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I need a job during college, what--other than serving food--should I look for?
>>16617593
Try internship, they prove really useful and if not you can always apply to stores, from Walmart to the local videogame or book store
Pretty much that unless your college offers student jobs or paid placements
If you drive, delivery
Gov'ment jobs if they pay above avg
Basically weasel your way into anything that's not min wage or offers fat tips
>>16617593
you can try applying for office work but chances are none will cater to your schedule. depending on where you live oyu might be lucky enough to find a store that needs night shift but consider the following:
what kind of places are open at night (re: once you are done with classes) ? any place that serves food. cuz dinner.
My mother's a hoarder with a lot of money. Wtf do I do?
She spends literally £100s a month of card making supplies, to the point that multiple rooms in her large house are inhabitable because they're filled with unused card-making supplies.
Call TLC and sell them your mother's addiction to hoarding for profit.
>>16617561
this
alternatively, you can buy her a trip to mexico or something and clean her house while shes gone
My uncle was the same but worth random tools.
If it's actually a problem, then you might need to have an intervention with her. It's a psychological problem. You can't just nag at her to get her to stop.
I just loved that thread, so, new one!
Tell me all the things that made you happy today.
My visiting family finally left.
I love them and all, but having your sister, 8-year old brother, and sick-with-the-flu mom squished into your one-person apartment with you and your dog is mentally taxing.
dropped them off at the airport this morning and now my dog and I are enjoying a quiet apartment.
>>16617539
I set up a movie evening with a girl i like.
>>16617539
Let's see things that made me happy today...
>I woke up
Yep that's about it!
im taking my gfs virginity tomorow.
all i wanna know is, is it gonna be/does it hav to be bloody?
She dosent mastrabate so her hymen is still intact.
pic as of Wednesday december 30 unrelated.
Nah, not necessarily. And if she bleeds it would only be a tiny bit of blood. And the blood would be fresh blood, unlike menstruation. Put a towel under her, have tissues near and possibly have the lights dimmed to help the two of you to not worry about any blood. And take a shower together after to get squeeky clean again. Have fun anon!
Honestly it depends on quote a few things that /adv/ won't really be able to give you a clear answer.
It all depends on the girl, how nervous/relaxed she is, how wet she is, whether or not she still has her hymen, shit like that. It's possible there will be blood. There might not be.
The important thing is to make sure she is relaxed and comfortable as much as possible. Most of the time when girls talk about it being painful the first time, it's because they were super nervous which makes their pussies clench up.
Only 40% of women bleed their first time. And hymens are still intact in many non-virgins, a lot of the time they don't break, just stretch out. You need to go really slow and make her really turned on. If you think she's wet enough or relaxed enough, she's almost definitely not.
Ok, so i got into a relationship with this one girl, she's cool and clever etc. More clever than me, could be more stupid, i guess. It's been about 3 months now. Recently i started feeling like she has started making a distance between us.
I had a work trip recently and was gone for about 2.5 weeks, it's been 2 weeks since i'm here and we've been hanging together all the time. Sleeping, cooking, walking, doing all kinds of activities etc. Sex with her is fucking awesome.
Last time i banged her she was just lying there shaking and laughing...
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Just lay off messaging her and let her do the chase for a bit.
If you act like a cunt at this point you're giving her an excuse to leave you (which she's looking for).
Both of you sound insecure af
It sounds like your putting her on a pedestal. Women don't respect men who are head over heels in love with them.
Consider the following: Has she ever reciprocated any of these gestures for you? Does she buy you gifts? Does she cook for you? Or is sex the only asset which she bargains with?
If she's distant, it could be a red flat, or perhaps she needs some space because you've been around her constantly,
>>16617580
Well, she can't buy me flowers. She gifted me a present for christmas but thats a default i guess.
She doesnt like cooking but yeah sometimes she wakes me up with coffee to bed. She might've cooked something for me, i can't remember.
She would always meet me at the airport even tho i said thats not necessary and even tho that's 2 AM.
She always cares how i feel, visited and looked after me when i was sick.
When we eat at restaurants we do it like that - one time...
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looking for a way to make some extra $$, i have a full car sound system (head unit, door speakers, subwoofers, amps) but it is not currently hooked up. i was trying to sell the system to some local pawn shops but none of them test speakers and they said they have to physically see them work before they buy them (and rightfully so).
so /adv/ my question(s) is/(are): is there a way for me to test the system without actually installing it in my current car? if not, what would be the best way to go about getting rid of these babies for some extra dough? pic semi-related
shameless self bump
Whew lad. Sell them on Craigslist or something, pawn shops are just going to rip you off.
If you stole them just don't put too many distinct details in the ad.
>mfw trying to post this brought up an expired ban about shitposting ponies
Fucking dynamic IP. Some faggot in my area must be a brony.
>>16617501
lol jesus
nah i didn't steal them they were in my old car, i never hooked them up. just needed some quick cash i probably will put them on craigslist though
So, i am on my witts end adv. I can't cum with my bf. I feel like we have tried it all. I can cum easily when masturbating. I had problems with cumming since i started having sex. I even made an effort to not train myselfe to masturbate in a specific way/position. I also sitch between using my finger, the shower, a dildo and a vibrator. So i don't think it's conditioning. My clit just goes numb when my bf is inside me. I can use a vibrator and it feels the same as if i would place it on my elbow. I also have tried to train my ability to have a vaginal orgasm,...
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A lot of girls don't get orgasms from penetration. You may be one of them.
Try oral.
I read a study that found a link between the physical attractiveness (measured objectively using symmetry since we know more symmetrical = more attractive) of a woman's partner and her ability to achieve orgasm from penetrative sex.
