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so say what you want but I need your help /adv/. so my parents are wanting to kick me out due to something completely fucking stupid. its either I stay in the house 24/7 no friends or any social life. or move out for good (im 22 btw) they are making me choose between me being with my boyfriend or at least being able to see him or never see him again and stay home do too stupid over exaggerated drama between us and my parents. me and my parents have a family business and I work from home and I will be losing my job then as well....should I just go? cause I love my boyfriend
we need more details about the issue with your parents
>>17355506
You're screwed.
Losing job = bad.
You could go on a white strike, tho.
Stop working for them, and just mooch until they get fed up and either relent or kick you out.
In the mean time, check if they legally can kick you out, you might have more rights than you think - and since this would be war, you'll use all of them.
>>17355720
The other good option, since you're 22, would be to get a decent job and move out.
Could you do that?
What's the highest number of prior sexual partners you'll accept going into a relationship? What is your age?
For me it's two prior partners and I am 19.
>>17355502
That's a fair number for 19. I didn't lose my virginity until 20, so I'd freak out if anyone that age or younger had more than 2 partners.
I'm 30 now. I expect every person I sleep with to be at least 5-10. That's very normal. I'd only be uncomfortable if it was something like 15-20.
It depends on the type of relationship
>Marriage:
0
>LTR:
1-3
>STR:
4-6
>FWB (If I were into that):
7-10
>29
Not bothered mostly but no more than 10 I would say. Current gf was a virgin.
How old does a relationship have to be before you can dispel the illusion that a girl doesn't fart/burp/etc. How long before I can fart in front of a guy without him looking at me like I'm a pig.
>>17355423
Remember the law of 3..
"I must wait 3 months 3 days and 3 hours before I can do the 3 nasties - burp, fart and eat"
>>17355437
eat? Eating is on the list?
>>17355441
Yeah, mainly because it makes you burp and fart. So refrain from eating and it's like a triple whammy.
How do I get over my first?
She was my first for pretty much everything and she decided to leave me for an immature/stupid reason.
This happened a while ago so I'm better now. However not a single day goes by when I don't think of her.
I'm ready and willing to move on.
>>17355420
Then you should move on, do something.
Go to the gym, improve yourself to get ready and meet new people, go out with your actual friends and get distracted, work.
Strangely it was not other girls, but growing up and realizing she was a terrible person that made me get over her
>>17355492
same here. much truth.
she got fat, is still lazy and unproductive, complacent. I knew that wasn't for me. byebye
Ok so after 5 days of this iPhone charging cable working fine I get this message and now it suddenly stops charging. Can I get a refund for this?
Yes.
No.
Maybe.
We are a young married couple that have been together since we were 15 and were each others first and only. We have a pretty good sex life but had been wanting to try new and wild things together. We have made videos and even posted one on a site just to see reactions from others. After doing that we had looked into actually doing a adult film professionally. We had looked into it and found a well known agency in Burbank that welcomed couples so made a appointment with them. We had done more than we actually talked about doing and was definitely alot different than we thought...
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Problem is always "what happens when you break up" because once you post it on the web, it won't ever go down. Honestly I say do it if you two are that comfortable with each other but just understand that people you may know might stumble across it...
Was it Desperate Amateurs? They make some good vids.
Honestly though, if the two of you had fun and the sex is tender and loving on camera and this gets across, why would you fear anything from anyone? You're married. It's not like it makes the two of you diseased whores.
>>17355278
i think it was a good idea seeing how you two enjoyed the experience
we all want to hide parts of ourselves and what we do from the people who may hurt us for sharing them,
but being brave and confident in who you are is a part of what makes you a strong and secure person
so i invite you to have confrontation about your video
it'll be a learning experience in a lot of ways for everyone involved
and learning is good
Should I delete my folder which contains many subfolders of images of girls I consider cute? They are usually either celebrities or girls I know in person. I use them to aid my imagination in fapping to them and I get off on how creepy it is to have the images.
Lock the folder
Keep it unless you are doing nofap. Nothing wrong with it.
Is it on your phone or pc?
>>17355280
PC.
wanna fake propose to my bf while he visits, possibly in a public place like the airport i'll be picking him up from, or a restaurant that we plan on going to. I'm going into this knowing for a fact that he will say no. If I do it at the airport, he'll say no in front of everyone and I KNOW I'll be able to cry because it's a public place and prank or no prank, it's an embarrassing situation and I'm an already nervous person in front of other people.
tried googling some ideas but can only find dumb facebook proposals.
any ideas...
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Not to rain on your parade, but do you have a backup plan if he unexpectedly says yes?
Marriage proposal is a high stakes joke. It only happens a handful of times in a person's life.
Wait you want the love of your life to be blind sided with a fake proposal, he gives you an answer and you laugh saying "it was a joke LOLZ"?
You are sick. Honestly if a girl pulled that stupid crap on me, she would be back slapped.
So basically you want to be a douchebag bitch? Then when he proposes to you and says lol just joking it's over you'll be the victim right?
So I'm 21, living alone, and pretty much just working and going to school. Have a few friends, but I haven't really made many new friends. I get along with some coworkers, hung out with a few, but we never really connected.
