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so theres this girl I met about a month ago. she gave me her number, and her and I have been hitting it off very well since. She reciprocates a lot of my advances, and things are going very well between us.
the only thing i fear is that things won't finalize between us because of the fact that she is a jehovah's witness. do I have a chance here given the fact that things are going well?
id hate for her to string this whole flirty period longer than it should only for her to be like "i can't date outside my religion"
does any one...
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Well, the only drawback I can think of is that you can't taste her menstrual blood.
They seem to have a bit of a taboo about that for some reason.
>>16615324
hah idk man, i feel like religious girls might be even more freaky than others
but yeah taboo sucks
>>16615314
Say "This is it! Your religion or me!!!"
100% always works
How do you meet someone normal?
I'm 25 years old and I've tried looking through online dating sites and I've tried looking around in real life but I have never found anyone really worth dating. I feel like a failure especially since I have anxiety about life in general and this just really bothers me. It just seems like everyone else finds a "normal" person and gets in a relationship. What I mean by normal by the way is a person that isn't just interested in having sex and dumping you off for someone else a week later.
You don't faggot. Go die
>>16615316
thanks for the input anon
>>16615295
so ur not asking how to meet someone normal, just how to meet someone worth dating.
my recommendation, dont put out. putting out is what the mansluts want. when you put out, they get to have their sex, then they leave cuz thats all they wanted.
get to know someone first. its harder and takes more time, but its the only real way. its the difference between eating a rotten apple and finding the one good apple in the bunch. it sucks but thats the way it is.
when asked why you dont want to have...
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I have nothing nor anybody.
It's a sad reality I got myself into, I have no friends, I hate my family and I have pretty much no social interaction with anyone. My hobbies right now are anime and vidya, I don't find anything enjoyable anymore. I tried to get into a lot of different hobbies like playing an instrument, lifting, art but I didn't enjoy anything. I'm not even obese or that bad in social situations. I don't enjoy anything I do.
What can you recommend me 4chan?
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>>16615294
Go to college and join ROTC. Become an officer in the army. Make money, and do something with your life.
>>16615304
I'm already going to University and getting a good degree, I'm not challenged by it and I dislike the people I study with. I guess I'll have a lot more money in a few years but I don't know why that would make me ... less empty I guess? I traveled a little bit and I never really enjoyed it. I guess having a bigger apartment with better electrical toys would be nice but I don't think I need it when I mostly watch Anime on my television.
I tried to do something with my life various...
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hey! im a 19 years old guy, my gfs 20. She had a boyfriend before me but shes my first REAL one. We are together for 7 months now. We love each other and are doing perfect this far. Next time she comes at my place ill set up some bondage suprise with oil, tied hands, blindfolds and so on. i know shell love that. my main goal is to see her squirt and I rly want it to happen this time. sooooo im asking for ur advice, any tutorial videos that worked out and ur experience on this. Thank u and im sorry if this is wrong place for succha thread.
>>16615288
Ma! I can see the other side!
So, 18 year old virgin fag here, invited round to flatmates house for christmas and newyear, secretly like her but don't do anything about it as shes my flatmate and it would make it awquard if she rejected. Now im here as I think she has been dropping hints recently but im not sure if I can read them properly.
1) said to her she was my type if she had blond hair about a week back, when she was drunnk af braught ut up to all her mates and mentioned that she could always have her hair dyed.
2) glances at me quite often and smiles when I notice then looks away
3) is rather comfortable with touching, havent tried to make too many advances there as its a dead giveaway, but seems comfortable with most things.
What would /b/'s advice be for me, any very subtle moves I can make to not make anything obvious but get a glympse of what I can expect.
Am living with her for the next 3 years at least so do not want to make anything obvious to creep her out at all
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>>16615253
This isnt /b/
Go for it. Don't be a pussy. So what if it's awkward for a little bit if she says no. Benefits outweigh the negatives. Go for it bitch tits
>>16615276
Yeah sorry, origionally wrote this on b, then realised it will get no serious responses.