How much the woman says she loves her partner has no effect on it, just how symmetrical he is. Basically, only hot guys can make women cum from PIV and your boyfriend is probably just not objectively hot enough.
Hello,
Playing Fallout 4 made me once again feel that I am living a useless live. All those RPG games where you have group working together for a common goal. You live, work everything together.
For example: Brotherhood of Steel, or the Railroad, Dark Brotherhood, Ceberus or any mercenary outfit.
It makes me feel so sad and empty. What am I gonna do? What impact will I have? Get a job make money and die.
Any1 else experienced this?
How do you deal with it?
Are there "Brotherhoods" or Syndicate's in RL?
I know of the Free...
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>>16617398
For me it was an opposite things like when playing games I just felt what us the point to thinking that they just contribute to losing time and really not satisfying me in any productive way other than the plot and that shit which really does not give you shit. So yeah I guess thinking about that may help but also realise their is loads of shit like just having a group with your friends with common interest and instead of watching the plot advance or just interact with it it's better to make your life the plot...
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>>16617398
Then join a group or create one. It doesn't have to be esoteric bullshit, just browse meetup.com or search for local volunteer work and start attending.
Sure, they don't seem as cool and don't have any interesting initiation rituals, but they are real.
I'm an autistic hs dropout with crippling social anxiety that needs to find a job very fast and I have no idea where to start looking or anything
what do
>>16617397
Apply for every position in Walmart, CVS, gas stations, and target.
>>16617397
Shitty manual labor will take literally anyone. Apply for landscaping, or warehouse work or stuff like that.
How common is it for suicides to occur without depression?
TL;DR: No signs of depression, suicidal thoughts and plans, this is common right? unlikely I'll end up offing myself?
I'm quite an active person, have become so in recent years.
I follow a good schedule, wake up early, gym, read, accomplish as much university work as possible, eat healthy, meditate and sleep early.
I have no symptoms of depression, in terms of loss of motivation and persistent sadness (more than 2 weeks is the clinical minimum I believe).
Still, I break down...
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If it's interfering with your day to day life,
SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP !!!
>>16617406
That's the deal it isn't.
So, not a big deal yeah?
Best way to spend new years alone? Are people receptive in bars? I don't have much money.
>>16617342
> Best way to spend new years alone?
Arsgang
Have fun
>>16617358
Thank very much anon.
>>16617358
Can I still smoke?
Last night I could've lost my virginity but got interrupted and after that I couldn't get it up again. I'm not really ashamed or anything, my head just wasn't into it. Has anyone had this problem? Tips? I mean I wanted to fuck I just was unable to
Pls
>>16617304
>i wasnt into it
then dont do it. why force something ur not into, even if just your head or your body, it clearly wasnt comfortable for you.
girls have no trouble wiating on thier virginity to make sure its good.
>>16617304
female here who gets this, if my we get interrupted while my boyfriend and i are boning/whatever i often have trouble trying to get aroused again (he tends to keep it up just fine)
My body is disgusting.
It's not like, oh, I don't like my feet, or my tits or whatever usual complex people get, it is truly disgusting. From my elbows down to my knees, everything is bad. Really bad. I can hardly look at it myself.
I used to be very very fat, lost the weight, and am left with this mess.
I plan on having surgery, but I won't be able to for a few months, maybe years.
Now, is there any chance someone would love me? If I meet someone, should I tell them about it from the start? I feel like my face and the way I look when dressed...
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I kind of know how you feel. I'm not objectively gross but I'm very insecure due to body dysmorphia.
I think it's definitely a bad idea to start talking yourself down like that when you meet someone. It will make you look really sad and it'll just be weird. I know it's hard but just fake it and try to act like there's nothing wrong with you once the clothes come off. Easier said than done, I know, but there's no good in being down on yourself.
Also pick who you open up to carefully to not come across an asshole who will hurt...
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Hey anon... I know how you feel so good. I feel like puking when i look into a mirror. I can life with my face, but my body is just disgusting. Not long ago i got a bf. I still can't believe it. And what's even stranger, he seems to not care at all. He even seems to think i'm beautiful. I have a hard time believing him, but i'm working on it. I just wanted to give you a heads up anon. It's possible to be loved even when you objectively are atrocious. Don't give up!
>>16617300
This is very inconvienient for you so you may believe that my advice is too optimistic- but here's my take:
Think of this as a blessing in disguise. Get to know someone, fall in love with them and have them fall in love with you before you make things intimate. Showing them your body will be a huge leap of trust for you. Many would react in a shallow way, so this will force you to really look for someone with good character who place some things above physical attraction. From this experience, you are...
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What's the point of life?
Breeding
>>16617292
To have fun and fuck all the chicks around.
>>16617292
Humans are the only ones who try to assign meaning to everything, so it's really up to the individual to decide that for themselves.
What are some things to do in Vienna?
I'm stuck here for a month and everyone I know is gone for the holidays. Also everything seems to be shut down for the holidays.
>>16617266
Museums (the big 2), opera, theatre, ice skating (is the Eistraum open yet?), cinema, ..
How can you be bored in Vienna?
>>16617272
I'm in a small town outside of Vienna, so I'm going to Vienna to be a little more stimulated.
Been to a few of the museums and the opera. Might go to a standing show by myself or something just to kill time. Are those all the best bets for someone by themselves?
>>16617276
Star Wars exhibit at the MAK? Catacombs tour at St. Stephens? National library? Re-opened St. Virgil's chapel? Have a walk around the cemetery and have a look at all them famous dead people?
