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Ok so this chick I know was killed with her bf while they were having sex in the car. His car smashed into the back of a semi truck. It was pretty bad and they had to cut open the roof and side of the car to get them out. They tried to cover them up but when they removed her I saw pretty much everything. The dude was still hard and in her and when they lifted her off him all this stuff came out. Was wondering if maybe it was his cum and if it was is it from after he died. Anyone know?
>>16925465
Why the fuck do you care?
Total bs thread. No one would have sex while driving
>>16925465
lol
Why is deleting your entire porn collection so difficult, especially after spending many years gathering the hard to find stuff, waiting on slow download speeds etc.
If feels like its a part of me, so getting rid of it means im losing a part of myself.
Does this sounds weird? I wanted to do an experiment but it could affect my life.
I dont know what to do.
>>16925308
>why is deleting your entire porn collectio nso difficult, especially after spending many years gathering the hard to find stuff, wiating on slow download speeds, etc.
probably because you spent many years gathering the hard to find stuff, wiating on slow download speeds, etc.
>does that sound weird
kind of. not a whole lot weird. I used to be the same thoughts with junk food. i was never fat but i wanted to be healthy, and more...
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>>16925321
This. I wouldn't delete it, just make sure you don't have access to it.
>>16925308
My bf deleted all of his. He seems like a much happier person now, and he enjoys fucking me more than jacking off now.
Feeling really shitty more and more lately.
I dropped out of uni last year after two years of not going to classes because of depression and anxiety. I entered a college program this year just to get the student loans to make rent.
It's starting to go to shit again. I've been missing more classes and feeling worse about myself. I can't afford meds and I'm not sure if they'd work this time, anyways. I don't know how to get crazy bux where I'm located.
Even writing this is making me nervous, but I can't vent on Facebook....
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>>16925304
The structure of college classes is pretty tough to get used to. Listening to people talk for hours every day takes a toll on you, and you have to worry about everyone staring at you when you go to class and when in you're in class too.
My advice would be to take care of yourself and see someone about getting your finances in order. I don't think anyone would suggest medication if you don't have good sleep, healthy diet, and exercise. Also, I'm pretty sure there's someone you can talk...
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>>16925357
I'm thinking of trying therapy again.
The college I'm talking about is technical college for a trade. Thankfully no big endless lectures. Canada-speak, I guess.
>>16925372
That's a good idea. Having an actual person to talk things out with relieves stress and allows for a second perspective on things.
I've never visited a technical college. What are the classes like?
>be me
>had a good 2y long relationship
>didnt get laid. The relationship was complicated
>after a misstep, get into "the talk"
>Gf explains that she is the one to blame for the faliure. (Which is partly true, even if my friends claim she's the only one at fault)
>We decide its for the best to end it.
>I cant hold back all the repressed feels and anger anymore, it ends with me pushing tons of shame on her making her very uncomfortable.
>We didnt end on bad terms tho, i had already accepted the end was near.
Fast forward a few weeks
>i get an offer to study abroad
>Im not gonna see anyone for a long time.
>My now ex feels its a good time to invite me to stay over.
>Because i still love her (or atleast thats what im telling myself) i agree.
>we have a nice evening together, not different from our usual dates.
>She still calls me honey and all the nicknames from when we were together.
>She tells me that were gonna sleep on different beds. (Atm, i dont feel its appropriate to make a move, she is obviously in emotional turmoil (or thats what i keep telling myself).
>She jokingly tells me that she wont wake up if she passes out on my bed, she is lying on the corner.
>As the gent i am, i tell her that if she wants to share the bed its fine with me.
>She gets quiet and makes some faint noices, then stands up and tells me shes going to sleep.
>Im lying here now. I know she is very tired and probably sleeping.
What do you guys think is going on in her head right now?
Do you think she is trying to get me back?
Because im moving far away, we wont see each other for a few months making a definitive move right now is not really fair to me or her.
>>16925299
Make a move dumbass.
>>16925310
If it was any other girl I would have done exacly that. But this one is different to me.