But if she says no it will ruin the bond between me and my flatmates 6 of us, as I continually go on about how we shouldnt like eachother because were flatmates
>>16615253
If there's 6 other ppl involved, don't do it. Shit gets super awkward fast! Treat this like your workplace and don't date within.
I've been seeing someone for about two months. She's coming to my place tomorrow night and just told me she's into ropes. I'm a really nice guy. Girls have asked me to choke them before and I felt weird about it. I really like this girl though, so I've spent the morning studying knots. Is there a certain role I should be taking on while I do this? Does this automatically mean she's 100% submissive? Thanks
>>16615228
If I don't have proper rope, does shoelace work?
I'm normally a pretty trusting guy but this has gotten me hurt quite terribly by multiple women. I'm getting better at spotting them, but at the same time it's really jaded my view of women and I can't help but be suspicious of them and their intentions to and about me.
How do I spot manipulative and selfish women earlier so I don't become a misogynist /adv/?
>>16615218
>Implying they exist
Good luck.
Date them for longer and trust your gut. False positives are better than letting some slip through. People will respect you for being decisive.
>>16615219
I was implying that you were implying that there are women who aren't manipulative and dishonest...which there clearly aren't because all women are manipulative and dishonest
I realized recently that for the past couple weeks I've completely lost the ability to feel hunger or fullness, no matter how much I ate or how long I go without eating. I haven't had any sudden changes in my diet, and I eat pretty decently, getting a good mix of food and staying quite thin. I could only find things for people missing one or the other, and the only thing I could find for losing both is depression, which isn't possible because I feel pretty incredible most of the time. Anyone know what could cause it? Having to estimate when and what you should...
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>>16615209
generally speaking after a certain age you still have to estimate how much you should eat to stay with in calorie limits, cuz we dont teach ourselves to slow down as we age.
anyway, consult a doctor? if you seriously got no sense of hunger or fullness then that could be rather serious. so go talk to a doctor. at best we could only give you a guess, but that guess would only lead you to going and confirming with a doctor.
cut out middle aged man.
How do I make myself normal again?
> A few years ago I was an 15 yr old edgy chan , thinking it was cool to post gore etc.
> As sort of a joke to myself, I started masturbating to gore on /b/ and stuff like that
>Fast forward to today, I can only really fap to gore and rekt threads now, nothing else turns me on besides violence and gore. I've also developed weird tendencies .
It just started out as a joke, but I want to fix it.
>>16615206
Therapy
>>16615234
That's some dangerous shit. Therapists are not necessarily trustworthy. Tell them one wrong thing and bam, mental institution (or something similar).
The whole "patient-therapist confidentiality" thing only actually works until you hit on a nerve, then it's over for you.
>>16615206
You can grow out of it. Just slowly stop masturbating to that shit, and masturbate to normal shit. Or fuck an actual girl.
Partner having part of her cervix removed for cin3 purposes tomorrow. How can I help her get through this? We have a three year old boy together...
Yeah. Fucking big thanks Adv... Tooo busy with bs cheating threads and faggot drama? Go fuck yourself. Cunts.
>>16615265
you know this is a slow thread and of course people will stay in interesting threads
>>16615265
U MAD.
Seriously, any advice someone might have had for you is gone. No one like to help greedy demanding people. Thank you for revealing your true colors before someone gave you advice after 25mins which is pretty good for her.
Hey, /adv/. I'm a dude. Tall, rather ''strongish''. I'm by no means affeminate or weak looking.
Last month, at the bar i always go after gym to eat, there was a guy in the line, in front of me. I looked at him slightly, and said ''What's up?'',so i jockingly asked if 'here'(i'm a foreigner) ''What's up'' is a retoric question that substitutes ''hi', hi smiled slightly at the bad ''joke''/legitimate question. He had a nice hair, so i politely asked him about it,since i was looking at his hair, not exactly as him. He told me where he cut it and all.
