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Does everyone see in first person like I do? Is my life just a really sophisticated computer game and I'm he only one playing... And you're all just bots??
What the fuck I'm losing it help me /adv
>>17361051
A lot of people have a hard time coming to terms with the fact that every person they'll see, meet, speak to, or brush against in a subway all have lives of their own.
It's a really overwhelming concept and a lot of people don't think much of it every day. Everybody has their own set of problems, memories, hopes, dreams, family, and nightmares. It's absolutely terrifying when you think about it.
I personally have the opposite problem of you. I feel like an npc a lot of the time. My whole...
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Stop. Look at the size of the universe. Realize that you are a tiny speck of nothing on a tiny speck of nothing in a galaxy that is really just a tiny speck in a universe that does not fucking care about you. You aren't your fucking khakis.
Life is an experiment to filter out all the individual sentient beings that have the capabillity to fathom the fact that they are just as relevant as anyone else, or just as irrelevant as anyone else. If their psyche can handle this paradox, their conciousness is preserved for future iterations and testing. If they dont make the cut, their conciousness is deleted permanantly when they die.
I have reached a life precipice:
>have early cirrhosis
Keep drinking
>quite cold turkey
live the rest of my life board
On one hand - I am emotionally dead and have nothing to live for...
One the other - I am afraid of death...
FML.
>>17361047
Yes...I spelled 'bored' wrong...im fucking wasted.
Just stop, jesus christ. You need your liver. There are other ways to have fun.
>>17361047
I don't accept your premise.
Just because you have too few emotional and intellectual resources to keep you from being bored when sober now doesn't mean that you can't discover new ones that will give life and interest to a sober existence. Indeed, rediscovering what life is like sober might open your eyes to new things to fight boredom.
Oh, and you blew "quit" as well.
Does a woman's shit smell any different than a man's?
Yes I know its a disgusting question but I'm just curious. Anyone here that has smelled both (i.e walked in after your significant other has a dropped a load) and can attest to a different aroma?
And yes I am an autistic virgin with no life experience
>>17361022
It's literally entirely dependent on the person because everyone eats different things and their bodies react differently to them.
No huge difference. Poop smell depends on diet though.
It smells and tastes differently depending on the person, but I haven't ever eaten a guy's shit so I don't really know if it's different depending on gender.
Can you afford 600/mo for rent if you only make 1400 a month? Assuming you don't care about being poor and have no other option
>>17361009
Yea you can
>>17361009
Do you have a car? Is it paid off? Will you need transit pass? Do you have a bike? Student loans? Any other bills? Is that 1400/month before tax?
Do you have furniture? Do you have a bed? Desk? Chair? Do you need to get internet? Do you have a phone bill?
Are you a cutie grill? Do you live in indiana?
>>17361009
Generally you only want to spend at max, 33% of your income on rent and bills but I guess it could be done if you have no options.
How do I deal with insecurity? Do I need to do something or is it something that goes away with age?
>>17361003
What are you insecure about?
>>17361017
Looks, weight, height, whether or not people like. The usual. I'm in the middle of changing looks and weight but the other 2 aren't exactly as easy
>>17361106
>what people think of you
Its more than likely in your head . And it doesn't matter what you do , people will make baseless assumptions no matter what
Ie
>" look at that skinny fag I could woop him "
But they could also think
>"that big guy probably has a small penis from all the steroids he does .
Also when it comes to height I wouldn't care , I'm 6'3" and for...
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So I'm looking into getting a tattoo so the only thing on my front isn't my huge scar. I've thrown a bear and a bull tribal together that I found online. How much would something like this cost, and how long would it take? I'd also love suggestions on what I could add to incorporate my scar into the tattoo. The bear and bull are meant to symbolize the stock market because that's one of the things I'm into.
Pls respond
what happened to you
>>17361205
The scar is from an exploratory laparotomy after a bad car crash
where would i find blonde short hair alt cuties at?
Wish I knew buddy.
rouston drive, louisiana
>>17360940
Thats oddly specific, you from their anon? I
Going to Iceland tomorrow. Any advice?
Single bump
They don't do tips in Iceland. It is an insult to tip.
Dont jump into geyzers
How do i exit skinny fat mode? I can't eat any fruit or vegetable.
Why not?
>>17360904
Smoothies, grilled bristle sprouts n corn. Peaches on top of bitches
work
>girls like alpha men only
>girls are submissive
>girls want to be dominated
>girls are attracted to the leaders
Why do women are such beta fucks?
