Either VPN or just use RDP to log into your computer back home remotely.

>>16614164
Which third world cuntry?

One less shitposter

>>16614143
In those instances you just make out a little longer

>>16614453
We made out in the party but we Both were drunk so that help a lot, the thing is after that. How to make a fluid conversation?

Questions like;

>what did you want to become as a kid (why? how would your life look now if you tried to pursue that career?)
>are you youngest/oldest/middle child and do you believe it has shaped your personality?
>if you could/had to redo a life of your year, which would you choose and why?
>if you had to relocate to a different country, which one would you choose?

Don't get me wrong, you can't jump right in with questions...
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Well you have to choose: friendship with one or relationship with the other? Keeping in mind, you will never have a relationship with the friend.

Honestly, to me it seems like dropping your friend is the better option. Friends don't try to dictate who their friends date like that. Sure, if the other girl was bad news it'd be different, but if the girl you're dating is completely normal, then your friend is not acting like a friend.

>>16614151
But it's kind of not about dictating.
The friend told me she didn't understand what I meant to her until she actually thought that she might lose me(to another person, since obviously you can't be spending 50% of your free time with another girl if you have a soul mate). People would often think we are actually a couple since we would spend a lot of time together.
That's why the relationship would most likely work and that's the stupidest part.

The girl is not bad news, but...
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>>16614224
>But it's kind of not about dictating.
But it is. She's basically saying "You're mine so no one else can date you, but I'm not going to date you either", which is incredibly selfish. Are you okay with that in your life?

>If I choose her and she turns out to have things I hate?
Then things turned to shit with your girlfriend (which happens), and you lost a selfish friend. Life goes on.

>>16614120

can i see before and after pics? this is for my own curiosity. plastic surgery is an interesting subject to me.

that being said, i think the best thing you can do is own it. i forget which area in particular, but one of the plastic-surgery-crazy parts of south america its a bragging thing., like people keep photos of them before the operation and explain who the surgery worked, like its something to discuss.

no need to bring it up if you dont want, but i dont see how its kidding anyone. are muscular guys kidding anyone? they weren born with those muscles, they worked for it. what about women wearing make up? thats even more fake, cuz at least your change is permanent, and possibly even respectable if you paid fori t.

what about people who dye their hair? theres no shame in admitting its changed colors but we dont feel like were lying to people until we do.

but when it does come up. for whatever reason, just own it. i think its important to love youself, even if that means making changes. if you change all aspects of yourself, whether it be through surgery, study, or discipline, you are working to be the best you that you can be.

Do what I did and make a mixed baby so your kids won't get your nose.

You are.
Where's the small comic with the girl that had plastic surgery?
Date within your means.

>>16614116

most people pay a shrink to hear em talk cuz they have no one to actually talk to in real life. but now that we have the internet this is becoming less and less common cuz you can just get online and whine there.

this is why shrinks are more likely to diagnose you with actual things like depression as well, cuz it guarantees you come in for 'treatment'.

but generally speaking you are paying someone to just listen to you and give you advice.

you will feel good until you stop paying...
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It sounds like your braces should have been left on longer. Anyway, you wasted a bunch of money either way. That's not uncommon. We really need to come up with a more viable approach to orthodontics.

>>16614094
I wore train tracks for 2 years when I was 13. When I got them removed, I was given a retainer to wear all day and night for about 6 months if my memory serves me correctly. After 6 months, I was to only wear retainer every night for as long as possible - dentist told me the longer the better so my jaw bone had a chance to grow round my newly straight teeth. 23 years old now and still wear same retainer every night. Only times I don't wear is when I'm staying at friends at last minute and don't have...
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Never got the option. My parents didn't think it was necessary. So now i have to live with my teeth.

According to my aunt who is a dentist, the gap is so small that they normally don't care about doing anything about it.

However, as soon as i post a picture somewhere (epseically on american forums), i get comments about my teeth.

>>16614092

if its been a year it sounds like it will be a chronic issue, and therefore id recommend getting the insurance.

always better to have it imo, dont want to wake up wtih cancer one morning and no way to pay for it.

are there like, any restrictions on that? am i able to buy insurance and then immediately go to the doctor? will it cover xrays and shit? I'm really dumb to the whole insurance idea.

>>16614105

each insurance policy is different, you got a lot of reading ahead of you to do. worse comes to worse, it at least pays for part of this sort of thing. if you are truly poor check out obama care it seems to be an easy alright route to get some coverage.

either way SOME coverage is generally better than no coverage unless you are on a scam plan.

Sounds to me you're going through a lot of stress and depression..
Check out certified life coaches/therapists
Get organized: write down a goal you'd like to accomplish after a few months, then a year, then 4 years, 10 years.
Make a rough plan on how you'll accomplish each one.
Write down each risk that could offset those plans, and have a contingency plan for each.
Keep tracking your progress like a manager keeps track of their employees. Be diligent.
Do whatever the it takes to stay motivated, like rewards of success or fear of failure (my...
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>>16613932

two bits of advice here:
1) push your sleep cycle
and
2) take your goals one month at a time.

so month one should be getting your sleep schedule on track. and for that, you need to push your sleep cycle forward. in addition to this, you will need a new morning activity that requires attendance, preferably outside of the house. this should be something like a job or study. even if its just one thing early in the morning, like a single hour long class, a workout class, SOMETHING that gets your day started.

so lets assume this starts January.

