as compared to the workplace, the dmv, etc. if someone doesn't want to talk, move on. no big deal. just be mindful that your environment encourages it, so there's no need to feel self conscious

tl;dr Being social at a convention is normal and by not doing it, you can seem even more strange than by initiating random conversation

>still trying

How? What are you doing?

>>16897874
Nothing...to be honest. I got a fuck buddy for a while but it didn't really help.

>>16897852
Who broke up with who

Watch Taken with her

Oh boy, i'm just like you. I think your dilemma is kind of a "warning example" for me. I share your opinion that travelling abroad to foreign countries just for leisure is a huge waste of money. The only advice i can give you is to break up. When i meet a partner, i intend to make it clear from the start that i'm not the kind of guy who wants to go on "vacations". I'm all up for leisure time, but financially there is a limit to how much i consider it reasonable to spend on such things.

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>>16897860
We've watched it, no effect.

>>16897862
Yeah I think a lot from it stems form the fact that shes younger then me and still lives with her parents.

But even laying it out straight up with it, she thinks im being selfish and feels like im holding her back. When im like, go do these things then, I dont have to be there holding your hand every single second of every single day...

oh

>>16897826
beta uprising

>>16898022
is this actually such a beta thing to do