So I need an outsiders look on my problem, that me and the girl I love have. Quite a lot of details, will try to get everything in there.
So when both parties have been through a rough patch, and both parties got hurt, who's to blame the most? Can you measure "hurt"? Like when, I fell I got hurt the most, does she bear most off the blame?
>dated for four years >she cheated >broke up with me, cause she couldn't bear what she did Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
not necessarily an advice thread, but would like to hear from people who are straightedge (not taking recreational drugs, sometimes not even alcohol). I haven't done any, despite growing up in a relatively liberal country where soft drugs are decriminalized and have been for a long time. What I think stopped me from experimenting with drugs was the fact that, despite getting along with people at my school, I didn't really have any social life outside school hours, so there was almost no peer pressure on me, and by the time I became more social (which was very scant,... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
i used to drink alcohol occasionally. now it's down to maybe one glass of wine and a beer in one year. i have smoked weed two times. it was ok, but not mindblowing. nothing else. i never felt any peer pressure. i just politely declined when offered anything and that was it. when i was a teen i once had a bad experience with alcohol and then didn't touch a single drop for 7 years. my dad is a heavy smoker/drinker and i guess i'm a bit a burned child here. yes, i would try with the right person. aka with my bf. mainly because i love sleeping with him and... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I've never had more than two drinks at a time, and other than prescribed stuff I've never done any drugs.
Mostly it's because I am super religious, and because drugs cost money and I don't have it. Besides, my head's a fucked-up enough place without adding illegal drugs to the mix.
I was drunk only once in my life and I'm not really planning on doing that again. I don't take drugs cause honestly I'm afraid what I would do when I'm not in total control over my body.
I'm about to split up with my gf (3 years relationship). How do I deal with the grief? It will hurt me like hell because I love her loads but i've got to do it because we're hurting each other all the time unwillingly
>>16972594 She wants other things in life and I do too. Stuff that may seem normal to me dont seem so to her. We love each other but we are always arguing and with such intensity that we can't even focus at our jobs or our daily lives. We are always worried. We argue badly and then cry about how much we love each other and that our life would be empty without one another. Yet we are both unhappy.
How do I tell if I should break up with my girlfriend I've been with for almost a year?
>live together >bad times are outnumbering the good ones >have days where we don't even speak to each other >tell her it's because she's in a bad mood towards me so I'm going to do the same back >she says the exact same to me >never wants to do anything with me Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I can't help but am very interested in this thread.
I'm in an identical situation, only I've regularly cheated on my partner. I love my partner a lot but just not in a romantic sense. I don't want to lose the connection we have or upset them, but I don't see it going anywhere now (and I'm a terrible person who deserves nothing but heartache because of what I've done).
ok OP, you two lack basic communication skills. it sounds like you are always fighting instead of trying to find a solution to a problem. can you give me an example? what was the last thing you fought over?
Recently. me and my girlfriend of 3 years broke up. We were each other's first and only. We were very sexually compatible. She wanted to satisfy all my fetishes, no matter how "sick" I thought they were.
Feeling like I will never have a girlfriend like that again. How do I cope?
>>16972559 >she'll stick things up your bum like you want i know you mean that in a joking way, but it's true. if you love somebody, sex means communicating and finding a balance that is comfortable and exciting for both. it also means not being stuck up, but only doing what you are comfortable with. it's not easy, but totally achievable
Okay, so I've been feeling blue since last spring. Lazyness is my second nature, but this apathy has pulled my ability to function to zero. Often I just want to sleep and cry. Is this something I can cure myself? How?
My bf is 22, i'm 27. We have an awesome relationship. But sometimes i wonder if i am holding him back, tying him down in something that's already way too serious for his age. I have talked about this with him and he states that he doesn't want anything else. I fear that he will one day resent "settling down" so early on. How do i prevent this? What are things you should do before "settling down"? How can "settling down" be AS exciting as anything else?
>>16972189 Well hes going to regret it. But its one of those things he has to do himself and kick himself for. Its his fault. As long as you arent cajoling him into it and even warned him properly he cant blame you. As someone whos been in his shoes hes going to regret it only when you two break up. Itd be fine if you actually settled down, but say you break up in like 3 years, it means he blew those years with you instead of doing those 'exciting' things.
>>16972206 That's relieving. Everybody seems to be agreeing that you should only start to "settle down" after 25. I mean, he can still life his 20's to the fullest. The only thing would be that i'm not down with him sleeping around.
