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Found out my girlfriend has been using Tinder even though she told me she deleted it. She's updated her photos and everything, but her description says she wants to make "friends"
I fucking hate this. I'm crushed, I thought we were in love. what do I do
>>16563012
Instead of whining about it in 4chan, sit that bitch down and talk it over before you become a c uck lmao
>>16563012
if the relationship has been longer than 6 months, you should try conflict resolution, otherwise you should just break up
>>16563012
Tell her it's something you don't tolerate in a relationship. Be prepared to leave her. It's a shitty situation.
I went to a friends house yesterday , and late in the night tried to post a thread. I got this....should I think any thing of it.? I didn't mention it to him. I mean it could just have a been a mistake.
>>16562984
You now know why this friend isn't interested in you, you're too young for him.
The friendzone sucks, brake contact with him its much healthier in the long run.
>>16562991
But I'm not gay....and he's a good friend, not just gonna cut ties suddenly
He could have a dynamic IP and the ban isn't actually his, so giving him the benefit of the doubt for now wouldn't hurt, I think.
How the fuck do you introduce physical intimacy on a date?
I've now been on two dates with a girl, having never dated other than once when I was a teenager. We talked so much shit together, got kinda tipsy and it was awesome but nothing physical has happened and I don't know what I'm expected to do. I think she's really cute but I don't know how to make opportunities for physical contact that aren't just obvious or creepy. Or fucking terrifying.
We had maybe one moment where we were leaning in pretty close while talking, but that...
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Offer to give her a back massage. Give her a back massage.
>>16563167
Knowing OP he would give her a back massage and nothing else.
>>16563182
Well, 4 out of 7 times I did this I got myself a new girlfriend.
Do people still use facebook?
I'm 22 and pretty much always avoided it because i'm anti-social and don't feel comfortable having people know things about me/who I know.
I also think it will be awkward to add people...I could at best add 10-15 people, which normies seem to laugh at.
IDK is fb useful for anything? I'm a college student + working professional.
If you don't have facebook already, don't bother. You are know part of the people that will survive The Great Brainwash of 2033.
>>16562895
idk every time fb gets brought up in conversations it always ends up coming up that I don't have one/should get one.
I made a facebook so that I don't look like a fucking loser. I have no other social media, and I mever added anyone on FB. They have to add me because I am cool.
How do you deal with being a first-hand witness to a loved one's suicide and that you probably contributed to their pain?
It's never going to get better.
Story time, OP?
>>16562809
I was getting bitchy because he was withdrawing from me because he was depressed. I was a selfish dumbfuck. I tried to help him feel better but nothing would.
I was supposed to see him the day he died(Thursday) because I'd left after half an hour on Tuesday. At 11:40am, he texted me to come over now. When I got to his place 2 hours later, he wouldn't respond to any of my messages.
The next morning at 11:04, I get a message from his mother that he had passed away.
>>16562802
That kind of guilt never goes away whether you really are or not. You have to lock it away in a part of your brain you don't access often. You can't let it consume you. It was his decision to end his life regardless of what you may or may not have done.
I'm sorry that you lost your friend in such a way. Take the time to grieve, it's natural to feel sad for the loss of someone you cared about.
Is it possible to make a living off poetry?
if anyone replies or cares ill post a poem in reply to myself
if i do pls rate out of ten
why dos noone reply to me on 4chan
alright now post
The skill is useless monetarily. Have fun flipping burgers.
Are you still an asexual if you want sex in theory but not in practice?
How do I change one or the other?
No, you're just afraid of sex and falling for le asexual meme.
>>16562777
How do I stop being afraid of sex then?
Wanting it in theory is understandable. Your brain is telling you to breed, pass on your genes, and society is telling you that you need to crush some puss sometime in your life.
The real question is if you're asexual, or just in a weird time in your life.
In your own definition define. boys or girls
NERDY
CUTE
TOMBOY
CHILDISH
PREPPY
MARRIAGE MATERIAL
>>16562559
Sure I'll bite
>NERDY
Having a strong fascination with certain topics normally considered odd with the general public, eg video games, sci fi/fantasy
>CUTE
Charming in a sweet and non-sexual way
>TOMBOY
A woman/girl who engages in what is typically considered "male" interests as opposed to "female" interests, which is kind of stupid in 2015 or outside of gradeschool....
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>>16562559
>NERDY
In 2015? A member of the young adult population.
>CUTE
Visually appealing in a way similar to the selected for appeal of children.
>TOMBOY
A girl who dresses in an androgynous or masculine way.
>CHILDISH
Behaving in a way the speaker, and/or society, disapproves of.
>PREPPY
Making excessive effort to appear a member...
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>>16562559
Sure, I am grill if it matters.
>NERDY
Having strong interests in things like vidya, anime, sci-fi, etc.
>CUTE
I always thought of cute as more of a demeanor than a physical look. Someone who is cute is shy, bashful, and when they come out of their shell, their presence is both pleasant and somehow attractive.
>TOMBOY
A female that is very heavily active in activities mainly concerning boys (and...
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I'm bisexual, but I can't get off with woman.