I see here as more precious than just the avrage gf. I dont want to waste any future chances with her by having her reject me in this very awkward moment (i really feel indifferent atm)
>>16925332
You're putting her on a pedestal. Don't do that.
So a few days ago, I found out that this girl whom I am fond of has been into me the past few years. She told me through her friend so she knows that I know she likes me and that I like her back. But for some reason we just don't seem to be hitting it off well at all. She's usually outgoing, hilarious, and very confident, but she's been acting pretty distant around me. We have a class together that's basically a study hall and for the past two times in that class she'll come near my table as if she's thinking about sitting with me but then sit somewhere else. Today she actually chose to sit by herself instead of sitting with a me and a girl I was with. She acts totally different around her friends than how she acts around me. What do you think the issue is? What should I do?
>>16925264
Maybe she thinks you'd rather be with the girl you sat with. Maybe you give off subtle signals that say you don't want her sitting with you. What's stopping you from asking her out?
>>16925298
This. Anon remember that healthy relationships involve two people who both contribute. Sometimes you have to be the one to move first.
As for her acting differently, she could be insecure around her friends.
>>16925298
I've asked her out on a date twice and she had work both days. I'm waiting for her to make a move
Hey /adv/ any ideas on how to damage control this situation with my parents?
I am a rich fag and my parents pay for my credit card. As of late i met a girl and started doing things so my cost on my card costs has increased by about 500$ a month. While this isn't a whole lot they told me they want to talk to me about the card usage sometime.
They aren't talking to me immediately so i guess its not a huge issue. But how do I talk to them about this situation? I don't want them to take the card away or limit it so i can keep doing activities and eat...
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>>16925161
Tell them about ya gurl homepai.
They think you're on fucking drugs or something.
>my cost on my card costs has increased by about 500$ a month.
That's more than my monthly rent.
Kill yourself
>eat out with my girlfriend
Eating out your girlfriend will save you money. Do that instead.
Hi /adv/isors,
I'm twisted up by a girl who said she loved me last night. She isn't in a position to act on those feelings as she only recently got out of a long term relationship and is exploring single life. But I won't bore you with the details.
I want to look out for myself. I'll still be involved with this girl for a few months, but I want to do stuff for me in spite of what feelings I have that are still hung up on her.
So I guess what I'm asking is: what's the best way to put yourself out there? I'm a bit of a blank...
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bump
>>16925142
first and foremost, she either wants to be with you, or she doesn't. there is no 'OH I WOULD IF I WASNT JUST RECENTLY SINGLE'
if she actually wanted to be in a relationship with you, she would be. she said what she said because she wants to keep you as a supporter without limiting herself to you.
the minute she finds the right guy she will no longer want to explore being single.
that being said, go put yourself out there. clubs arent everything, they arent even close.
open...
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>>16925193
Yeah, I know it's bullshit, but the feelings I had for her don't. I'm trying to work around that.
That's good advice, though. Thanks for giving me some direction.
I'm one of those shitty little theater kids and the last play of my college experience is over and I just don't care anymore for the rest of the semester
I get enough guilt to do my work, eventually, and I'm still getting good grades, but I put off work for so long that it's really just plain old senioritis/procrastination
The problem is I'm avoiding doing anything I enjoy or hope to do instead of my schoolwork. How do I get that drive for self-improvement back?
>>16925101
we can give tips and tricks but if your response to any of this is going to essentially be
'id just not do that or find a way around it' then go to /x/ cuz ur not looking for advice, you are looking for magic.
that being said
>make a schedule
schedules help. organize a list. take the time to cross things off. its satisfying.
>buddy system
friend in your class? do the homework together. explain your...
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>>16925110
nice advice but the only one that'd work is schedule because
>gf
>roommate
>friends
where do you think we are?
>>16925163
you are in college so assumed you had dormmates.
friends can extend to classmates.
but if you dont have the prowess to get a study buddy then you dont really have what it takes to do college. i mean fuck you're in theater, you wanna pretend you arent on good terms with anyone in that class?
Ive been using the compound w wart remover band aids and honestly it just made it worse. This is honestly so disgusting i have no idea what the fuck to do and it hurts too bad and bleeds so damn much to just rip it off.