>18 years old >Filipino >Conservative Christians >Live with parents while looking for a job. >Spend night at friends'. Play DnD, get wasted, and do stupid shit. >Go home the next day, parents ask if I had fun. >Say yes. Mention offhandedly how we ended up staying up until around 5, and woke up at 11. >For some reason, dad... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Sounds pretty fucked up to be quite honest. Your parents will not ever see you the same if you go back. Also it'll be hard to stay at your mate's place. Do you go to school? Do you have a job? I would actually say you should make a decision if you even want to go back home at all.
>>16971952 OP here. I'm currently in community college, originally Nursing major, but switched to Psychology because helping professor with research gives me a decent amount of money sooner. I'm also looking for jobs, but the area I live only has good entry-level jobs if you have a proper address to give.
>>16971969 And to add, I don't plan on going back home, but I forgot to bring shoes because my dad was chasing me out of the house. Just a minor detail I left out.
>>16971861 You can hate them as much as you'd like (understandably) but it'd be best for everyone involved if you didn't hurt/kill them. The violence will not make you feel any better. Your hatred will still burn just as red hot.
boyfrand is very upset and disappointed with me because long story short, two years ago a male internet friend of mine who lives on the other side of the US and who had been a platonic friend for over 8 years became drunk and asked me for tit pix. told boyfriend about it, he became upset and told me he felt uncomfortable with me talking to him. friend apologized but i tore him a new one for being disrespectful to my new relationship. stopped talking. told boyfriend i was not going to talk to him anymore.
fast forward two years, friend messages me out of the blue and apologizes and yadda yadda. feel afraid to tell boyfriend for fear of overreaction and also because of selfishness and desire to communicate with old friend. boyfriend looks through my phone last night after awesome passionate costume-sex and becomes enraged. he is not talking to me anymore. what do?
>>16971692 That's tough. Occasionally talking to old friends (especially if there is nothing other than a little bit of messaging is okay). I'm a jealous guy, but your bf really seems to have some issues. He's gotta solve these jealousy issues himself. You handled the initial situation well, but I would have been honest with him the second time.
My gf has a guy friend that she's known since 3. I'm completely understanding that they wanna talk occasionally so long as she communicates (I have... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16971692 Your boyfriend sounds like a jealous, controlling prick. He got upset over nothing in the first place but the fact that he looked through your phone is completely over the line. Does he do that often?
>>16971634 When you have enough confidence to speak with women and accept rejection without fear or apology, you will find a girlfriend faster than you would ever believe.
Anonymous [Help!] I don't know how to interact with humans (´･ω･`)2016-03-29 04:16:51 Post No.16971473 [Report]
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my friend's girlfriend said that she has a friend who is looking for a good guy and I guess she told her my name because now she sent me a friend request the thing is I suck at girls do I say something first? should I ask her out on a date? do I pretend to not know why she added me? do I bring condoms to our wedding? [HELP!] I don't know how to interact with humans (´･ω･`)
alright well stop using (´･ω･`) whatever that is, unless you're a 14 year old korean child, you should drop it. i know this is a chinese cartoon picture board but christ.
Social skills are a muscle anon, you only get better from talking and practicing, just relax, puff your chest out, relax your shoulders, relax your butthole, and use eye contact, your eyes are strong weapon.
Understand what your strengths and weaknesses are and work with them, if you're awkward, be yourself, as cheesy as that sounds.
>>16971526 say hi, make a pun with her name, be different then other guys, and go from there.
Feel out the vibe and work with it, if she's cool ask her on a date, coffee whatever, its casual. But do NOT ask her to hang out, be specific about what you want.
to be honest you dont seem too interested op "do i have to message her now?'
So how can i enjoy sex if i cant bus because im afraid im going to get the girl pregnant? Yea i do where a condom and yes i know that's whats its suppose to prevent but just the fear that i could get her pregnant and i just end up fucking her for about a few hours and i don't get any relief (if you know what i mean)
>>16971482 lol im already monitoring her cycle she dosnt take brith control and i think im stack up on morning after pills so i can finally get some type of relief
Sorry, I'm kinda drunk. I'm a really shitty girlfriend with a really great boyfriend. Every time I look at other peoples relationships, it becomes really obvious that mine isn't like theirs. It's not because my guy isn't great (he is_ it's because I'm a shitty girl.
I grew up almost exclusively with guys. I don't dress feminine. I don't really act feminine. I don't know how to be a good girlfriend. Are there any websites or tutorials or whatever that teach me how to not suck?
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