Thing is, that guy is a regular also there. After that day, he started going at the bar at the same time as me. I was eating in there when he at the first time called me to eat with him. I found it rather weird but, sure, i was just drinking juice, maybe he was up to some chat. We chat, and he bullshits a lot. A REAL lot. And obvious, made up lies. His stare is weird as well. He talks a lot, and always with vague answers waiting for me to complete them for him. I noticed right away, and after some time, i dismissed the conversation, and went away. The bartenders also noticed the weirdness in this guy, as we spoke about him sometime after that. Thing is, i also encountered him a few more times, and he always stares at me continuously and tries to conversate/sit with me everytime. As much as i hate the word ''creep'', he's one. Yesterday i went to eat with a few friends in there, and he was there. My friends noticed he kept looking at me constantly during our dinner. THen he suddenly comes to out table, greets me, sits by it's side, and start talking to me. He didn't look at my friends. Not once. I don't really believe he's an obssessed psychopath, but he does look like one. Even my friends noticed he didn't look at them once, and his weirds manneirisms. He's scrawny, shitskinned, ugly,and really tries his hardest to look better to me than he is. What the fuck is up, /adv/?
He was the one that said ''What's up'', sorry i forgot the noun. For the record, also. I didn't ask the question in a flirty manner. It was normal, coldish, like i'm asking someone where the local mall is.
>>16615167
Asking a guy about his hair is pretty gay, bro.
He's obv in love with you.
>>16615192
Sure as hell he displays it in a weird manner. And i didn't even say it was nice. I just asked him where did he cut his hair, as in asking where there's a barber nearby.
I need help /adv/.
I failed highschool, due to ODD.
Im lost right now. My original plan was to join the army, goto college, and get a degree in biomedical engineering.
Please help.
>>16615132
>ODD
this doesnt sound real at all. its literally just 'im a rebellious fuck'. the treatment for which is basic therapy. as in, just talking someone through their problems.
i.e. you didn fail highschool due to ODD, you failed highschool due to you being a dumb fuck. whine against this statement if you want, but all you are doing is getting farther and farther away from actually fixing yourself by blaming it on something out of your control. your level of defiance...
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>>16615132
ODD? You mean ADD?
Either way, if you're as young as your post implies, it's easy to get back on track (hopefully you're American).
>Go to community college
>Become a good student
>Get the highest gpa you possibly can
>Apply to a state college of your choosing
>Use the studying skills you learned at cc to pass college with honors...
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>>16615132
The army is no place for fuckers with ADD, as attention to detail is key.
What happens to full-time aspiring actors who don't succeed?
>>16615109
They become waiters or failed comedians.
>>16615109
>full-time
they die. that or they live off family money. theres no such thing as full time aspiring. you need money. at best you are part time.
i live in LA, trying to make it as a writer. i got lucky and found a job managing an office for a psychic.
i have a lot of actor friends and they make some okay money, but they are all older than me and every single one of them works at a restaurant or a coffee shop.
I have bluetooth headphones (they connect directly to bluetooth devices)
My tablet is bluetooth enabled, my laptop is not. Is there a way to connect them to my laptop via my tablet?
I don't want to have to get a damn dongle.
And no, I don't know what laptop's today don't have bluetooth, but I guess it's not as rare as you'd think.
Thanks in advance
No, there is not.
Is Comp Sci a shit tier degree?
I've got to choose between Comp Sci at a private uni (35k/year) vs a MechE degree at a public uni (14k/year).
I'd do MechE at the private university if it was possible, but they don't offer it. And I'd really like to do something in engineering, as I feel it's a more secure degree. Id really rather go to school at the private university because I'd be living with my senpai n shit, as opposed to living with randoms around the uni. But it's so much more expensive.
What to do?
>>16615086
Do whichever you enjoy more. You'll be able to find work in either if you hustle, develop skills outside class, and have a good attitude.
>>16615086
The only other degrees worth a shit at the private Uni are Math, and maybe biology and geology.. nothing like the public Uni I'm considering. But part of me is ok with that in exchange for the uber-comfy lifestyle of college while living with parents.
>>16615108
One of the things that rustles me is that I don't foresee myself enjoying a job that school will yield - currently I'm a carpenter and I like my job. But it makes my mom happy to think she has a STEM student good goy for a son.
I almost wanna go pure maths just to say fuck you to employability dominating education nowadays. That and I like math.
