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I got my ears pierced (standard piercing) 3 weeks ago and I was told I cant change them for 6 weeks. I've been spraying a sanitizing antiseptic spray on it and they feel healed. Would I be able to change them earlier? Has anyone changed earings earlier without infection?
Let's says you had an shoulder operation where they had to insert a piece of metal in your shoulder bone because you fractured it.
The doctor says that you shouldn't carry any weight on your shoulders for at least a month.
After two weeks, you feel like it has healed. Could you start carrying weight earlier?
Comparing a ear piercing to a major surgery isn't fair though.
I was more meaning if I could put new earrings in 5 weeks instead of 6. If the earrings are sanitized and of the same metal what is the problem there?
>>16561393
That you have inflicted a wound in your ear and it has to heal before removing or inserting new stuff in it. Maybe you have a fast healing factor but they say 6 weeks just to be sure, and you should adhere to it.
Am I attractive? Is this a good photo? I rarely take pictures.
If you're trying to look high af for a prison photo, it's great.
I personally don't find you attractive because I'm a straight male.
Why are you asking this?
Put on a polo, loose the beetlejuice shirt, cut hair, wash grease off your face
Girl here.
Not my type, but I know people who would find you cute if your personality was good.
Shirt isn't bad, honestly. Beter than most
Do you regret it? Are you doing well now? How did you know that you won't regret pursuing your interest?
No regrets. Doing very well now, probably better than like 90% of the people I know. It was what I wanted to do since I was a child, and it has only gotten better at every turn
Only qualm is the locations suck
>>16560814
What are you doing?
>>16560820
High rate gay prostitute. I have sex with men who have the money. Its a dirty job and lots of people look down at it but it pays the bills and I always wanted to help people any way I know how.
Are you more likely to bring home six figures with an engineering degree? Specifically a Mech/Aero engineering degree? How does one even do this? I was thinking that they go up into management positions, but I'm not quite sure as the industries vary.
Once you get the degree and the job, you are supposed to go to night school for your MBA. Then you segue into the 6 figure mgmt position.
>>16560663
Why though? Why do they all chase after MBA's? Why don't they go get a master's in their field of engineering? I suppose it could be since that would lead to more research based stuff rather than management. But, I hear getting an MBA isn't even that great if it's not from some top-tier school.
>>16560648
>Are you more likely to bring home six figures with an engineering degree?
More likely than what? More likely than someone that majors in feminist dance theory? Fuck yes. Six figures is getting to be a middle class income, and even truck drivers break into that bracket with much less time wasted.
How do you deal with being a super-masculine girl? Is there anything you can do about it, any way to become more feminine?
>>16559935
How are you masculine?
>>16559935
Define super-masculine...
>>16559938
>>16559939
I don't even know. I don't know what I do wrong. People just keep saying that, dropping the "but you're almost a guy anyway"-things like it's just something that I would already know.
Also physically, kind of, though I can hide it pretty well.
>born forcefully in the smallest shittiest village in the world
>nothing but retarded rednecks around me
>literally everywhere I go baseball cap, beard, camo
>were 5 hours from an amusement park and 7 hours from a city
>no matter what direction I go in there's trees and fields for 500 miles
>everyone here acts like they are in middle school still
>want...
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>>16559460
>Nothing to do
>Don't have time for college
Nigga fuck off.
>>16559496
I need to get out NOW
>>16559500
Then leave. Your superior intellect should be more than enough :^)
I blew it in my gf last night while she was on her period. Are we screwed
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-p0OadRapq4
>>16558400
It's all still a possibility bruh. Get that bitch on morning after pill.
there's a pill for cases like that, don't know the name i english
but the sooner she takes it, the better
Regrets from this past year?
More than I feel like typing.
We both know I am right.
Hopefully you realize this while we can still do something about it.
Should have gotten a job sooner.
Should have asked her out earlier.
Shouldn't have listened to my parents ever.
Should have eaten way less ice cream.
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how do i make friends /adv/ and be a more talkative and fun person?