I'd say I'm happy living how I am, though I feel like I'm wasting my time. Haven't dated in 3 years, and basically spend my time playing vidya/tidying the house/hobbies (cooking/reading/cosplay/camping). I really enjoy just going out or doing unplanned things, but my friends don't swing that way, so often I go alone....
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I have no answers, but I'd like to know how you managed to be living independently at 21. Or are your parents helping out?
>>17355116
Parents helping out, my mom is gone for a few months so she's letting me stay in her condo for cheap, to watch it.
I could live totally alone but I'd be living paycheck-to-paycheck and I'm not about that
Do you feel lonely OP? What you perceive as "normal" or not is entirely up to you.
I'm seeing a 19 year old girl /adv/. She's cute and kind and a great gf material.
However she insist on me attending her church. I already attended once and I can't help but laugh and make fun of them singing and doing all that when they are in worship. She's a hardcore Christian.
I was raised Catholic and even attend mass on Sundays but I don't want to attend nor be hardcore in my faith.
Should I just call it quits with this girl?
Pic unrelated but best state
>>17355089
If it's a dealbreaker for both of you, then yes, call it off. You would never EVER be happy with any hardcore religious person anyway unless you were too. They are quite literally batshit crazy and brainwashed. Unlike regular believers, they are genuinely horrible to spend any extended amount of time with.
The worst part is when they go on the warpath trying to convert you in order to "save" you. Which I find ironic when I am able to be a good person without threats of eternal damnation.
>>17355130
>If it's a dealbreaker for both of you, then yes, call it off. You would never EVER be happy with any hardcore religious person anyway unless you were too. They are quite literally batshit crazy and brainwashed. Unlike regular believers, they are genuinely horrible to spend any extended amount of time with.
But she is nice and I enjoy my time with her.
My only problem is her coercing me to join her on her worship. One time they even have this "Singles Night"...
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>>17355969
Your beliefs are similar enough that you don't need conversion, but that won't stop her being completely obnoxious about taking you places.
Either you go everywhere she asks, or you put your foot down and deal with the fallout.
>Father ruined our lives
>Molested my sister
>I was molested by a baby sitter
>My mother has nothing
>Her brother, my uncle, rubbed it in her face, saying "Your going to be poor and your life has been for nothing"
>Mother never told me this, she breaks down crying
>She tells me how much she regrets her life
>I resent...
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>>17355078
Poor, yes that's very but that alone won't make her life shitty. Lonely, that's really bad but why would she be? Your brother and uncle sound like dicks but there is you, why can't you spend your off college time with her? What about your sis? That shit is worth more than any money she could possibly ever have.
>>17355117
I try to spend a lot of time with her, but i get really depressed and I am kinda a social outkast, shut-in, I just don't like to go out in public. My sister lives in another state trying to overcome her own drug addiction, while I was just laid off, hyper depressed and figuring out what to do next.
>>17355217
>>17355117
But for the most part, when I can, I do.
Last night I only got 3 hours of sleep. I have to be at work in exactly 8 hours. I want to take 4 or 5gs of these shrooms I have with me and play videogames... my main fear is a bad trip.
/adv/, should I take these shrooms or nah?
>>17355059
id say no. use them on saturday or friday night
Damn you're probably right
sigh next time then
>>17355059
wtf, dont do it. save if for when you feel compfortable and rested.
So I occasionally work with a 16 year old girl who is kinda thin and vaguely cute, average looking overall I would say. I am 21 and we sometimes work alone, I don't really say a lot to her but I do think she's rather cute and I want to ask her out. The problem is obviously the age difference. I am a 21 kissless virgin, I am thin and not too ugly and not very spergy, just shy. I've got a lot of social awareness, I just suck at saying the right thing so I usually shut my mouth. I don't know why any of this matters but basically I am wondering: should I ask...
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>>17354884
Do you know what the age of consent is in your location?
1/2 + 7 says you'll be rightfully ridiculed.
>>17354911
yeah. if you don't want people to find you creepy, you'd have to wait 3 years for this particular girl.
I am 28 and I think I've realized that I hate being around women. I mean I love having sex with them but if we ain't fucking, I really could care less about them and their fucked up feelings. Everything always has to be about love or something more. I mean, I have gotten really good about lying about how I feel when I am with them, but it always the same as soon as the new has worn off their pussy I don't want to be around them. I even got married and had a kid but nothing changed I still feel the same way. Is there some thing wrong with me or am I normal? I feel...
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>>17354764
Cool story, bro.
>>17354771
so i guess its normal?
>>17354764
>has a child
>chasing new pussy
See it's the idiots like you who have kida and split that ruin the world. A woman can't raise a child by herself so it becomes an autistic neet or a junkie. Then it comes on here and makes threads about how women suck and yadda yadda, just like it's father.
How do I regain my passion for my favorite things? Is it because I fapped to much that I lost passion and motivation? Even posters here on this sure seem more passionate and devoted than me. What do?
>>17354575
Bump
>>17354575
>How do I regain my passion for my favorite things?
The first thing you need to do is get treatment for your depression. If you can get that sorted out, everything else will fall in to place.
>>17354658
it's depression?