> i have no idea what the fuck to do
go to a doctor you idiot
First off, let it heal.
I used to have gnarly warts on my hands and had the best luck with OTC freezing kits. Eventually though, I had to just pony up and get them frozen off by a doctor.
I don't know about cutting them off. You'd have to cut deeply, to remove ALL the wart tissue. I don't recommend it, especially not for one that big and located where it is.
Are you sure it's even a wart?
Go to a professional.
>>16925079
Gross dude go to a fucking doctor before your finger falls off.
Today my firends and I were sitting together eating lunch. We are just making Jones as usual, and I made a joke about someone. My one friend straight across from me says "Well and you're a creepy pedophile who spends all his time on 4chan". My heart sunk when I heard that. He had his serious face on and didn't look like he was joking when he said that. I don't know what to do. I'm really scared, what if he tells other people? That was a fairly out of character joke for him to make.
>>16925034
Are you?
Wouldn't bother you if you weren't, pham.
Maybe you should renounce your wicked ways.
>>16925043
I am..... I don't know what to do...
ew, fix that shit dude. the fuck's wrong with you? are you that guy that posts about his cousins all the time?
How should I come up with a half-decent / original message for girls that barely write anything on their profiles?
Like literally < 20 words
I try to leave these for the last of my 10 messages per day quota, but I'm always like "yea so uhm...uuuh....who the fuck are you?" (I obviously don't say that lol)
Ideas? I'm rather new to this and I think I'm coming off as a bit too much of a nice guy but eh, I don't think there'd be much point in pretending to be a chad when I don't look like one
What has worked...
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>>16924952
online dating is a waste of time
>>16924956
thank you anon, that was some useful help you provided there
>>16924961
There are statistics that of 1000 message sent women only reply to 1 or 2 regardless of content
Its a waste of time, but suit yourself
I'm considering killing myself when I get my first paycheck. I've been there a week and I hate it. I don't know if I could do wagekekking forever. Even though I receive NEETbux being alive and feeling like a burden is just as bad. It's only going to be about $200 so will this be enough to kill a big guy if I choose to OD on heroin?
>>16924920
Don't do it mane! I believe in you.
>>16924920
Don't do it OP
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9f3bo_6gPDg
I have a very similar thing going through my mind coincidentally
So pic related.
Meeting her tomorrow as friends. What do I say?
We're going to a restaurant after work.
>How would you like to go out sometime?
>I like you more than just a friend
Other?
We're both mid-late twenties.
>>16924869
has there ever been a hint that she might be a lesbian?does she know you are a lesbian?
>>16924869
I'd advise you to be as straight forward with her as possible. This is a nut up or shut up type situation. You have to risk it to get the biscuit. You won't be able to come back from this in terms of your friendship. It will be forever changed.
>>16924869
http://www.charismanews.com/opinion/44535-ex-lesbian-christian-issues-powerful-response-to-criticism-challenge-to-believers
My friend got LSD and he and some of my other friends are going to do it. They want me to do it also but I'm not sure if I should or of its dangerous. They have done it 2x before and seem fine but I'm still unsure. Anyone else have knowledge or experienced it??
Only do one tab/hit and have a safe place to be for 8-10 hours and you'll be fine.
>>16924805
It would be at a friend's house and we would only do 1
>>16924797
Only do it if you feel you're in a safe, relaxing environment. The first time I did it, I was alone in my dorm but skyping with the bf. I had a really great time, but I almost had a bad trip because I walked to a place to get some dinner but all the people freaked me out and got me paranoid.
>just do it bro
Does this actually work or can we safely relegate it to dumb meme status?
It's just a generic way to promote the idea of taking initiative. Taking initiative is generally a good thing since it's how we acquire experience. There is nothing meme about it.
It's literally the same as "carpe diem". We've had this saying since the dawn of man.
The big difference is some faggot can put stigma on the concept of taking unplanned initiative. Halo effect,
>>16924776
The advice is usually given as a way to try and solve psychological problems. I don't really think it stands true for many of the things people suggest it for. There are other barriers in place that prevent the efficacy of the "just do it", but I'm not entirely sure as to what they are.