>day 1: sleep stay up as LATE as you can
>day 2: sleep in as late as you can. ideally, past 2pm. then stay awake all the way up through:
>day 3: where you go to bed early around 8 or 9pm
>day 4: wake up early (desired time to always wake up, with enough prep time to get to your new morning activity, lets say, 7am.) you spend the day as usual, and just to be safe, you take a sleeping pill that night to guarantee sleep
>day 5: wake up at that desired time (7am) AGAIN, but this time, you go to the class/volunteer work, etc..

for the rest of the month you let your body adjust to this. no other big goals should be aimed for other than perhaps applying for more gainful employment if that is something you need desperately. but give your body a month to adjust to the new schedule. dont even sleep in on weekends! this will guarantee a perfect human sleep schedule.

for help staying up the 24+ hours to make this sleep schedule, i recommend simply video games, sitting in a computer chair (comfortable enough not to exhaust you further but not so comfy you'lll fall asleep) talking to a friend and of course, starbucks energy drinks.

february, begin phase two of your plan. for february you might start full time schooling, or perhaps throw the gym / diet into the mix and try to conquer that.

each month you hit one really big goal so you can slowly phase it in to your schedule until it is second nature.

>>16613925

Getting cold still... Are you religious or anything OP?

>>16613941

OP here. No, I do not endorse or follow any religion of any sort. I hate people who act like
my stepdad and they can never be trusted, I'm way too hardheaded against people outside of 4chan.

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>>16613897
Do you really need to apologize to her? It sounds like it was her husband that had the problem, not her... Anyway you should really give more detail. What happened between you her? How did it start, how did it end? Did she tell her husband about it or did he find out some other way?

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>>16615075
>What happened between you her?
We had a romantic relationship. We never had sex, but we met up only a couple of times and made out.
>How did it start, how did it end?
It started because she wanted it to start. I wasn't after married woman; I wanted a normal relationship obviously. She just started being more friendly towards me and finally just told me one day that she liked me.
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>>16613894
Sometimes people just feel like talking to others about their problems and such. Happens all the time.

Being a good listener is (imo) about giving just a bit of an actual advice
or showing people possible options when they've problems. Never telling them what to do. That's just bad.

And saying "hmm, yes, uh-huh" while nodding is ok but not after every damn word or sentence. Don't overuse it.

>>16614245
>>16614245
>Being a good listener is (imo) about giving just a bit of an actual advice
or showing people possible options when they've problems. Never telling them what to do. That's just bad.
So if I for example tell a girl who thinks she's ugly that she may have body image issues, that's good; But if I tell her that she needs to suck if up and try to live life anyway, that's bad?

>And...
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It's very easy to be a good listener when people tell you anecdotes or tell you about their past and their plans or their fears. Even if they have a terrible past or circumstances or something. There is still opening for you to ask questions.

But the worst is when you get a "my life sucks and everything is hopeless" Not only is it hard to respond, they tend to get mad if you try to give them advice.

>>16613854
It's a starting point. Generally people are pharmacy techs while they're working towards something else. I wouldn't call anything that caps out at $20/h a solid career choice.

>>16613854
Yes, go to school while you do it so you can make more as you get older. My sister is a pharmacist who started out as a tech. She makes extremely good money and loves her job. I'd say go for it bro, just continue your education after at some point.

>>16614427

Well if he plans on living by himself forever its solid in that kind of sense.

>>16613795
Get therapy. They can help you. If you find the photo again, report it. Nail this fucker to the wall.

>>16613809
I had gone to therapy for about 8 years. I had to stop going to the clinic I was at for a couple of years, but I started seeing a new therapist recently. She doesn't know I've been molested yet. We're barely getting to know each other.

>>16613785
Yes
Yes
At least every other day
I'd dump her

Im a rare type of guy, honestly a solid 8/10. not trying to be flexfag though

Id suggest that she doesnt have to but if she insist...

enough to where its awkward as time passes

at first id say weekly or a little more but as time passes less and less

i wouldn't be upset but id wonder why

No head is awful. I wouldn't be in a relationship, god forbid marry, someone who doesn't give head.

GF initiating sex is nice, but not something I've really ever come to expect.

Frequency? If I only see her twice a week, we better be having sex at least once each time.

If she stopped entirely with sex, I would stop entirely with being her boyfriend. If I'm going to be just friends with someone, I'd rather it be another guy.

BTW this is not the first time he's done something like that

>>16613760
Well, personally I think you're being slightly petty.
Sure it's fucking annoying when this happens and I should know because I have to deal with the same thing.
But, you should have included his name on the Xmas card

>>16613760
Why are you being so passive agressive?
This is like 100% your fault now for not being straightforward.
When you have a problem like this- you talk to them about it. "Hey man is everything ok? You take forever to respond and It kinda worries me" then he'll probably be like "oh yeah sorry dude I was just busy and forgot haha" and then you say "ok, please just try to respond to me right when you see my text next time. That's kind of a pet peeve of mine"

Now that he knows this about you, you can actually hold him accountable and have a right to be pissed if he keeps doing it all the time.

by being passive, he won't associate his mistake with you being an asshole. He will just think you're overreacting and being a jerk