You are making general assumptions.
Please do more research on your question.
Through history, women look for men with good strong genes so their offspring have a better chance of survival.
Not as obvious in the present but we all have fundamental primal instincts.
>>17360885
But doesn't men search for the same?
Then why they go for beta women?
>>17360890
Current society favors monogamy to insure a happy, healthy family unit.
As I mentioned, you are making assumptions.
There are plenty of men who like strong women.
And there are plenty of women who like weaker men.
These are your observations and researching the subject more would have removed the need of thread.
I think I'm addicted (for lack of a better word) to masturbation and pornography. I can't do a no fap for more than like 2 days and I don't even enjoy it anymore. What should I do?
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Same here, OP. I just do it because it's something to do.
If it doesn't interfere with your daily life then it's generally not a problem.
You could always try taking opiates, you won't be able to stay hard, and orgasms on opes are shit anyway so you won't want to fap.
>>17360866
I'm just trying to make it so it isn't boring again. The only way to do that is to not do it for a long ass time and then to do it but I have so much free time on my hands that it's hard not to. I don't think narcotics are exactly the answer though
Do it only once a day, then every other day. If you can regularly go a day without masturbating then it's not really an addiction. Find something productive to do in your free time, and get off the internet. Avoid tempting websites. Just try to distance yourself from it generally.
possibly gonna bang someone with an erectile dysfunction. what can i do to prevent him feeling embarrassed or ashamed
I don't think there's any way of preventing him from feeling that way. Just keep a positive attitude and reassure him that you don't mind and don't mind keep trying. Just say something like how you get to enjoy a little more time with him in bed or whatever.
>>17360763
Give him a blow job, or 69 if you're still trying to get off.
When I 69 my girl, I don't know what it is, but she gets deep as fuck, must be a good angle or something I dont' know, but I dont' get deep throats unless we're 69ing.
first of all, get over the conditioning that penis-in-vagina is the only form of sex. My boyfriend is a trans dude (as in, yeah, he has a vagina) and we have great sex. Think outside the box
Fresh highschool graduate with no money, with mediocre grades and coming from a working class family. I realized I don't want my children to have the childhood I had. What I'm asking is with the right amount of work ethic, can anyone my age make it? I'm willing to work hard and do whatever it takes to become successful. Where do I start?
If a middle class lifestyle is your main goal, I would say that the tech industry is a good one to look into. Also consider the trades, maybe?
find a blue collar job and join a union. dont have kids until youre 30. trying looking to work for the city, a warehouse, or learn a trade
>>17360761
>>17360764
Alright, trades sounds like the way to go. I'll form a plan around that. I know the best philosophy is to do the jobs nobody else wants to do. Maybe I'll study plumbing
My mother's been sucked into this snake oil Youngevity bullshit, and is pulling my gullible family in with her. How do I come convince her it's bullshit?
let her the illusion. might atleast have some placebo effect
>>17360731
Yeah, well, the problem is the "doctor" leading this MLM crap gives out awful health advice. Also it's a scheme designed to trick people out of their money. It's doing far more harm than good.
>>17360729
Tell her the reason you can't OD on supplements like this is because they don't actually do anything.
Basically recently I went through some therapy (personal) and realized I got fucked over pretty hard by my parents, and realized what they did to me. After that, I went through this spiral of emotions (my parents are both sociopaths), to a point where I am having trouble breathing.
I think it's a temporary insanity. I am overtaken with my empathy towards people, I feel bad for every little thing that happens to people and i literally feel heartache. I feel guilty for being shallow, being a push over (Not taking a stand against shitty people who lack morals), and...
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I miss my childhood when i wasnt just a fake ass push over bitch -.-.
I can relate very well. Parents that never felt responsibile of teaching me shit nor giving me any safety or stability yet expected me to be perfect child in every way. Constant infighting, being used by both of them like a weapon against one another. My father who told me that he never wanted to be father, my mother told me in one breath how she was strongly thinking about geting abortion (she got couple before me) on me but it was too late and yet somehow nobody will ever love me like her... I could go on and on, and on. How the constant mindfuckery destroyed everything good...
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>>17360796
Now what you say about wanting to improve world, help community. In reality it's coping mechanism. Mesianic complex is quite comon in troubled children. They feel something is right, but naturally they don't want to blame their parents. Suposedly only people (I feel rage building just thinking about it) that care for you (What a joke) so you put it outward into the world and inward into yourself. You want to improve whole world so that your family would be normal and at peace, you also learn to hate yourself....
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