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How can I be less of a faggot about being a chubby chaser? All my life people tell me fat is bad and fat girls are gross but my dick demands it.
Just don't care what they think.
Just don't make a big thing out of you liking large girls.
Just hope they won`t get a cardiac arrest mid-sex.
If it`s not healthy - not attractive.
Any poetry writers in here? Tips for a beginner? How can I learn more words besides the traditional reading ?
>>17357611
When writing, it's the insides that are fighting.
Learn to let go, letting your mind flow.
I'm more of a prose writer, but I have written poetry and know some poets/am familiar with the scene.
For a beginner, I'd say the very first step is to read a lot of poetry and especially different poets. It is an extremely freestyle kind of medium that different people give very different interpretations of. One of the bigger issues people tend to have with poetry is that they have this fixed idea of what poetry is like, which disables them from really writing personally and finding their own voice and style.
An easy and fun assignment you can try...
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just general writing advice:
-Write everyday at a set time, treat it like work. Inspiration is a bullshit myth, writing takes time and persistence.
-Read everyday, read closely. If you encounter words you don't know write them down and practice using them.
-Keep your early writing simple and straightforward
-Your early writing will be derivative, read poets that you like and try to emulate their style. You're just trying different things out, eventually you need to move past that.
Im a guy... this question has been bugging me all day
https://www.instagram.com/lilbabinski/
im just wondering if this gives them too much information and turns them off or generally works in my favor by separating the people who are willing to check by the ones who arent,
bump just in general is it a good idea
why would u link random ass pics to an app that helps you get laid?
>>17357603
Frank Joseph Sabinski
put those drugs down this instant!
I met a girl in a ballroom dance class we were taking together, went out with her a couple times, took her back to my place, and she dropped the bomb that she had genital HSV-1 that she contracted from someone giving her oral sex. When we were about to get it on, I went flaccid and let her know I'm going to educate myself adequately before I make a decision if I'm going to pound town, or not.
I probably should've just cut her loose on the spot, but I think I genuinely like her? Since then she went to San Diego for an internship (we both go to UCLA), so...
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>>17357533
She's a stand-up girl for telling you. Must have been hard for her. That being said, HSV is for life. Are you ready to be a carrier and have to tell all your future partners? Or worse, not tell them?
You're still very young op. And what if you guys don't work out. You're going to run into plenty of women afterward and you're going to have to explain to each of them how you contracted HSV...not fun at all. That's if you'll even be able to get another woman after her with the huge crater that something like HSV puts in your self esteem
When you said HSV-1 I though it`s on her mouth and that`s socially less of a big deal, but her vulva? That`s a different story. Think well if you`re willing to go on with this. Kudos to showing responsibility.
I have my first ever date coming up in a few hours
How do I make it go well? Tips?
>>17357523
Well, what exactly are you doing for the date?
Bring gum. If you know you're vibin', start flirting.
Condoms are optional, but they're not recommended. (sex isn't nearly as good with one, and for your first time you'd want the full experience.)
>>17357531
We're going out for a coffee at a mall
I know there's something on your mind or a feeling you just can't nab, why don't you seek help? Ask a therapist anything. I've volunteered a lot of time here in the past and have time to do so again.
I'm depressed and don't have an appetite. I just don't feel hungry anymore and maybe eat twice a day, usually something light because my stomach has gotten smaller. I feel weaker each day. How bad a damage am I doing to my body?
>>17357528
It depends on what you eat, but I'm sure you know you're doing damage to your body, a simple Google search can be more specific, I'll be honest I can't factually list everything off. What's the source of your depression? What's hurting you so badly that you let yourself grow weaker as each day passes?
>>17357511
I don't know. I just don't feel right. I suspect that everyone can be a harm to me, it's like I'm in constant fear. I feel alone all day despite having friends.... My mind feels heavy and stressed I don't know exactly why... I've tried looking for possible disorders, nothing really fits well with my conditions... The closest thing is Anxiety which I suffer each fucking morning at school (idk why) and maybe, just maybe, OCD because of some random irrational fears and paranoias that keep...
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DATING APP GENERAL THREAD
How is your dating app game /b/?