>been at my job for a year
>barely know anyone
>still a quiet, boring loser
>always by myself
>hear coworkers going to lunch together, getting coffee, etc., generally chatting to each other
>there's a new guy at work
>good personality, sociable
>has...
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I'm the same way. I have terrible social skills. I've been at my job for 3 years and barely talk to anyone. I don't think I'll ever be able to change. :-/
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Damn.. Dat ass
>added this cute girl on FB
>she added me back
>never messaged her
eventually find out through a mutual friend that she thinks I'm cute.
What do I say to break the ice without being cringeworthy?
Ask if her panties are on inside-out.
> Yes OP pic related
>>16562711
sorry i just think that pic is hot
>>16562733
It's not bad.
You can even do better.
> Your panites are inside-out. I'll come over and help fix it.
Why does someone saying 'you mad' make me so angry?
>>16562704
Probably because you know that they are purposely trying to upset you. Someone being a dick for no reason is usually upsetting.
>>16562704
Because it's condescending. It's the classic insult technique known as "feigning surprise".
>>16562709
yeah I know its disrespectful but I can't put it into words
>>16562715
that's it. thank you
I'm 19 and never had a gf, should I mill myself? I've been rejected by 4 girls and am suicidal over the idea that everyone else my age has dated and fucked and played around with girls and I hardly have any female friends. I tend to smoke lots of weed and listen to good music to deal with the loneliness. I talk to quite a few girls, but they always end in us texting for a few months give or take and then never hearing back from them again. I'm hopeless at this point.
You must be some ugly bastard, just kill yourself and hope to be reborn beautiful
OP what do you listen to?
>>16562458
Kanye, MF DOOM, Madlib, Travis Scott, Lil B, Animal Collective, Death Grips, Swans, James Ferraro, Drake, Pavement, Kendrick Lamar, etc
HEY 4CHAN!(: help needed.
Last night (@ 10pm) I smoked a joint with my friend, (9 puffs in all) I was VERY high.
However.
Today I wake up and I feel high.
It's been 5+ hours ever since yesterday and i'm still somewhat high.
I feel weird sensations around my body but my eyes are not red and i'm aware of what i'm doing.
It's probably a level 3 high opposed to a level 10.
Was my weed laced?
Is this because it was great weed?
standard
What do you mean "standard"?
>>16562361
Dude, enjoy the aftermath.
The day next to a smoke out, you are really chill, concentrated and it's all good.
Hi. I've got kind of a fucked up situation here.
I was in a very toxic relationship with an abusive girl (I'm a male). She was very sick (had an eating disorder and anxiety) and was also abusive. Not only did the eating disorder take its toll on me mentally, she got physical many times. She broke my rib, and I still don't sleep properly at night because of the rib pain. I kicked her out in May of this year, and about three months ago I tried to end things completely. She kept saying no, kept convincing me to work things out. But after that we never really...
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To continue, this girl is fucking crazy too. She said to me "I'll get rid of this child if you give me another chance". I didn't want to say anything because I'm with this other girl. Like I said, she knows everything. But anyway my ex tried to message her to "warn her" of me.
Anyway, it sounds crazy but I just can't really handle all the mental stress. And if you wanna talk about "I made the mistake and have to live with it", I don't think that this is a typical case. I really can't see myself going on if I...
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Tell the girl "have the kid if you want, but I'm having nothing to do with it. You're on your own.". Bluff. You'll be surprised how scary this will sound if this girl has nothing. To be honest, if she's as crazy as you say she is, then I wouldn't be surprised if she's lying about being pregnant to try to keep you. Get the fuck out of there.
>>16562443
She knows I want nothing to do with it. This is what I mean about her being crazy. At first she said she'd get rid of it if I stayed with her, but then she turned around and said she's keeping it because of some other guy...
She has barely been with some guy who wants to apparently be the father. Then she said she'd just go after him for child support if he ever left. But all he'd have to do is take a paternity test and then she can just turn to me.