I actually really prefer women, by a good margin. But for some reason they can't get me off. Vaginally, handjob, oral, it doesn't matter. I cannot cum with them even after a really long time (2+hrs). And if I'm wearing a condom..... forget about it - is hard to stay, err, hard
I can come with a guy pretty much any way in minutes on the other hand.
I'm not that gay, I promise. But my current girlfriend is beginning to wonder I think. She hasn't ever mentioned the fact I don't...
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Sorry for the dumb grammar errors towards the end there. Meant to say failing, not falling, among other things.
Gay, Straight or Lying.
Does it help if you imagine she is a guy?
>started dating my current GF about a year and a half ago, met during the summer
>both still in university, but she's transferring to a better art school up north
>after living together for the end of a semester and through the summer, she moves up and we're okay with this
>we spend our year and a half visiting each other every few weeks, no problems whatsoever, perfect long distance relationship
>no cheating, no...
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I'm in good standing with her friends (her initiative, she added me to group chats and they all added me on social media), should I ask them what they think?
Looks like you got keked and she's distancing herself from you either to soften the blow or to avoid dealing with the eventual breakup.
Tell her to fuck herself with a cactus.
>>16562369
I really don't want to assume she's cheating, and I seriously doubt she is. She's extremely adamant about the subject and has broken up with past boyfriends over them doing it to her. Plus, she's been incredibly faithful throughout our relationship, and it's only now (like the past week, specifically) that she's had such a 180. I do believe it's just stress and finals, but how can I be certain?
Is contacting her friends a good idea?
I'm looking for a cheap car, mostly to drive myself from and to work *2 miles away*, my budget is <5000 and I'm open to going to auctions.
Craigslist
$5000 is plenty for a decent used car. If work is two miles away, why don't you bike? It'd save you money on gas, save the hassle of parking, and be exercise. You can still easily get a car with the leftover money
>>16562277
Because I'm lazy
I've been looking at the 05-06 Chevy impala butt don't know if they are good or bad, please give me suggestion on good budget cars
I've been living with my boyfriend for about three years. He's gotten a new job recently and it doesn't pay very well so he's been having financial troubles. I've agreed to pay his share of the rent over the last few months--not a huge deal to me, since I make a great deal more money and as long as he pays me back we're fine.
Recently he's been smoking cigarettes again due to high stress (we quit smoking together about a year ago) and I can't help but feel slightly annoyed. He's pretty much living paycheck to paycheck, I pay...
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It's an issue, but don't make it a big deal. Just mention it casually: "Anon-kun, I'm not comfortable with you smoking your allowance."
>>16562140
Sounds like you to dump the boy and start dating a man.
>>16562140
>I feel like it's a little unfair that I'm helping him with rent and he's blowing money on cigarettes
Tell him this.
she wrote me this yestarday and i didnt reply yet
wat do
>>16561984
Double negative. She wants the D.
Considering you waited this long without responding, you might as well go all the way and ignore her entirely.
I don't know why you failed to respond though. Maybe you weren't near your phone all night? It seems like you could have typed out "ok" otherwise.
What's the situation? is it love? a simple crush? a infatuation? or just simply a fuck buddy?
>be living with inlaws while searching for a house
>wife and mother in law arguing
>father in law steps in and hits my 26 year old wife while she's holding one my three month old twins
>in front of my 5yo and 3yo daughters
>technically this is assault & battery and felony child abuse, yes?
>shipping wife and our 4 kids to my parents out of state
>Stuck...
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>>16561843
Nobody necessarily wants to rip apart my wife's family, so avoiding reporting the abuse is, at this time, my intention as long as things stay stable.
>>16561845
ABUSE IS NEVER STABLE YOU FUCKING MORON
>>16561848
By stable, I mean not physically attacking. We're in full damage control mode until they can sneak out on tuesday.
24 year old kissless virgin here who is finally getting his shot...
Girls have finally started showing me a lot of interest this year. Usually, I'll go to a party and it takes less than 10 minutes for a girl to be all over me. I am very good with body language, dancing, and flirting.
Well, one of the most gorgeous girls I have ever seen in my life has shown interest in me. I met her before my finals, and we're on break. We have been flirting hardcore through text messaging, and she has sent me quite a few nudes. We talk about sex constantly and casual things (she is very into BDSM stuff, which is definitely my fetish as well).
We're meeting for drink next week. She is extremely anxious about this, mostly because she says she has never hooked up like this before. Well, I'm a fucking kissless virgin and I'm not about to admit that.
Essentially, I need any good advice I can get. I'm a fun guy to be around (I wait tables to pay for school), and I can very vividly picture how I want to fuck this girl, but I'm smart enough to know this won't go off perfectly. I like this girl for her personality as well, so I'd like to do my absolute best here!
rollins 4 fun
>>16561742
Rolling.
Just try to make it a fun experience OP. You sound like a pretty fun and rounded guy so it shouldn't be hard. Just be sure to look for signals she displays. Like if she bumps into you a lot, she most likely wants to hold your hand or be held but expects you to take lead. She also sounds like she's very dtf so again, watch for signals, initiate the feeling and petting, escalate over time but don't rush things. When she's ready take her back to your place and lay some pipe.
I...
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>>16561782
>calculator
Cmon man.