Gained any knowledge/learned any tips?
Ever come across anyone you've seen in real life/public?
Successful stories?
Whats that app on the bottom left?
Been using tinder for a couple of weeks now and it is killing my self esteem.
Barely get any matches and when I do, I never get a reply.
Should I try other apps?
>>17357485
Badoo
Psycho one-night stand is outside ringing the bell, earlier she was throwing pebbles at my window.
What the fuck am I gonna do? I'm getting really fucking pissed. It's embarrassing.
>>17357442
Get camera and confront her but videotape everything so she could not accuse you of assault if she get's bitch crazy.
Also report as fast as you can.
I think she has left, but I'm not entirely sure. I'm gonna take a peek out the peephole in the door. I hate this. I wonder which moron didn't lock the door, or purposely let this person inside the complex! Oh and she's asian.
protip: if she comes back and refuses to leave call the police
congrats on getting a stalker btw
I've been sick for the past 10 years or so and it's been getting progressively worse.
First it was clinical depression.
Then it was hypothyroidism.
Now it's depression, hypothyroidism, nausea, no appetite, and bedridden for the past half a year. I asked my doctor to test for Lyme disease but he only did an ELISA which has a proper diagnosis rate of <30%. Negative results of course. I keep going to doctors but they all tell me to shut the fuck up and get on Prozac. I'm at the end of my rope niggas, am I going to live out my life like this?
bump
Halp
>>17357426
Smoke weeds and stop being a dumb ass
> get little recurring pains in certain spots in body
> parAnoid I might have cancer or something
> talk to doctors about it
> they can tell I'm paranoid and probably think I'm retarded
Fuck
Help me adv I think I have porn brain
After 5 years, I managed to go on two dates with a beautiful woman, who is as attractive beautiful and awesome as can be
Foreplay was fine, when sex started I went soft soon after
I wasn't really turned on by her naked body, and was kind of repulsed honestly at her vag and hair, which wasn't a lot, she was trimmed.
I get instantly erect looking at her, or talking on skype or trading pics
0 interest in actual sex, I never look at porn with sex in it, just fetishy stuff like Bbws, futa and vore
Kind...
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Soo....stop watching porn and fucking Pamela Handerson every day?
>>17357504
>Pamela Handerson
Jesus fucking christ i giggled.
Sounds like an old joke but i don't care.
>>17357425
Same I had a weird fetish now I can't get up during sex
Even with a hot chick that gave me an insane boner making out
Does anyone know how to stop pic related from happening? This is pretty new to me. I've never had this skin problem before. And its really annoying.
How do you treat your face usually? Any scrubs, soap, water, lotion, or lackthereof?
>>17357421
I'm sorry it's too late now.
All your skin it's black now.
Is this girl too fat to bang?
Well I don't find her attractive.
Do you?
>>17357410
She might've been fuckable 250lbs ago.
>>17357410
I'm sure a black guy would bang it.
I HAVE TO MOVE OUT FROM HOME ASAP
LOSING MY MIND
PARENTS WON'T GET OFF MY FUCKING BACK
I just finished my engineering degree and have no funds to move out immediately. help pls
which city do you want to move to?
BETTER SIT ON MY PARENTS COMPUTER AND USE THEIR INTERNET TO FROGPOST ON 4CHAN!
>>17357406
kek
How do you move out of a resourceless hell hole
>>17357352
>save up money
>make friends in the area you are planning to go
>Ask to stay with them for a bit
>Go
theres a thousand ways to do it.
>>17357357
also, credit cards, credit accounts, etc.
take out as much as you can. then wait a few months so that your credit limit gets raised. then move.
>>17357359
So just buy a ghetto apartment off credit and work my ever loving cock off
Is it normal for a girl to cry during sex for her first time?
>>17357334
not necessarilly 'normal' but its not wrong or anything. it depends on why.
pain? kinda normal, especially iwth an inexperienced or not very thoughtful guy.
>>17357334
Anything's normal the first time. You've literally never done it before.
No. You dun fucked up big time, quite literally.
Stop being bad.
On a serious note, first time isn't supposed to be good, but it isn't supposed to hurt a fuckton/much at all if you do it properly.
